danib
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Post by danib on Jun 7, 2017 16:09:46 GMT -6
More kids? No fucking thank you. But you all know this because it took like 2 minutes after the twins were born for us to snip MH. We always wanted 2, we have 3, and my risk of more twins is elevated since we had these guys. Done. I would, however, be a surrogate for a singleton. Same! Except I think my age would be a deterrent for most but I know so many people that want and can't have, I'd love to give that to someone. I've thought about surrogacy (I think it is so amazing), but my health issues would definitely prevent it. |
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hangry
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Post by hangry on Jun 7, 2017 17:39:19 GMT -6
More kids? No fucking thank you. But you all know this because it took like 2 minutes after the twins were born for us to snip MH. We always wanted 2, we have 3, and my risk of more twins is elevated since we had these guys. Done. I would, however, be a surrogate for a singleton. Same! Except I think my age would be a deterrent for most but I know so many people that want and can't have, I'd love to give that to someone. I thought this was an issue and a risk because of the actual egg as opposed to the person carrying? So being a surrogate with a "younger" egg/sperm wouldn't matter. I might be completely wrong on this. |
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Post by sarahwithanh on Jun 7, 2017 18:42:41 GMT -6
I will not temp ever again. It was emotionally too much for me. I will probably use opks though. Honestly, ttc was just miserable after miscarriage. I'm not looking forward to it but I want another baby. I hope it's better but I just feel anxious about it. I was never diagnosed with IF but Monty was my 13th cycle after my miscarriage. It was my 20 months from when I started. It wasn't that long in the grand scheme of things but it was so painful.
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 8, 2017 6:19:04 GMT -6
sarahwithanh I agree. TTC after a loss is awful. I was lucky enough to do it with vino. (Lucky isn't the right word to use because no one who experiences a loss is lucky. YKWIM though.) We held our pee every day together and even discussed our cm. LOL. Without her, H probably wouldn't be here.
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Post by sarahwithanh on Jun 8, 2017 7:24:47 GMT -6
sarahwithanh I agree. TTC after a loss is awful. I was lucky enough to do it with vino. (Lucky isn't the right word to use because no one who experiences a loss is lucky. YKWIM though.) We held our pee every day together and even discussed our cm. LOL. Without her, H probably wouldn't be here. That's why the conceiving after loss ladies will always be some of my best friends. I literally wouldn't have survived without them. |
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kleigh
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Post by kleigh on Jun 8, 2017 10:23:56 GMT -6
sarahwithanh I agree. TTC after a loss is awful. I was lucky enough to do it with vino. (Lucky isn't the right word to use because no one who experiences a loss is lucky. YKWIM though.) We held our pee every day together and even discussed our cm. LOL. Without her, H probably wouldn't be here. And you both got KU again the same cycle?! Those babies are extra special ladies. |
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vino
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Post by vino on Jun 8, 2017 10:34:47 GMT -6
sarahwithanh I agree. TTC after a loss is awful. I was lucky enough to do it with vino. (Lucky isn't the right word to use because no one who experiences a loss is lucky. YKWIM though.) We held our pee every day together and even discussed our cm. LOL. Without her, H probably wouldn't be here. And you both got KU again the same cycle?! Those babies are extra special ladies. We ovulated within a day of eachother, got our BFP on the same day and H is one day older than J. It's really amazing and bizarre at the same time, they are destined to be BFF's obvi. Now I just need to meet tgrimes in person and drink wine together to make this less bizarre, lol |
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 8, 2017 13:47:22 GMT -6
And you both got KU again the same cycle?! Those babies are extra special ladies. We ovulated within a day of eachother, got our BFP on the same day and H is one day older than J. It's really amazing and bizarre at the same time, they are destined to be BFF's obvi. Now I just need to meet tgrimes in person and drink wine together to make this less bizarre, lol YES! Bahamas here we come! |
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