February 11 randoms

[king26]

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[king26]

I think J is feeling better. He woke up at 5 again but at least he wasnt sick. He also woke up starving at midnight so i gave him a big cup of milk. I guess it was just a 24 hour thing. That was nasty so im glad he is feeling better.
We have a 3 hour delay at school. While these are great because i basically have free time all day, i was supposed to be observed by my boss. This is the second observation we have cancelled because of snow. It sucks.

[pennylane]

Glad to hear J is feeling better king26!

[jt2378]

Yay, what a relief about J king26! Sorry about work. That’s frustrating.

[jt2378]

D1 has been something the last couple weeks. I’m struggling with her behavior and really hope it’s just a phase and not the new norm. She has been so emotional, acting out and giving us a hard time on every little thing. The new thing is she doesn’t want to go to preschool. This has never happened. Even the teachers said she has been different in the last month or so. She did miss a ton of January with sickness so maybe it’s just from being out of the routine or 4 year old being 4 but damn I’m over it. Of course next week is closed for February break so that is shitty timing.

[Deleted]

That’s tough jt2378. I’ve heard that 4 is tough, especially since they now are old enough to understand what’s expected of them. But they love to test the boundaries. Does she say why she doesn’t want to go to school?

[thinkchocolate05]

king26. Yay! So glad he is better.

jt2378 Ugh. That is so hard. It's funny you say that, though, bc the last month or so my four year old has been acting out as well. He has been hitting me and his brother alot and throwing things when he gets mad. I would guess a lot of it is the age, and I bet being out of routine has got to her.

[king26]

J did well all day. Didnt eat much but was ok. In the last hour he has thrown up twice...on me both times. Im just done. I have him sitting on a towel on my lap watching TV because im just done.

[jt2378]

Omg king26, that’s horrible, I’m sorry.

Thanks ladies, now I feel bad because she came home saying she was tired and had a fever ugh. I really hope it’s not the flu 😭

[king26]

Feb 11, 2019 19:35:05 GMT -6 jt2378 said:

Omg king26, that’s horrible, I’m sorry.

Thanks ladies, now I feel bad because she came home saying she was tired and had a fever ugh. I really hope it’s not the flu 😭

Oh no! Your poor kids have had a lot of illness this winter. I hope she feels better soon!!

[addymac]

Oh jt2378 poor girl. I hope she’s feeling better today?
And J, too king26.

After one of the worst nights sleep in a while Sunday night, N STTN last night. SO needed and thankful. I felt somewhat rested this morning. Of course I could easily roll over and sleep for another 57 hours but ya know.

[yellowcat]

jt2378 I swear my 2 1/2 yearold has the attitude of a teenager. She and J are begging to live on the street! I am pretty sure they have allergies again, in February wtf! I am so sick of all the rain, then 20 degrees then 70 degrees. None of the mold outside does and then it flares up and we are screwed. I need to leave the south. I am pretty sure this is why J isn't sleeping.

I let loss on my H today I am pretty close to telling him to leave until he gets his shit in order but I can't until I find a relative or friend who can come help me with the kids. I hope I am just overreacting here but I am seriously over whatever his issues are...

[jt2378]

I’m sorry yellowcat with whatever is going on with YH. I can’t imagine how stressful that is with the kids. Hugs and I hope things get better soon.

[Deleted]

Sorry for the husband troubles yellowcat. You definitely need all hands on deck with the newborn! Hope he pulls it together.

[king26]

yellowcat im sorry you are having issues with your H. I hope you can work them out.

[thinkchocolate05]

I hope things get better for you yellowcat. Sounds so stressful, and I bet you are getting no sleep with the newborn.

[yellowcat]

Thanks guys. He admitted he has been being an ass and even came home early today. Granted he is out of town all next week so we will see if things improve when he gets home. I was feeling guilty about two work trips I have coming up in March and June but not anymore!

[addymac]

Oh yellowcat I’m sorry. I’m glad he apologized and made an effort, I hope it sticks.

[king26]

So J now has horrid diarrhea . Im talking all up his back, all over the clothes, all over me nd dh. So 2 days of puking, 3 days of not eating, now 2 days of diarrhea. He cant catch a break!

[jt2378]

Feb 15, 2019 11:27:48 GMT -6 king26 said:

So J now has horrid diarrhea . Im talking all up his back, all over the clothes, all over me nd dh. So 2 days of puking, 3 days of not eating, now 2 days of diarrhea. He cant catch a break!

Poor thing, hope he feels better! And poor you. Have you and YH been spared?! 🤞

[pennylane]

king26 Oh man, poor J.

DS spiked a high fever this afternoon, is achy and sleepy. I’m a bit worried it’s the flu. So I hope we’re not all doomed. Man, and I was going to take them out to do fun things over the long weekend.

[jt2378]

Feb 15, 2019 20:05:37 GMT -6 pennylane said:

king26 Oh man, poor J.

DS spiked a high fever this afternoon, is achy and sleepy. I’m a bit worried it’s the flu. So I hope we’re not all doomed. Man, and I was going to take them out to do fun things over the long weekend.

Poor guy, I hope it’s not the flu. We are all sick here too. A big 🖕to this Winter.

[king26]

Feb 15, 2019 13:06:59 GMT -6 jt2378 said:

Feb 15, 2019 11:27:48 GMT -6 king26 said:

So J now has horrid diarrhea . Im talking all up his back, all over the clothes, all over me nd dh. So 2 days of puking, 3 days of not eating, now 2 days of diarrhea. He cant catch a break!

Poor thing, hope he feels better! And poor you. Have you and YH been spared?! 🤞

I have but dh just got it yesterday and is a mess. I work with kids all day so my immune system is pretty good

[king26]

Feb 15, 2019 20:05:37 GMT -6 pennylane said:

king26 Oh man, poor J.

DS spiked a high fever this afternoon, is achy and sleepy. I’m a bit worried it’s the flu. So I hope we’re not all doomed. Man, and I was going to take them out to do fun things over the long weekend.

Oh no. I hope its not the flu and that he feels better soon

[king26]

Feb 15, 2019 20:24:27 GMT -6 jt2378 said:

Feb 15, 2019 20:05:37 GMT -6 pennylane said:

king26 Oh man, poor J.

DS spiked a high fever this afternoon, is achy and sleepy. I’m a bit worried it’s the flu. So I hope we’re not all doomed. Man, and I was going to take them out to do fun things over the long weekend.

Poor guy, I hope it’s not the flu. We are all sick here too. A big 🖕to this Winter.

Oh no. I hope you all feel better quickly

[Deleted]

king26, jt2378, ‘pennylane, I’m sorry you all have the plagues in your life! I hope you get well quickly and this be it for the winter. Some of you have had more than your share.

[Deleted]

A is getting to be so aware and picking up everything we’re doing now. It’s so cool to see firsthand like this. Makes up for the constant whining and crying I guess. Lol I’m looking forward to him having language to tell me what’s wrong, instead of crying.

[addymac]

@easilyunamused agreed! It’s so fun to see them figuring things out. But man oh man I wish he was picking up language faster. His tantrums and inability to communicate properly are really wearing us all down these days.

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Feb 16, 2019 13:02:17 GMT -6 addymac said:

@easilyunamused agreed! It’s so fun to see them figuring things out. But man oh man I wish he was picking up language faster. His tantrums and inability to communicate properly are really wearing us all down these days.

Seriously. I’m not even asking for a whole day of no whining. A half a day even would be enough.

[yellowcat]

@starzia we had a talk images getting better. But I don't think anything will really be solved until he isn't so depressed I figured out what to do about work. It just sucks because he is a good dad and a good person it's just I'm frustrated.