cagoldi
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Post by cagoldi on May 3, 2019 8:48:08 GMT -6
I move we nominate inthekitty as itinerant leader of the women’s revolution. |
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vino
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Post by vino on May 3, 2019 8:53:14 GMT -6
Safe travels mwhip . I hear you wedding . That kind of shit with men is so frustrating. And I'm over the BS that's been fed to women that they just need to communicate their wishes more. No. They live in the house too and can clearly see what needs to be done. This isn't an extra special request. 😒 Preach, girl. And what if I plain just don’t enjoy feeling like a Goddamn nag? Believe it or not, I actually don’t love the sound of my own voice repeatedly asking for you to take out the trash. I cannot even count how many times I've said this. I want shit to get done and the living beings in the house to think for themselves, I can multitask like a GD boss but sometimes I dont want to. |
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vino
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Post by vino on May 3, 2019 8:57:54 GMT -6
Morning friends.
Regular day here in the govt cubicle that I live in. I didnt get to the gym this morning and am annoyed about it, I had a shitty sleep because of needy cats and a snoring husband, why cant everyone just leave me alone!! So, hopefully I can get to the gym tonight after the kids go down.
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klong11
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Post by klong11 on May 3, 2019 9:03:36 GMT -6
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Post by peachsmama on May 3, 2019 9:10:43 GMT -6
Preach, girl. And what if I plain just don’t enjoy feeling like a Goddamn nag? Believe it or not, I actually don’t love the sound of my own voice repeatedly asking for you to take out the trash. Yep. Woman can't win either way because when they do ask they are a nag. Fuck that shit. I didn't marry a 12 yo. I shouldn't have to ask him to do chores. And peachsmama the garbage on the counter fucking infuriates me. Are you leaving the wrapper from the medicine on the counter to try to garner sympathy from me that you needed Nyquil? Because I don't give a fuck. The trash can was 1 foot away--throw it out. Although I can give MH credit that this week the chore distribution has been more equal. I think he knew that I wasn't thrilled about the house when I got home from Denver. To be fair it wasn't horrible, but you know what, this was the first time ever that I've gone away for a girl's weekend and the purpose of recharging is diminished if I have to come home to a mess to clean up. Same. Like I asked where their coats were. "well they were never hanging there" Uh that's because they wore them to the sitters the day I left. So I check my car and there's the bag of their coats and dirty pjs from Thursday morning. Now the coats smelled and everything had to be washed. Same with soccer stuff. |
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Post by xolastunicornxo on May 3, 2019 9:34:02 GMT -6
chrisy01 I meant to tell you early this week, but I got the ornament!!! Thank you so much, it’s so cute! And I’m sorry your sick. We had the plague earlier this week so I feel for you.
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chrisy01
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Post by chrisy01 on May 3, 2019 9:35:56 GMT -6
I’m super lightheaded almost passed out getting off the work shuttle
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Post by wineallthetime on May 3, 2019 9:41:09 GMT -6
Whew, boot camp was HARD today! The kids did great though and now I'm done.
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Post by wineallthetime on May 3, 2019 9:42:16 GMT -6
I’m super lightheaded almost passed out getting off the work shuttle Have you been able to eat? |
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wedding
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Post by wedding on May 3, 2019 9:45:57 GMT -6
My closest guy friend at work just asked me why I was in a bad mood so I told him all about DH's crap. He turned bright red and I said "you do all these things, don't you". He tried to give me "guys are just built different. it's engrained in us." I told him to cut the shit and help his wife out. He says "I cleaned bottles yesterday" I asked if he wanted a fucking medal. He then says "you and dh just need a date night". To which I responded "I don't even want to hear his voice right now". I am sure he is thrilled he asked me! He did offer to get me some fried chicken for lunch.
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chrisy01
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Post by chrisy01 on May 3, 2019 9:53:10 GMT -6
I’m super lightheaded almost passed out getting off the work shuttle Have you been able to eat? Very little |
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jewels
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Post by jewels on May 3, 2019 9:54:16 GMT -6
chrisy01, why are you at work?!? You should be home resting!!!
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on May 3, 2019 9:55:47 GMT -6
Have you been able to eat? Very little Go home! |
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Post by tgrimes on May 3, 2019 9:56:13 GMT -6
My closest guy friend at work just asked me why I was in a bad mood so I told him all about DH's crap. He turned bright red and I said "you do all these things, don't you". He tried to give me "guys are just built different. it's engrained in us." I told him to cut the shit and help his wife out. He says "I cleaned bottles yesterday" I asked if he wanted a fucking medal. He then says "you and dh just need a date night". To which I responded "I don't even want to hear his voice right now". I am sure he is thrilled he asked me! He did offer to get me some fried chicken for lunch. I'm laughing at fried chicken. |
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klong11
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Post by klong11 on May 3, 2019 9:56:39 GMT -6
Cadence woke up early this morning, so mh sent her into my room where she proceeded to repeatedly ask for the tv to be turned on. I told her I would turn it on when my alarm went off. It went off, I hit snooze. She asked again. No, no, that wasn't the real alarm, that was the alarm that prepares me for the real one.
Once I got up she said she was hungry. I told her I needed to get ready for work and to ask her father for food. "Oh, I can't, he's sleeping." Seriously?
So I yelled into the living room, "the girl is hungry and she wants muffins"
He got up and grabbed her mini muffins. I said her lunch still needed to be made. "Oh, I can do that." That's why I said it out loud, so you would do it. Which actually ended up me doing it because he didn't know what goes in her lunch.
He's also going to his friend's house after work to work on music and watch a movie. He'll be back late.
Did I mention he wants to start a band again? I told him if it leads to him getting back into the "hobbies" that came with his last band, then no thank you. He said it wouldn't and that this was a "serious" band, not just effing around like the last one.
Fun.
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on May 3, 2019 9:57:55 GMT -6
Fucking men.
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klong11
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Post by klong11 on May 3, 2019 9:58:36 GMT -6
My officemate is out today. Her daughter started vomiting last night. She got a text from a school mom this morning saying 12 kids AND the teacher are out with a stomach bug today. She said this is what happens when they go on fieldtrips. Uh...
So I'm sitting in my quiet office watching this month's installment of Into the Dark on hulu.
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Post by peachsmama on May 3, 2019 10:11:06 GMT -6
My closest guy friend at work just asked me why I was in a bad mood so I told him all about DH's crap. He turned bright red and I said "you do all these things, don't you". He tried to give me "guys are just built different. it's engrained in us." I told him to cut the shit and help his wife out. He says "I cleaned bottles yesterday" I asked if he wanted a fucking medal. He then says "you and dh just need a date night". To which I responded "I don't even want to hear his voice right now". I am sure he is thrilled he asked me! He did offer to get me some fried chicken for lunch. Hopefully some sunk in and his wife will be grateful lol. |
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Post by peachsmama on May 3, 2019 10:12:40 GMT -6
Seems to be a day of stupid behavior/conversations for them.. |
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on May 3, 2019 10:15:12 GMT -6
Seems to be a day of stupid behavior/conversations for them.. A day? More like a lifetime... |
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cagoldi
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Post by cagoldi on May 3, 2019 10:16:31 GMT -6
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chrisy01
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Post by chrisy01 on May 3, 2019 10:23:34 GMT -6
I’m home
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klong11
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Post by klong11 on May 3, 2019 10:28:46 GMT -6
I hope you start feeling better chrisy01! |
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Post by peachsmama on May 3, 2019 10:29:14 GMT -6
Go straight to bed. Do not pass go. Do not collect children. |
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Post by slenle on May 3, 2019 10:30:16 GMT -6
My friends garage sale started at 7am and I got there at 715 to help. It was absolutely nuts until 9:30 and i stayed until it was finally slow at 11. And it was only 40 degrees so now I have a chill i can’t shake.
The kids were supposed to stay at my parents last night but n felt sick when I took them there, so I brought her back home and H stayed. Then my mom came here at 7 this morning so i could go which was so nice of her.
I’m catching the kids’ cold so I might try and sneak in a nap and hope they rest this afternoon.
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vino
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Post by vino on May 3, 2019 10:36:01 GMT -6
I have a ton of the Old navy super cash codes, if you want any let me know and I can PM you the code.
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inthekitty
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Post by inthekitty on May 3, 2019 10:39:40 GMT -6
I'm laughing at your exchange with your coworker wedding. Hopefully he'll internalize something. I love how they use the excuse that they're wired differently. No, you're lazy and perfectly fine with your wife taking on the brunt of the work. Of course what you need is a date night. Because chatting and eating overpriced food while you laugh at YH's little stories is totally how the chores are going to magically get done so you don't have to do them after YH is tucked into bed after date night.  I humbly accept my role in taking over the feminist revolution. My husband already has a healthy dose of fear in his eye every time I learn a new skill in TKD or sit down to watch The Handmaid's Tale.   |
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Post by lahdeedah on May 3, 2019 10:42:22 GMT -6
Morning! wedding Not cool H. Hope your coffee has kicked in. Insomnia is the worst. mwhip Safe travels today. TGIF. Today is M’s last day of soccer at school, so I’m going to the scrimmage to see his progress. Then we have baseball and family movie night in our neighborhood where they set up a big screen projector on an empty lot and have snacks and drinks for everyone. Should be fun. Hope everyone has a good day today! I meant to tell you I saw your snap the other day with M playing Baseball, holy crap! He's really good!! You should see our T Ball games... the kids swing 3 times and miss the ball sitting right in front of them, then they connect and forget which way to run, etc. M looks like a little professional compared to what I see! Aww thanks! I have no clue how he picked it up so fast. He never really wanted to use the tee. I hope he continues to like the sport because he has natural talent. |
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cagoldi
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Post by cagoldi on May 3, 2019 10:44:41 GMT -6
I'm laughing at your exchange with your coworker wedding. Hopefully he'll internalize something. I love how they use the excuse that they're wired differently. No, you're lazy and perfectly fine with your wife taking on the brunt of the work. Of course what you need is a date night. Because chatting and eating overpriced food while you laugh at YH's little stories is totally how the chores are going to magically get done so you don't have to do them after YH is tucked into bed after date night. I humbly accept my role in taking over the feminist revolution. My husband already has a healthy dose of fear in his eye every time I learn a new skill in TKD or sit down to watch The Handmaid's Tale. You’d get on real well with the anarchists, just saying. |
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Post by wineallthetime on May 3, 2019 10:56:42 GMT -6
Cadence woke up early this morning, so mh sent her into my room where she proceeded to repeatedly ask for the tv to be turned on. I told her I would turn it on when my alarm went off. It went off, I hit snooze. She asked again. No, no, that wasn't the real alarm, that was the alarm that prepares me for the real one. Once I got up she said she was hungry. I told her I needed to get ready for work and to ask her father for food. "Oh, I can't, he's sleeping." Seriously? So I yelled into the living room, "the girl is hungry and she wants muffins" He got up and grabbed her mini muffins. I said her lunch still needed to be made. "Oh, I can do that." That's why I said it out loud, so you would do it. Which actually ended up me doing it because he didn't know what goes in her lunch. He's also going to his friend's house after work to work on music and watch a movie. He'll be back late. Did I mention he wants to start a band again? I told him if it leads to him getting back into the "hobbies" that came with his last band, then no thank you. He said it wouldn't and that this was a "serious" band, not just effing around like the last one. Fun. "Hobbies" like drugs/alcohol I assume? |
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