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Sept 26, 2018 10:23:15 GMT -6
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Post by sammysam on Sept 26, 2018 10:23:15 GMT -6
AFM I think I actually started spotting this morning. So today could he CD1. But now that it might be here I'm feeling super stressed. I kind of liked the "I can't do anything until AF comes back" limbo. I'm thinking we will try for this next cycle or 2 on our own. When we meet with the RE I think I'll ask to go staight to IFV. Try one cycle (because it's covered through provincial healthcare) and then reevaluate.
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Post by charliefox on Sept 26, 2018 16:37:07 GMT -6
sammysam it’s an odd feeling of relief when you can’t actually “do” anything. Your plan sounds good, I’d probably do similar in your shoes. AFM, the RE is letting me start BC today (cd5). So it’s 2ish weeks of BC, then 2ish weeks of estrogen, then start progesterone in oil AND progesterone suppositories (waaaaaaah), then transfer is set for early Nov. it seems so far away! Weird silver lining is that I plan on using all this IF stuff as an excuse to skip out on traveling to my parents’ for Christmas. We’ll fly out there to visit at some point between now and the new year but it won’t be on a holiday. Both H and I just want to have a cozy Xmas at home with DS.
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Sept 27, 2018 12:55:11 GMT -6
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Post by sammysam on Sept 27, 2018 12:55:11 GMT -6
charliefox I hope October flies by for you and that the BC etc don't make you feel too terrible. I know November is a little further away than you were hoping but a quiet Xmas at home sounds blissful!
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Sept 27, 2018 12:58:09 GMT -6
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Post by sammysam on Sept 27, 2018 12:58:09 GMT -6
CD1 is officially today. YAY! I think I am not going to temp the next couple of cycles (I pretty much always O on the day of my +OPK or the next) so FW should be starting end of next week. I think I want to try to be a little more chill leading up the the RE apt in November.
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Post by sarahh on Sept 27, 2018 13:04:09 GMT -6
So have some news, maybe... {Spoiler}I got a faint bfp on a frer yesterday afternoon and another faint one this morning. I've spiraled and am googling faint bfp's so that's where I am now. I will wait to test again in the morning but I'm cautiously optimistic for now.
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Sept 27, 2018 15:35:08 GMT -6
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Post by purple on Sept 27, 2018 15:35:08 GMT -6
beenthere, so sorry for CD1 and sorry I missed seeing it yesterday. sammysam, hurrah for CD1, at long last! Being more relaxed this month sounds like a great plan. sarahh, hurrah! Lots of sticky baby vibes for you!
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Post by sammysam on Sept 27, 2018 17:45:27 GMT -6
sarahh Yay! Doesn't matter if it's faint...it's still positive! Congratulations!
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Sept 27, 2018 17:46:21 GMT -6
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Post by sammysam on Sept 27, 2018 17:46:21 GMT -6
I am having the lightest AF ever. Gah. But I shouldn't complain I guess. At least it's here.
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Post by charliefox on Sept 27, 2018 20:03:22 GMT -6
sarahh, a line is a line! You're 12dpo? Definitely wouldn't expect a dark line at this point. CONGRATS!
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Sept 27, 2018 22:41:26 GMT -6
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Post by beenthere on Sept 27, 2018 22:41:26 GMT -6
Well not getting pregnant this month was probably a blessing because I had emergency surgery on my kidney for a blocked up stone that was starting to turn me septic. It happened so fast. I literally woke up Wednesday morning in excruciating pain and couldn't keep anything down. I went to the ER after I started puking everything up. Once I got there I spiked a 106 degree fever and my BP dropped really low and by 7pm I went back to have a stent put in. Been mobile since shortly after I got to recovery. Hopefully going home tomorrow.
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Sept 27, 2018 22:41:56 GMT -6
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Post by beenthere on Sept 27, 2018 22:41:56 GMT -6
sarahh congratulations that's wonderful!! FX for a sticky baby
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Sept 28, 2018 2:10:01 GMT -6
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Post by purple on Sept 28, 2018 2:10:01 GMT -6
Oh wow, beenthere, you poor thing! How scary. I hope your recovery goes smoothly.
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Post by sharebear on Sept 28, 2018 6:19:21 GMT -6
charliefox that is so exciting to have a date set for transfer!!! sammysam I think this is a yay for CD1? Just so you can have a cycle in before the RE appointment? I'm sorry this is a CD1 and not graduation, but I'm glad you have a short term plan and are yaying the day! sarahh WOOHOO Congrats!!!!!!!! Sending lots of good thoughts your way <3 beenthere ohmg. I'm glad you're recovering from that procedure and infection. That is so scary! I hope you have an uneventful recovery.
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Sept 28, 2018 6:48:16 GMT -6
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Post by sammysam on Sept 28, 2018 6:48:16 GMT -6
sharebear Yes. Definitely a yay:) I was waiting for CD1 so we could start our first cycle AL. It took 41 days...I usually have a 23 to 25 day cycle so it was a bit frustrating. But seems good now:) sharebear I'm glad you are ok. I can't imagine how scary that must have been...and how much worse it might have been had you been pregnant.
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Sept 28, 2018 7:18:30 GMT -6
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Post by beenthere on Sept 28, 2018 7:18:30 GMT -6
sharebear Yes. Definitely a yay:) I was waiting for CD1 so we could start our first cycle AL. It took 41 days...I usually have a 23 to 25 day cycle so it was a bit frustrating. But seems good now:) sharebear I'm glad you are ok. I can't imagine how scary that must have been...and how much worse it might have been had you been pregnant. I agree! I'm also a little worried this could put a hold on getting pregnant too. I'm supposed to have the stent in for a month and then get it removed under general anesthesia, I probably shouldn't get pregnant before it's taken out and I've healed from it
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Sept 28, 2018 9:04:42 GMT -6
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Post by sammysam on Sept 28, 2018 9:04:42 GMT -6
sharebear Yes. Definitely a yay:) I was waiting for CD1 so we could start our first cycle AL. It took 41 days...I usually have a 23 to 25 day cycle so it was a bit frustrating. But seems good now:) sharebear I'm glad you are ok. I can't imagine how scary that must have been...and how much worse it might have been had you been pregnant. I agree! I'm also a little worried this could put a hold on getting pregnant too. I'm supposed to have the stent in for a month and then get it removed under general anesthesia, I probably shouldn't get pregnant before it's taken out and I've healed from it I agree. Your health is most important right now. I don't think you would want to run the risk of being under anesthesia or trying to heal while pregnant. In the grand scheme of things a month or two won't make a difference in terms of TTC (other than the torture of having to wait to start trying again) but will mean a lot in terms of your health!
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Post by sarahh on Sept 28, 2018 10:46:32 GMT -6
I’m in a class all day so just passing through but I started bleeding this morning and am dealing with a serious headache right now so I’m guessing chemical. Thanks for the well wishes - DH and I have a lot to discuss this weekend
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Post by sharebear on Sept 28, 2018 14:11:03 GMT -6
Hugs sarahh I'm sorry Any chance of implantation spotting? I'll stay hopeful, but with more hugs.
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Post by sarahh on Sept 28, 2018 15:14:26 GMT -6
beenthere how scary! I’m so glad you went to the ER sharebear I sent a message to my doctor so they could call in Femara and they asked me to come in for a blood test which was negative. Not sure if they will call it in or not (cd3 is Sunday) but I’m also unsure if I am done ttc or not. I want another baby but all the stress and medicine doesn’t seem worth it anymore. I really need to discuss with DH this weekend and figure out if we still want to try or if we should focus on enjoying the life we have now.
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Post by sammysam on Sept 28, 2018 15:31:06 GMT -6
sarahh I'm so sorry:( And I completely understand not wanting to continue to TTC. People on here gave me very good advice after my last loss and told me to take some time and that I didn't need to make any huge decisions right away. Such joy followed by such heartache is enough to be dealing with right now. Do what is right for you but don't be afraid to take the time you need. I know it might not be the same as you have meds involved and might be forced to make some decisions sooner rather than later but I hope you can give yourself at least a little bit of time.
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Post by purple on Sept 28, 2018 16:35:55 GMT -6
Oh no, sarahh, I'm so sorry. The only thing I recommend is to try not to make big decisions whilst you are grieving. Lots of love to you and your family.
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Post by sammysam on Sept 30, 2018 1:26:02 GMT -6
OK...so replace when I said this was the lightest AF ever to the absolute worst and heaviest AF ever. EVER. It's the middle of the night on CD3 (technically 4 I guess) and this is just insane. I hope it starts to slow down soon or I'm going to start to get worried:/
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