hawkward
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Post by hawkward on Jun 27, 2017 15:52:39 GMT -6
Does anyone still do the "why did THEY get kids" thing?
We're at DS1's gym class, and there are parents who are yelling at and mocking their three kids, threatening to spank, etc. It got so bad the coach stopped the class and told them they needed to stop talking like that. They're still doing it, it's just quieter. Their middle child would be Adair's age.
Most of the time I feel pretty zen about how everything turned out, but some days I feel like I'll never not be mad at the universe.
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Post by cavewmn on Jun 27, 2017 20:23:00 GMT -6
I don't think it ever fully goes away. At least not for me. Crappy people always a trigger.
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Post by oldbaylover1024 on Jun 28, 2017 10:46:22 GMT -6
You are not alone. It hits home especially when I see a child around my angel's ages. Unfortunately, some folks don't know how lucky they are.
I'm sorry you had to see that. I'd be upset, too.
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Post by unringthebell on Jun 29, 2017 14:29:09 GMT -6
Late, but yes. And I'm sorry those people were acting like that. Good for the coach for saying something (even if it barely helped).
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hawkward
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Post by hawkward on Jun 29, 2017 15:37:52 GMT -6
Late, but yes. And I'm sorry those people were acting like that. Good for the coach for saying something (even if it barely helped). He is so wonderful. We were very lucky to find him. |
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Post by elsiemae on Jun 30, 2017 8:20:23 GMT -6
I struggle with this as well sometimes. It seems to be worse when I'm not in the best frame of mind. I find that I really get these feelings around milestones.
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Post by wickedcandy on Jun 30, 2017 13:32:54 GMT -6
All the Fucking time...
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Post by lizblue on Jul 4, 2017 19:41:07 GMT -6
It actually hits harder now. Less often but way harder- I also feel mostly zen about how it is but every once in awhile it's a sucker punch to the gut.
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