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Post by wedding on Apr 7, 2018 4:15:01 GMT -6
C got up at 5:30am. Considering I’ve been up until at least 1am most days this week, I’m not thrilled. Dh has his annual fundraising gala tonight so he is leaving for Boston around 2. I’m letting him sleep in now but when he wakes up I need to nap. I had the best time in New Orleans and met so many great people. It was definitely my favorite work trip so far! The only thing missing was meeting N13ers! PDQ: Unfortunately all shit hit the fan yesterday at work. My immediate supervisor’s (the HR manager) position was terminated. She’s been there ten years and there were no warning signs so it’s unsettling to say the least. This also leaves me solo in HR. I spoke to my new supervisor and my job is safe and we will work towards an action plan. I feel horrible for my former supervisor though and I hate that I’ll probably never really know what happened. It sounds like a culmination of things lead to this decision to “restructure “. I’m filled with anxiety though and cleaned my whole house last night then hardly slept. It’s all so surreal.
I’ll probably be less active during the week for a while because I’ll be super busy and I don’t want to use the work computer anymore. I just need to be extra cautious.
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chrisy01
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Post by chrisy01 on Apr 7, 2018 4:24:46 GMT -6
wedding sorry for the lack of sleep. That really sucks. I would have anxiety too.
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Post by chrisy01 on Apr 7, 2018 4:25:43 GMT -6
I woke up to go pee and then E has hiccups so I'm hoping to fall back asleep once they are over.
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Post by wineallthetime on Apr 7, 2018 5:35:53 GMT -6
That sucks, wedding. How unsettling.
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Post by wineallthetime on Apr 7, 2018 5:37:58 GMT -6
Morning! I'm up with the big kids. I have my sister's baby shower at 11, I need to figure out what to wear...
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Post by mwhip on Apr 7, 2018 5:38:50 GMT -6
I woke at 6 and couldn't go back to sleep. Now everyone in the house is awake. That's tough wedding. I'd have anxiety too, which I clearly do about my current position. All you can do is trust what your boss tells you and keep doing your job. I'd have my resume updated, just in case. When my boss was let go, I reached out to him and let him know I enjoyed working for him and he could use me as a reference. I don't know how much it really helped, but he told me he appreciated hearing from me.
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Post by mwhip on Apr 7, 2018 5:39:54 GMT -6
Today is laundry and wallpaper removal. We also need to remove our old kitchen backsplash before the new counters are going to be installed, has anyone else taken tile off?
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Post by tgrimes on Apr 7, 2018 6:07:36 GMT -6
M woke me up at 3. Once I got her back to sleep it took me forever to fall asleep. Just stay in your bed kid!
She came back in at 6:30 to ask me if she could see the snakes at the zoo. All 4 of us were supposed to go to member morning at the zoo today but since H is sick, it will just be the 2 of us.
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Post by mwhip on Apr 7, 2018 6:09:50 GMT -6
Is H doing any better this morning tgrimes? Oh goodie, H is still in a mood today. Should make for a fun weekend.
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Post by sing2phins on Apr 7, 2018 6:10:18 GMT -6
wedding, I'm so sorry. What a shitty thing. My mom came down last-minute last night. After breakfast, shes going to head down to my brother's to help him and my SIL with post-moving stuff (and maybe just hang out with my baby nephew). Then, we're all going over to kellykinns house! Maggie is so excited, she's been talking about it all week. My mom will be back tonight and will spend part of the day tomorrow with us. Have a great day, everyone!
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Post by tgrimes on Apr 7, 2018 6:29:58 GMT -6
Is H doing any better this morning tgrimes? Oh goodie, H is still in a mood today. Should make for a fun weekend. He’s still asleep.
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Post by tallb on Apr 7, 2018 6:37:46 GMT -6
wedding I'm sorry, that is not what you want to see happen. Hopefully your in the clear, but always upsetting with a shake up like that. I feel like a lot of work places are on edge lately, which is nerve-wracking.
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Post by peachsmama on Apr 7, 2018 6:39:54 GMT -6
Dh is letting me sleep in but period cramps and ruining my plans. 😐 and my dog paws my arm anytime I stop petting him.
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Post by peachsmama on Apr 7, 2018 6:41:24 GMT -6
He's making bacon and eggs and the boys are helping. The conversation is cracking me up lol.
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Post by tallb on Apr 7, 2018 6:41:52 GMT -6
Morning time. Mh is still asleep and I made french toast and j is now asking me to build all the magformer designs and I need coffee.
We don't have visitors for the first time in a month, so I have high hopes of spring cleaning and driving around to open houses. A library and Costco trip will probably also be mixed in.
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vino
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Post by vino on Apr 7, 2018 7:19:05 GMT -6
I’m sorry wedding, that’s unsettling for sure. Ugh, house renos with a gumpy husband makes for a long day mwhip, hopefully he changes his tune quickly.
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Post by Sunny41 on Apr 7, 2018 7:23:38 GMT -6
Morning time. Mh is still asleep and I made french toast and j is now asking me to build all the magformer designs and I need coffee. What she said
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Post by Sunny41 on Apr 7, 2018 7:26:29 GMT -6
It feels like 16 outside! I just want to start drinking iced coffee and shop for summer clothes
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Post by vino on Apr 7, 2018 7:55:54 GMT -6
I read the April royals thread and trtlcrzy’s post about her husband being mad about spending money so of course my dreams were wacky. trtlcrzy was having an N13 pizza party at her house and we were all in line to fill our plates, as soon as it got to me her husband walked in and she closed the pizza box on my hand saying that she didnt want him to get mad, so I’d have to order my own. guster was behind me and suggested we order a pizza with all sorts of random food that she always talks about. I kindly walked away 😬 Then my second dream was that we were at my grandparents farm where I used to spend my summers and the Queen was coming because Harry was marrying a member of my family. I got drunk then tried to apply make up, I had blue eye showder angled across my whole face. Hot.mess.
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Post by wedding on Apr 7, 2018 8:01:42 GMT -6
I read the April royals thread and trtlcrzy’s post about her husband being mad about spending money so of course my dreams were wacky. trtlcrzy was having an N13 pizza party at her house and we were all in line to fill our plates, as soon as it got to me her husband walked in and she closed the pizza box on my hand saying that she didnt want him to get mad, so I’d have to order my own. guster was behind me and suggested we order a pizza with all sorts of random food that she always talks about. I kindly walked away 😬 Then my second dream was that we were at my grandparents farm where I used to spend my summers and the Queen was coming because Harry was marrying a member of my family. I got drunk then tried to apply make up, I had blue eye showder angled across my whole face. Hot.mess. The blue eyeshadow thing probably came from mwhip sharing about Evies poor application! Too funny!
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mwhip
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Post by mwhip on Apr 7, 2018 8:05:00 GMT -6
Lol at your dreams vino! The blue shadow totally sounds like Evie!
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Post by Sunny41 on Apr 7, 2018 8:05:57 GMT -6
vino I'm cracking up at the weird guster food combos wedding I'm sorry about the shocking change at work. I hope you get a good nap today.
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Post by vino on Apr 7, 2018 8:29:06 GMT -6
Lol wedding and mwhip I didn’t even think about that, you guys are probably right! Too funny.
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Post by trtlcrzy on Apr 7, 2018 8:31:03 GMT -6
Lol vino, I would never exclude you from my pizza party.
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Post by trtlcrzy on Apr 7, 2018 8:34:19 GMT -6
Morning. It’s the first weekend day in like a month where we are all home with no plans. I’m trying to convince DH that we should take the girls to the indoor pool after nap and he is not going for my plan. S just keeps asking to go to the zoo (like every day) but the high is supposed to be like 36 so I don’t want to go. I think we are going to hang at a friend’s house this evening though. I need to sand and stain the wood project I’m making for next weekend. Instead of buying something for the bridal shower I’m making a sign with their name and est 2018 on it.
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Post by guster on Apr 7, 2018 8:59:08 GMT -6
Oh man, wedding, that sucks. I'd be a bundle of nerves, too.
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Post by guster on Apr 7, 2018 9:01:05 GMT -6
vino! Funny! Especially bc the kids had pizza with mushrooms, tomatoes, broccoli, anchovies, red onions, and garlic last night.
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Post by guster on Apr 7, 2018 9:01:52 GMT -6
It's washer/dryer day!! They're here now installing!!
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Post by guster on Apr 7, 2018 9:10:56 GMT -6
Morning. It’s the first weekend day in like a month where we are all home with no plans. I’m trying to convince DH that we should take the girls to the indoor pool after nap and he is not going for my plan. S just keeps asking to go to the zoo (like every day) but the high is supposed to be like 36 so I don’t want to go. I think we are going to hang at a friend’s house this evening though. I need to sand and stain the wood project I’m making for next weekend. Instead of buying something for the bridal shower I’m making a sign with their name and est 2018 on it. We got one of those but with photographs of numbers that show the date of our wedding. It's very cool.
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Post by slenle on Apr 7, 2018 9:15:10 GMT -6
Morning! We’re on our way to the children’s museum for the day. Dh is in a better mood this morning so it should be a good day. I hope h sleeps in the car since we’ll be getting there right before lunch and nap time.
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