tj
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Post by tj on Jul 7, 2017 8:42:07 GMT -6
Trigger warning: motorcycle accident, death in family My BIL has been in a really bad motorcycle accident. Currently life threatening. Please send good thoughts of prayers or whatever you believe in. I feel so bad for my SIL and nephew. UPDATE (if you care): So he's still alive. He is out of ICU and in respiratory care due to pneumonia and a collapsed lung. He's still in really bad shape, and will probably be paralyzed if he makes it out of the hospital. But the worst part is the family drama. His family isn't letting SIL or their son in to see him. They blame her for the accident. Although I'm pretty sure she isn't the one who drove a motorcycle home from a bar. Why does tragedy always bring out the worst in people? |
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kona
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Post by kona on Jul 7, 2017 8:45:05 GMT -6
Sending good thoughts your way. I'm sorry your family is dealing with this.
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Post by Dramaphile on Jul 7, 2017 8:52:42 GMT -6
Sending good thoughts and prayers to your family and your BIL. Hugs.
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nikkipal
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Post by nikkipal on Jul 7, 2017 8:55:46 GMT -6
I'm sorry. Prayers sent.
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tj
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Post by tj on Jul 7, 2017 9:05:22 GMT -6
I don't even know what I'm praying for. If he survives, it would be a very poor, very painful quality of life. Ugh.
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stringy
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Post by stringy on Jul 7, 2017 9:21:38 GMT -6
Oh I'm so sorry TJ. Sending positive thoughts and peace and hugs to your whole family.
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sak
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Post by sak on Jul 7, 2017 9:30:37 GMT -6
Oh tj! I'm so sorry. I'll pray for peace in such an uncertain and hard time.
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milano
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Post by milano on Jul 7, 2017 9:51:34 GMT -6
Prayers and good thoughts for your BIL and his family, including you and your H.
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rugger
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Post by rugger on Jul 7, 2017 10:06:46 GMT -6
Thoughts and prayers, TJ.
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Post by critter015 on Jul 7, 2017 10:41:31 GMT -6
I am so sorry! Thoughts and prayers to your family, TJ.
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Post by pbandj714 on Jul 7, 2017 11:23:41 GMT -6
Oh TJ, I'm so sorry. Sending prayers and peace to your family.
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Post by charlotte on Jul 7, 2017 11:25:56 GMT -6
I am so sorry to hear this! I am sending all my T&Ps your way. Not sure if this is YH's brother or BIL, but either way I'm sure it's very difficult and painful for everyone involved. Thinking of you all.
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mapleme
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Post by mapleme on Jul 7, 2017 11:35:51 GMT -6
Oh TJ, I'm so sorry. So many hugs and wishes for peace for your whole family.
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mc13
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Post by mc13 on Jul 7, 2017 14:01:09 GMT -6
So sorry! Lots of thoughts and prayers for your family.
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Post by grumpycakes on Jul 7, 2017 16:12:44 GMT -6
I'm thinking of you and your family, TJ!
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Post by niko8083 on Jul 7, 2017 17:18:54 GMT -6
Thinking of your family during this difficult time. So sorry to hear about the accident.
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Post by ovenrack on Jul 7, 2017 17:56:47 GMT -6
Hugs, teej.
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sarenu
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Post by sarenu on Jul 7, 2017 18:05:57 GMT -6
Sending lots of positive thoughts.
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Post by mintyblueair on Jul 7, 2017 18:08:21 GMT -6
I'm so sorry to hear this. I'll keep your BIL and everyone in your family in my thoughts.
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mapleme
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Post by mapleme on Jul 8, 2017 6:06:14 GMT -6
How's he doing today TJ?
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tj
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Post by tj on Jul 8, 2017 8:30:07 GMT -6
He's in a medically induced coma after a failed attempt to fuse his spine. It's not looking good. Edit: it and not aren't the same word AC. It's NOT looking good. |
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Post by rockies on Jul 8, 2017 8:39:51 GMT -6
Praying for your family TJ.
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Post by charlotte on Jul 8, 2017 9:23:06 GMT -6
Still thinking of you all!
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mapleme
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Post by mapleme on Jul 8, 2017 9:48:57 GMT -6
He's in a medically induced coma after a failed attempt to fuse his spine. It's not looking good. Edit: it and not aren't the same word AC. It's NOT looking good. Gosh, I'm so sorry TJ. |
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Post by mathrun on Jul 8, 2017 11:27:36 GMT -6
I'm so sorry hear this TJ. Prayers that your family finds peace with whatever happens.
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Post by brandiewine11 on Jul 9, 2017 7:03:11 GMT -6
Praying for your family TJ. I'm so sorry.
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