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Post by marigold on Mar 6, 2020 9:14:00 GMT -6
@zweber, I'm so sorry you're going through this.
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Mar 6, 2020 9:56:03 GMT -6
I’m very sorry @zweber. Losses are so hard.
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Post by onyx on Mar 6, 2020 9:57:03 GMT -6
i’m very impatiently waiting for cd1. i’m so miserable. i’m going to my first therapy appointment today to get ideas on how to cope with our last two losses. i’m not the same as i was before. i just want to be happy again. I just started therapy. I was diagnosed with PTSD about 6 months ago. I was using in person and just switched to BetterHelp and actually like it a lot. Good luck and so many hugs.
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Mar 6, 2020 9:57:05 GMT -6
Negative for me today again at 11dpo. I felt so good about this cycle but I’m losing hope. If this doesn’t work, I’ll go back to my RE for another medicated cycle.
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polson
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Post by polson on Mar 6, 2020 10:07:47 GMT -6
onyx sorry for cd1 at least that long cycle is over hoping things regulate for you @zweber so sorry you’re going through this sending you hugs
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Post by Fearsy on Mar 6, 2020 14:05:29 GMT -6
Big hugs, @zweber
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Post by savannah on Mar 6, 2020 17:32:22 GMT -6
@zweber so sorry you are struggling friend. You've been through a lot. I hope your therapy session was helpful.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 6, 2020 18:43:13 GMT -6
my god that was awful. so awful. this bitch needs a new job. the only good thing that came out of it was at the very last minute of the session she gave me the name of an office nearby that will be more equipped to handle my “level of depression” she said the only thing she could suggest was me finding a forum for support. talking to people who have been through this may help. so hi guys! here i am, per that therapists advice.
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Post by savannah on Mar 6, 2020 19:13:44 GMT -6
my god that was awful. so awful. this bitch needs a new job. the only good thing that came out of it was at the very last minute of the session she gave me the name of an office nearby that will be more equipped to handle my “level of depression” she said the only thing she could suggest was me finding a forum for support. talking to people who have been through this may help. so hi guys! here i am, per that therapists advice. This is absolutely awful. I am so sorry you had to deal with that experience. Resolve.org is an online resource guide for infertility and has a database of mental health providers. I would think those who specialize in infertility issues would also be sensitive to and experienced with loss. I'm not sure where you are located, but it could be worth seeing if there is anyone close by.
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Post by Fearsy on Mar 6, 2020 19:29:18 GMT -6
What in the actual fuck, @zweber?? I’m so sorry it didn’t go well. I guess the plus side is that she’s sending you on your way quickly vs you having multiple sessions and then deciding you need someone different. I hope the next professional will be more helpful for you. Also you’re always always always welcome to bitch here. Plenty of ears and shoulders around. ❤️
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Post by polson on Mar 6, 2020 20:56:21 GMT -6
@zweber it’s hard enough to take the steps to start therapy without that bs - she sounds awful. i’m sorry and i hope you can find someone who can help you through this.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 8, 2020 9:53:58 GMT -6
thank you so much guys. i took a day to process everything. i had the worst breakdown of my life that night after therapy. i honestly think that helped. i can laugh now that she literally pulled out her phone and googled “how to cope with miscarriage” right in front of us. then she wasted 45 minutes telling me how to make friends. i mentioned my losses once at the beginning of the session and never again. it was all about making friends. so fucking bizarre.
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Mar 8, 2020 14:25:48 GMT -6
I'm really sorry @zweber. That sounds absolutely awful.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 8, 2020 22:19:29 GMT -6
CD1 was supposed to be today. i didn’t pee with fmu. i am SUPER hydrated and i peed in the evening. it was on a cheapie and the dye ran really weird but after the 5 minutes it was 100000% positive. we’ll see what an frer says tomorrow. i think it’s a crazy dye run.
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Mar 9, 2020 5:57:09 GMT -6
Good luck @zweber!
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Post by katespade on Mar 9, 2020 6:00:00 GMT -6
CD1 was supposed to be today. i didn’t pee with fmu. i am SUPER hydrated and i peed in the evening. it was on a cheapie and the dye ran really weird but after the 5 minutes it was 100000% positive. we’ll see what an frer says tomorrow. i think it’s a crazy dye run. Wishing you all the luck in the world!!!!
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Mar 9, 2020 6:03:56 GMT -6
My pee sticks are showing nothing, so I’m 99% sure I’m out. Hoping CD1 comes today so I can get my next cycle started with my RE on Wednesday (my off day). This will be cycle 5.
I keep telling myself that it can take up to a year, but I am getting really discouraged. My IF brain keeps telling me something isn’t right, like I am terrified my eggs or cervical mucous are shitty.
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Post by savannah on Mar 9, 2020 7:31:08 GMT -6
@zweber, Good luck!! robotsvswrestlers, sorry for your BFNs. IF brain is the worst. Lots of hugs.
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Post by savannah on Mar 9, 2020 7:32:33 GMT -6
I took a test this morning at 5 days past my transfer which is sort of equivalent to 10dpo. I'm pretty sure it was negative, but there might have been a hint of something. Probably very wishful thinking. I will test again tomorrow.
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Mar 9, 2020 7:58:18 GMT -6
savannah I never got anything until 7 or 8 dp5dt with my three embryo transfers. Hopefully it’s too early. Good luck!!!!
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Post by Deleted on Mar 9, 2020 9:41:55 GMT -6
all my fingers are crossed for you savannah! i hope it turns positive!
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Post by Deleted on Mar 9, 2020 10:24:43 GMT -6
CD1 today so the test was a fluke. i’m not that disappointed. my body needs a cycle to go back to normal anyway
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Post by donnameagle on Mar 9, 2020 12:41:00 GMT -6
CD1 today so the test was a fluke. i’m not that disappointed. my body needs a cycle to go back to normal anyway Liking for commiseration not because it was negative. I think taking a cycle is a good thing, in a round about way. Let your body reset and then try again. I say this because I have had to have the talk with myself too. LOL. Hang in there.
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Post by donnameagle on Mar 9, 2020 12:41:52 GMT -6
Surgery was scheduled for March 25th. A day past the one year mark of my son being stillborn. If that isn't irony. Hoping this is our answer.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 9, 2020 13:14:05 GMT -6
Surgery was scheduled for March 25th. A day past the one year mark of my son being stillborn. If that isn't irony. Hoping this is our answer. i love this! i hope this is truly it for you. your guys’ story is the sweetest thing. ❤️
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Post by savannah on Mar 10, 2020 10:00:55 GMT -6
Anybody used Pregmate tests before? For the second day in a row I feel like I'm seeing something but it's so faint. Do I need to just wait or buy an FRER?
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Post by Deleted on Mar 10, 2020 11:52:10 GMT -6
Anybody used Pregmate tests before? For the second day in a row I feel like I'm seeing something but it's so faint. Do I need to just wait or buy an FRER? i have pregmates. i’ve only gotten a line once and it was weird (the half line i talked about the other day) and then i started my period. otherwise they were stark stark negative every time. and never got evaps. i hope yours is real!
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Post by Deleted on Mar 10, 2020 11:54:30 GMT -6
i don’t know how to spoiler so this is about to be huge and i’m sorry. but here’s the line i got!
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Post by pinkcat on Mar 10, 2020 11:56:36 GMT -6
Anybody used Pregmate tests before? For the second day in a row I feel like I'm seeing something but it's so faint. Do I need to just wait or buy an FRER? Lurker here.....I did IVF and used Wondfos which I believe are similar. I started getting lines at 5DPT as well but the took sooooo long to get dark on the Wondfos (like a good week to ten days after getting the first positive), but showed up much more quickly on FRERs. Fingers crossed for you!
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Post by katespade on Mar 10, 2020 12:10:34 GMT -6
Anybody used Pregmate tests before? For the second day in a row I feel like I'm seeing something but it's so faint. Do I need to just wait or buy an FRER? Sorry, I’m lurking, but I used them last time and never got a really solid dark line. I did get a dark line on one I had left this time, but it wasn’t until like 20DPO. I will always recommend the 88 cent one step tests from Walmart if one is accessible to you.
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