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Post by poppy on Jan 8, 2018 14:05:38 GMT -6
Well I go here now. I tested Friday and got a very clear +. This is my third pregnancy. My first was a daughter named Addison and was born too soon at 26 weeks. That was January 4, 2013. My second is my rainbow baby Silas and the light of my whole life. He was a May 15 bay.
This pregnancy was very unplanned (although my H is thrilled) I'm much more tentative about it. I'm still in the holy shit we're ku stages and my H is beaming like an idiot every time I look at him. My EDD is currently September 10. I feel like the biggest of assholes for not being thrilled to death about this. Silas is amazing and I know another baby will be just the same but I'm not ready. I'm a planner and it's throwing me for a huge loop not being prepared for this. Good thing these little ones take a while to cook and I can get my shit together.
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Jan 8, 2018 14:28:42 GMT -6
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Post by jense927 on Jan 8, 2018 14:28:42 GMT -6
Welcome!! I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your sweet girl Addison!
Congrats on the pregnancy. I hope the shock wears off soon and you can get excited about the pregnancy!
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Post by mirabelle on Jan 8, 2018 14:31:13 GMT -6
Welcome and congratulations! Glad you are here.
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Post by flyliceandcoffee on Jan 8, 2018 14:47:03 GMT -6
Welcome! I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter, I can't even begin to imagine.
I know all too well that unplanned feeling, the only reason I'm not there now is because of our last MC. I was completely in your boat of "holy crap wtf am I gonna do" just a couple months ago as that was probably as unplanned as yours. I'm feeling more at ease with it this time around though because even though I always assumed I'd be done after 2, this just feels right.
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Post by ftwr on Jan 8, 2018 15:17:00 GMT -6
Welcome! I'm sorry for your loss. It's ok to not be excited. You're allowed to feel however you want.
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Post by wisco on Jan 8, 2018 15:48:47 GMT -6
Hey and welcome! Looking forward to getting to know you!
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Jan 8, 2018 16:25:57 GMT -6
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Post by mattsgirl2004 on Jan 8, 2018 16:25:57 GMT -6
What??? Oh hai!! I'm so happy to see your post here. I don't even belong on this board and was lurking around and saw your intro. Congrats to you Poppy! Long time no see. Wishing you a very uneventful, wonderful pregnancy! ***back to lurking***
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Post by poppy on Jan 8, 2018 20:52:01 GMT -6
What??? Oh hai!! I'm so happy to see your post here. I don't even belong on this board and was lurking around and saw your intro. Congrats to you Poppy! Long time no see. Wishing you a very uneventful, wonderful pregnancy! ***back to lurking*** Hello my friend. How are you?? It’s so hard to keep tabs on everyone here.
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Jan 9, 2018 9:22:39 GMT -6
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Post by chriskoo on Jan 9, 2018 9:22:39 GMT -6
Welcome and congrats!!! I’ve been in that boat with mixed feelings because of timing, for me they went away once everything got more real. Glad your DH is super pumped, that helps
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Jan 9, 2018 12:04:35 GMT -6
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Post by mattsgirl2004 on Jan 9, 2018 12:04:35 GMT -6
What??? Oh hai!! I'm so happy to see your post here. I don't even belong on this board and was lurking around and saw your intro. Congrats to you Poppy! Long time no see. Wishing you a very uneventful, wonderful pregnancy! ***back to lurking*** Hello my friend. How are you?? It’s so hard to keep tabs on everyone here. I agree! I feel like I've lost track of so many wonderful people. Doing okay here. Just under 12 weeks until my last and final rainbow arrives. My LO's keep me on my toes, that's for sure! Congrats again love!
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Post by poppy on Jan 9, 2018 13:14:00 GMT -6
mattsgirl2004, that's so fantastic! Congratulations. I see another boy! So exciting. Your oldest is so old now! I can hardly believe it.
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Post by pambee on Jan 9, 2018 14:29:19 GMT -6
Congrats and hi! I think it's totally normal not to be excited now, this is quite a big surprise for someone who is a planner!
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Jan 9, 2018 15:37:59 GMT -6
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Post by blurnette989 on Jan 9, 2018 15:37:59 GMT -6
This is totally reasonable. I'm still in shock and I had an inkling I was pg. Still hasn't sunk in entirely.
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Post by CharlieB on Jan 9, 2018 15:40:41 GMT -6
Congrats! I'm sorry for your loss.
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Post by tinyjoys on Jan 9, 2018 15:42:29 GMT -6
poppy!!! Congratulations!!
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Post by katietopaz on Jan 9, 2018 16:50:42 GMT -6
I don't go here but was lurking from MA18, and saw a familiar M15 face! Congratulations poppy!! I hope you and your sweet rainbow Silas are doing well, and I hope that you feel like you have plenty of time to warm up to this pregnancy and your newest little one.
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