sammysam
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May 6, 2018 20:07:06 GMT -6
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Post by sammysam on May 6, 2018 20:07:06 GMT -6
The Trying to Conceive After a Loss thread is posted once a week (generally on Tuesday) for those of us who have unfortunately experienced a loss. No matter what type of loss you've experienced, from miscarriage to stillbirth to the loss of a child, it is heartbreaking. This thread is to help us commiserate, get support, and to try to navigate trying to conceive, after a loss, every week.
Out of respect to all the ladies here, please add a trigger warning if you decide to talk about any living children and please hide your signature if it contains pictures or tickers of babies or children. We also kindly ask for grads to refrain from commenting in this thread.
If you get a BFP, kindly either spoiler alert it or do not post it here at all.
**If this is your first check-in, and you would like to provide a gtky loss history intro go for it. If not, no worries!**
How are you doing?
Status (TTA, TTC, Benched):
Diagnosis (if applicable):
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Debbie downer (a place to vent ) :
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Radley
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Post by Radley on May 8, 2018 6:10:06 GMT -6
How are you doing? Exhausted. It was a long weekend and no break in sight.
Status (TTA, TTC, Benched): TTC
Diagnosis (if applicable): PID related fertility issues.
Updates/questions: do you think it’s rude to TTC after being asked to be a bridesmaid? Like should you warn the bride that there is a chance you’ll be pregnant?
Debbie downer (a place to vent ): I don’t want to TTC for months like last time. I know that’s whiny and many people try for years, so I need to suck it up, but I hated it. I felt confined and obsessed and I hated it.
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sammysam
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May 8, 2018 19:41:24 GMT -6
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Post by sammysam on May 8, 2018 19:41:24 GMT -6
Radley I don't think you need to warn anyone you're TTC. They should want you in their wedding because of who you are and not what you look like. So if you're pregnant at the time of the wedding it shouldn't matter. Plus who knows when anyone will get pregnant anyways. I would hate having someone asking me if I was pregnant yet all the time;) And I feel you on the TTC for months and months. We're on cycle 16 total of TFAS and honestly it just feels like a job at this point:/
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Radley
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Post by Radley on May 12, 2018 18:13:42 GMT -6
Radley I don't think you need to warn anyone you're TTC. They should want you in their wedding because of who you are and not what you look like. So if you're pregnant at the time of the wedding it shouldn't matter. Plus who knows when anyone will get pregnant anyways. I would hate having someone asking me if I was pregnant yet all the time;) And I feel you on the TTC for months and months. We're on cycle 16 total of TFAS and honestly it just feels like a job at this point:/ Oh that’s a good point. And I definitely don’t want anyone asking. Right now only my sister knows we’re trying and she is really good about not asking. We are on month 10 of ttc total but we took a break for awhile and I really hate the “job” aspect of it. It definitely can take over the fun parts.
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