trtlcrzy
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Post by trtlcrzy on Oct 31, 2019 6:58:53 GMT -6
Speaking of sex ttcbabyj, is anyone actually interested at this stage? I'm far too miserable an have absolutely no interest. DH is anxiously waiting for 2nd tri (history tells us I should get my drive back then lol) Zero desire here. I have a really low sex drive to begin with though. |
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Post by Radley on Oct 31, 2019 8:21:39 GMT -6
My nausea and vomiting has eased a lot which is freaking me out but my HCG numbers still look great. I am still vomiting about 1x a day but it’s much better than it was.
Add me to the zero drive category. None. Zip. I think paranoia over loss is adding to it, on top of the fact that I generally feel very tired and vaguely nauseated. Plus I never seem to have desire in the first tri.
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Post by sdlaura on Oct 31, 2019 9:11:14 GMT -6
We’ve only had sex once since my BFP. I imagine we will more soon since my nausea seems to have abated for now.
I definitely show early. This is my 5th pregnancy that my body has really grown because of 3 kids plus our 21-week pregnancy loss, so it happens quick for me.
My lower stomach area has always been a larger area of my body that I try to dress for/hide, and I typically wear mostly loose fitting skirts and dresses that are more forgiving. But it’s starting to get pretty cold in SoCal, so I’ll have to start wearing pants soon, and they’re definitely going to have to be maternity pants. I gave away a lot of my maternity stuff since we weren’t sure on trying for a fourth, so I went to Target earlier this week and bought some new maternity pants.
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Post by ttcbabyj on Oct 31, 2019 10:14:35 GMT -6
Speaking of sex ttcbabyj, is anyone actually interested at this stage? I'm far too miserable an have absolutely no interest. DH is anxiously waiting for 2nd tri (history tells us I should get my drive back then lol) Maybe it’s more of the we “can’t” do it that makes it more appealing..😂😂 |
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Post by wasabi on Oct 31, 2019 15:57:36 GMT -6
Weeks/Due Date - 7+5/6-13
Symptoms - nausea has been better today. Fatigue seems slightly better, maybe? Hard to tell. I couldn’t sleep last night which was annoying and wasn’t as tired as I thought I’d be today. I’m still not in the mood to be productive at all.
The Good - nothing new or exciting. Ultrasound in a week which I’m excited about.
The Bad - still feeling huge already. I’m starting out like 12ish pound more than I was with my first and I’m just nervous about how much I’m going to gain. I know I shouldn’t spend too much time worrying about that but here I am. Currently eating peanut butter crackers as I type this though, lol.
Milestones/Appointments - appt on 11/7, pushed back from 11/5 bc my work schedule.
To Do List - nada at the moment
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Post by wasabi on Oct 31, 2019 16:02:22 GMT -6
We’re typically daily here, but I’ve been pretty meh on sex. At first when we found out we didn’t change the pace, but the past week and a half or so it really slowed. He said something about being worried to initiate because he knows I haven’t been feeling super great so the past few times it’s been on me. I need to tell him to just go for it though because I don’t like being the one to make it happen all the time, hah. And even when I’m not really in the mood at first I always get into it and feel better after, better sleep and all that.
Also, ummm the orgasms have been more intense since the positive test soooo that’s pretty cool, lol.
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Post by danib on Oct 31, 2019 16:15:03 GMT -6
wasabi I definitely agree on the orgasms. We'll have a good 2nd/3rd trimester. But 1st is a no for me.
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trtlcrzy
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Post by trtlcrzy on Oct 31, 2019 21:40:44 GMT -6
I sent a message to my OB earlier because I have had a low back ache and cramping like during my period and I wasn’t sure if it was normal. I don’t remember if I had this with either of the girls’ pregnancy. Anyways, because of my history with the ectopics she decided I should move up my ultrasound to tomorrow to make sure everything is where it belongs.
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Post by sdlaura on Oct 31, 2019 22:09:16 GMT -6
I hope everything looks great tomorrow trtlcrzy! |
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Post by danib on Nov 1, 2019 3:59:27 GMT -6
Let us know how it goes today trtlcrzy. Fingers crossed all is good. |
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Post by fikafairy on Nov 1, 2019 7:42:29 GMT -6
Speaking of sex ttcbabyj , is anyone actually interested at this stage? I'm far too miserable an have absolutely no interest. DH is anxiously waiting for 2nd tri (history tells us I should get my drive back then lol) zero here too. |
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Post by fikafairy on Nov 1, 2019 7:46:15 GMT -6
I sent a message to my OB earlier because I have had a low back ache and cramping like during my period and I wasn’t sure if it was normal. I don’t remember if I had this with either of the girls’ pregnancy. Anyways, because of my history with the ectopics she decided I should move up my ultrasound to tomorrow to make sure everything is where it belongs. I've had that off and on this time, and I did have an ultrasound confirming everything is where it's supposed to be. I was told one of my ovaries is squashed behind my uterus, so the expanding might be squashing it even more? not sure if that helps, but I've had this with my other pregnancies too. anyway, hope all looks great on the scan for you! |
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Post by trtlcrzy on Nov 1, 2019 13:49:28 GMT -6
We have a single baby with a heartbeat inside of my uterus! She bumped my due date a bit so it’s now 6/28.
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Post by Radley on Nov 2, 2019 21:14:37 GMT -6
We have a single baby with a heartbeat inside of my uterus! She bumped my due date a bit so it’s now 6/28. Hey that’s my birthday so (imho) a wonderful day to be born. |
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