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Post by angelashly on Feb 20, 2019 8:18:19 GMT -6
First off Tristan is 27 not mid 30s. So no it doesn't make it better, but he isn't that much older than Jordyn.
And yes been in my 20s and absolutely did some stupidAF stuff, but never in all my years of getting sloppyAF drunk would I have ever messed around with my best friend's man or her sisters
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Post by icedcoffee on Feb 20, 2019 8:20:21 GMT -6
I'm okay having the unpopular opinion here. Ultimately, Jordyn was not in a relationship with Khloe. Tristan was. He needs to be loyal to Khloe. Jordyn doesn't owe her that. Is it shitty? Absolutely. Is it poor character? Sure. But we don't know the situation or what Tristan says to all these women. I would not do this now, but i did a lot of dumb shit in my early 20s that would horrify me to do now. Tristan is old enough and in a relationship and should know better. I just can't get on board with just writing Jordyn off immediately. 🤷♀️ WHAT???? you don't think your friends owe you loyalty? Someone you brought in your family and treated as a sister? Maybe this is why I don't have friends IRL I'm not saying that at all. But ultimately I would blame my man for cheating, not the other woman no matter who it was. Would I wanna stay friends with them? Nope. But I don't see forgiving the man and not the woman 🤷♀️ this may be a moot point anyways cuz maybe she won't take him back this time. But I think she will. |
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Post by thatgolfb on Feb 20, 2019 8:25:21 GMT -6
but she took him back and it would look flaky to dump him because of another random girl. The last fling had to "hurt" :she hypothesized:  Is this Buzz from home alone? It totally is, isn’t it? |
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Post by icedcoffee on Feb 20, 2019 8:25:51 GMT -6
I'm okay having the unpopular opinion here. Ultimately, Jordyn was not in a relationship with Khloe. Tristan was. He needs to be loyal to Khloe. Jordyn doesn't owe her that. Is it shitty? Absolutely. Is it poor character? Sure. But we don't know the situation or what Tristan says to all these women. I would not do this now, but i did a lot of dumb shit in my early 20s that would horrify me to do now. Tristan is old enough and in a relationship and should know better. I just can't get on board with just writing Jordyn off immediately. 🤷♀️ I think every person gets to decide that for themselves. So I wouldn't think you were wrong for handling it differently. I'm just saying if someone close to me was doing this, I can't say I would be above it enough to not be blinded by rage. Even if it is known he is a cheater. All I'm saying is that I feel for Kylie the most and understand if she didn't want to write off Jordyn immediately. I don't blame Khloe or anyone else if they choose to |
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Post by angelashly on Feb 20, 2019 8:27:23 GMT -6
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Post by thatgolfb on Feb 20, 2019 8:32:26 GMT -6
Is this Buzz from home alone? It totally is, isn’t it? Quoting myself because I had a missed opportunity for “Buzz, your tin foil hat, woof” comment |
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Post by ArielMermaid on Feb 20, 2019 8:35:10 GMT -6
Yeah, that’s why I’m shruggy guy about all this. He’s been cheating this whole time but now it’s too far? I mean, I get it was someone on the Lardashian radar but like, the other however many women were forgivable? I'll bite. I do think that someone random for some people maybe easier to get over than someone close. Someone random can be explained away as an intoxicated thing plus also she was giving birth so I give her some grace, but someone close shows not only the obvious disrespect that cheating means, but it is a boundary crossed that is even more great than some random chick in the bar I don't know. I don't know if it is right, but it is how I feel. I too have stuck around after early in relationship cheating. Granted it only happened once not multiple times like Tristan, but I do think it is possible to stay and then have another incident happen and still feel blindsided. Add in that it is someone you have had in your family for as long as you can remember. I think I’m stuck because I feel like cheating while your girl is going into labor is a pretty huge offense that was forgiven, I can’t even imagine that. He’s already been so extremely shitty. |
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Post by angelashly on Feb 20, 2019 8:35:21 GMT -6
I think every person gets to decide that for themselves. So I wouldn't think you were wrong for handling it differently. I'm just saying if someone close to me was doing this, I can't say I would be above it enough to not be blinded by rage. Even if it is known he is a cheater. All I'm saying is that I feel for Kylie the most and understand if she didn't want to write off Jordyn immediately. I don't blame Khloe or anyone else if they choose to I feel sorry for Kylie for sure and yes probably the most because being betrayed by the friend you were as close to as your sisters it is going to be the hardest. |
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Post by angelashly on Feb 20, 2019 8:36:57 GMT -6
I'll bite. I do think that someone random for some people maybe easier to get over than someone close. Someone random can be explained away as an intoxicated thing plus also she was giving birth so I give her some grace, but someone close shows not only the obvious disrespect that cheating means, but it is a boundary crossed that is even more great than some random chick in the bar I don't know. I don't know if it is right, but it is how I feel. I too have stuck around after early in relationship cheating. Granted it only happened once not multiple times like Tristan, but I do think it is possible to stay and then have another incident happen and still feel blindsided. Add in that it is someone you have had in your family for as long as you can remember. I think I’m stuck because I feel like cheating while your girl is going into labor is a pretty huge offense that was forgiven, I can’t even imagine that. He’s already been so extremely shitty. But the cheating happened before I believe it just got released around the time of the birth. I agree with you that in my life now I don't know that I could stay with so if he cheated. We also have to look at Khloe's state. She doesn't have the best self confidence no matter what she tries to put out there. She is also loyal to a fault see Lamar. |
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Post by ArielMermaid on Feb 20, 2019 8:37:38 GMT -6
Wait, I’m confused! 😂 She’s the one getting cut off though right?! |
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Post by ArielMermaid on Feb 20, 2019 8:39:12 GMT -6
I think I’m stuck because I feel like cheating while your girl is going into labor is a pretty huge offense that was forgiven, I can’t even imagine that. He’s already been so extremely shitty. But the cheating happened before I believe it just got released around the time of the birth. I agree with you that in my life now I don't know that I could stay with so if he cheated. We also have to look at Khloe's state. She doesn't have the best self confidence no matter what she tries to put out there. She is also loyal to a fault see Lamar. If this is what it takes for her to drop him I am for it. He has needed to go for awhile. Boy, bye. |
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Post by angelashly on Feb 20, 2019 8:40:52 GMT -6
Wait, I’m confused! 😂 She’s the one getting cut off though right?! Maybe she is talking to Tristan????? |
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Post by angelashly on Feb 20, 2019 8:41:14 GMT -6
But the cheating happened before I believe it just got released around the time of the birth. I agree with you that in my life now I don't know that I could stay with so if he cheated. We also have to look at Khloe's state. She doesn't have the best self confidence no matter what she tries to put out there. She is also loyal to a fault see Lamar. If this is what it takes for her to drop him I am for it. He has needed to go for awhile. Boy, bye. I agree. She finally left Lamar so I am hoping she does this now |
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Post by angelashly on Feb 20, 2019 8:43:59 GMT -6
Now I am trying to find this post
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Post by angelashly on Feb 20, 2019 8:44:51 GMT -6
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Post by Deleted on Feb 20, 2019 8:48:31 GMT -6
WHAT???? you don't think your friends owe you loyalty? Someone you brought in your family and treated as a sister? Maybe this is why I don't have friends IRL I'm not saying that at all. But ultimately I would blame my man for cheating, not the other woman no matter who it was. Would I wanna stay friends with them? Nope. But I don't see forgiving the man and not the woman 🤷♀️ this may be a moot point anyways cuz maybe she won't take him back this time. But I think she will. But she’s completely to blame as well. She’s close to them, broke bread with them, holidays, Birthdays, she’s on the inside. He’s a dirty ass cheater, it is known. But she’s a straight up hussie to mess around with Tristan knowing the family the way she does. Disrespectful and a complete disregard to the relationships that she has had for years with them. To me, she’s almost worse for what she did. |
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Post by Bookshelves on Feb 20, 2019 8:50:28 GMT -6
Now I am trying to find this post snip I saw that post and Khloe’s Comment last night when I was educating myself on the Woods fam |
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Post by angelashly on Feb 20, 2019 8:52:53 GMT -6
I'm not saying that at all. But ultimately I would blame my man for cheating, not the other woman no matter who it was. Would I wanna stay friends with them? Nope. But I don't see forgiving the man and not the woman 🤷♀️ this may be a moot point anyways cuz maybe she won't take him back this time. But I think she will. But she’s completely to blame as well. She’s close to them, broke bread with them, holidays, Birthdays, she’s on the inside. He’s a dirty ass cheater, it is known. But she’s a straight up hussie to mess around with Tristan knowing the family the way she does. Disrespectful and a complete disregard to the relationships that she has had for years with them. To me, she’s almost worse for what she did. Exactly. Like he is an outsider and while they allowed him in because of Khloe he has been on the outside with the rest of the family for a while. She on the other hand has been in their family for YEARS and not just in the family because of Kylie, but they brought her into the business, the shows, their house. |
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Post by icedcoffee on Feb 20, 2019 8:53:38 GMT -6
I'm not saying that at all. But ultimately I would blame my man for cheating, not the other woman no matter who it was. Would I wanna stay friends with them? Nope. But I don't see forgiving the man and not the woman 🤷♀️ this may be a moot point anyways cuz maybe she won't take him back this time. But I think she will. But she’s completely to blame as well. She’s close to them, broke bread with them, holidays, Birthdays, she’s on the inside. He’s a dirty ass cheater, it is known. But she’s a straight up hussie to mess around with Tristan knowing the family the way she does. Disrespectful and a complete disregard to the relationships that she has had for years with them. To me, she’s almost worse for what she did. Im not saying what she did wasn't wrong. But Tristan cheated on Khloe. Jordyn didn't have some magical vagina that he fell into. He actively chose to cheat on his girlfriend and mother of his child. To me he gets blamed for cheating, not Jordyn. I don't think Khloe should still be friends with Jordyn at all. But if she takes back Tristan and still hates Jordyn I don't think that's right 🤷♀️ I've had a similar convo on here before and was the odd man out, so like I said I know it's unpopular. |
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Post by angelashly on Feb 20, 2019 8:54:37 GMT -6
But she’s completely to blame as well. She’s close to them, broke bread with them, holidays, Birthdays, she’s on the inside. He’s a dirty ass cheater, it is known. But she’s a straight up hussie to mess around with Tristan knowing the family the way she does. Disrespectful and a complete disregard to the relationships that she has had for years with them. To me, she’s almost worse for what she did. Im not saying what she did wasn't wrong. But Tristan cheated on Khloe. Jordyn didn't have some magical vagina that he fell into. He actively chose to cheat on his girlfriend and mother of his child. To me he gets blamed for cheating, not Jordyn. I don't think Khloe should still be friends with Jordyn at all. But if she takes back Tristan and still hates Jordyn I don't think that's right 🤷♀️ I've had a similar convo on here before and was the odd man out, so like I said I know it's unpopular. so what did Jordyn do then? She isn't some girl who didn't know he had a girlfriend. |
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Post by icedcoffee on Feb 20, 2019 8:57:06 GMT -6
Im not saying what she did wasn't wrong. But Tristan cheated on Khloe. Jordyn didn't have some magical vagina that he fell into. He actively chose to cheat on his girlfriend and mother of his child. To me he gets blamed for cheating, not Jordyn. I don't think Khloe should still be friends with Jordyn at all. But if she takes back Tristan and still hates Jordyn I don't think that's right 🤷♀️ I've had a similar convo on here before and was the odd man out, so like I said I know it's unpopular. so what did Jordyn do then? She isn't some girl who didn't know he had a girlfriend. Made a bad choice? Was a bad friend? Fell victim to smooth talking from an experienced cheater? Idk. Like someone said above we probably won't ever get her side. Men do and say all kinds of things to cheat. I've seen situations where it isn't always that black and white. Maybe she willingly did it to hurt Khloe, but we don't know her side. |
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Post by gussie on Feb 20, 2019 8:58:38 GMT -6
You can still be mad at Jordyn without blaming her. If your friend slept with your husband, yeah your husband broke your vows and you would be most pissed at him, but you'd still be hella pissed at your friend too. There's enough anger to go around here. Just because someone isn't in a romantic relationship doesn't mean they can't betray someone.
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Post by icedcoffee on Feb 20, 2019 9:00:28 GMT -6
Maybe I'm projecting here. And no, I've never been a mistress fyi. But I've seen a close friend get in a bad situation. And I had a boyfriend who constantly cheated on me in the past, and I always blamed the other women, instead of placing blame on the cheater themselves. I am not saying Jordyn wasn't wrong. But if it wasn't her it would be someone else.
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Post by gussie on Feb 20, 2019 9:00:37 GMT -6
I've been thinking about the Jordyn/Kylie thing. If she is truly like a sister to Kylie, I wonder if she can forgive her. Like if Kourtney were the one who hooked up with Tristian, they wouldn't just cut her out would they? Where's the line? Is it blood only?
Not saying what Kylie should or shouldn't do, just thinking out loud.
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Post by angelashly on Feb 20, 2019 9:04:33 GMT -6
Maybe I'm projecting here. And no, I've never been a mistress fyi. But I've seen a close friend get in a bad situation. And I had a boyfriend who constantly cheated on me in the past, and I always blamed the other women, instead of placing blame on the cheater themselves. I am not saying Jordyn wasn't wrong. But if it wasn't her it would be someone else. But I think you are missing everyone's point. No one here is saying that Tristan isn't to blame. In fact it has been said many of times that there is enough blame to go around. I just can't write off someone that is that close to my family as a dumb mistake I just can't |
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Post by icedcoffee on Feb 20, 2019 9:04:49 GMT -6
You can still be mad at Jordyn without blaming her. If your friend slept with your husband, yeah your husband broke your vows and you would be most pissed at him, but you'd still be hella pissed at your friend too. There's enough anger to go around here. Just because someone isn't in a romantic relationship doesn't mean they can't betray someone. Where I'm going with this is that as Kylie, I wouldn't want to be expected to cut her off. Like I said earlier, what if Khloe takes him back? Then I lost my BFF for nothing. I don't expect Khloe not to be mad, I just hope she isn't placing all the blame on Jordyn, what with the video taking and all. |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 20, 2019 9:05:41 GMT -6
But she’s completely to blame as well. She’s close to them, broke bread with them, holidays, Birthdays, she’s on the inside. He’s a dirty ass cheater, it is known. But she’s a straight up hussie to mess around with Tristan knowing the family the way she does. Disrespectful and a complete disregard to the relationships that she has had for years with them. To me, she’s almost worse for what she did. Im not saying what she did wasn't wrong. But Tristan cheated on Khloe. Jordyn didn't have some magical vagina that he fell into. He actively chose to cheat on his girlfriend and mother of his child. To me he gets blamed for cheating, not Jordyn. I don't think Khloe should still be friends with Jordyn at all. But if she takes back Tristan and still hates Jordyn I don't think that's right 🤷♀️ I've had a similar convo on here before and was the odd man out, so like I said I know it's unpopular. Tristan and Khloe have a daughter together. While I do not think that is a reason to stay together, some people find it hard to walk away from the nuclear family they’ve dreamed of. He will always be in their lives on this alone. Jordyn is to blame for this as well. Full stop. She saw firsthand the hurt and sadness Khloe was dealing with when he cheated before. And still decided to be that girl. There are way too many men to be hung up on your best friends sisters baby daddy. She knew what she was doing. |
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Post by angelashly on Feb 20, 2019 9:06:06 GMT -6
I've been thinking about the Jordyn/Kylie thing. If she is truly like a sister to Kylie, I wonder if she can forgive her. Like if Kourtney were the one who hooked up with Tristian, they wouldn't just cut her out would they? Where's the line? Is it blood only? Not saying what Kylie should or shouldn't do, just thinking out loud. I have no doubt that they would cut a sister out, but it wouldn't even happen |
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Post by icedcoffee on Feb 20, 2019 9:06:49 GMT -6
Maybe I'm projecting here. And no, I've never been a mistress fyi. But I've seen a close friend get in a bad situation. And I had a boyfriend who constantly cheated on me in the past, and I always blamed the other women, instead of placing blame on the cheater themselves. I am not saying Jordyn wasn't wrong. But if it wasn't her it would be someone else. But I think you are missing everyone's point. No one here is saying that Tristan isn't to blame. In fact it has been said many of times that there is enough blame to go around. I just can't write off someone that is that close to my family as a dumb mistake I just can't I'm more speaking from kylies pov and why I wouldn't cut off my friend necessarily. I'm not saying Khloe should forgive her. But like I said above I hope Khloe places blame on Tristan and just doesn't expect Kylie to cut her off and then turn around and forgive Tristan. I think Kylie might be put in an unfair situation |
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Post by gussie on Feb 20, 2019 9:07:21 GMT -6
You can still be mad at Jordyn without blaming her. If your friend slept with your husband, yeah your husband broke your vows and you would be most pissed at him, but you'd still be hella pissed at your friend too. There's enough anger to go around here. Just because someone isn't in a romantic relationship doesn't mean they can't betray someone. Where I'm going with this is that as Kylie, I wouldn't want to be expected to cut her off. Like I said earlier, what if Khloe takes him back? Then I lost my BFF for nothing. I don't expect Khloe not to be mad, I just hope she isn't placing all the blame on Jordyn, what with the video taking and all. Yeah that would make no sense if Khloe forgave Tristan but not Jordyn. Whatever happens, I hope she's done with this guy, she deserves much better. |
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