klong11
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Post by klong11 on Apr 1, 2020 15:26:03 GMT -6
trtlcrzy we won't have the recital, but we still had to pay. We're also still paying for dance classes, which is dumb. I made Cadence do a zoom combo class today and she said she didn't want to. Too bad kid, I spent money on dance, you're dancing. They also asked us to pay the deposit for fall already. I just checked and it looks like they are still charging full price. Which is annoying because we didn’t have any dance classes for the last 3 weeks. I kind of want to just drop it and be done with it but idk. Aftercare is doing the same thing. Still charging even though we aren't there. They said if we want to cancel her enrollment we can, but if school goes back May 4th or whenever, then there will still be 2 weeks left of school that we will need aftercare for.
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klong11
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Post by klong11 on Apr 1, 2020 15:33:29 GMT -6
Now that I'm seeing Cadence more, I've noticed that she writes a lot of her letters bottom up. Like for e, she loops up and around. Or for h and n she does the hump right to left, then adds the stick. Any other N13s doing this? Trying to determine if it's a writing stage or if she's just odd man out.
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jewels
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Post by jewels on Apr 1, 2020 15:36:59 GMT -6
Now that I'm seeing Cadence more, I've noticed that she writes a lot of her letters bottom up. Like for e, she loops up and around. Or for h and n she does the hump right to left, then adds the stick. Any other N13s doing this? Trying to determine if it's a writing stage or if she's just odd man out. today i noticed S did this with his e
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Post by peachsmama on Apr 1, 2020 15:38:14 GMT -6
Now that I'm seeing Cadence more, I've noticed that she writes a lot of her letters bottom up. Like for e, she loops up and around. Or for h and n she does the hump right to left, then adds the stick. Any other N13s doing this? Trying to determine if it's a writing stage or if she's just odd man out. today i noticed S did this with his e I cant even explain how M does e but it's so odd.
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Post by lahdeedah on Apr 1, 2020 15:45:32 GMT -6
Now that I'm seeing Cadence more, I've noticed that she writes a lot of her letters bottom up. Like for e, she loops up and around. Or for h and n she does the hump right to left, then adds the stick. Any other N13s doing this? Trying to determine if it's a writing stage or if she's just odd man out. M does some weird stuff, but he’s a lefty, so I assume it comes with the territory of having to push rather than pull.
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Post by wineallthetime on Apr 1, 2020 16:02:19 GMT -6
Vino is ok, everyone! I spoke to her a couple days ago. Oh. Did she say why she's ignoring us? I don't think she's ignoring people, just has a shit ton on her plate. She's doing it all alone while her H is halfway across the world dealing with his own pretty shitty circumstances.
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Post by peachsmama on Apr 1, 2020 16:38:14 GMT -6
Well Alex's jobsite may get shut down.. they're considered essential but they have one guy out with symptoms and 6 guys that were in contact with him home to be safe. Alex didn't come into contact with him at all but had daily meetings in the same small building the guy works in until 2 weeks ago.. so now he strips everything into the washer as soon as he gets home and goes straight into the shower. He thinks it'll be a week but that he'll be home. So we'll see. Luckily their HR department emailed yesterday and guaranteed 8 weeks pay at 100% for 40 hours for everyone. So I'm not concerned except for being house bound with all 5 of us 😬
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on Apr 1, 2020 16:41:35 GMT -6
Oh. Did she say why she's ignoring us? I don't think she's ignoring people, just has a shit ton on her plate. She's doing it all alone while her H is halfway across the world dealing with his own pretty shitty circumstances. Which is why we are all worried about her...
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tallb
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Post by tallb on Apr 1, 2020 17:38:11 GMT -6
My Trump goon of a governor is finally issuing a statewide SIP starting Friday. He and FL governor seemed to battling for worst governor during a pandemic. Crazy that we have issued it before FL. 🤦🏽♀️ Our state medical officials put the pressure on and good for them because we have one of the highest hospitilization rates, but that isn’t surprising given that MS is at the top in terms of obesity. ETA: I spoke too soon. Looks like the FL gov did so at about the same time. Yeah... they are definitely in bed together. 🙄 maybe your state will get the supplies they request, FL seems to be getting filled requests, unlike the NE.
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Post by wineallthetime on Apr 1, 2020 17:40:34 GMT -6
I don't think she's ignoring people, just has a shit ton on her plate. She's doing it all alone while her H is halfway across the world dealing with his own pretty shitty circumstances. Which is why we are all worried about her... Whoa, I'm just the middle man. I'm reporting that she's ok. She has a ton on her plate but she's managing and struggling to "check in".
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on Apr 1, 2020 17:45:44 GMT -6
Which is why we are all worried about her... Whoa, I'm just the middle man. I'm reporting that she's ok. She has a ton on her plate but she's managing and struggling to "check in". I think you must have read my comment wrong.
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Post by lahdeedah on Apr 1, 2020 18:01:06 GMT -6
My Trump goon of a governor is finally issuing a statewide SIP starting Friday. He and FL governor seemed to battling for worst governor during a pandemic. Crazy that we have issued it before FL. 🤦🏽♀️ Our state medical officials put the pressure on and good for them because we have one of the highest hospitilization rates, but that isn’t surprising given that MS is at the top in terms of obesity. ETA: I spoke too soon. Looks like the FL gov did so at about the same time. Yeah... they are definitely in bed together. 🙄 maybe your state will get the supplies they request, FL seems to be getting filled requests, unlike the NE. It’s all so Effed up. Makes me want to rage daily.
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lfig
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Post by lfig on Apr 1, 2020 18:08:58 GMT -6
Now that I'm seeing Cadence more, I've noticed that she writes a lot of her letters bottom up. Like for e, she loops up and around. Or for h and n she does the hump right to left, then adds the stick. Any other N13s doing this? Trying to determine if it's a writing stage or if she's just odd man out. M does some weird stuff, but he’s a lefty, so I assume it comes with the territory of having to push rather than pull. Ugh. I’m pretty sure S is a lefty now 🤨. Before all her hand issues started a year and a half ago she was pretty much right handed. And then when her right hand quit working she adapted and started using her left. Then it quit working too. Once she got her function back she stuck with the left.
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guster
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Post by guster on Apr 1, 2020 18:33:38 GMT -6
Josie makes her letters in all different ways bc she’s a leftie.
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Post by lahdeedah on Apr 1, 2020 20:38:51 GMT -6
M does some weird stuff, but he’s a lefty, so I assume it comes with the territory of having to push rather than pull. Ugh. I’m pretty sure S is a lefty now 🤨. Before all her hand issues started a year and a half ago she was pretty much right handed. And then when her right hand quit working she adapted and started using her left. Then it quit working too. Once she got her function back she stuck with the left. I’m surprised she stuck with the left. Interesting.
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Post by lahdeedah on Apr 1, 2020 23:00:17 GMT -6
I’m trying to watch Love is blind and I just.... dating shows are just not my thing. I’m either cringing or laughing at them. I’m gonna try to power through episode 2.
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klong11
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Post by klong11 on Apr 1, 2020 23:27:33 GMT -6
I’m trying to watch Love is blind and I just.... dating shows are just not my thing. I’m either cringing or laughing at them. I’m gonna try to power through episode 2. Soon you will be yelling at them. Especially Jessica.
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lfig
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Post by lfig on Apr 2, 2020 6:59:03 GMT -6
Ugh. I’m pretty sure S is a lefty now 🤨. Before all her hand issues started a year and a half ago she was pretty much right handed. And then when her right hand quit working she adapted and started using her left. Then it quit working too. Once she got her function back she stuck with the left. I’m surprised she stuck with the left. Interesting. I know! But I think it’s because her right hand was the most affected. So as she regained functioning, her left was useable before the right.
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cagoldi
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Post by cagoldi on Apr 2, 2020 9:56:59 GMT -6
I've sent several texts and she hasn't responded either. Well now I’m worried. I just assumed she is really busy with WFH and kids and was taking a break for a bit. I’ve been thinking about her, too.
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cagoldi
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Post by cagoldi on Apr 2, 2020 10:01:37 GMT -6
Now that I'm seeing Cadence more, I've noticed that she writes a lot of her letters bottom up. Like for e, she loops up and around. Or for h and n she does the hump right to left, then adds the stick. Any other N13s doing this? Trying to determine if it's a writing stage or if she's just odd man out. M does some weird stuff, but he’s a lefty, so I assume it comes with the territory of having to push rather than pull. Same for Dude. So much weird lefty stuff when he writes.🤷♀️
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vino
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Post by vino on Apr 4, 2020 10:01:13 GMT -6
Hey everyone. Day 22 hour 523 of being at home. I just wanted to pop in and say hello. I know that tgrimes via text and just saw guster and jewels via snapchat have reached out personally and others have tagged me here, but to be honest I haven’t even been logged into HIH or been on my phone much, changed notifications etc. I reached out to wineallthetime because she is front lines at a hospital and I wanted to see how she was doing. My last post that I wrote said ‘blah this is hard’ at the end of the post. I could go into all the reasons and list what I have been doing but I like to think you guys know what I’m dealing with right now solo parenting. This is really stressful and I’m keeping my head above water over here and it needs to stay like that because I am it. I don’t have anyone irl to replace me or cover for me. I thank everyone for their genuine care about me and I’m not sure if there was shade from anyone as to why I wasn’t here or answering messages, I’m honestly too tired to decipher but I hope not ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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chrisy01
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Post by chrisy01 on Apr 4, 2020 10:12:27 GMT -6
Just know we care about you vino and if you need anything let us know.
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nam2013
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Post by nam2013 on Apr 4, 2020 10:40:39 GMT -6
Hang in there vino & know we’re here.
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guster
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Post by guster on Apr 4, 2020 10:44:20 GMT -6
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wedding
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Post by wedding on Apr 4, 2020 10:59:59 GMT -6
Lots of love vino. I can’t imagine. No shade, just concern. ❤️ you and miss you.
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joelies
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Post by joelies on Apr 4, 2020 11:19:11 GMT -6
Really glad to hear from you vino. I'm sorry things are so hard. Sending hugs, wine and all the good vibes.
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lfig
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Post by lfig on Apr 4, 2020 11:45:41 GMT -6
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jewels
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Post by jewels on Apr 4, 2020 15:44:15 GMT -6
miss you vino - keep taking care of that beautiful family of yours
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