chrisy01
Emerald
Posts: 10,849 Likes: 51,499
|
Post by chrisy01 on Feb 8, 2018 9:13:12 GMT -6
I'm in the shuttle and the person who is sitting near me smells really bad of cigarettes. She's not that close to me so it's not a good sign since she deals with people all day.
|
|
wedding
Emerald
Posts: 14,236 Likes: 77,185
|
Post by wedding on Feb 8, 2018 9:19:12 GMT -6
|
|
wedding
Emerald
Posts: 14,236 Likes: 77,185
|
Post by wedding on Feb 8, 2018 9:20:58 GMT -6
klong11 MH does that shit sometimes. Drives me nuts. Last night they were playing football and he says to C "time to wind down. Mom said so." The kid looks at me and growls then starts crying. 1) I did not say a god damn thing! If you want to wind down, you initiate it. Don't try to use me as a scape goat. 2) abruptly ending something with C has never worked in the history of his 4 years dude. I gave DH some attitude about that one and he apologized.
|
|
wedding
Emerald
Posts: 14,236 Likes: 77,185
|
Post by wedding on Feb 8, 2018 9:21:54 GMT -6
Poor girl wineallthetime . Hope she’s feeling better soon! wedding does he have a natural part (or can you create one?) Even if it’s just temporarily until it grows out some...maybe you could brush it to the side until then? 🤷🏻♀️ He does. When I comb it over it moves right back to center. Even with gel it only lasts a couple of hours looking decent then it flops into this messy bowl cut situation.
|
|
|
Post by wineallthetime on Feb 8, 2018 9:22:40 GMT -6
|
|
|
Post by xolastunicornxo on Feb 8, 2018 9:22:51 GMT -6
|
|
tgrimes
Diamond
Posts: 27,662 Likes: 138,282
|
Post by tgrimes on Feb 8, 2018 9:30:47 GMT -6
|
|
|
Post by wineallthetime on Feb 8, 2018 9:30:59 GMT -6
Heard mh trying to reprimand Cadence this morning for her bedtime behavior last night. Um, no. 1. you weren't involved last night, so don't interfere and 2. don't scold a child on their behavior from the day before. That's not how it works. She and I had our behavior talk last night after it happened and we were both calm, he had no reason to bring it all up again. I told him that this morning and he just didn't get it. I 100% get not scolding again when it's something that has been resolved, but MH and I will often talk to C about his behavior the next day. Like if he's acting out at bedtime and MH addresses is, the next morning I may say something like, "Daddy told me you weren't making good choices at bedtime" and then we'll talk about it a bit. I don't get angry with him, but we chat about it even though I wasn't involved.
|
|
kim22
Amethyst
Posts: 5,343 Likes: 35,924
|
Post by kim22 on Feb 8, 2018 9:31:22 GMT -6
|
|
trtlcrzy
Moderator
Posts: 10,085 Likes: 58,458
|
Post by trtlcrzy on Feb 8, 2018 9:35:05 GMT -6
Congrats nam2013! I hope all the sick moms and kids feel better soon!
|
|
trtlcrzy
Moderator
Posts: 10,085 Likes: 58,458
|
Post by trtlcrzy on Feb 8, 2018 9:41:10 GMT -6
Morning! H has school today and I have my follow up derm appt. MIL is going to come over and hang while I’m at my appt and S is napping. It’s supposed to snow off and on all day (and snowed overnight) so the roads should be slippery. I saw on my Timehop that S got her tubes a year ago today.
|
|
klong11
Emerald
Posts: 14,710 Likes: 85,115
|
Post by klong11 on Feb 8, 2018 9:46:59 GMT -6
Heard mh trying to reprimand Cadence this morning for her bedtime behavior last night. Um, no. 1. you weren't involved last night, so don't interfere and 2. don't scold a child on their behavior from the day before. That's not how it works. She and I had our behavior talk last night after it happened and we were both calm, he had no reason to bring it all up again. I told him that this morning and he just didn't get it. I 100% get not scolding again when it's something that has been resolved, but MH and I will often talk to C about his behavior the next day. Like if he's acting out at bedtime and MH addresses is, the next morning I may say something like, "Daddy told me you weren't making good choices at bedtime" and then we'll talk about it a bit. I don't get angry with him, but we chat about it even though I wasn't involved. I would agree with this if mh was just talking casually about it with her, but he's not. He also words it as if she is a bad kid, not that the behavior she exhibited was not ok. She is going through a phase right now where she is constantly looking for acceptance and asking if I still love her, so I don't want her thinking she is a bad kid due to the way he words things.
|
|
jewels
Opal
Posts: 8,288 Likes: 43,886
|
Post by jewels on Feb 8, 2018 9:51:10 GMT -6
Heard mh trying to reprimand Cadence this morning for her bedtime behavior last night. Um, no. 1. you weren't involved last night, so don't interfere and 2. don't scold a child on their behavior from the day before. That's not how it works. She and I had our behavior talk last night after it happened and we were both calm, he had no reason to bring it all up again. I told him that this morning and he just didn't get it. I 100% get not scolding again when it's something that has been resolved, but MH and I will often talk to C about his behavior the next day. Like if he's acting out at bedtime and MH addresses is, the next morning I may say something like, "Daddy told me you weren't making good choices at bedtime" and then we'll talk about it a bit. I don't get angry with him, but we chat about it even though I wasn't involved. We do this in our house too. And often the other parent will address the issue with S. Like "I heard you were giving Daddy a hard time, etc" and then we'll talk about it with him. It seems to work for us, mostly to let him know that daddy and I are united, no matter what.
|
|
|
Post by snoopmommymom on Feb 8, 2018 9:51:48 GMT -6
MH likes to jump in to scold O for something right after i handled it and we calmed down. He escalates things unnecessarily and usually makes O cry. So frustrating.
|
|
jewels
Opal
Posts: 8,288 Likes: 43,886
|
Post by jewels on Feb 8, 2018 9:52:06 GMT -6
I 100% get not scolding again when it's something that has been resolved, but MH and I will often talk to C about his behavior the next day. Like if he's acting out at bedtime and MH addresses is, the next morning I may say something like, "Daddy told me you weren't making good choices at bedtime" and then we'll talk about it a bit. I don't get angry with him, but we chat about it even though I wasn't involved. I would agree with this if mh was just talking casually about it with her, but he's not. He also words it as if she is a bad kid, not that the behavior she exhibited was not ok. She is going through a phase right now where she is constantly looking for acceptance and asking if I still love her, so I don't want her thinking she is a bad kid due to the way he words things. I saw this after I posted mine. I would be annoyed as well if I was you.
|
|
tgrimes
Diamond
Posts: 27,662 Likes: 138,282
|
Post by tgrimes on Feb 8, 2018 9:53:17 GMT -6
Has anyone tried the Vitaclay?
|
|
jewels
Opal
Posts: 8,288 Likes: 43,886
|
Post by jewels on Feb 8, 2018 9:56:15 GMT -6
nam2013 congrats!! Great news! B is better from when he was sick, but he still has a lingering cough. It was mostly better yesterday, but then last night he was up at 4 AM coughing, but not upset. After listening to him cough for about an hour, around 5 I decided to bring him water to help, which was a BIG mistake. Then he started sobbing and only wanted to be held. I finally got him back to sleep at 5:45 and was just drifting off when MH alarm went off at 6 AM. It's going to be a long day, and MH left this morning for another trip so I'm solo. I feel bad complaining, b/c overall the boys are great sleepers, but man if it doesn't suck when they're not! That being said, I hope all the other sick kiddos (and parents) are doing better, and wedding, I hope C doesn't catch the tummy bug!!!
|
|
Sunny41
Sapphire
Posts: 4,704 Likes: 22,250
|
Post by Sunny41 on Feb 8, 2018 9:57:55 GMT -6
|
|
wedding
Emerald
Posts: 14,236 Likes: 77,185
|
Post by wedding on Feb 8, 2018 9:58:29 GMT -6
The Dr booked me for surgery since he is booked so far out. March 16th if it happens. I can't imagine being in this pain for 5 more weeks.
|
|
mwhip
Opal
Posts: 8,866 Likes: 55,506
|
Post by mwhip on Feb 8, 2018 10:02:16 GMT -6
|
|
trtlcrzy
Moderator
Posts: 10,085 Likes: 58,458
|
Post by trtlcrzy on Feb 8, 2018 10:02:43 GMT -6
The Dr booked me for surgery since he is booked so far out. March 16th if it happens. I can't imagine being in this pain for 5 more weeks. Sorry the wait is so long. I hope it’s not too bad.
|
|
|
Post by wineallthetime on Feb 8, 2018 10:03:32 GMT -6
The Dr booked me for surgery since he is booked so far out. March 16th if it happens. I can't imagine being in this pain for 5 more weeks. No! Are there any other great ass doctors you could get in with sooner??
|
|
jewels
Opal
Posts: 8,288 Likes: 43,886
|
Post by jewels on Feb 8, 2018 10:07:40 GMT -6
OH man wedding, I'm so sorry! Do they have anything they can do in the meantime to make you more comfortable? That sucks.
|
|
|
Post by peachsmama on Feb 8, 2018 10:09:22 GMT -6
|
|
Sunny41
Sapphire
Posts: 4,704 Likes: 22,250
|
Post by Sunny41 on Feb 8, 2018 10:09:44 GMT -6
I'm more congested today so laying in bed watching more this is us.
|
|
Sunny41
Sapphire
Posts: 4,704 Likes: 22,250
|
Post by Sunny41 on Feb 8, 2018 10:10:14 GMT -6
Anyone watching the opening ceremonies tonight?
|
|
|
Post by peachsmama on Feb 8, 2018 10:17:21 GMT -6
|
|
yummeecookee
Sapphire
Maker of November Babies
Posts: 3,133 Likes: 19,748
|
Post by yummeecookee on Feb 8, 2018 10:19:57 GMT -6
|
|
yummeecookee
Sapphire
Maker of November Babies
Posts: 3,133 Likes: 19,748
|
Post by yummeecookee on Feb 8, 2018 10:21:52 GMT -6
yummeecookee, where are they going for their field trip? I think Cadence gets to start going on field trips this summer at her dc. The Dental museum
|
|
|
Post by lahdeedah on Feb 8, 2018 10:27:49 GMT -6
I’ll be back to read, but you guys, I got the job!!! CONGRATS! That's great news!
|
|