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Post by sarahandben108 on Feb 14, 2019 18:14:55 GMT -6
And I found a bouquet of flowers when I came home... someone is feeling guilty.
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Post by bethkate on Feb 14, 2019 18:28:02 GMT -6
Lots of asshole husbands today, huh? Fantastic.
Mine sat on his ass watching tv while i finished making dinner. Then, after dinner, he sat there again while I cleaned up, did the dishes, and tried to keep E from melting down. I commented that it was his turn to give her a bath because I was busy, but he didn’t move. Finally, when i was done in the kitchen, I did her bath, bottle, and bed.
He had the nerve to ask about sexy time, so I was like, “Did you help me with anything tonight? You think that’s going to get you laid?” He just walked away and closed the door to the computer room to do homework. Whatever dude.
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Post by laurensc927 on Feb 14, 2019 20:37:32 GMT -6
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Post by laurensc927 on Feb 14, 2019 20:42:26 GMT -6
bethkate if it makes you feel better mine called on his way home from work to say don't wait for him for dinner. Seriously, I've been home sick with a stomach bug I'm not cooking for us and now you want me to cook and feed our toddler. I did the latter and he walked in with takeout, said I looked like shit, and then sat and ate while I dealt with H.
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Post by sarahandben108 on Feb 14, 2019 21:17:04 GMT -6
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Post by cakewench on Feb 15, 2019 7:36:48 GMT -6
Did everyone's H's get together for an asshole meeting last weekend or something? Major hugs, all. I'm sorry about your cat, rooskie. I think the paw print for his wallet sounds like a lovely idea. My H hasn't been too much of an ass but he didn't even get me a card yesterday (he said I have a gift coming, but that was in response to a few days ago me telling him his gift isn't shipping until 2/19 and I got the "Oh I thought we weren't..." too). He's also going through some shit at work so I'm trying to be understanding. A position he applied for previously opened back up, and it sounds like the HR director really wants him in it... if he gets what he asked for it will be a good jump in pay, but for the first month or so it would be shit hours because he's got a lot to fix and organize. So we'll see. I may also be up for a promotion next month - it would be long overdue, so if it doesn't work out I'm not sure what to do, because at that point it will be clear I have nowhere to go unless someone else leaves. One thing at a time. N's been doing well. He's been sleeping longer in the morning so we are almost off the early morning bottle. Then we just have to tackle the bedtime one, and I am not looking forward to that since his entire bedtime routine is centered around that feeding. Oops. Also, he just starts dropping food overboard when he's done. One piece at a time. And he stares at me while he does it, too, the little stinker. (Though this morning H was giving him breakfast, and N was sharing the last of his Cheerios with him, which was adorable.) Next week I'm in all day training Wed-Fri, which should be interesting.
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Post by quinn on Feb 15, 2019 8:47:04 GMT -6
Wow I'm so sorry for the shit husbands this week. I was going to tag individually but there's too many. So a big "fuck you H's" all around. rooskie Hugs ❤ cakewench AJ does the same thing. He thinks it's funny. I do not. Fx you get the promotion and things work out for your H too!
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Post by cakewench on Feb 15, 2019 8:53:14 GMT -6
quinn - oh N thinks it's hilarious. *facepalm* H and I really miss our dog, who would absolutely have planted himself next to the high chair in anticipation of raining food. And thanks!
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Post by pootsen on Feb 15, 2019 9:00:10 GMT -6
So I got my hair done yesterday and my stylist totally botched the color. It looks absolutely nothing like the photo I showed her. I wanted a blonde balayage (my natural hair color is dark blonde/light brown) and I ended up with coppery gross highlights. Ugh. I’m waiting to hear back from her to set up an appointment to fix it but I’m nervous. Idk if I should trust her to fix it or if I should just ask for a refund and go somewhere else? Anyone have any experience with this?
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Post by pootsen on Feb 15, 2019 9:00:29 GMT -6
I’m sorry about your kitty cat rooskie ❤️
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Post by pootsen on Feb 15, 2019 9:01:00 GMT -6
Also sorry for all the asshole Hs. We should all buy discount v-day chocolate today to make up for it!
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Post by quinn on Feb 15, 2019 9:21:35 GMT -6
So I got my hair done yesterday and my stylist totally botched the color. It looks absolutely nothing like the photo I showed her. I wanted a blonde balayage (my natural hair color is dark blonde/light brown) and I ended up with coppery gross highlights. Ugh. I’m waiting to hear back from her to set up an appointment to fix it but I’m nervous. Idk if I should trust her to fix it or if I should just ask for a refund and go somewhere else? Anyone have any experience with this? that happened to me years ago. I went somewhere new to get it fixed. Did they use any toner?
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Post by jules1614 on Feb 15, 2019 9:35:03 GMT -6
Sorry for the jerky H's. Junk punches to them all!
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Post by pootsen on Feb 15, 2019 9:35:09 GMT -6
So I got my hair done yesterday and my stylist totally botched the color. It looks absolutely nothing like the photo I showed her. I wanted a blonde balayage (my natural hair color is dark blonde/light brown) and I ended up with coppery gross highlights. Ugh. I’m waiting to hear back from her to set up an appointment to fix it but I’m nervous. Idk if I should trust her to fix it or if I should just ask for a refund and go somewhere else? Anyone have any experience with this? that happened to me years ago. I went somewhere new to get it fixed. Did they use any toner? Yes she did. And it still looks super brassy.
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Post by jules1614 on Feb 15, 2019 9:36:31 GMT -6
pootsen, I think it would depend on the stylist. If it was someone I went to all the time and felt confident in I would let her try to fix it. If it was just a random person definitely not. Also, did she admit the color turned out wrong? That would influence my decision too.
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Post by quinn on Feb 15, 2019 9:48:27 GMT -6
that happened to me years ago. I went somewhere new to get it fixed. Did they use any toner? Yes she did. And it still looks super brassy. From my experience, I would go someplace else.
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Post by laurensc927 on Feb 15, 2019 10:21:16 GMT -6
pootsen , I think it would depend on the stylist. If it was someone I went to all the time and felt confident in I would let her try to fix it. If it was just a random person definitely not. Also, did she admit the color turned out wrong? That would influence my decision too. pootsen +1 to this
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Post by grumpycat on Feb 15, 2019 10:51:02 GMT -6
that happened to me years ago. I went somewhere new to get it fixed. Did they use any toner? Yes she did. And it still looks super brassy. I'd go somewhere else. I'm very untrusting with hair coloring though lol.
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Post by rooskie on Feb 15, 2019 11:05:54 GMT -6
Also sorry for all the asshole Hs. We should all buy discount v-day chocolate today to make up for it! I'm tempted to go look for discount flowers today too.
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Post by pootsen on Feb 15, 2019 11:09:55 GMT -6
pootsen, I think it would depend on the stylist. If it was someone I went to all the time and felt confident in I would let her try to fix it. If it was just a random person definitely not. Also, did she admit the color turned out wrong? That would influence my decision too. I’ve been going to her forever. I thought I loved her but now come to think of it, she didn’t give me that great of a cut last time* but I just dealt with it. She’s been okay on color in the past but this just looks terrible. I talked to her and she can’t get me back in until 2/25. Ugh- is it out of line for me to call back, ask for a refund, and just go somewhere else?
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Post by jules1614 on Feb 15, 2019 11:21:35 GMT -6
pootsen, I think it would depend on the stylist. If it was someone I went to all the time and felt confident in I would let her try to fix it. If it was just a random person definitely not. Also, did she admit the color turned out wrong? That would influence my decision too. I’ve been going to her forever. I thought I loved her but now come to think of it, she didn’t give me that great of a cut last night but I just dealt with it. She’s been okay on color in the past but this just looks terrible. I talked to her and she can’t get me back in until 2/25. Ugh- is it out of line for me to call back, ask for a refund, and just go somewhere else? Nope, not in my opinion. The owner might want to see it but I wouldn't want to go 10days with bad color. I'd definitely call and ask. I've also heard of people disputing the charge if you paid with a credit card if they refuse to refund you but hopefully it doesn't come to that.
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Post by grumpycat on Feb 15, 2019 12:12:30 GMT -6
pootsen, I think it would depend on the stylist. If it was someone I went to all the time and felt confident in I would let her try to fix it. If it was just a random person definitely not. Also, did she admit the color turned out wrong? That would influence my decision too. I’ve been going to her forever. I thought I loved her but now come to think of it, she didn’t give me that great of a cut last time* but I just dealt with it. She’s been okay on color in the past but this just looks terrible. I talked to her and she can’t get me back in until 2/25. Ugh- is it out of line for me to call back, ask for a refund, and just go somewhere else? IMO she should be fixing it within 3 days max. And if that wasn't possible, I would be talking to the owner to either have someone else fix it for free or getting a refund.
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Post by pootsen on Feb 15, 2019 12:35:40 GMT -6
I’ve been going to her forever. I thought I loved her but now come to think of it, she didn’t give me that great of a cut last time* but I just dealt with it. She’s been okay on color in the past but this just looks terrible. I talked to her and she can’t get me back in until 2/25. Ugh- is it out of line for me to call back, ask for a refund, and just go somewhere else? IMO she should be fixing it within 3 days max. And if that wasn't possible, I would be talking to the owner to either have someone else fix it for free or getting a refund. I called back and asked to see someone else who specializes in color correction within the next few days or just give me a refund. They got me in with someone on Monday night. Thanks for helping me adult, guys! I feel like such a dweeb about this but gah every time I look at my hair, I just hate it.
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Post by grumpycat on Feb 15, 2019 12:38:27 GMT -6
IMO she should be fixing it within 3 days max. And if that wasn't possible, I would be talking to the owner to either have someone else fix it for free or getting a refund. I called back and asked to see someone else who specializes in color correction within the next few days or just give me a refund. They got me in with someone on Monday night. Thanks for helping me adult, guys! I feel like such a dweeb about this but gah every time I look at my hair, I just hate it. Most good salons have satisfaction within reason policies. From what you've described, it's not even close to what you asked for. If she couldn't do it or didn't think it was possible, she needed to communicate with you or find you a stylist that could. My friend is a trained stylist and color is his specialty. Getting your hair done is $$$, you deserve to be happy!!
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Post by blabbermouth on Feb 15, 2019 21:57:54 GMT -6
Sorry for the crap hair pootsen! I don't love the last colour I got either, sounds like something similar to yours 😣 but it's pretty subtle so it's not offensive, but also cost an arm and a leg and a hand and so I wish it was more noticeable. Sorry for the crappy DHs everyone. I had zero expectations so I wasn't disappointed and I didn't do anything for DH either. But some of those sound like crappy nights at the best of times 😣
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Post by laurensc927 on Feb 16, 2019 6:56:18 GMT -6
Morning, still laying in bed. My parents took H overnight and are taking him to Gymboree today 🙌. Gonna try to hit up Target and the grocery store before he comes back.
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Post by bethkate on Feb 16, 2019 7:07:02 GMT -6
Two years ago today was my embryo transfer for E. I’ve had a cold for a week, and I thought I was getting better, but I woke up really congested today. I’m running a half marathon tomorrow, so I really need to feel better!
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Post by bethkate on Feb 16, 2019 7:07:19 GMT -6
Morning, still laying in bed. My parents took H overnight and are taking him to Gymboree today 🙌. Gonna try to hit up Target and the grocery store before he comes back. That sounds like a great Saturday!
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Post by laurensc927 on Feb 16, 2019 7:12:00 GMT -6
Two years ago today was my embryo transfer for E. I’ve had a cold for a week, and I thought I was getting better, but I woke up really congested today. I’m running a half marathon tomorrow, so I really need to feel better! Happy transfer day!!
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Post by jules1614 on Feb 16, 2019 7:27:01 GMT -6
I plan to run some errands and then our friend is coming over with his little baby. I finally get to meet him (he was in the NICU and I've been sick). He's coming while the other two will hopefully be napping so I should get uninterrupted baby snuggles! Tonight I'm going to a fancy dinner with friends, my H has to work so my mom is babysitting. I'm looking forward to steak and martinis 😁
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