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Post by tatorhead328 on May 30, 2017 19:08:04 GMT -6
She only had to do a short sentence the first time they were together. Then she violated her parole by having sex with him again and went back to prison for seven years. They co-authored a book during those seven years, so apparently they did have contact. Can someone please explain why this contact wouldn't have been prohibited? I'm not sure why they would let that contact continue. Hmm maybe they had to communicate through an agent? I know the no contact order was still in place because he petitioned it when he was 21 I think, once she was released or about to be released from prison. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-N910A using Tapatalk
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Post by oreobitsy on May 30, 2017 19:26:44 GMT -6
So he raised the girls when he was a teenager by himself? It sounds like he didn't have a great upbringing so I am not imagining a ton of support while parenting. I've got to go check out his Facebook page now... I'm amazed at the idea of raising kids when you're a kid yourself.
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Post by robot on May 30, 2017 19:27:12 GMT -6
Oh geez. I remember this horrifying story because he's just slightly older than me. I can not even fathom having kids that age.
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Post by Jesslfar on May 30, 2017 19:35:55 GMT -6
So he raised the girls when he was a teenager by himself? It sounds like he didn't have a great upbringing so I am not imagining a ton of support while parenting. I've got to go check out his Facebook page now... I'm amazed at the idea of raising kids when you're a kid yourself. I think his mom helped, but yes she was not able to parent for 7 years. If I were any of her 6 kids I would have resented the hell out of what sure seems like choosing dick over raising her kids.
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Post by Jesslfar on May 30, 2017 19:37:55 GMT -6
She only had to do a short sentence the first time they were together. Then she violated her parole by having sex with him again and went back to prison for seven years. They co-authored a book during those seven years, so apparently they did have contact. Can someone please explain why this contact wouldn't have been prohibited? I'm not sure why they would let that contact continue. They were not allowed contact. When she became pregnant the second time it was in violation of the court. Part of her sentence was they couldn't have contact during those 7 years. I'm guessing someone took their stories separately.
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Post by joelies on May 30, 2017 19:39:29 GMT -6
So he raised the girls when he was a teenager by himself? It sounds like he didn't have a great upbringing so I am not imagining a ton of support while parenting. I've got to go check out his Facebook page now... I'm amazed at the idea of raising kids when you're a kid yourself. I think his mom helped, but yes she was not able to parent for 7 years. If I were any of her 6 kids I would have resented the hell out of what sure seems like choosing dick over raising her kids. I seem to remember his family being fairly supportive of their relationship, at least publicly. I'm not sure what their options truly were though. I always felt for him and his whole family, they were all victims in a way. Sent from my XT1254 using Tapatalk
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Post by ktg on May 30, 2017 19:56:42 GMT -6
So those kids are basically off to college and he's got an empty nest at 33.
I had my first baby at 33.
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Post by oreobitsy on May 30, 2017 20:12:55 GMT -6
So he raised the girls when he was a teenager by himself? It sounds like he didn't have a great upbringing so I am not imagining a ton of support while parenting. I've got to go check out his Facebook page now... I'm amazed at the idea of raising kids when you're a kid yourself. I think his mom helped, but yes she was not able to parent for 7 years. If I were any of her 6 kids I would have resented the hell out of what sure seems like choosing dick over raising her kids. Definitely --that Daily Mail link had a current picture of the three oldest girls (two from first marriage, one from with Vili). In my head, they're just ripping on their mom together as a united front. Also, Vili, lock your Facebook down. What's up with such lax privacy settings?!?!
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Post by Jesslfar on May 30, 2017 20:18:52 GMT -6
I would like to say fuck you to whatever bar had these two host hot for teacher night after her release. That's absolutely disgusting.
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Post by leahcar on May 30, 2017 20:27:10 GMT -6
I've always been fascinated by this case. I'm older than him. I cannot imagine having adult children.
His poor, poor parents!
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Post by thatgolfb on May 30, 2017 21:30:19 GMT -6
I just can't wrap my head around it all. He's 33 now. He has TWO ADULT CHILDREN. I cannot that much time has passed since this happened. Whoa.
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Post by edubs on May 30, 2017 21:58:43 GMT -6
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Post by Tlex on May 30, 2017 22:11:17 GMT -6
He's younger than me. And he is raising adult daughters with a geriatric lunatic for a wife. I'm glad he's free to actually start living his life now.Given the age gap and that she was her teacher, you know there was an abuse of authority. Like the balance of power is never going to be fair. I am sure that it took him a long time to come out of this. Yep. I was 14 when mine started, 19 when it ended (only by me blowing up his spot out of jealousy and heartbreak) and 21 before I was able to recognize, with a lot of therapy and no contact from the groomer/abuser, that I had been groomed/abused.
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Post by leatherpants on May 30, 2017 23:05:46 GMT -6
I'm so sorry Tlex. That's really awful.
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Post by Dramaphile on May 31, 2017 9:46:39 GMT -6
You have to wonder if he realized he was almost at the age when she first molested him and realized how fucked up it would be if he had sex with a 12 year old now.
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Post by Pizzaslut on May 31, 2017 9:54:30 GMT -6
I read somewhere this morning that the separate was just a legal thing and he was doing it for "business". I will find the article. Hold please.
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Post by Pizzaslut on May 31, 2017 9:56:45 GMT -6
Damnit I can't find it now. Going into a meeting, but I'll look when I get back.
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Post by jftb on May 31, 2017 9:56:56 GMT -6
I read somewhere this morning that the separate was just a legal thing and he was doing it for "business". I will find the article. Hold please. That's what I read. It was like an update on Vanity Fair (I think).
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Post by leatherpants on May 31, 2017 10:09:21 GMT -6
Ok that album cover is really something else Also. Ew to her book and the description. What. The. Fuck.
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Post by bobyn on May 31, 2017 10:11:18 GMT -6
In the Kneepads, whoops People, article, it said: “Vili was the one who filed a petition for separation, which is usually a precursor for filing for divorce,” says Gehrke. “It gives legal notice to creditors and the like that the debts won’t be joint. She could try to contest it, but that’s legally tough to do.” people.com/crime/vili-fualaau-mary-kay-letourneau-split/
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Post by budders on May 31, 2017 10:17:27 GMT -6
I am laughing at the line "He sought fame and became a rapper, a criminal, and then a martial artist..." Quite the resume.
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Post by jubilantsquirrel on May 31, 2017 10:28:18 GMT -6
I did a quick FB search for shits and giggles. He's public with tons of photos of his kids and his day to day life. So I guess they're just living life. I can't be mad at that. Hiding who you are and your back story would be so tough to keep up, especially since I think they just stayed in the town where this all went down. I haven't finished reading so I don't know if this has been said, but yes, they did stay in the same area. A friend of mine actually saw her out at bar once about a year or two ago. She asked for a picture but MK politely declined. Also, an old volleyball teammate of mine is Samoan and said that she would see them and their kids at the big family gatherings sometimes.
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Post by reddelicious on May 31, 2017 10:41:01 GMT -6
You have to wonder if he realized he was almost at the age when she first molested him and realized how fucked up it would be if he had sex with a 12 year old now. I spiraled last night on this and there was a quote from MK saying, they were spending time together when he was in fifth grade and she kissed him and why couldn't it ever just be a kiss. I just lost it - I feel bad for making light of it because Villi is a victim of some serious abuse and is still, likely, under the control of his abuser. She is just so, so very sick.
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Post by brux on May 31, 2017 10:53:09 GMT -6
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Post by CestLaVie on May 31, 2017 11:00:54 GMT -6
Whaaaaaaat
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Post by tatorhead328 on May 31, 2017 11:01:47 GMT -6
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Post by reddelicious on May 31, 2017 11:03:40 GMT -6
Say what now? That BW interview definitely made it sound like he was miserable and that was 2 years ago.
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Post by jftb on May 31, 2017 11:03:52 GMT -6
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Post by Pizzaslut on May 31, 2017 11:15:30 GMT -6
Yes, this is what I read.
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Post by brux on May 31, 2017 11:20:05 GMT -6
It's a little weird to me that his FB page is filled with pictures of him and his girls and his friends, but I think I only saw two pictures of his wife. And she seems to have her own FB profile, locked down, tho.
Maybe they have some sort of open marriage arrangement.
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