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Post by Sunny41 on Feb 15, 2018 7:57:24 GMT -6
So Coworker S's husband brought her flowers, custom donuts, and lunch at work since he was working last night. Then as he was leaving and she had stepped out he told us there was more waiting for her at home. All 3 guys who were in the office were like "we failed this year". I thought it was sweet but I know C would never do that and I'm okay with that. I knew who i married and don't expect that. That sounds like nothing less than what S would require
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Post by yummeecookee on Feb 15, 2018 8:48:06 GMT -6
Oooh so curious to hear how the laser hair removal goes! If you don't mind me asking, what area are you having done? Either my face or underarms...not sure yet. Ultimately I want both done, plus bikini line. But $$$. I just bought a “small area”. But figured if I like it and it goes well then this summer when I have more money I will do the rest. I had my bikini line done years ago. I’m so happy I did it. Hurt like a bitch but well worth it.
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Post by klong11 on Feb 15, 2018 8:48:42 GMT -6
So Coworker S's husband brought her flowers, custom donuts, and lunch at work since he was working last night. Then as he was leaving and she had stepped out he told us there was more waiting for her at home. All 3 guys who were in the office were like "we failed this year". I thought it was sweet but I know C would never do that and I'm okay with that. I knew who i married and don't expect that. I may be a cynic, but if mh did all of that I would think he had done something wrong or was cheating on me.
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Post by chrisy01 on Feb 15, 2018 9:06:53 GMT -6
So Coworker S's husband brought her flowers, custom donuts, and lunch at work since he was working last night. Then as he was leaving and she had stepped out he told us there was more waiting for her at home. All 3 guys who were in the office were like "we failed this year". I thought it was sweet but I know C would never do that and I'm okay with that. I knew who i married and don't expect that. I may be a cynic, but if mh did all of that I would think he had done something wrong or was cheating on me. He does things for her like this all the time. He's not cheating just whipped.
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Post by cagoldi on Feb 15, 2018 9:28:33 GMT -6
Sorry for the post and run cagoldi. I also hope my questions didn’t sound weird. I was just curious. I read the article and it’s interesting. I have another question. What does Dude’s birth certificate have? Again just curious. Mine has black, but at some point in my life, I felt weird about just checking black, so I check more than one. I do find it intriguing that if you check more than one, most documents it only want to justify if you’re Hispanic or not. NP, it's not any weirder than my initial question. I don't know what's on his birth certificate? I think Pete filled it out. I have to check. Pete said he changed it throughout his life so whatever we do now won't matter. And pointed out Atticus will put whatever he wants by the time he is doing college apps.
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Post by klong11 on Feb 15, 2018 9:29:23 GMT -6
I may be a cynic, but if mh did all of that I would think he had done something wrong or was cheating on me. He does things for her like this all the time. He's not cheating just whipped. Ah, ok. I should have said if it was a sudden overboard of gift giving, then I would be concerned. If it is a normal occurrence for him, then yeah, just whipped. LOL
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Post by cagoldi on Feb 15, 2018 9:29:44 GMT -6
So Coworker S's husband brought her flowers, custom donuts, and lunch at work since he was working last night. Then as he was leaving and she had stepped out he told us there was more waiting for her at home. All 3 guys who were in the office were like "we failed this year". I thought it was sweet but I know C would never do that and I'm okay with that. I knew who i married and don't expect that. I may be a cynic, but if mh did all of that I would think he had done something wrong or was cheating on me. I would just think he spent too much money.
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Post by peachsmama on Feb 15, 2018 9:45:43 GMT -6
I may be a cynic, but if mh did all of that I would think he had done something wrong or was cheating on me. I would just think he spent too much money. Same lol. #cheap
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Post by chrisy01 on Feb 15, 2018 10:11:17 GMT -6
I would get mad if C spent a ton on Valentines Day.
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Post by wineallthetime on Feb 15, 2018 10:13:12 GMT -6
He does things for her like this all the time. He's not cheating just whipped. Ah, ok. I should have said if it was a sudden overboard of gift giving, then I would be concerned. If it is a normal occurrence for him, then yeah, just whipped. LOL I wouldn't think the gifts in general make him whipped, but I'm so not into big public displays of affection so I would hate that. If MH wants to get me donuts, flowers and lunch at home then great! Or send me takeout lunch to work, also great! DNW MH showing up at my work with all of these things though.
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Post by cagoldi on Feb 15, 2018 11:57:00 GMT -6
Ah, ok. I should have said if it was a sudden overboard of gift giving, then I would be concerned. If it is a normal occurrence for him, then yeah, just whipped. LOL I wouldn't think the gifts in general make him whipped, but I'm so not into big public displays of affection so I would hate that. If MH wants to get me donuts, flowers and lunch at home then great! Or send me takeout lunch to work, also great! DNW MH showing up at my work with all of these things though. This is kind of it for me, too. My first high school boyfriend was way OTT with this stuff and it was embarrassing.
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Post by nam2013 on Feb 15, 2018 12:30:49 GMT -6
Ah, ok. I should have said if it was a sudden overboard of gift giving, then I would be concerned. If it is a normal occurrence for him, then yeah, just whipped. LOL I wouldn't think the gifts in general make him whipped, but I'm so not into big public displays of affection so I would hate that. If MH wants to get me donuts, flowers and lunch at home then great! Or send me takeout lunch to work, also great! DNW MH showing up at my work with all of these things though. + 1. Which is why is was soooo happy Dh proposed in our living room, just the two of us.
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Post by mwhip on Feb 15, 2018 13:59:23 GMT -6
Lol, my first husband was into the kind of stuff chrisy01 is talking about. The Valentines we were engaged, he dressed in his suit, drove to my office, which was like a 45 minute drive, had these amazon roses, which were like 3' long, delivered them then took me to lunch. It was sweet, but looking back on it, what a waste. And what I really remember about it, I had a horrible UTI and just wanted to be home in bed! That would have been 2001, and that's what I remember the most.
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Post by wineallthetime on Feb 15, 2018 14:50:17 GMT -6
I wouldn't think the gifts in general make him whipped, but I'm so not into big public displays of affection so I would hate that. If MH wants to get me donuts, flowers and lunch at home then great! Or send me takeout lunch to work, also great! DNW MH showing up at my work with all of these things though. + 1. Which is why is was soooo happy Dh proposed in our living room, just the two of us. I told MH 6688987664 times I did not want a public proposal of any kind! Luckily he listened
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Post by chrisy01 on Feb 15, 2018 19:26:27 GMT -6
Ah, ok. I should have said if it was a sudden overboard of gift giving, then I would be concerned. If it is a normal occurrence for him, then yeah, just whipped. LOL I wouldn't think the gifts in general make him whipped, but I'm so not into big public displays of affection so I would hate that. If MH wants to get me donuts, flowers and lunch at home then great! Or send me takeout lunch to work, also great! DNW MH showing up at my work with all of these things though. It's not the things he did just in valentines. He works for tinge same company but on the opposite end of the property. He gets 20 minutes for lunch. The walk is about 10ish minutes to and 10ish minutes back but he does it, everyday that he works similar shifts. They do everything she wants to do. When he brought her a meal she didn't like he spent the few minutes he had left to go get her something else. She has never went to his area for lunch with him even though we are a little more lenient with our break times.
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Post by klong11 on Feb 15, 2018 19:46:45 GMT -6
I wouldn't think the gifts in general make him whipped, but I'm so not into big public displays of affection so I would hate that. If MH wants to get me donuts, flowers and lunch at home then great! Or send me takeout lunch to work, also great! DNW MH showing up at my work with all of these things though. It's not the things he did just in valentines. He works for tinge same company but on the opposite end of the property. He gets 20 minutes for lunch. The walk is about 10ish minutes to and 10ish minutes back but he does it, everyday that he works similar shifts. They do everything she wants to do. When he brought her a meal she didn't like he spent the few minutes he had left to go get her something else. She has never went to his area for lunch with him even though we are a little more lenient with our break times.
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Post by Sunny41 on Feb 15, 2018 20:38:50 GMT -6
I wouldn't think the gifts in general make him whipped, but I'm so not into big public displays of affection so I would hate that. If MH wants to get me donuts, flowers and lunch at home then great! Or send me takeout lunch to work, also great! DNW MH showing up at my work with all of these things though. It's not the things he did just in valentines. He works for tinge same company but on the opposite end of the property. He gets 20 minutes for lunch. The walk is about 10ish minutes to and 10ish minutes back but he does it, everyday that he works similar shifts. They do everything she wants to do. When he brought her a meal she didn't like he spent the few minutes he had left to go get her something else. She has never went to his area for lunch with him even though we are a little more lenient with our break times. Well apparently I can dislike her more than I already did.
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Post by tgrimes on Feb 15, 2018 22:35:36 GMT -6
Lol klong11. I was thinking of chandler doing that when I read chrisy01’s post.
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Post by chrisy01 on Feb 16, 2018 6:34:50 GMT -6
I will say he's a really nice guy and he really loves her. And she loves him too so whatever works for them I guess. 🤷♀️
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