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Post by wildhoney on May 3, 2018 13:03:29 GMT -6
Age of LO(s): 5.5 Month/Cycle: many/many CD/DPO: 21/10 Timing: -4, IUI at O RRCS: no pregnancy symptoms at all. Face still an explosion of high school acne (thanks, progesterone). I feel grumpy and ready to get on to the next cycle. I don’t think this is the one. I'm so sorry that the progesterone sucks so much. I hope you are wrong about this not being the cycle. FX for you.
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Post by wildhoney on May 3, 2018 13:16:29 GMT -6
I got the saline sonogram and endo biopsy done yesterday. They said there is something there that may be a polyp, but that they aren't sure. It could just be a fragment left over from my period. They may have me do another one in a couple months. He also said that he wants me to go on Femara to lengthen my cycles and push back my ovulation day. Kind of nerve wracking. The good news is that he said we could try this month. I don't have to wait to HIO at all! And the whole thing wasn't very painful. The RE said if you've have kids before, it's like a walk in the park I wouldn't go thaaat far, but it really wasn't that bad.
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Post by charliefox on May 3, 2018 14:05:29 GMT -6
wildhoney, so glad things went well! When do you usually O? I know some O earlier on Femara, but hopefully you'll have the opposite reaction!
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Post by charliefox on May 3, 2018 14:08:03 GMT -6
9dpo over here. Testing out my trigger, yesterday's and today's are basically identical - which means I spent like 15 minutes this morning staring at them. Oy. I just need the next 2-3 days to fly by so I have some answers! AF will be here Sunday (and temp should drop tomorrow or the next day if not KU). I hope the next few days go quickly for you! Are you going to continue testing or just wait it out from here? Definitely going to keep testing just because I need to know for sure if it's the trigger or a bfp. Even though I know my temps will tell me what's up anyway. I'm giddy going to sleep and can't wait to see my temp the next morning. Pathetic. lol
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Post by wildhoney on May 3, 2018 14:20:08 GMT -6
wildhoney , so glad things went well! When do you usually O? I know some O earlier on Femara, but hopefully you'll have the opposite reaction! I usually O on CD 11 or 12 and my cycles are 25-26 days. He said the Femara would lengthen my cycles and hopefully make me O later too.
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Post by sammysam on May 3, 2018 14:50:24 GMT -6
charliefox not pathetic at all! You better come here and share what your temps are like tomorrow AND what your line looks like.
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Post by sammysam on May 3, 2018 14:51:35 GMT -6
wildhoney Ooh such good news! I'm so glad you get to try this cycle and that everything is moving in the right direction:)
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Post by sammysam on May 3, 2018 14:56:02 GMT -6
sunny75 wildhoney Thank you both for making me feel a bit better about timing. I'm hoping that maybe these few extra days will end up helping. And hopefully the late O will help too. At this point the earliest O would be is CD 15 (which would be today) when usually it's CD 11 ish. wildhoney Because I usually O early like you I'm curious why a later O is better? Is it because it gives more time for the egg to mature or is it to give more time to thicken your lining...or something entirely different?
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Post by wildhoney on May 3, 2018 15:07:53 GMT -6
sammysam He said that I might be releasing an immature egg.
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Post by sammysam on May 3, 2018 15:12:52 GMT -6
sammysam He said that I might be releasing an immature egg. Aaah. Gotcha. That makes sense to me actually. DD was conceived on a cycle where I had a +OPK on CD 14. I wasn't temping so can't confirm when I actually O'd but somewhere around CD 15. Our loss was conceived on a cycle where I had a +OPK on CD 9. Maybe the early O was part of the problem.
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Post by charliefox on May 3, 2018 15:54:33 GMT -6
sammysam He said that I might be releasing an immature egg. Well, if this isn't your cycle then the Femara should definitely help with maturing your egg.
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Post by Yogurt on May 3, 2018 16:39:38 GMT -6
If I were able to get -2 and -1 I would not worry about O or +1.
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Post by Yogurt on May 3, 2018 16:40:02 GMT -6
charliefox, I'll be thinking of you and hoping this is it!
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Post by shakinros on May 3, 2018 19:02:19 GMT -6
Mega good luck charliefox. I hope it’s good news for you! I am supposed to test betas at the doctor’s office on Monday. I haven’t scheduled it though because I’m planning to test at home first. I really, really, really don’t want bad news in the doctors office. I want to process it at home. If I get good news from a home test, I might still delay the betas lol. I’m weirdly afraid to hear bad news there. Trying to hold out till Sunday to test. Keeping busy! Thanks for the support ladies.
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Post by shakinros on May 3, 2018 19:03:53 GMT -6
Good luck wildhoney with this cycle. sammysam I’d be totally good with -2 and -1. NBD to not make O.
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Post by sammysam on May 3, 2018 19:57:39 GMT -6
Thanks everyone. I'm definitely feeling better about everything. I better see a temp rise in the am though!
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Post by charliefox on May 4, 2018 7:34:24 GMT -6
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Post by charliefox on May 4, 2018 7:40:06 GMT -6
My temp is still up, not a TON but it's higher than all other 10dpo temps from the last 20 months. It could be a fluke though, I slept horribly mostly because I was anxious to see my temp.
In contrast, my hpt was stark white this morning. My trigger was still pretty obvious yesterday and last cycle it just faded a tiny bit each day (I never got a true negative, there was always a shadow, then AF came). BUT the weird part is I had very little fmu this morning, I kept telling myself not to pee last night, to save it up but I'm guessing I did go to the bathroom and just don't remember it. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Basically I have no new information and I'm a total basket case. Is it tomorrow yet? I did book myself a massage for tomorrow morning to take my mind off it/console myself if needed. looks like the TWW massage is becoming a a tradition for me.
ETA: turns out it was a squinter positive for trigger, just took a few minutes to show up. Looks more or less like it did on this DPT last cycle.
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Post by Tlex on May 4, 2018 8:14:05 GMT -6
charliefox I think that's a great tradition and a very healthy choice WRT coping with the stress of the TWW. I'm glad your trigger tested out so you can know that any lines you see from here on are the real deal. Fx!!!!
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Post by Tlex on May 4, 2018 8:17:09 GMT -6
I got dotted line cross hairs this morning and I wish I could say I'm guarded but really I'm so hopeful. Could I really have O'd on CD18?!?! I wish our timing had been better. If that was really O we hit -4 and O (but while I was still + on OPK). Anyways. Fx. Because hope doesn't make bad things happen! I've been reading lots of anecdotes about women being especially fertile the cycle after a CP. hopefully I'm one of them.
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Post by wildhoney on May 4, 2018 8:51:48 GMT -6
charliefox Ahhh! I’m so freaking hopeful for you. I want it to be tomorrow right now!!! I love that you planned a massage for tomorrow. I might take your idea and plan a facial for myself now at the end of the TWW. Tlex I read that about women being especially fertile after a CP as well! I’m so hopeful for you!! How many DPO are you today?
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Post by charliefox on May 4, 2018 9:00:02 GMT -6
Thanks Tlex and wildhoney,! I'm hopefully but also a bit guarded. Trying not to go crazy, glad it's Friday and I'll have H home tomorrow no matter what happens. I will edit above, but turns out it ended up being a squinter + today. Which makes more sense looking out how my trigger faded last cycle.
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Post by Tlex on May 4, 2018 9:11:26 GMT -6
charliefox Ahhh! I’m so freaking hopeful for you. I want it to be tomorrow right now!!! I love that you planned a massage for tomorrow. I might take your idea and plan a facial for myself now at the end of the TWW. Tlex I read that about women being especially fertile after a CP as well! I’m so hopeful for you!! How many DPO are you today? 3 DPO! Which is crazy, I have a 13 day LP so "only" 10 days to go! Ahhh.
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Post by sunny75 on May 4, 2018 9:34:50 GMT -6
charliefox, I'm glad your temp stayed up! Have fun at your massage tomorrow, that's such a great idea to make those last few stressful dyas of the TWW a little better!
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Post by sunny75 on May 4, 2018 9:36:23 GMT -6
charliefox Ahhh! I’m so freaking hopeful for you. I want it to be tomorrow right now!!! I love that you planned a massage for tomorrow. I might take your idea and plan a facial for myself now at the end of the TWW. Tlex I read that about women being especially fertile after a CP as well! I’m so hopeful for you!! How many DPO are you today? 3 DPO! Which is crazy, I have a 13 day LP so "only" 10 days to go! Ahhh. You and I are very close, I'm 4 DPO today! When do you plan on starting testing? I think you're an early tester like me?
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Post by charliefox on May 4, 2018 9:45:52 GMT -6
charliefox Ahhh! I’m so freaking hopeful for you. I want it to be tomorrow right now!!! I love that you planned a massage for tomorrow. I might take your idea and plan a facial for myself now at the end of the TWW. Tlex I read that about women being especially fertile after a CP as well! I’m so hopeful for you!! How many DPO are you today? 3 DPO! Which is crazy, I have a 13 day LP so "only" 10 days to go! Ahhh. Maybe the CP helped you O earlier and that it means good things!
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Post by purple on May 4, 2018 11:13:59 GMT -6
I'm very hopeful for you both, charliefox and Tlex! It's just as well we're still NTNP, because I'm at my most fertile time and H is away for the weekend. If we were trying properly I'd be even more frustrated. On the other hand, we conceived L the month after H was away during my FW. Is it wrong of me to be hopeful for next month?
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Post by sammysam on May 4, 2018 11:57:42 GMT -6
It's up. More than last time. And CM seems to have dried up so I'm pretty sure O was yesterday. Unless I get another positive OPK 2 days from now:/
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Post by sammysam on May 4, 2018 12:00:40 GMT -6
charliefox The temp sounds promising! And I'm glad you got to see your trigger test out. Do you think you'll test again tomorrow or wait it out? How long is your LP normally? I'm very excited to see how this turns out:)
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Post by sammysam on May 4, 2018 12:04:06 GMT -6
I got dotted line cross hairs this morning and I wish I could say I'm guarded but really I'm so hopeful. Could I really have O'd on CD18?!?! I wish our timing had been better. If that was really O we hit -4 and O (but while I was still + on OPK). Anyways. Fx. Because hope doesn't make bad things happen! I've been reading lots of anecdotes about women being especially fertile the cycle after a CP. hopefully I'm one of them. I've read this too. Many people say they get pregnant within 3 cycles after a loss...many on the first cycle. I hope this is you! And regardless YAY for an early O! What dpo are you now?
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