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Post by TashaLa on Jan 9, 2019 20:58:41 GMT -6
+1 for fear of nursing #2 I struggled early on with BF DD, cracked really bad after day 1. Had a lot of pain and frustration. In hindsight, she definitely had/has a lip tie. We used a nipple shield the whole journey- 9 months when pumping destroyed my nips beyond repair and I had to stop everything.
Side PSA- there are different sized pump flanges and that can make a huge difference in efficiency and skin breakdown
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Post by thelittleredm on Jan 10, 2019 9:36:53 GMT -6
I think today is going to be rough. Started off not wanting to wake up (shocker), forgot my phone at home, and then proceeded to hand a customer a clipboard instead of their paperwork and I didn't realize what I was doing until they confusedly tried to take the clipboard. I'm done. Send me home, please.
Also, my ears were plugged this morning on the way into work and finally seemed to loosen up while I was dealing with my cars but then they hurt so bad! Like, ear infection level stabbing except I've had no other symptoms of an ear infection. Took some Tylenol that seemed to help some but now I'm nauseous and not want to go home. Bleh.
On the plus side, only 6 weeks left as of today! Almost down to the one-hand countdown....
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Post by Foxy on Jan 10, 2019 19:37:08 GMT -6
dashook I hope your newest little is a good nurser! Iβve read about nipple shields but it seems like some people suggest it just as a temporary solution? Whatβs the harm or is there any if it helps give you some relief? In general they are designed to be a temporary solution and a lot of moms use them to provide some protection if they have some damage while the damage heals. I definitely am in a vast minority in having used it for more than a couple weeks. But in our case DS1 had a mild tongue tie (which I opted not to clip) that prevented him from latching well onto my nipple because he couldnβt get his mouth around it properly. So the shield gave him a bigger target, if you will, and he did great with it. It is something extra that you have to carry with you always or else youβre kinda screwed. One time when he was like 8 months old I lost one and so I tried to latch him without itβdisaster! That time I was able to pump and just give him a bottle and then go buy a new one the next day. But if you forget one at home and you are out in public somewhere, you donβt have a lot of options. Definitely pros and cons. I solely use my nipple shield to nurse DS. I was so terrified of the dogs chewing the only shield I had, I bought 4 packs on amazon. I keep one in his diaper bag, 1 upstairs, 1 downstairs, and one just in case, maybe i'll throw it in my purse. There is real fear of not having it when I need it for sure, but it's working for us so.... π€·ββοΈπ€·ββοΈπ€·ββοΈ
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Post by strawberrykiki on Jan 10, 2019 20:20:35 GMT -6
Does the hospital have some I can try if I need them or should I buy some?
I had my NST today and Iβm having some contractions. She was surprised I couldnβt feel them but π€·ββοΈ
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dashook
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Post by dashook on Jan 10, 2019 21:04:29 GMT -6
Does the hospital have some I can try if I need them or should I buy some? I had my NST today and Iβm having some contractions. She was surprised I couldnβt feel them but π€·ββοΈ My hospital gave me my first one. If you end up needing one yours probably has them too. Do you know if youβll have access to LCβs while youβre there? That can be a great help too. I never felt a single contraction (BH or otherwise) when I was pregnant with DS. Even in labor I wasnβt always sure if I was having one unless I looked at the monitor π
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Post by dashook on Jan 10, 2019 21:09:53 GMT -6
Weβre home!!
LO morphed into a super-hungry nursing champ sometime last night! Since midnight last night he has nursed 12 times for a total of almost 3 hours. My milk definitely is coming inβitβs always such a strange (and not entirely comfortable) feeling!
He has been ultra sleepy (it was a busy and stimulating day) so I have been having to wake him up every 3 hours to make sure he eats. Hoping that continues overnight because then I can just set an alarm to get up and feed him. I would dearly love to get 2 or more 3-hour stretches. Wish me luck!
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Post by CharlieB on Jan 11, 2019 6:46:40 GMT -6
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Post by cch on Jan 11, 2019 6:49:21 GMT -6
strawberrykiki My hospital gave me two nipple shields when I had DD. However, I had an amazing LC and Iβm not sure every hospital provides them. Iβd probably buy one, leave it in the pack and keep the receipt incase you donβt end up needing it.. just incase! Lucky you for not being able to feel those contractions! dashook yay for being home and your milk coming in. So glad LO is nursing well for you!
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Post by CharlieB on Jan 11, 2019 6:58:26 GMT -6
Re: nursing - I struggled a bit with figuring out DSβs tiny latch and had to experiment with different holds. What was most helpful was when an NP observed a feeding at DSβs first pedi appt. She explained that my engorgement and forceful letdown was making it tough for him. Hand expression was a bust, so I ended up pumping just until letdown before latching him, and it made a world of difference. People have strong opinions about pumping so early, but it worked for us. I think thatβs what it comes down to at the end of the day - do what works for you and your babe. This time, Iβm most worried about having to parent DS while nursing LO. DS and I spent a LOT of time just lounging in the glider and nursing on demand throughout the day. Things wonβt be so leisurely for this kiddo! After the first few weeks pass, Iβm hoping to figure out BFing with a carrier so that I can be a bit more mobile. ETA +1 to TashaLa - sizing down in flanges was another lifesaver!
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Post by k on Jan 11, 2019 7:56:42 GMT -6
Re: nursing - I struggled a bit with figuring out DSβs tiny latch and had to experiment with different holds. What was most helpful was when an NP observed a feeding at DSβs first pedi appt. She explained that my engorgement and forceful letdown was making it tough for him. Hand expression was a bust, so I ended up pumping just until letdown before latching him, and it made a world of difference. People have strong opinions about pumping so early, but it worked for us. I think thatβs what it comes down to at the end of the day - do what works for you and your babe. This time, Iβm most worried about having to parent DS while nursing LO. DS and I spent a LOT of time just lounging in the glider and nursing on demand throughout the day. Things wonβt be so leisurely for this kiddo! After the first few weeks pass, Iβm hoping to figure out BFing with a carrier so that I can be a bit more mobile. ETA +1 to TashaLa - sizing down in flanges was another lifesaver! I think I need to pump earlier this time. Iβve struggled with terrible and painful engorgement both times but just kinda suffered through it. Ugh I just hate pumping. but if it would help latch itβs worth it.
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Post by k on Jan 11, 2019 7:56:59 GMT -6
We have a flat tire π. Our tires are less than a year old and the place we usually go to gave us a high quote. and snow is on the way. so this means the baby is coming right?
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Post by dashook on Jan 11, 2019 8:47:16 GMT -6
We have a flat tire π. Our tires are less than a year old and the place we usually go to gave us a high quote. and snow is on the way. so this means the baby is coming right?
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Post by notagoddess on Jan 11, 2019 9:19:24 GMT -6
I've put on 5 pounds this week without changing my diet, and I think it's all from swelling. The OB says it's not medically a problem since my blood pressure and urine protein levels are both good. But it is so uncomfortable!
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Post by sunshiney on Jan 11, 2019 9:39:51 GMT -6
SPD pain started suddenly Monday afternoon when I got out of the car. Then grocery shopped (stupid choice) and by yesterday I'm limping and hardly moving anywhere. Feel like I just came to terms with the idea of not being able to do as much the rest of this trimester, and being okay with needing lots of help during c section recovery. Now this, I am feeling stressed and frustrated at how much it affects daily life... And puts on DH. He's being a saint about it though.
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Post by thelittleredm on Jan 11, 2019 10:11:00 GMT -6
sunshiney, SPD is a bitch. Mine seemed fairly tame yesterday but omg today it's awful, even with my memory foam pillow to help at work.
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Post by wildflowers on Jan 11, 2019 10:14:40 GMT -6
With respect to BF, it was so different with both my girls. I think primarily because of my attitude. With DD1 it took a lot to get going, but we got there. DD2 had a really shallow latch, but I was so relaxed about it it was fine. I think it helped that I only had a few months in between weaning DD1 and starting DD2. I weaned them both around 22 months.
This time the only thing I am really worried about it engorgement. Both prior times I was a milk machine and it took a while to get the excessive quantities of milk under control!
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Post by wildflowers on Jan 11, 2019 10:16:12 GMT -6
My car seat came from my sister and she hasn't given me infant insert yet. I laid awake in bed last night feeling contractions and freaking out that I don't have a proper car seat installed!
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Post by thelittleredm on Jan 11, 2019 11:47:13 GMT -6
wildflowers, I'd freak out, too! I told H we need to rearrange seats this weekend even though we're 6 weeks out. I'm thankful nesting is starting to kick in...
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Post by tngrl3 on Jan 11, 2019 12:02:27 GMT -6
The OB office was packed and running behind so I spent 2 hours there this morning. Not how I wanted to spend a lot of my only day off. I had planned to get a pedicure but abandoned it because I was starving and ready to go home. I have a date for my csection if I make it that far which is exciting and scary. We pushed it a little past 37w so I could schedule with my favorite OB. I really need to start getting things ready for this baby girl!!!
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Post by CharlieB on Jan 11, 2019 12:06:05 GMT -6
And I just remembered that we still need to install our car seat bases! That would have been an awkward moment at discharge...I think Iβll set the seat in the living room this weekend so that we donβt forget (again).
We also have snow moving in for the weekend. I still get just as excited about it as I did when I was a kid. Maybe I can convince DS that his snowsuit is not a torture device and get him to play in the snow with me.
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Post by k on Jan 11, 2019 13:08:58 GMT -6
The OB office was packed and running behind so I spent 2 hours there this morning. Not how I wanted to spend a lot of my only day off. I had planned to get a pedicure but abandoned it because I was starving and ready to go home. I have a date for my csection if I make it that far which is exciting and scary. We pushed it a little past 37w so I could schedule with my favorite OB. I really need to start getting things ready for this baby girl!!! What is the date?!
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Post by tngrl3 on Jan 11, 2019 13:59:56 GMT -6
k February 6th. Provided everything stays stable for the next 3 weeks.
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Post by k on Jan 11, 2019 14:06:56 GMT -6
k February 6th. Provided everything stays stable for the next 3 weeks. So soon!
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Post by k on Jan 11, 2019 14:07:59 GMT -6
I've put on 5 pounds this week without changing my diet, and I think it's all from swelling. The OB says it's not medically a problem since my blood pressure and urine protein levels are both good. But it is so uncomfortable! Yuck to the swelling but Iβm glad your OB isnβt worried!
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Post by tngrl3 on Jan 11, 2019 14:30:29 GMT -6
k February 6th. Provided everything stays stable for the next 3 weeks. So soon! Don't remind me! I seriously feel like I have nothing ready for her. We bought a new infant carseat that is in the garage in the box. Otherwise nothing!. I'm going to wash clothes and pack a bag this weekend which will hopefully make me feel a little more prepared.
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Post by k on Jan 11, 2019 14:45:13 GMT -6
I had my 36 week checkup today. GBS swab done. My induction is tentatively scheduled for next Saturday, but there's a potential for it getting pushed earlier or later depending on lab results, bed availability in L&D, etc. MH installed the infant seat base yesterday (and installed/reinstalled convertible seats for DS1 and DS2 in both our vehicles!), and my hospital bag is pretty much packed. I don't necessarily feel "ready" for baby, but we're about as set for things to start happening as we're going to be. Omg! π³
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Post by sunshiney on Jan 11, 2019 14:54:18 GMT -6
We've had the car seat installed since early October, and the hospital bag packed since about 24 weeks... But I haven't washed a single piece of baby laundry. For some reason that feels so real and intimate as if there's a real person joining our family and I've been avoiding it maybe?
DH is running an internet cable to the nursery this weekend so the monitor will have protected internet (and the wireless isn't great on that side is the house). He's also making a baby Mario themed mobile with melty beads as pixels (his secret need hobby!).
I have everything for lots of baby sewing projects but have avoided them too, now I'm afraid of aggravating SPD with sitting at the machine for hours....And I have to schedule the medical test part of life insurance application, been avoiding that for a few weeks. Hoped to prep more freezer meals (only have about 5) but not sure about working in the kitchen now.. and that is a complete list of baby prep things to do. Wow. Feels so close!
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Post by sunshiney on Jan 11, 2019 14:57:36 GMT -6
Super proud of DH, he started this week using my fitness pal to track his diet/calories, and is intermittent fasting, eating only 12-8pm daily. I'm helping him with packing healthy lunch/snacks for work. Of course he lost 5.5 pounds in the first week... Ugh guys have it so easy when it comes to weight loss! I'm sure there's water weight in there but still. I'm really proud of him tho because it's a big lifestyle change and he's making it to help me make good choices post partum, and be a better model for raising LO with a healthy relationship to food!
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Post by dashook on Jan 11, 2019 17:09:56 GMT -6
Super proud of DH, he started this week using my fitness pal to track his diet/calories, and is intermittent fasting, eating only 12-8pm daily. I'm helping him with packing healthy lunch/snacks for work. Of course he lost 5.5 pounds in the first week... Ugh guys have it so easy when it comes to weight loss! I'm sure there's water weight in there but still. I'm really proud of him tho because it's a big lifestyle change and he's making it to help me make good choices post partum, and be a better model for raising LO with a healthy relationship to food! Eh, I have him beat. Iβve lost about 20 lbs since Tuesday π Seriously though thatβs awesome! MH needs a serious kick in the pants on his eating habits. He complains about his weight constantly but never takes any steps to changing it. Iβm planning to be really diligent once I can get back to exercising and hoping he will join me.
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Post by thelittleredm on Jan 11, 2019 17:28:55 GMT -6
Super proud of DH, he started this week using my fitness pal to track his diet/calories, and is intermittent fasting, eating only 12-8pm daily. I'm helping him with packing healthy lunch/snacks for work. Of course he lost 5.5 pounds in the first week... Ugh guys have it so easy when it comes to weight loss! I'm sure there's water weight in there but still. I'm really proud of him tho because it's a big lifestyle change and he's making it to help me make good choices post partum, and be a better model for raising LO with a healthy relationship to food! Eh, I have him beat. Iβve lost about 20 lbs since Tuesday π Seriously though thatβs awesome! MH needs a serious kick in the pants on his eating habits. He complains about his weight constantly but never takes any steps to changing it. Iβm planning to be really diligent once I can get back to exercising and hoping he will join me. Same with mine! Like, he bitches about all the things that are a result of having too much weight on but refuses to do anything about it because "I don't care what other people think about me." He knows losing the weight would make his body hurt less, he'd be more alert and less grumpy, etc. and he even knows he loses weight easily but nothing makes him do anything. I've even made comments like "I think our sex life was way better before we added a bunch of weight to ourselves" and he agrees but alas. I've given up.
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