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Post by orangehibiscus on Feb 10, 2019 13:52:48 GMT -6
Also...this may be a dumb question, but what sort of bag are y’all using for your hospital bag? I bought a cheap weekend bag to use last time so I might bring it again, it's big enough that it would fit my pillow in it. Otherwise I have a Thirty One bag I'll be using as a diaper bag this time that I thought about using too because it's a little smaller. Once I get around to actually collecting everything together to pack I'll decide which one I need, lol. Good to know! That’s a good point though. I need to gather everything and then see what bag I need to fit all of it 😂
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Post by Yogurt on Feb 10, 2019 13:57:01 GMT -6
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Post by bex15 on Feb 10, 2019 14:18:51 GMT -6
Have you used the one linked here or if not, do you have a recommendation?
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Post by orangehibiscus on Feb 10, 2019 14:21:45 GMT -6
Gotcha! Thanks for the link Yogurt! My H is a bit worried about wearing the baby. He is wary of knots in the material being responsible for holding her in. Do your H’s/SO wear the baby? If so, do they use a different wrap/sling than you do?
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Post by Yogurt on Feb 10, 2019 14:22:14 GMT -6
Have you used the one linked here or if not, do you have a recommendation? I've used a bibbetts ring sling before. They are very inexpensive and fine. Nice quality. Might not be as supportive for a bigger baby, but it is linen, so maybe. I'd check the babywearing on a budget Facebook group for great deals on second hand ones first.
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Post by Yogurt on Feb 10, 2019 14:23:07 GMT -6
Gotcha! Thanks for the link Yogurt! My H is a bit worried about wearing the baby. He is wary of knots in the material being responsible for holding her in. Do your H’s/SO wear the baby? If so, do they use a different wrap/sling than you do? My h wont baby wear. Just would rather carry the baby. He's not interested. I bought him an ergo last time and he never used it. Ever.
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Post by orangehibiscus on Feb 10, 2019 14:25:09 GMT -6
Gotcha! Thanks for the link Yogurt! My H is a bit worried about wearing the baby. He is wary of knots in the material being responsible for holding her in. Do your H’s/SO wear the baby? If so, do they use a different wrap/sling than you do? My h wont baby wear. Just would rather carry the baby. He's not interested. I bought him an ergo last time and he never used it. Ever. My H probably won’t end up wearing her either, which is totally fine.
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Post by pambee on Feb 10, 2019 14:29:24 GMT -6
MH loved wearing our daughter but we only had structured carriers. I had a cheaper infantino one when she was smaller and then a Tula. I'd like a wrap this time so I'm not sure how he'll do with that but he hasn't said he's opposed to it.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 10, 2019 14:47:01 GMT -6
I am in the STM+ club of people who forgot everything. What do I need to put in the diaper bag? I have some nb diapers, wipes, a change of clothes and some hand sanitizer. I know I'm forgetting things. Burp cloths!
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Post by orangehibiscus on Feb 10, 2019 14:50:11 GMT -6
MH loved wearing our daughter but we only had structured carriers. I had a cheaper infantino one when she was smaller and then a Tula. I'd like a wrap this time so I'm not sure how he'll do with that but he hasn't said he's opposed to it. What kind of carrier did your H use? I think my H would be more open to the idea of wearing her in something with more structure.
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Post by pambee on Feb 10, 2019 15:00:08 GMT -6
MH loved wearing our daughter but we only had structured carriers. I had a cheaper infantino one when she was smaller and then a Tula. I'd like a wrap this time so I'm not sure how he'll do with that but he hasn't said he's opposed to it. What kind of carrier did your H use? I think my H would be more open to the idea of wearing her in something with more structure. He preferred the infantino, the one we have is the Fusion ( infantino.com/products/fusion ) He thought it was more comfortable, I preferred the Tula when she was stable enough.
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Post by orangehibiscus on Feb 10, 2019 15:06:58 GMT -6
What kind of carrier did your H use? I think my H would be more open to the idea of wearing her in something with more structure. He preferred the infantino, the one we have is the Fusion ( infantino.com/products/fusion ) He thought it was more comfortable, I preferred the Tula when she was stable enough. Thanks for the link! I’ll show this to my H and see if he is interested in using this carrier.
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Post by pambee on Feb 10, 2019 15:12:57 GMT -6
He preferred the infantino, the one we have is the Fusion ( infantino.com/products/fusion ) He thought it was more comfortable, I preferred the Tula when she was stable enough. Thanks for the link! I’ll show this to my H and see if he is interested in using this carrier. If you have a target or buy buy baby nearby they usually have different ones out on display. It's hard to tell without a baby in it how you'll really like it, but it helps to be able to see/touch it in person. I was gifted the infantino one and we tried it out with our dog before E was born, too 😂
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Post by Tlex on Feb 10, 2019 15:14:10 GMT -6
MH loved wearing our daughter but we only had structured carriers. I had a cheaper infantino one when she was smaller and then a Tula. I'd like a wrap this time so I'm not sure how he'll do with that but he hasn't said he's opposed to it. MH likes the wrap if I do it for him, and make sure it’s super snug. He just can’t build up confidence with that. He loves using the ergo though and as soon as that’s an option he’s a baby-wearing hog. My friend just loaned me her Solly wrap so I’m looking forward to trying that! I love wrapping newborns and having them all snuggled in close. 😍
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Post by Tlex on Feb 10, 2019 15:24:18 GMT -6
I have 9 days on the calendar until Baby day! I want each last one of them though, I’m very sentimental about this pregnancy (although.... I’m also DONE... I can be both lol).
I have to set up the RNP in our room, move the Moses basket/rocker to the living room, and put the swing in the playroom. I usually make a portable diaper changing basket that I keep in each room too so I don’t have to get up and down a lot the first couple weeks after my c section. I think I will keep his clothes down here too, they’re all KM folded in storage baskets.
My hospital bag is ready except for my daily use items I throw in when it’s time to go, and I packed the diaper bag with clothes and blankets for baby. We have to give all the car seats a good vacuum and install them, but I think we might wait for the big 3 across install because when my dad comes he rents an SUV and we’ll probably have the girls seats in his car while he’s here since he’ll do school runs for me.
I haven’t made much progress on the meal prep front, but I don’t have a chest freezer like I used to use so I feel like maybe I just have to rethink freezer meals and plan to send DH/my dad out for easy premade stuff. My dad is an awesome cook too so maybe I just need to give him carte blanche.
I bought wipes at Costco today and thought omg I buy these all the time but these are for a butt I’ve never wiped before! Can’t wait to meet him.
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Post by orangehibiscus on Feb 10, 2019 15:38:24 GMT -6
The closest Target is about 2 hours away pambee. BBB is super far away. I’m sure we’ll be up near Target again before the baby is born. Eeek! So close Tlex! Sounds like you’ve got almost everything ready though!
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Post by pambee on Feb 10, 2019 15:59:46 GMT -6
Eeep 9 days!!
And I had to laugh because earlier I was telling MH how baby was shoving his butt into my ribs but that it was okay because I bet it was a really cute butt 😂
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Post by pambee on Feb 10, 2019 16:01:16 GMT -6
Does anyone have recs on where to buy cheap, comfy, loose lounge pants? I feel like I never go shopping and I don't want to spend a ton on what will essentially become pjs, but need to look presentable enough for the hospital and early visitors.
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Post by grover on Feb 10, 2019 16:08:31 GMT -6
Also...this may be a dumb question, but what sort of bag are y’all using for your hospital bag? We used our carry on luggage I think last time, only because we thought the wheels would be easier.
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Post by grover on Feb 10, 2019 16:11:30 GMT -6
Gotcha! Thanks for the link Yogurt ! My H is a bit worried about wearing the baby. He is wary of knots in the material being responsible for holding her in. Do your H’s/SO wear the baby? If so, do they use a different wrap/sling than you do? We registered for a plain black Lillebaby carrier, and he was resistant at first, but there are days that A will carry it to him and say "daddy up". He resisted until we found out that during witching hour, it would settle her down and he could still play video games LOL. I'd go down to the basement and he'd be standing up, wearing her on his chest and she'd fall asleep while he stood and played. He tells her now she's a big girl and doesn't need to be worn, but it does (front/back/hip) carry to like 40 or 45 pounds, which she's no where near meeting yet. But, I don't know if it's laziness on his part, or if he's thinking ahead to having the twins.
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Post by photomama2013 on Feb 10, 2019 16:12:30 GMT -6
We have a boba structured carrier that my H will use. It's not his favorite, but he will use it. He loves the osprey poco pack for hiking once they are big enough. Tlex a friend lent me a solly wrap this time too. I'm excited. I also got a k'tan for quick convenience. I love snugging tiny babes too.
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Post by pambee on Feb 10, 2019 16:12:49 GMT -6
Gotcha! Thanks for the link Yogurt ! My H is a bit worried about wearing the baby. He is wary of knots in the material being responsible for holding her in. Do your H’s/SO wear the baby? If so, do they use a different wrap/sling than you do? We registered for a plain black Lillebaby carrier, and he was resistant at first, but there are days that A will carry it to him and say "daddy up". He resisted until we found out that during witching hour, it would settle her down and he could still play video games LOL. I'd go down to the basement and he'd be standing up, wearing her on his chest and she'd fall asleep while he stood and played. He tells her now she's a big girl and doesn't need to be worn, but it does (front/back/hip) carry to like 40 or 45 pounds, which she's no where near meeting yet. But, I don't know if it's laziness on his part, or if he's thinking ahead to having the twins. Oh my gosh this reminded me that MH did the same 😂 anytime she was fussy he'd throw her in it, she'd pass out, and he'd start playing video games, haha.
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Post by grover on Feb 10, 2019 16:28:59 GMT -6
pambee, I loved it, because baby would stop fussing and nap, I'd get time to myself, and H was happy bc he was playing games LOL He's a little overboard now with all the hours he's been putting into the games, claiming he'll never be able to play again once the boys are here.
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Post by orangehibiscus on Feb 10, 2019 16:36:05 GMT -6
That’s a great idea to use a carry on suitcase grover. I will check out that baby carrier too. So funny that it calmed your baby down and your H could still play video games!
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Post by Tlex on Feb 10, 2019 16:37:59 GMT -6
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Post by pambee on Feb 10, 2019 17:34:28 GMT -6
Ooh they look great. Thanks!
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Post by bex15 on Feb 10, 2019 18:26:00 GMT -6
I’m planning to breastfeed so not really sure what I will need as far as bottles, etc. if anyone can help. Also, pacifier recommendations?
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Post by jewelsofthenile on Feb 10, 2019 18:49:00 GMT -6
I’m planning to breastfeed so not really sure what I will need as far as bottles, etc. if anyone can help. Also, pacifier recommendations? do you plan on working after maternity leave? Then you will need 12 bottles or more. I have only used the medala bottles because i can pump into them at work. My kids have gotten their first bottle around 3 weeks old. They havent been picky as far a bottles go. I hope this baby will be similar because I am planning on using the same bottles. A lot of people buy all different types of bottles to see what the baby will take best. My kids havent been picky in that regard. Pacifers... not sure i have bought all types. Usually it one of the things my husband picks up right after we get home sometimes they like the soothies from the hospital sometimes not.
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Post by pambee on Feb 10, 2019 18:56:45 GMT -6
I’m planning to breastfeed so not really sure what I will need as far as bottles, etc. if anyone can help. Also, pacifier recommendations? Are you going back to work? If not you don't need many bottles, but it's nice to have a few so dad can give a bottle or for when you're away. Babies can be picky so I wouldn't buy a ton or open them in advance, but try one at a time so you don't waste them. We got lucky and E took to the first brand we tried which was Tommee Tippee. We used the soothies as pacifiers and I'm not sure why other than we had them. We had some nuk ones too but she wouldn't keep those in her mouth as well. I liked that the soothies have the hole you can stick your finger in basically to hold it in their mouth until they latch on to it, lol. Eta- especially for bf babes get the slowest flow nipples, I've heard some ladies struggle with the higher flow ones because then baby doesn't have to work as hard with bottles and gets lazy on the breast/starts to prefer bottles.
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Post by bex15 on Feb 10, 2019 19:37:31 GMT -6
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