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Post by lahdeedah on Dec 4, 2021 16:55:35 GMT -6
I’m so annoyed at Mh. We stopped at storage to drop of some stuff and this dude locks it before making sure he had his keys and now we are stuck here until our neighbors brings up my keys- because of course it’s the one time I don’t have them. We are going to be super late for M’s belt test and this was the makeup session for the kids that were out of town for the first test. Ughhhhhhhhhh. OMG. I’m so sorry. We made it about 10 min late- not bad. He passed!
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Post by snoopmommymom on Dec 4, 2021 17:05:44 GMT -6
I will because i saw your Instagram post and got worried. My mammogram is next Saturday. I was supposed to get it in September but kept changing the date. Ugh. I hope you are ok. Don’t be surprised if they make you come back for a follow up ultrasound or mammogram. It’s pretty common with your first one because of dense breast tissue. I had to do an ultrasound, then biopsy, and then was referred to a breast surgeon because the biopsy showed atypical cells. They removed my lump Thursday and sent it off to pathology. It was a spot that I’d never be able to feel in a normal breast exam. The dr said that’s why they do mammograms. I had one in Sept of 2020. I do have dense breast tissue so i think my Dr ordered the mammogram and ultrasound so long as my insurance covers both. What are the next steps for you?
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Post by tgrimes on Dec 4, 2021 17:14:54 GMT -6
We made it about 10 min late- not bad. He passed! That’s great!
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Post by tgrimes on Dec 4, 2021 17:15:47 GMT -6
Don’t be surprised if they make you come back for a follow up ultrasound or mammogram. It’s pretty common with your first one because of dense breast tissue. I had to do an ultrasound, then biopsy, and then was referred to a breast surgeon because the biopsy showed atypical cells. They removed my lump Thursday and sent it off to pathology. It was a spot that I’d never be able to feel in a normal breast exam. The dr said that’s why they do mammograms. I had one in Sept of 2020. I do have dense breast tissue so i think my Dr ordered the mammogram and ultrasound so long as my insurance covers both. What are the next steps for you? Just waiting for the pathology reports…and will make sure to do my mammograms every year!
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Post by klong11 on Dec 4, 2021 18:39:49 GMT -6
While at Target Cadence was looking at the Our Generation pets. She held up a dachshund and yelled,
"Look, a weiner! I know how much you like weiners!!" 😳😬🤦
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Post by inthekitty on Dec 4, 2021 19:18:43 GMT -6
While at Target Cadence was looking at the Our Generation pets. She held up a dachshund and yelled, "Look, a weiner! I know how much you like weiners!!" 😳😬🤦 😂😂😂💀💀💀 Oh how mom loves weiners!
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Post by nam2013 on Dec 5, 2021 6:54:46 GMT -6
Morning ladies. Another more or less sleepless night. I can’t seems to shake that frustrated feeling, which sucks because today is a day of celebration… Sinterklaasavond. I’m trying to get a grip on my mood. Tips are welcome 😅.
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Post by inthekitty on Dec 5, 2021 7:44:57 GMT -6
Morning ladies. Another more or less sleepless night. I can’t seems to shake that frustrated feeling, which sucks because today is a day of celebration… Sinterklaasavond. I’m trying to get a grip on my mood. Tips are welcome 😅. Have you ever practiced mindfulness meditation exercises? There's a bunch of them available on YouTube. I like Jon Kabot Zinn's stuff. His book Full Catastrophe Living is good too. There's also anxiety workbooks you can buy that help focus on challenging unhelpful thoughts. I hope you find something that helps soon and that the new therapist makes a difference.
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Post by nam2013 on Dec 5, 2021 7:51:49 GMT -6
Morning ladies. Another more or less sleepless night. I can’t seems to shake that frustrated feeling, which sucks because today is a day of celebration… Sinterklaasavond. I’m trying to get a grip on my mood. Tips are welcome 😅. Have you ever practiced mindfulness meditation exercises? There's a bunch of them available on YouTube. I like Jon Kabot Zinn's stuff. His book Full Catastrophe Living is good too. There's also anxiety workbooks you can buy that help focus on challenging unhelpful thoughts. I hope you find something that helps soon and that the new therapist makes a difference. Weirdly enough I tried one last week for work. On Netflix. Maybe a workbook could help too.
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Post by inthekitty on Dec 5, 2021 7:53:58 GMT -6
We went to a big holiday bazaar yesterday and the girls made the mistake of getting sucked into a weird religious booth of zealots bribing them with crappy candy in attempts to save their souls.
M told me afterwards how they guy who was talking to her was creepy like Kane from Poltergeist 2. 😂 Cass talked about how she loves God and Jesus but the lady who talked to her "was a bit cray-cray." 😂 Yes, yes she was.
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Post by inthekitty on Dec 5, 2021 7:55:12 GMT -6
We watched Enchanted last night. It's finally on Disney+. I love that movie and discovered they're making a sequel. *Squeals like Giselle*
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Post by jewels on Dec 5, 2021 8:33:04 GMT -6
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Post by peachsmama on Dec 5, 2021 8:55:54 GMT -6
We drove down to see A yesterday afternoon. We swam and hung out in the room until he got there. Had dinner and went to bed. He and I couldn't even sleep next to each other lol. Mallory fell asleep but everytime I would try to move by him she would wake up and cry.. I miss snuggling at night and watching our shows. We had breakfast and now the kids are swimming before we hit the road. Matthew can swim in the 5 foot end here and do the whole length of the pool. He comes up for a breath but keeps going. Mallory is just playing in the hot tub (it's not very hot).
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Post by chrisy01 on Dec 5, 2021 9:43:24 GMT -6
I have to get my paper started. So much work to do. Plus laundry and baking cookies since it’s what I had planned for advent calendar
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Post by lahdeedah on Dec 5, 2021 10:01:57 GMT -6
While at Target Cadence was looking at the Our Generation pets. She held up a dachshund and yelled, "Look, a weiner! I know how much you like weiners!!" 😳😬🤦 Bahahahahaha!
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Post by tgrimes on Dec 5, 2021 13:24:32 GMT -6
While at Target Cadence was looking at the Our Generation pets. She held up a dachshund and yelled, "Look, a weiner! I know how much you like weiners!!" 😳😬🤦 Amazing.
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Post by tgrimes on Dec 5, 2021 13:25:44 GMT -6
MH is supposed to be putting up the Christmas lights and blowups outside, but he as ADD and keeps getting distracted. Dude, I let you sleep till 10. Just put up the freakin decorations and then you can do whatever you want.
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Post by mwhip on Dec 5, 2021 13:35:08 GMT -6
tgrimes go tell him if he doesn't get it done, you're paying someone to do it.
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Post by mwhip on Dec 5, 2021 13:37:15 GMT -6
I met one of my best friends for lunch. It was good to see her and catch up. Then I grabbed groceries and I'm home.
There is a bday party for one of my cousins who turned 50 this week. The party is at 6 this evening. Im annoyed by this time. Sunday evenings are my time to get ready for the work week. So I think we are going to skip it. We would only stay about 30 minutes anyway. Evie goes to bed at 730.
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Post by inthekitty on Dec 5, 2021 13:54:35 GMT -6
I'm annoyed at MH. His dad's birthday was Friday so he wanted to meet-up with him soon. Even though that's his only family member to coordinate gatherings with he can never get his shit together to do it (we never ended up meeting with his dad for Thanksgiving even though I suggested several times to MH but he was too lazy to call his dad and lock in a time). I had suggested possibly going sometime this weekend since I work remotely. He never scheduled a time. He's been in a foul mood all morning for no reason and I asked him if we were going to meet up with his dad today. He gets bitchy about it, goes into the other room to call his dad, then returns and announces we're leaving in 20 minutes. Neither of us had showered so clearly he didn't intend for me to go since he was going to be taking up the bathroom for the next 15 minutes. Not to mention I'm still working and needed at least an hour to get more work done. So clearly not inviting me. Whatever. Leave with your shitty attitude. I wouldn't care but it always makes me look like the bad guy with the girls. They start complaining that I never go to grandpas. He still carries on the shit he pulled with his mom making me look like the bad guy. I'm tired of it.
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Post by tgrimes on Dec 5, 2021 14:34:32 GMT -6
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Post by nam2013 on Dec 5, 2021 15:01:36 GMT -6
inthekitty I’m sorry, what a stupid situation and what a shitty position to be put in.
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Post by mwhip on Dec 5, 2021 15:05:45 GMT -6
inthekitty what an asshole move. Sorry you have to deal with that today. Hopefully him getting out will reset his attitude.
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Post by chrisy01 on Dec 5, 2021 15:07:38 GMT -6
I’m sorry [mention]inthekitty [/mention] C and I use to have fights about meeting up with his family. It’s now his responsibility to set everything up for his family. However most of the family he likes has moved away so that helped as well.
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Post by lahdeedah on Dec 5, 2021 15:51:13 GMT -6
I know everybody has their bad mood days, but dealing with man moods is the worst. inthekitty Sorry it was your day for this.
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Post by lahdeedah on Dec 5, 2021 15:55:08 GMT -6
Hi!
I’m so done with having a task every day. I mean… such is life, but it’s getting old. Always having to run out to do this or that and then it seems the whole day is gone.
I got the outside decorations up and we have to decorate the tree tonight. I still have to cook and get ready for the week ahead.
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Post by inthekitty on Dec 5, 2021 16:07:42 GMT -6
Hi! I’m so done with having a task every day. I mean… such is life, but it’s getting old. Always having to run out to do this or that and then it seems the whole day is gone. I got the outside decorations up and we have to decorate the tree tonight. I still have to cook and get ready for the week ahead. Oh my gosh I know exactly what you mean. I've got a ton of documentation still to do for work and I'm struggling to get through it. We still need to put up the outdoor lights. I need to figure out dinner, exercise, walk the dog. It feels never ending sometimes.
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Post by wedding on Dec 5, 2021 16:28:07 GMT -6
inthekitty I’m sorry he was a douche. Also yes to all the stuff to get done. Having to be the captain is rough sometimes. It’s bad when I look forward to a Monday so I have to focus on work.
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Post by slenle on Dec 5, 2021 17:19:55 GMT -6
Going on hour 5 of nutcracker dress rehearsal. N is about done and then we can at least leave while they keep practicing the rest of the second act. I’m not cut out to be a dance mom.
Dh will take L along to Hs hockey practice and I’ll make dinner when I get home. I’ve had a stomach ache all day so don’t even want to eat, but kids.
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Post by slenle on Dec 5, 2021 17:20:18 GMT -6
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