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Post by Leaf 🌱 on Dec 21, 2017 14:13:54 GMT -6
The last two days have been a mess. Actually, 2017 as a whole has been a mess and I'd greatly appreciate it if the universe would stop shitting on us. And now I have to worry that there are human teeth hidden in my house. (OMG I just gagged typing that.) JFC what has the world come to.
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tinyjoys
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Post by tinyjoys on Dec 21, 2017 14:26:10 GMT -6
Leaf 🌱 , eh, on the scale of universe shitting that I'm dealing with, finding teeth in my house would be on par with finding a cupcake right now. TW death/suicide below. {Spoiler}Two officers knocked on my aunt's door last night and escorted her to the hospital. My cousin had a gun shot wound to the head that was originally assumed suicide, but after taking statements, police are now investigating foul play on his fiancée's part.
The owner of the funeral home personally called my aunt at 3 this morning when he got the call & recognized her last name and we've dealt with them twice this year already with my grandpa passing away & my aunt's FIL passing away two months later.
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Post by leatherpants on Dec 21, 2017 14:31:17 GMT -6
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Post by dizzycooks on Dec 21, 2017 14:38:32 GMT -6
Omg you guys this week needs to end. leatherpants I’d be cleaning like crazy, that is so so gross and tinyjoys so disturbing. What is wrong with people??
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polson
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Post by polson on Dec 21, 2017 14:41:17 GMT -6
holy hannah tinyjoys that is nuts i’m sorry
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Post by Leaf 🌱 on Dec 21, 2017 14:54:58 GMT -6
Omg tinyjoys, I’m so sorry. That is really really scary. ...I thought you were joking about the tax bill passing/General 2017 awfulness so I apologize for being flippant.
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Post by cornpop on Dec 21, 2017 14:59:25 GMT -6
Omg tinyjoys I am so sorry. That's awful.
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Post by ArielMermaid on Dec 21, 2017 15:05:55 GMT -6
Fucking fuck tinyjoys. The universe needs to chill the fuck out for you.
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Post by calendula on Dec 21, 2017 15:14:48 GMT -6
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Post by Rama on Dec 21, 2017 15:22:28 GMT -6
Holy fuck, tinyjoys. Yeah, uh, 2018, can you just chill out plz. Because no more of that.
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Post by clementine on Dec 21, 2017 16:49:06 GMT -6
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Post by cp3 on Dec 21, 2017 16:51:18 GMT -6
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Post by woodenshoes on Dec 21, 2017 19:32:34 GMT -6
tinyjoys that is terrible,I am so sorry. You definitely need 2017 to be over. I really hope 2018 treats you much better.
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Post by mattsgirl2004 on Dec 21, 2017 22:33:29 GMT -6
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Post by mattsgirl2004 on Dec 21, 2017 22:37:25 GMT -6
This was my day today. I feel like I failed so much today as a mom, wife, caregiver. There's just not enough of me to go around sometimes. How am I going to do this with another kid to care for come April? #overwhelmed
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Post by polson on Dec 22, 2017 4:57:29 GMT -6
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Post by dizzycooks on Dec 22, 2017 7:56:56 GMT -6
mattsgirl2004 you are not a failure. I understand where you are coming from though. So many people depend on you and it’s hard to do it all. I have no answers and have no idea how I’m going to do it in April. None. Knowing we are done after this helps, but man, I’m convinced School Agers have MORE needs, not less. Hang in there mama and try to be kind to yourself.
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Post by sweetc129 on Dec 22, 2017 8:02:19 GMT -6
Didn't want to keep bogging down the HDBD thread, so I'll update here. My mom's ammonia levels spiked which is what they believed caused the confusion, and that is due to her failing liver function. She is doing much better today, and having normal conversations. Looks like possible release of tomorrow. If she keeps doing well she'll be able to come for awhile on Christmas, which is all we want. Of course HFM is going around daycare and my kids have 1 more day to not catch it or they can't be around my mom anyway, so FX they stay healthy. mattsgirl2004, ((HUGS)) Oh friend I get it, so much so. I worry to and I try and remember that are good days and bad days. I try not to beat myself up over the bad days too much. You will do amazing.
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Post by Leaf 🌱 on Dec 22, 2017 8:22:46 GMT -6
mattsgirl2004 i cried in the shower the other day bc i was suddenly convinced that i can’t care for two kids without losing my mind and/or ruining their lives. I’m so sorry it was bad day. Are you getting a break at all over the holidays? All the hugs. sweetc129 I’m so glad she’s having normal conversations and they’re able to treat her and keep her more comfortable. FX your kids stay healthy and you all can have a wonderful Christmas.
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Post by calendula on Dec 22, 2017 8:28:47 GMT -6
sweetc129, that is wonderful news. I'll keep fingers crossed that you get some time with her at home on Christmas and that the kids stay healthy!! mattsgirl2004, hang in there. Being a parent is hard and I'm finding myself far more edgy about it throughout the pregnancy. I cried myself to sleep the other night after having to deal with DS's school about him getting picked on by a classmate. But every day is a new one--just take it one day at a time.
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Post by Leaf 🌱 on Dec 22, 2017 8:31:26 GMT -6
PSA: i don’t know if it was a return or what but I found a ton of the HUGE boxes of pampers swaddlers diapers (206 pack i think?) on sale at my Target this morning for $31 - down from the target price of $55 and less than the lowest amazon subscribe and save price I can get (usually $37ish). I got three boxes, added a $10 thing of wipes and used the “get a $25 gift card with a $100 baby purchase” coupon.
...I went in for tape guys. TAPE.
I also picked up a bunch of maternity clothes from a local mom BST for $30 and am SO EXCITED bc she had a bunch of nursing tanks I loved with my daughter but have been discontinued. I feel like all the maternity stuff out right now is for old ladies or is super trendy. It shouldn’t be this hard to find normal looking stuff.
TLDR: I spent a bunch of $$$ I hadn’t budgeted for, but this will save me more in the long run I think. And check Target for diaper deals.
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Post by mattsgirl2004 on Dec 22, 2017 8:43:02 GMT -6
Thanks guys for the encouraging words and just letting me vent. I know many of you can commiserate. I'm still feeling quite overwhelmed today and overall just exhausted. At least I'm not alone in my thoughts and feelings. So, thank you for sharing with me and overall just the support. Leaf 🌱 No break for me. I have my 2 story house to clean today, grocery shopping to do, and still have to bake cookies all before family arrives in the morning. DH was supposed to help, but now he'll be stuck in the garage all day trying to repair our broken down truck. I'm just at the point now that I'll do what I can and whatever doesn't get done will be fine (like the baking). sweetc129 That's so wonderful about your mom. Praying for continued improvement and healing. FX your kids don't get HFM.
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Post by polson on Dec 22, 2017 9:20:43 GMT -6
sweetc129 continued prayers your way for some time with your mom over christmas and fx your kids stay healthy!
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Post by ArielMermaid on Dec 22, 2017 9:44:43 GMT -6
mattsgirl2004 I honestly don't have a clue how I am going I pull off being a mom of two. I had a really hard time adjusting after my first was born and I literally can't let myself think about having two or I panic a little.
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Post by woodenshoes on Dec 22, 2017 9:53:10 GMT -6
mattsgirl2004, I am sorry that your are feeling overwhelmed. Parenting is tough. I worry about how I am going to manage 2 children when this one gets here. DS just turned 4 and is very clingy to me and I am worried about what regression we are going to have once this new little one gets here. I hope you get done what you need to get done today. sweetc129, I am glad your mom is doing better. I really hope she gets to be with you for Christmas. I also hope your children stay healthy.
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Post by mattsgirl2004 on Dec 22, 2017 10:01:51 GMT -6
Thanks again guys and I'm sorry some of you are feeling overwhelmed as well. Going from 3 to 4 kids terrifies me more than going from 1-2 did. I'm excited though too! I was feeling more stressed with current situations and how this week has gone, but I'm trying to shift my focus. This is me right now with my morning coffee resting on my "table" before getting going. I'm already feeling a bit better and ready to tackle the day (and my long to-do list). I really appreciate you all! ❤
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Post by cp3 on Dec 22, 2017 10:08:44 GMT -6
That is a great update sweetc129. Continued prayers and positive thoughts that she is home for Christmas and that your kids don't get sick.
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Post by cp3 on Dec 22, 2017 10:10:35 GMT -6
I'm sorry you are so overwhelmed mattsgirl2004. You are not a failure and doing great managing everything you have going on. I hope you are able to get some time to yourself next week after Christmas.
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Post by cornpop on Dec 22, 2017 10:29:33 GMT -6
sweetc129 I hope your mom continues to improve and can come home for Christmas and you avoid HFM! Hugs mattsgirl2004. Parenting is so hard, especially while pregnant. I got all of my gifts wrapped yesterday and all cookie dough made,I just need to throw some in the oven. I'm actually feeling pretty relaxed about Christmas now which is nice. The nursery is pretty much done, I just need to organize some clothes and put stuff away so I'll probably be AWing that in the next few days. I'm so in love with how it came out.
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Post by Rama on Dec 22, 2017 10:35:32 GMT -6
Hugs mattsgirl2004. You're doing amazingly, even when it doesn't feel like it. Your kids are lucky to have you caring for them so much. sweetc129 Fantastic news about your mother! I really, really hope they let her come home for Christmas. <3
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