nam2013
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Post by nam2013 on Jun 24, 2019 10:07:07 GMT -6
cagoldi happy to hear you had a great time!! Make that thread!
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Post by flamingo on Jun 24, 2019 10:10:02 GMT -6
Welcome back cagoldi, glad all was well on the homefront! I'm sure the kiddos were happy to see you My great-grandma remarried her ex-H in her 80s (first husband died relatively young). My grandmother suggested that they just live together, instead of making it 'official'. Great-grandma replied, "But what would the grandchildren think???" (at this point her grandchildren were all in their 20s/30s lol)
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vino
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Post by vino on Jun 24, 2019 10:11:16 GMT -6
Welcome back cagoldi! I cant wait to hear all about it and see the pics.
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 24, 2019 10:14:13 GMT -6
My dad is having surgery today. I got in an argument over text with my mother about it and now she's not speaking to me. She told my sister about the surgery Friday but she didn't know what the surgery was for so I sent my mother a text asking about it. She said it was for his drooping eye issue from the bells palsey. Then she sends another text saying she told me about it a month ago. Then another one that said "Nice that you can remember." I got furious. She can fuck right off with that bullshit. I told her that she mentioned several months ago he was going to need surgery but they were having issues scheduling because of insurance approval, so no, she didn't tell me he was having surgery Monday. Then my sister tells me that he has a spot on his brain that she apparently knew about 2 months ago and he may need a biopsy. Nice that you can tell us about that. Bitch. Both my sister and I have tried texting and calling her today and she's not responding.
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cagoldi
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Post by cagoldi on Jun 24, 2019 10:24:24 GMT -6
FX for a smooth procedure for your Dad today, tgrimes. Sorry your mom continues to be such a PITA about everything.
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jewels
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Post by jewels on Jun 24, 2019 10:25:05 GMT -6
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Post by slenle on Jun 24, 2019 10:30:11 GMT -6
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 24, 2019 10:32:13 GMT -6
She just replied back to me: Trying to decide if I should let it go or reply back...
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Post by lahdeedah on Jun 24, 2019 10:34:52 GMT -6
Welcome back! cagoldi can’t wait to hear about it. chrisy01 showed us some of the pics. Looked amazing!
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Post by lahdeedah on Jun 24, 2019 10:35:27 GMT -6
tgrimes I’m sorry you’re having to deal with her shenanigans. Hope the surgery goes well and you get an update soon.
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vino
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Post by vino on Jun 24, 2019 10:39:37 GMT -6
Hopefully everything goes well for your Dad today tgrimes, and UGH to your Mom, she certainly is making it her lifes work to be a ginormous pain. I'm sorry, that's so frustrating.
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vino
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Post by vino on Jun 24, 2019 10:41:50 GMT -6
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 24, 2019 10:42:11 GMT -6
Hopefully everything goes well for your Dad today tgrimes , and UGH to your Mom, she certainly is making it her lifes work to be a ginormous pain. I'm sorry, that's so frustrating. That's why she'll be going right into a nursing home when the time comes...
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vino
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Post by vino on Jun 24, 2019 10:43:32 GMT -6
Hopefully everything goes well for your Dad today tgrimes , and UGH to your Mom, she certainly is making it her lifes work to be a ginormous pain. I'm sorry, that's so frustrating. That's why she'll be going right into a nursing home when the time comes...
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nam2013
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Post by nam2013 on Jun 24, 2019 11:03:44 GMT -6
vino that is a really nice gift! tgrimes ugh I’m sorry, that sucks. Both the surgery and the way your mom is ‘handling’ this.
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Post by trtlcrzy on Jun 24, 2019 12:19:02 GMT -6
Happy birthday to M2 lahdeedah! cagoldi welcome back to ‘merica. tgrimes I hope your dad’s surgery goes well and your mom can F right off.
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cagoldi
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Post by cagoldi on Jun 24, 2019 12:28:58 GMT -6
tgrimes I don’t think there’s any right or wrong way to reply, but I would just let it go, I think. She clearly thrives on creating discord then acting like a victim when confronted. I wouldn’t do that dance with her. Happy birthday to M2, lahdeedah! kim22 happy belated birthday!!!
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Post by wineallthetime on Jun 24, 2019 12:39:09 GMT -6
Welcome back, Goldi! Your mom... always a gem, tgrimes. Happy birthday, M2!! lahdeedah.
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mwhip
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Post by mwhip on Jun 24, 2019 12:46:37 GMT -6
Welcome home cagoldi! Does your mom getting engaged possibly change anything for you? tgrimes I'm sorry you're dealing with your mom being such a bitch while your dad has surgery. I hope he recovers quickly.
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Post by peachsmama on Jun 24, 2019 12:57:43 GMT -6
Pretty sure this baby is engaging and moving into position. That or my uterus is about to fall right out. Shes taken me to my knees in pain. 3 times today.
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Post by tallb on Jun 24, 2019 13:06:37 GMT -6
So glad you had a great trip cagoldi! Exciting about your mom too! vino daughter goals! What an awesome gift. I wish my mom was off doing things like that. lahdeedah happy birthday to M!
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klong11
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Post by klong11 on Jun 24, 2019 13:07:40 GMT -6
peachsmama, you only asked her to stay put until Sunday, she listened, now it's go time!
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klong11
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Post by klong11 on Jun 24, 2019 13:09:25 GMT -6
Welcome back cagoldi! Sorry about your mom tgrimes. I hope your Dad's surgery goes well and he has an easy recovery.
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 24, 2019 13:09:37 GMT -6
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tallb
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Post by tallb on Jun 24, 2019 13:11:04 GMT -6
Hi hi. Just reading the syllabus for the new course and there is a freaking final exam that's 35% of my grade😳. Next few weeks are going to be busy while I wrap up my current course. Not much else is new, yesterday I got the first coat of paint on the shutters and it is a nice improvement. I don't think I sanded enough though so hopefully it won't peel and split too fast, but better than nothing.
Next on my to do list is see if I can install Roman shades. I got a quote from next day blinds, but think I'll try some Real Simple ones from BBB first at 1/3 the cost if I can figure out how to install them.
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Post by peachsmama on Jun 24, 2019 13:11:31 GMT -6
peachsmama , you only asked her to stay put until Sunday, she listened, now it's go time! As long as she listens this well when she's out! Lol.
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klong11
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Post by klong11 on Jun 24, 2019 13:15:03 GMT -6
I can't believe it's already going to be July next week. Time is going so freaking fast.
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nam2013
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Post by nam2013 on Jun 24, 2019 13:18:09 GMT -6
Oh my goodness it is 9.15 and still 85 degrees. Normally the kids are sound asleep for two hours, but dd was still screaming and singing so I got her out of bed for a late popsicle & tv. Little cutie pie was overheated and adorable:).
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nam2013
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Post by nam2013 on Jun 24, 2019 13:18:49 GMT -6
I can't believe it's already going to be July next week. Time is going so freaking fast. This! Six is approaching so fast 😭😭😭.
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Post by lahdeedah on Jun 24, 2019 13:26:39 GMT -6
M lost another tooth yesterday. He ran to my room and said that when he woke up, it was on his tongue. Lol. I forgot to get cash, but luckily MH had some. This morning when I got up for work, I went and found his glitter glue t but tooth fairy dust on it and stick it under his pillow. Almost had a mom fail there. Lol
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