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Post by brux on Feb 5, 2018 15:47:18 GMT -6
Anybody hating on her for having help is stupid. Does her having 800 nannies/night nurses/helpers or whatever, mean she isn’t raising her daughter? No of course not! Does having all of those things make having a new baby EASIER? Of course it does! Easy? Nope. But easier, yes. I don’t begrudge her or judge her for that help in any way shape or form but an average 20 year old having a baby is in for a much rougher ride than a 20 year old that can afford the extra assistance. Celebs and people in general have all sorts of different levels of help, which yea I do think technically determines whether or not they are raising their child. I read an article once about a Manhattan businesswoman, I can't remember if she was like the CEO of Pepsi or whatever company it was. But she said she sees her daughter for 20 minutes per day. To me, no that's not considered raising your child. I am also not saying this applies to Kylie, since she's wanted to be a mom forever, I don't see her level of help being anywhere near that. well this is pretty fucking bitchy.
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Post by Leaf 🌱 on Feb 5, 2018 15:47:42 GMT -6
Anybody hating on her for having help is stupid. Does her having 800 nannies/night nurses/helpers or whatever, mean she isn’t raising her daughter? No of course not! Does having all of those things make having a new baby EASIER? Of course it does! Easy? Nope. But easier, yes. I don’t begrudge her or judge her for that help in any way shape or form but an average 20 year old having a baby is in for a much rougher ride than a 20 year old that can afford the extra assistance. Celebs and people in general have all sorts of different levels of help, which yea I do think technically determines whether or not they are raising their child. I read an article once about a Manhattan businesswoman, I can't remember if she was like the CEO of Pepsi or whatever company it was. But she said she sees her daughter for 20 minutes per day. To me, no that's not considered raising your child. I am also not saying this applies to Kylie, since she's wanted to be a mom forever, I don't see her level of help being anywhere near that.
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Post by Lord Disick on Feb 5, 2018 15:48:56 GMT -6
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Post by brux on Feb 5, 2018 15:49:09 GMT -6
CEOs should've have children, obvi.
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Post by ArielMermaid on Feb 5, 2018 15:49:51 GMT -6
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Post by Lord Disick on Feb 5, 2018 15:50:33 GMT -6
CEOs should've have children, obvi. Or young poor people.
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Post by spicysalmonroll on Feb 5, 2018 15:51:46 GMT -6
CEOs should've have children, obvi. Not what I said but whatever I'll just see myself out now since this isn't going anywhere good and I'll end up digging myself deeper.
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Post by somesay on Feb 5, 2018 15:52:03 GMT -6
CEOs should've have children, obvi. Or young poor people. Or members of our military that may be deployed.
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Post by Lord Disick on Feb 5, 2018 15:53:14 GMT -6
Well that deescalated quickly.
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Post by normadix on Feb 5, 2018 15:53:20 GMT -6
Celebs and people in general have all sorts of different levels of help, which yea I do think technically determines whether or not they are raising their child. I read an article once about a Manhattan businesswoman, I can't remember if she was like the CEO of Pepsi or whatever company it was. But she said she sees her daughter for 20 minutes per day. To me, no that's not considered raising your child. I am also not saying this applies to Kylie, since she's wanted to be a mom forever, I don't see her level of help being anywhere near that. My husband, who isn’t a ceo, sees our kids awake for less than an hour a day most days. Does this mean that he isn’t raising them? Same here. And during the week he sees our 16mo for maybe 15 minutes and he is asleep by the time he gets home from work. He is still raising him.
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Post by normadix on Feb 5, 2018 15:54:14 GMT -6
My "hired help" are my parents. Bless them.
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Post by angelashly on Feb 5, 2018 15:58:30 GMT -6
Anybody hating on her for having help is stupid. Does her having 800 nannies/night nurses/helpers or whatever, mean she isn’t raising her daughter? No of course not! Does having all of those things make having a new baby EASIER? Of course it does! Easy? Nope. But easier, yes. I don’t begrudge her or judge her for that help in any way shape or form but an average 20 year old having a baby is in for a much rougher ride than a 20 year old that can afford the extra assistance. Celebs and people in general have all sorts of different levels of help, which yea I do think technically determines whether or not they are raising their child. I read an article once about a Manhattan businesswoman, I can't remember if she was like the CEO of Pepsi or whatever company it was. But she said she sees her daughter for 20 minutes per day. To me, no that's not considered raising your child. I am also not saying this applies to Kylie, since she's wanted to be a mom forever, I don't see her level of help being anywhere near that. Ouch so because someone has daycare or gets a night nurse they aren't raising their kids? Kim and Kourtney have a ton of help and yet they are with their kids a lot so I would say raising them.
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Post by angelashly on Feb 5, 2018 16:00:25 GMT -6
My so is a delivery driver. During the Christmas time he sees her for the 20 minutes in the morning and some on Sunday when he isn't sleeping. Even during none busy times he gets probably an hour with her during the week some of that is during her extra activities. Guess he shouldn't have had her
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Post by brux on Feb 5, 2018 16:01:47 GMT -6
CEOs should've have children, obvi. Or young poor people. My concern for young poor people comes from more of a place that I wish they had time first to focus on education or career or becoming an adult before jumping into parenthood. Because once you have a baby, it's really fucking hard to make major moves to enrich yourself. But I also don't think young rich people should have babies either. Basically, no one should have babies until they're old and tired.
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Post by angelashly on Feb 5, 2018 16:25:27 GMT -6
My concern for young poor people comes from more of a place that I wish they had time first to focus on education or career or becoming an adult before jumping into parenthood. Because once you have a baby, it's really fucking hard to make major moves to enrich yourself. But I also don't think young rich people should have babies either. Basically, no one should have babies until they're old and tired. I wasn't young young (26) when I had dd but yes I got lucky and was able to go back to school with help from work and online and a good support system so it's possible but less likely if they have no good support
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Post by bobyn on Feb 5, 2018 16:26:45 GMT -6
Sharon Stone is not alliterative. Both words start with S, so...
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Post by hardlyluck on Feb 5, 2018 16:31:57 GMT -6
I would just like to add that DS1 turned 4 last week and I would like to know where I sign up to see him for only 20 minutes a day...because so far 4 is kinda bitch slapping me in the face😒
This is a joke I love my kid....I just don’t like him a whole heck of a lot right now.
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Post by CeeBug on Feb 5, 2018 16:42:46 GMT -6
Sharon Stone is not alliterative. same letter. Alliteration is sound not letter. Sharon and shell would be alliterative. Or stone and star.
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Post by CeeBug on Feb 5, 2018 16:44:08 GMT -6
Sharon Stone is not alliterative. Both words start with S, so... They don't have the same sound. It's sound not letter. *Clearly I am focusing on the most important part of the last 2 pages and skipping the parenting stuff.
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Post by Shoshana on Feb 5, 2018 16:55:33 GMT -6
Both words start with S, so... They don't have the same sound. It's sound not letter. *Clearly I am focusing on the most important part of the last 2 pages and skipping the parenting stuff. maybe it would be considered consonance rather than alliteration? My English nerd is showing.
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Post by bobyn on Feb 5, 2018 17:12:03 GMT -6
Both words start with S, so... They don't have the same sound. It's sound not letter. *Clearly I am focusing on the most important part of the last 2 pages and skipping the parenting stuff. Enty didn't go to school for grammar, gawd!
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Post by snoopmommymom on Feb 5, 2018 17:29:57 GMT -6
I used to work for a nanny agency in manhattan and there were really rich people that had so many nannies (think round the clock and weekends) that they absolutely could not be alone with their kids. They had to have their nanny’s schedules overlap so they had help 24/7. This had nothing to do with their job btw, rather their social lives and possibly philanthropy.
#relevant
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Post by emma on Feb 5, 2018 17:44:11 GMT -6
CEOs should've have children, obvi. Or young poor people. Or young rich people
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Post by Lord Disick on Feb 5, 2018 17:44:46 GMT -6
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Post by Deleted on Feb 5, 2018 17:47:31 GMT -6
24/7 nannies sounds like a dream
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Post by emma on Feb 5, 2018 17:49:34 GMT -6
Daycare has done a great job of raising my kid so far, they potty trained him and taught him to count. God bless daycare and the wonderful patient early childhood educators
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Post by Deleted on Feb 5, 2018 17:50:16 GMT -6
CEOs should've have children, obvi. Not what I said but whatever I'll just see myself out now since this isn't going anywhere good and I'll end up digging myself deeper. then what *were* you saying? Because the implication from your whole post was that there’s some level of help a person can have that means they aren’t “technically” raising their kids. It’s...not a good implication.
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Post by emma on Feb 5, 2018 17:50:18 GMT -6
they also do crafts with him so i don't have to
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Post by Deleted on Feb 5, 2018 17:50:59 GMT -6
Daycare has done a great job of raising my kid so far, they potty trained him and taught him to count. God bless daycare and the wonderful patient early childhood educators Yes. Legitimately thank God for people who want to spend all day with my toddler so I don’t have to.
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Post by Lord Disick on Feb 5, 2018 17:55:09 GMT -6
they also do crafts with him so i don't have to I'm sending my kid to outdoor school one day a week soon where someone else can be all excited about nature and shit so I don't have to marvel at fucking leaves or whatever. It's all about outsourcing our weaknesses.
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