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Post by jewels on Jun 30, 2017 17:24:25 GMT -6
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inthekitty
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Post by inthekitty on Jun 30, 2017 17:28:35 GMT -6
FFFC - I was in line at Wendy's the other night and in a mood. Some IL stuff had just happened and Cass was having a mega-meltdown. Someone started to cut in front of me in line. I don't even think it was intentional, I think the woman was just being absentminded. I laid on the horn and closed in further on the line and gave her the look of death. This is....very unlike me. But that night no bitch was coming between me and my Frosty.
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vino
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Post by vino on Jun 30, 2017 17:29:49 GMT -6
Oh guster I see we are married to the same person. I'm sorry, it totally sucks being the bearer of all. Hopefully he is receptive to chatting about it and seeing how it affects you short and long term.
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vino
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Post by vino on Jun 30, 2017 17:30:27 GMT -6
FFFC - I was in line at Wendy's the other night and in a mood. Some IL stuff had just happened and Cass was having a mega-meltdown. Someone started to cut in front of me in line. I don't even think it was intentional, I think the woman was just being absentminded. I laid on the horn and closed in further on the line and gave her the look of death. This is....very unlike me. But that night no bitch was coming between me and my Frosty. Lol. This is me on a normal day. You're good 😉
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yummeecookee
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Post by yummeecookee on Jun 30, 2017 17:33:02 GMT -6
csho. I can't believe I missed the sorority mixer here! I'm DG. You?
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yummeecookee
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Post by yummeecookee on Jun 30, 2017 17:33:53 GMT -6
Ugh, I'm sorry guster. That is really unfair to you. After things calm down, it's definitely worth a talk. He can't expect you to manage everything.
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 30, 2017 17:44:41 GMT -6
Took M to the dentist & she needs 3 crowns. FML.
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Post by snoopmommymom on Jun 30, 2017 17:44:41 GMT -6
I'm sorry guster, that's incredible frustrating for you. Two kids are a lot to handle if you are having to get all the stuff done by yourself.
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Post by snoopmommymom on Jun 30, 2017 17:45:12 GMT -6
Took M to the dentist & she needs 3 crowns. FML. Damn. I'm sorry. That really stinks.
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Post by snoopmommymom on Jun 30, 2017 17:46:29 GMT -6
MH just took Z in the basement with him. She was previously whining at my feet. He said "you're welcome" to me without me saying anything. I shot back "so I really need to thank you for hanging out with your kid?!" Like what is with these men.
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guster
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Post by guster on Jun 30, 2017 17:49:12 GMT -6
Took M to the dentist & she needs 3 crowns. FML. Oh no! How does that work when her grown up teeth come in?
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Post by guster on Jun 30, 2017 17:53:17 GMT -6
I'm sorry guster, that's incredible frustrating for you. Two kids are a lot to handle if you are having to get all the stuff done by yourself. Thank you. It is. He sort of righted himself a few moments after, but it still stung. I should have recognized the timing. We always have this trouble the week after school lets out. As much as I loooove having him home, it's a transition to have him home every day each day for 2 months.
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inthekitty
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Post by inthekitty on Jun 30, 2017 18:01:55 GMT -6
*poof*
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guster
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Post by guster on Jun 30, 2017 18:10:37 GMT -6
Thanks, inthekitty, I really hate ever saying anything negative about him because he's a very aware and empathetic person. He's an incredible father and husband, but when he's trying to feel something out, he's more extreme in his ideas, and I should have recognize had I given it literally a few more minutes, he would have apologized and worked out a compromise. He's still wrong in his first impression of what to do, but he would have recognized that without the added frustration.
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Post by wedding on Jun 30, 2017 18:13:25 GMT -6
snoopmommymom I would like to nut punch your H. guster I would be frustrated too. I'm glad he's come around a bit.
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Post by sands42 on Jun 30, 2017 18:23:28 GMT -6
FFFC inthekitty .... that is very like me. Road ragin on the daily. Shoot! Sorry about the dentist news tgrimes! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
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csho
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Post by csho on Jun 30, 2017 18:23:34 GMT -6
csho . I can't believe I missed the sorority mixer here! I'm DG. You? I'm a SK
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vino
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Post by vino on Jun 30, 2017 18:36:05 GMT -6
Took M to the dentist & she needs 3 crowns. FML. Shit! Poor M and poor you? Would you ever get a second opinion? Will they do them all at the same time?
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inthekitty
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Post by inthekitty on Jun 30, 2017 18:36:43 GMT -6
guster, MH has some anxiety issues and the past year+ has been going through major midlife crisis/existential issues. Honestly sometimes when he gets in his modes I'm just like I don't have time for this shit. I'm sorry, but my life's too busy and stressful to worry about issues that doesn't matter right now. So I get it. It doesn't change the fact that MH is a very loving father, but damn, my life now is such that I don't have time to get wrapped up in the meaning of the loss of Great Aunt Ethel who we haven't seen in 30 years and don't have any clear memory of and how that plays into our role in the cosmos. Meanwhile the kids are going apeshit and I need to figure out how I'm going to feed and bathe them, and do story time and bedtime routines in the next 73 minutes before I collapse into a heap on the couch.
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vino
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Post by vino on Jun 30, 2017 18:38:05 GMT -6
MH just took Z in the basement with him. She was previously whining at my feet. He said "you're welcome" to me without me saying anything. I shot back "so I really need to thank you for hanging out with your kid?!" Like what is with these men. I dont know, but I'm ready for a vacation sans husband for sure. And yes, I do realize mine isn't even here to annoy me on a daily basis, but he's not losing steam over skype messanger. Edit: skype messenger not mess-anger but it sorta fits. So leaving it
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inthekitty
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Post by inthekitty on Jun 30, 2017 18:38:33 GMT -6
Took M to the dentist & she needs 3 crowns. FML. Shit! Poor M and poor you? Would you ever get a second opinion? Will they do them all at the same time? I was wondering this too. I'd be hesitant to do any major dental work on baby teeth. Please remind me, do you or YH have major dental issues? I was just wondering if M was genetically predisposed to unfortunate teeth issues.
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guster
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Post by guster on Jun 30, 2017 18:45:30 GMT -6
inthekitty, I think you get me. You're a wise woman.
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Post by guster on Jun 30, 2017 18:46:34 GMT -6
This is so lazy, but where is the reply bar on tapa?
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joelies
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Post by joelies on Jun 30, 2017 18:51:48 GMT -6
MH just took Z in the basement with him. She was previously whining at my feet. He said "you're welcome" to me without me saying anything. I shot back "so I really need to thank you for hanging out with your kid?!" Like what is with these men. DH has been like that on vacation. He keeps taking work calls and while I run/shower etc. while the boys sleep, he relaxes and disappears to the shower when they get up. SMH. We leave tomorrow and I'm preemptively annoyed because I will somehow watch the boys, pack their stuff and mine, pack up the car, and then have to entertain them while he gets his act together. Sent from my XT1254 using Tapatalk
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Post by lfig on Jun 30, 2017 18:55:17 GMT -6
I feel you all on the H issues. I feel like I do everything and he plays the "I've had a hard/busy day at work and am exhausted" card. Guess what buddy....me too! But I still manage to feed and bathe the kid, cook our dinner most nights, get the dishes done and laundry going. I don't usually sit down till S goes to bed. He "piddles" with stuff so it's not like he is just sitting watching tv while I do everything, but I feel like the stuff he is doing doesn't contribute to the function of our daily lives. I don't care if he wants to go out to the garage and "piddle" with whatever, but do it after we get the other shit done!
This detail he got will change his days off to the weekend and my days off are during the week. And he will move to an office 45 min away. I am ready for a few days off to myself each week. When you work with your H and even share an office it can be too much time together. But I will miss out on us going to do fun things on our days off together.
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Post by cheeksmum on Jun 30, 2017 19:18:15 GMT -6
Did all our H's get together and agree to be ... the same today?
I'm too tired to type everything out but I told my daycare provider if she sees me Tuesday for pickup then I made it through the weekend...if not the it's because I'm in jail because of DH.... hopefully that gives a jist of it.
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vino
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Post by vino on Jun 30, 2017 19:32:49 GMT -6
I got you. I'll bail you out cheeksmum, then we'll go to a Jays game.
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Post by cheeksmum on Jun 30, 2017 19:40:54 GMT -6
I got you. I'll bail you out cheeksmum, then we'll go to a Jays game. Awesome!! I'll use my one call on you lol
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 30, 2017 19:43:13 GMT -6
Took M to the dentist & she needs 3 crowns. FML. Oh no! How does that work when her grown up teeth come in? I have no idea. I'll have to ask them about that.
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csho
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Post by csho on Jun 30, 2017 19:45:06 GMT -6
Speaking of darling husbands...
Mine yesterday said we should be "reigning in our spending"
In my head I was like WHAT DO WE EVER BUY?!?!
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