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Post by budders on Nov 15, 2017 14:56:41 GMT -6
Kevin has always broke my heart with his veneer of the funny, carefree guy. His whole speech on the field with the fact that he tells everyone he’s failing and all they see is the jersey. And now he’s begging Charlotte for the necklace and begging for help and I can’t with this. I’m worried now too that with the news of Kate, he won’t tell Randall why he was actually there and ask for help.
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Post by thankfulsnail on Nov 15, 2017 15:16:17 GMT -6
Kevin is still not my favorite, but I can see how it would be hard to get a good head on your shoulders if you've always been the golden boy and had things handed to you. I do hope he gets the necklace back, although I can't blame Charlotte for not wanting to look particularly hard in the moment.
I knew Kate had lost the baby when I saw Toby was calling Kevin- that just seemed outside of who I would expect to be calling him. I was still crushed when Randall said it. And next week's preview had me sobbing. Next week is going to be a rough one.
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Post by northernlghts on Nov 15, 2017 15:40:20 GMT -6
I really really hope she doesn't have his necklace. I get being pissed the way he left but I hope she doesnt keep it from him out of spite
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Post by reginaphalange8 on Nov 15, 2017 17:57:27 GMT -6
WHY?!?!?!?!?! WHY?!?!?! Kevin is for sure not going to tell Randall now. I really hate that they did that to Kate. I don't understand how Sophie, the nurse, couldn't see that Kevin was in bad shape. In this episode and the one last week he looked like total shit. Watching people with addiction problems, and/or doing drugs makes me feel really sick. This episode was hard to watch
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Post by amesie on Nov 15, 2017 19:44:19 GMT -6
Uuuuugh this episode was heavy. I am just so sad for Kevin. He’s breaking my heart spiraling like this. budders it also brought back the same feelings with me and my mom. I could totally sympathize with him and his lack of patience with his dad. I don’t know if I can watch next weeks. I’m coming up on a year since my MC last thanksgiving. What a week to have that episode! Gah.
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Post by longhornwino on Nov 15, 2017 20:26:23 GMT -6
I spent 10+ minutes on the couch sobbing while MH held me telling me it’s okay to miss our baby. The end and preview made me unsure that I can even watch next week.
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Post by michyme on Nov 15, 2017 20:29:08 GMT -6
I’m very sorry to anyone here that has suffered a loss and the pain the episode may bring. Hugs to you all
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Post by leatherpants on Nov 15, 2017 20:46:26 GMT -6
Kevin is still not my favorite, but I can see how it would be hard to get a good head on your shoulders if you've always been the golden boy and had things handed to you. I do hope he gets the necklace back, although I can't blame Charlotte for not wanting to look particularly hard in the moment. I knew Kate had lost the baby when I saw Toby was calling Kevin- that just seemed outside of who I would expect to be calling him. I was still crushed when Randall said it. And next week's preview had me sobbing. Next week is going to be a rough one. Yeah. I think Kevin has always kind of understood that no one will really listen to him have a problem because he’s good looking, talented, has money and privilege etc and his problems would induce some eye rolling so he just keeps swallowing it down and it’s spiraled out into this shell of a person he keeps on display. It really struck me how hard it would be to keep that charade up and now it’s crumbling and still no one listens and no one sees the real person in him that’s the little boy who no one noticed was drowning in the pool. I have such a soft spot for that little boy.
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Post by michyme on Nov 15, 2017 20:49:34 GMT -6
Kevin is still not my favorite, but I can see how it would be hard to get a good head on your shoulders if you've always been the golden boy and had things handed to you. I do hope he gets the necklace back, although I can't blame Charlotte for not wanting to look particularly hard in the moment. I knew Kate had lost the baby when I saw Toby was calling Kevin- that just seemed outside of who I would expect to be calling him. I was still crushed when Randall said it. And next week's preview had me sobbing. Next week is going to be a rough one. Yeah. I think Kevin has always kind of understood that no one will really listen to him have a problem because he’s good looking, talented, has money and privilege etc and his problems would induce some eye rolling so he just keeps swallowing it down and it’s spiraled out into this shell of a person he keeps on display. It really struck me how hard it would be to keep that charade up and now it’s crumbling and still no one listens and no one sees the real person in him that’s the little boy who no one noticed was drowning in the pool. I have such a soft spot for that little boy. oh wow, I forgot about that scene. That’s a heartbreaking way to put it but so true
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Post by reginaphalange8 on Nov 15, 2017 21:08:08 GMT -6
((Hugs)) to all those who need them ❤️
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Post by budders on Nov 15, 2017 21:18:14 GMT -6
I spent 10+ minutes on the couch sobbing while MH held me telling me it’s okay to miss our baby. The end and preview made me unsure that I can even watch next week. Lots of hugs.
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Post by leatherpants on Nov 15, 2017 21:26:49 GMT -6
I spent 10+ minutes on the couch sobbing while MH held me telling me it’s okay to miss our baby. The end and preview made me unsure that I can even watch next week. I want to hug you too. ❤️
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Post by lizblue on Nov 15, 2017 22:22:29 GMT -6
I spent 10+ minutes on the couch sobbing while MH held me telling me it’s okay to miss our baby. The end and preview made me unsure that I can even watch next week. Was just coming here to post these exact words. H and I literally burst into tears instantly and held each other. Sending hugs to you.
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Post by junch817 on Nov 15, 2017 22:35:29 GMT -6
I also wanted to add how nice it was to see Jack and Kevin having an endearing parent/son moment. We have seen Jack and Kate many times, and Jack and Randall. There have not been any real emotional Jack and Kevin moments that I remember. I know they did the model airplanes together, but the big talks have mostly been with the other two. I really enjoyed that - when they were talking in the hospital.
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Post by redbears on Nov 16, 2017 6:41:04 GMT -6
I really appreciate that they are showing how slippery a slope addiction can be. At first he didn’t even want to take the painkillers and was powering through his injury. Then, he started to get down on himself and boom, he’s taking them to make himself feel better/cope with emotions. This storyline line just hits close to home and I think it’s a good portrayal of a person with a problem.
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Post by claudia on Nov 16, 2017 7:19:34 GMT -6
I don't understand how Sophie, the nurse, couldn't see that Kevin was in bad shape. In this episode and the one last week he looked like total shit. Watching people with addiction problems, and/or doing drugs makes me feel really sick. This episode was hard to watch I think his physical distance made it easy for her to miss the signs. I think when you're mainly just talking over the phone, it's easier to miss those things. When she saw him at the benefit dinner, she could tell he was drunk, but he had stayed with Randall the night before instead of her (maybe so she wouldn't notice). Other than the benefit where she thought he was drunk, I don't think she's seen him in person much since he started spiraling.
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Post by goldenbird on Nov 16, 2017 9:49:35 GMT -6
No no no 😭😭😭
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Post by goldenbird on Nov 16, 2017 9:53:00 GMT -6
I'm not shocked that they are doing this to Kate but I hate it. I want Kevin to get some help. It was so hard to watch this episode.
I almost don't want to watch next week's episode.
(((Hugs))) for everyone who needs them ❤
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Post by lolacachia on Nov 16, 2017 10:36:17 GMT -6
WHY?!?!?!?!?! WHY?!?!?! Kevin is for sure not going to tell Randall now. I really hate that they did that to Kate. I don't understand how Sophie, the nurse, couldn't see that Kevin was in bad shape. In this episode and the one last week he looked like total shit. Watching people with addiction problems, and/or doing drugs makes me feel really sick. This episode was hard to watch I completely agree. In lasts week episode when he came to her house, he was a sweaty, crazy mess. I'm not a nurse and I would be like da fuq is wrong with you?!
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Post by tgrimes on Nov 16, 2017 19:41:44 GMT -6
WHY?!?!?!?!?! WHY?!?!?! Kevin is for sure not going to tell Randall now. I really hate that they did that to Kate. I don't understand how Sophie, the nurse, couldn't see that Kevin was in bad shape. In this episode and the one last week he looked like total shit. Watching people with addiction problems, and/or doing drugs makes me feel really sick. This episode was hard to watch I completely agree. In lasts week episode when he came to her house, he was a sweaty, crazy mess. I'm not a nurse and I would be like da fuq is wrong with you?! But sometimes it’s hard to notice it in someone you love. KWIM?
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Post by bellatrix on Nov 17, 2017 9:49:14 GMT -6
I completely agree. In lasts week episode when he came to her house, he was a sweaty, crazy mess. I'm not a nurse and I would be like da fuq is wrong with you?! But sometimes it’s hard to notice it in someone you love. KWIM? She may also have thought he had gotten shit faced to get the "courage" to go tell her that. This isn't the first time he's been shitty to her over the course of time.
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Post by icehide on Nov 19, 2017 9:00:23 GMT -6
I can't believe it took me this long to find the tv shows threads. I'm disappointed with myself.
Anyway, I'm really feeling for Kevin. He realizes he's having a breakdown and is ready to tell someone (Randall) about it and now Kate's miscarriage is going to prevent him from dealing with his personal issues. He's going to feel like he needs to be tough and strong for her so I can see all of this building up for Kevin again with worse consequences.
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Post by icehide on Nov 19, 2017 9:01:31 GMT -6
Kevin has always broke my heart with his veneer of the funny, carefree guy. His whole speech on the field with the fact that he tells everyone he’s failing and all they see is the jersey. And now he’s begging Charlotte for the necklace and begging for help and I can’t with this. I’m worried now too that with the news of Kate, he won’t tell Randall why he was actually there and ask for help. I don't know how I missed this post. This is exactly what I meant.
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Post by Leaf 🌱 on Nov 19, 2017 14:28:16 GMT -6
I feel like the only goal of this show is to be sadder than parenthood and greys combines.
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