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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2020 14:18:20 GMT -6
catlady22 that is insanely fucked up. did you speak up and say anything or was it just too awkward? i am such a loud an obnoxious person i can’t believe i don’t have the balls to say anything to medical professionals. it sucks!
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Post by lemondrop on May 13, 2020 14:20:53 GMT -6
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Post by Fearsy on May 13, 2020 14:20:58 GMT -6
Like seriously, @zweber your numbers have to be at least a few hundred with that dye stealer you have. I don’t actually know this for sure but that’s my guess. You don’t get dark lines like that if shit isn’t going up. I’m so mad for you. i can’t tell you how many times i’ve googled “frer with betas” to see other people’s values with dye stealers. i’m going crazy over here. anxiety is a real bitch in general. shit doctors make it so much worse. Have you peed on more since that last test?
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Post by Fearsy on May 13, 2020 14:23:25 GMT -6
Also WTF is the nurse doing making calls like you don’t need to know the number? A midwife or doctor has to review and interpret the results so it’s not even up to her anyway. She should really stay in her lane. A simple “I’ll check with your provider” would have been way more appropriate.
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Post by lemondrop on May 13, 2020 14:26:47 GMT -6
@zweber FINGERS CROSSED GIRL!
Also fuck that fucking piece of shit asshole fucking fucker. What an absolute bitch. Also, didn't your numbers go up last time? maybe not as high as they wanted but that's not "trending down". What the fuck!?!
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on May 13, 2020 14:28:22 GMT -6
I’m so furious for you @zweber at how they are handling this. You clearly need to be monitored closely based on your history and your initial beta numbers.
With my loss, I had low betas from the start that kept rising for two weeks to over 3000. At each step, the doctors kindly/patiently warned me to guard my feelings and that they had concerns. But they still did the damn bloodwork and monitored me until the end.
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2020 14:29:18 GMT -6
i can’t tell you how many times i’ve googled “frer with betas” to see other people’s values with dye stealers. i’m going crazy over here. anxiety is a real bitch in general. shit doctors make it so much worse. Have you peed on more since that last test? girl yes my dye stealer is insane now
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2020 14:30:46 GMT -6
@zweber FINGERS CROSSED GIRL! Also fuck that fucking piece of shit asshole fucking fucker. What an absolute bitch. Also, didn't your numbers go up last time? maybe not as high as they wanted but that's not "trending down". What the fuck!?! they definitely went up. they didn’t double in exactly 48 hours so they immediately deemed it as a chemical.
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Post by Fearsy on May 13, 2020 14:33:52 GMT -6
Have you peed on more since that last test? girl yes my dye stealer is insane now Lemme see. You know I love that shit.
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Post by lemondrop on May 13, 2020 14:40:30 GMT -6
@zweber FINGERS CROSSED GIRL! Also fuck that fucking piece of shit asshole fucking fucker. What an absolute bitch. Also, didn't your numbers go up last time? maybe not as high as they wanted but that's not "trending down". What the fuck!?! they definitely went up. they didn’t double in exactly 48 hours so they immediately deemed it as a chemical. I'd heavily consider filing a grievance/ lodging a complaint with the office/hospital. This callus attitude could be a pattern of behavior. There's one thing to be pragmatic and for the doctor to weigh the scenarios with you, but to just immediately brush you off as this is a miscarriage and suggest you don't need your own numbers is outrageous.
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2020 15:00:59 GMT -6
girl yes my dye stealer is insane now Lemme see. You know I love that shit.
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Post by Fearsy on May 13, 2020 15:08:59 GMT -6
Dayyyyyyyyummmmm @zweber. I call that mega preg.
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2020 15:21:37 GMT -6
my anxiety is so high it’s debilitating. i can hardly breath/move. i’ve called twice and they won’t call back. i know i’m pregnant. i know my numbers went up. but knowing i don’t have a doctor on my side right now makes me want to puke. i feel like if they don’t call i’m going to have an extreme anxiety attack. i hate hate hate anxiety.
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Post by catlady22 on May 13, 2020 15:31:40 GMT -6
@zweber that for sure looks like your numbers went up! I am sorry for your wait. And no I didn't say anything to the rude ppl, just got the hell out of there. She was talking to the other blood draw tech about a stay at home mom that had just been in there...and the same lady who was so "bored" said that SAHM have the most boring life ever. I was like get me out of here.
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2020 16:07:42 GMT -6
THE RESULTS ARE IN! 755hcg and 18 progesterone.
i’m fucking shaking. i talked to the OB for the first time! he talked a million miles an hour. all his words were mushed together and he was the biggest douche i’ve ever talked to in my life. he almost wouldn’t tell me the numbers. he kept saying “they went up” okay but what are they? “they’re normal” okay.. can i have the values? “they’re reassuring” GIVE ME THE NUMBER DICK FACE! he also told me they only check progesterone once a pregnancy. and i was like “but you checked mine this morning” and he was like “mathematically it doesn’t matter” and i was like can i please have that value as well? please? just give me the numbers so i can never talk to you again.
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Post by katespade on May 13, 2020 17:05:02 GMT -6
THE RESULTS ARE IN! 755hcg and 18 progesterone. i’m fucking shaking. i talked to the OB for the first time! he talked a million miles an hour. all his words were mushed together and he was the biggest douche i’ve ever talked to in my life. he almost wouldn’t tell me the numbers. he kept saying “they went up” okay but what are they? “they’re normal” okay.. can i have the values? “they’re reassuring” GIVE ME THE NUMBER DICK FACE! he also told me they only check progesterone once a pregnancy. and i was like “but you checked mine this morning” and he was like “mathematically it doesn’t matter” and i was like can i please have that value as well? please? just give me the numbers so i can never talk to you again. If it helps, my RE was 0% concerned about progesterone and didn’t even test for it. I’m so, so glad your number was good. You are clearly pregnant and I am keeping my keepables crossed for you ❤️
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Post by mothafuckinteatime on May 13, 2020 17:10:45 GMT -6
Only liking @zweber because those seem like good numbers!
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Post by catlady22 on May 13, 2020 17:12:43 GMT -6
@zweber YAY!
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Post by Fearsy on May 13, 2020 17:29:14 GMT -6
THE RESULTS ARE IN! 755hcg and 18 progesterone. i’m fucking shaking. i talked to the OB for the first time! he talked a million miles an hour. all his words were mushed together and he was the biggest douche i’ve ever talked to in my life. he almost wouldn’t tell me the numbers. he kept saying “they went up” okay but what are they? “they’re normal” okay.. can i have the values? “they’re reassuring” GIVE ME THE NUMBER DICK FACE! he also told me they only check progesterone once a pregnancy. and i was like “but you checked mine this morning” and he was like “mathematically it doesn’t matter” and i was like can i please have that value as well? please? just give me the numbers so i can never talk to you again. FUCKING YES!!!! I really want you to be able to call that bitch nurse and tell her to get bent. Did the doctor even seem like ....I don’t know....slightly apologetic that he made a massive error by assuming this was a chemical pregnancy?
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on May 13, 2020 17:31:59 GMT -6
I’m glad he called you back @zweber, even if he was an asshole.
You are most certainly pregnant!! Based off betabase, you are on the lower side of normal. I assume no more bloodwork. Will they let you get a six week ultrasound? I really praying for you.
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2020 18:02:26 GMT -6
THE RESULTS ARE IN! 755hcg and 18 progesterone. i’m fucking shaking. i talked to the OB for the first time! he talked a million miles an hour. all his words were mushed together and he was the biggest douche i’ve ever talked to in my life. he almost wouldn’t tell me the numbers. he kept saying “they went up” okay but what are they? “they’re normal” okay.. can i have the values? “they’re reassuring” GIVE ME THE NUMBER DICK FACE! he also told me they only check progesterone once a pregnancy. and i was like “but you checked mine this morning” and he was like “mathematically it doesn’t matter” and i was like can i please have that value as well? please? just give me the numbers so i can never talk to you again. FUCKING YES!!!! I really want you to be able to call that bitch nurse and tell her to get bent. Did the doctor even seem like ....I don’t know....slightly apologetic that he made a massive error by assuming this was a chemical pregnancy? not at all. he was like “come back in a few weeks and we’ll see if we can see something on the ultrasound” and i was like “do i make an appointment for that?” and he said “i guess. just go to the front desk and say early pregnancy” .... nah. i’ll find someone else thanks. 😂
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2020 18:04:28 GMT -6
I’m glad he called you back @zweber, even if he was an asshole. You are most certainly pregnant!! Based off betabase, you are on the lower side of normal. I assume no more bloodwork. Will they let you get a six week ultrasound? I really praying for you. 12 week ultrasound. but maybe when i find a new OB and i tell them my history they’ll let me get an early scan. i don’t want to hear low side of normal. 😭
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on May 13, 2020 18:15:41 GMT -6
I’m glad he called you back @zweber, even if he was an asshole. You are most certainly pregnant!! Based off betabase, you are on the lower side of normal. I assume no more bloodwork. Will they let you get a six week ultrasound? I really praying for you. 12 week ultrasound. but maybe when i find a new OB and i tell them my history they’ll let me get an early scan. i don’t want to hear low side of normal. 😭 I’m so sorry. I didn’t want to burst your bubble, but wanted to make you aware. I’m also probably projecting because of my own experience. And I totally understand wanting to go to a different doctor. I really hope the next one is worthy of you!
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Post by lemondrop on May 13, 2020 18:42:50 GMT -6
THE RESULTS ARE IN! 755hcg and 18 progesterone. i’m fucking shaking. i talked to the OB for the first time! he talked a million miles an hour. all his words were mushed together and he was the biggest douche i’ve ever talked to in my life. he almost wouldn’t tell me the numbers. he kept saying “they went up” okay but what are they? “they’re normal” okay.. can i have the values? “they’re reassuring” GIVE ME THE NUMBER DICK FACE! he also told me they only check progesterone once a pregnancy. and i was like “but you checked mine this morning” and he was like “mathematically it doesn’t matter” and i was like can i please have that value as well? please? just give me the numbers so i can never talk to you again. That bitch and her “trending down” can go pound fucking sand because you are pregnannnnttttttttt my friend! Wooohooo!
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Post by Fearsy on May 13, 2020 20:15:42 GMT -6
I’m glad he called you back @zweber, even if he was an asshole. You are most certainly pregnant!! Based off betabase, you are on the lower side of normal. I assume no more bloodwork. Will they let you get a six week ultrasound? I really praying for you. 12 week ultrasound. but maybe when i find a new OB and i tell them my history they’ll let me get an early scan. i don’t want to hear low side of normal. 😭 Today you are pregnant and you love your baby. One day at a time. ❤️
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Post by onyx on May 14, 2020 7:45:30 GMT -6
Yessss!!! I’m so happy for you @zweber!!! Congrats! Lower side or not, you are pregnant! Love that baby today!
Seriously fuck that entire practice. It sounds like my last office who told me my chemical “didn't count” as a miscarriage because it was so early. Fuck these tactless, heartless OB offices.
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Post by katespade on May 14, 2020 8:20:16 GMT -6
@zweber I can’t remember if you were using OPKs or not but is it possible you ovulated slightly later than you think? That could explain the “lower” numbers. Either way you are clearly pregnant!!
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Post by Deleted on May 14, 2020 8:45:29 GMT -6
@zweber I can’t remember if you were using OPKs or not but is it possible you ovulated slightly later than you think? That could explain the “lower” numbers. Either way you are clearly pregnant!! i was using OPKs but i wasn’t temping. and i did get my positive test at 9dpo. anything is possible though! maybe i’m just on the low side. someone has to be, right?!
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Post by onyx on May 14, 2020 9:44:38 GMT -6
@zweber I can’t remember if you were using OPKs or not but is it possible you ovulated slightly later than you think? That could explain the “lower” numbers. Either way you are clearly pregnant!! i was using OPKs but i wasn’t temping. and i did get my positive test at 9dpo. anything is possible though! maybe i’m just on the low side. someone has to be, right?! I was on the low side with DS1. I didn’t know I was pregnant until 10 weeks (I was on the depo shot). Anyways based on numbers I remember them predicting I was 6-7 weeks and surprise! I was 10 weeks.
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Post by shellsncheese on May 14, 2020 9:45:30 GMT -6
Congrats @zweber! I seriously hate your doctor. My PCP was very insensitive to me when I had my loss, too. Though nothing like yours. I hope you find a wonderful doctor for the next 9 months!
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