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Post by gangy on May 22, 2017 6:18:22 GMT -6
Anyone here? Long time lurker and trying to post finally with everyone. Hopefully people come over here too. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Hello! I think we're slowly on our way! How old is your LO? Hi! Yay! DD will be three in November! Where did my baby go? 😩 Whst about your LO? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
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Post by gangy on May 22, 2017 6:19:40 GMT -6
At this point I just want someone to make the decision for me. Lol Seriously though, I think the only way to get a majority back together is a 3rd board. No matter what happens it will never be the same as it was. Unfortunately I think you're right and things will never be the same. I'm not going to participate in any forum war or whatever. The purpose of this place was for people to have a place to move to and be together. I am leaving it up. I will not be moving to a 3rd site. Anyway who wants to stay is more than welcome. Anyone who chooses to leave, no hard feelings. The whole neutral idea is solely because of me. Anyway if your boards has any needs, let me or enchanted know. If you're interested in having a rep on the Admin team, let me know. I'm staying where you are mcbenny. You are a truly amazing woman and I appreciate what you have done for us. #imwithher Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
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Post by gangy on May 22, 2017 6:20:36 GMT -6
Well that thread turned into a shitshow. I'm over it. Let's all just hide here. Yes please. I don't think I can move again and register what now a third/fourth time? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
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May 22, 2017 6:27:47 GMT -6
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Post by yellowwallpaper on May 22, 2017 6:27:47 GMT -6
Well that thread turned into a shitshow. I'm over it. Let's all just hide here. Yes please. I don't think I can move again and register what now a third/fourth time? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk This is how I'm leaning.
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May 22, 2017 6:29:19 GMT -6
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Post by yellowwallpaper on May 22, 2017 6:29:19 GMT -6
Thanks for creating this board Admin
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May 22, 2017 6:40:51 GMT -6
Post by NamasteBirches on May 22, 2017 6:40:51 GMT -6
Well that thread turned into a shitshow. I'm over it. Let's all just hide here. I missed whatever happened...cliff notes? it's just the same old stuff. what to do, arguing about what happened, just a lot of back & forth if you ask me, sounds like there's a lot of personal feelings coming into light & it took a thing like this for it to come out & since I have none about anybody involved, I don't have opinions. Seems more than just a "where do we go thing" but what do I know, I kind of just float around whenever I don't post on oad. I like it here, I'm tired of moving. I just want to shoot the shit & talk about our days & go back to normal. If I'm being real, this seems like a Parenting problem.
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May 22, 2017 6:40:53 GMT -6
Post by misspeansmama on May 22, 2017 6:40:53 GMT -6
Well that thread turned into a shitshow. I'm over it. Let's all just hide here. I missed whatever happened...cliff notes? +1
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Post by NamasteBirches on May 22, 2017 6:42:51 GMT -6
Hello! I think we're slowly on our way! How old is your LO? Hi! Yay! DD will be three in November! Where did my baby go? 😩 Whst about your LO? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Were you under a different screenname on TCF? Just curious if I've ever "seen" you around. My DS is gonna be 6 in August! ahhhh
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May 22, 2017 6:43:24 GMT -6
Post by misspeansmama on May 22, 2017 6:43:24 GMT -6
I missed whatever happened...cliff notes? it's just the same old stuff. what to do, arguing about what happened, just a lot of back & forth if you ask me, sounds like there's a lot of personal feelings coming into light & it took a thing like this for it to come out & since I have none about anybody involved, I don't have opinions. Seems more than just a "where do we go thing" but what do I know, I kind of just float around whenever I don't post on oad. I like it here, I'm tired of moving. I just want to shoot the shit & talk about our days & go back to normal. If I'm being real, this seems like a Parenting problem. I agree with this! I can't handle all the anger that is going on. I have enough stress in my life. I like our little OAD corner of the world.
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Post by gangy on May 22, 2017 6:45:26 GMT -6
Hi! Yay! DD will be three in November! Where did my baby go? 😩 Whst about your LO? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Were you under a different screenname on TCF? Just curious if I've ever "seen" you around. My DS is gonna be 6 in August! ahhhh I never posted before on TB or TCF. Just a dirty lurker with no courage to jump in. Oh wow 6! I can't wait for DD to get to that age! She has been in the terrible twos since she was 15 months and I'm terrified of three. 😩 Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
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Post by gangy on May 22, 2017 6:47:34 GMT -6
it's just the same old stuff. what to do, arguing about what happened, just a lot of back & forth if you ask me, sounds like there's a lot of personal feelings coming into light & it took a thing like this for it to come out & since I have none about anybody involved, I don't have opinions. Seems more than just a "where do we go thing" but what do I know, I kind of just float around whenever I don't post on oad. I like it here, I'm tired of moving. I just want to shoot the shit & talk about our days & go back to normal. If I'm being real, this seems like a Parenting problem. I agree with this! I can't handle all the anger that is going on. I have enough stress in my life. I like our little OAD corner of the world. This. I really want to stay here but I'm really a nobody so if this place is deserted I'll move but would rather not. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
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May 22, 2017 6:53:56 GMT -6
Post by NamasteBirches on May 22, 2017 6:53:56 GMT -6
what is a rep on the admin team Admin?
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May 22, 2017 7:05:18 GMT -6
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Post by bellatrix on May 22, 2017 7:05:18 GMT -6
No apology necessary. This whole thing has gotten out of hand.
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May 22, 2017 7:05:48 GMT -6
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Post by bellatrix on May 22, 2017 7:05:48 GMT -6
what is a rep on the admin team Admin? I was going to nominate you for oad.
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May 22, 2017 7:11:48 GMT -6
Post by misspeansmama on May 22, 2017 7:11:48 GMT -6
At this point I just want someone to make the decision for me. Lol Seriously though, I think the only way to get a majority back together is a 3rd board. No matter what happens it will never be the same as it was. Unfortunately I think you're right and things will never be the same. I'm not going to participate in any forum war or whatever. The purpose of this place was for people to have a place to move to and be together. I am leaving it up. I will not be moving to a 3rd site. Anyway who wants to stay is more than welcome. Anyone who chooses to leave, no hard feelings. The whole neutral idea is solely because of me. Anyway if your boards has any needs, let me or enchanted know. If you're interested in having a rep on the Admin team, let me know. McBenny - I don't know you but I did see the blowup that happened on TCF. I also don't know the whole story behind it so I am not here to judge. Sometimes you just have to get it all out and really an internet forum is probably a better place to do it than IRL. I am thankful that you set up this place for us! I am also sorry that you feel the divide that is going on is because of you. I highly doubt that is true, I am sure it would have happened regardless of who created this place. I've read that some mistakes were made in the early creation of this site, but to me you owned up to that and apologized. That says a lot in my book. Anyway, I don't really know if I will stay or go as I just want to be able to continue to post with my OADers. If we do stay, and you want to continue to post I certainly won't mind. I know I am only one person but I hate to see someone who worked do hard to build this pushed out because there are a some people who don't like you. Hopefully things settle down soon. Hang in there!
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May 22, 2017 7:14:02 GMT -6
Post by NamasteBirches on May 22, 2017 7:14:02 GMT -6
what is a rep on the admin team Admin ? I was going to nominate you for oad.
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May 22, 2017 8:08:40 GMT -6
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Post by leekee816 on May 22, 2017 8:08:40 GMT -6
I made it!
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Post by misspeansmama on May 22, 2017 8:17:13 GMT -6
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Post by comfycozy on May 22, 2017 10:57:28 GMT -6
Hi everyone! I never posted on this board on TCF, but we're OAD with a 19mo DD. Looking forward to joining you all.
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Post by yellowwallpaper on May 22, 2017 12:22:06 GMT -6
Unfortunately I think you're right and things will never be the same. I'm not going to participate in any forum war or whatever. The purpose of this place was for people to have a place to move to and be together. I am leaving it up. I will not be moving to a 3rd site. Anyway who wants to stay is more than welcome. Anyone who chooses to leave, no hard feelings. The whole neutral idea is solely because of me. Anyway if your boards has any needs, let me or enchanted know. If you're interested in having a rep on the Admin team, let me know. McBenny - I don't know you but I did see the blowup that happened on TCF. I also don't know the whole story behind it so I am not here to judge. Sometimes you just have to get it all out and really an internet forum is probably a better place to do it than IRL. I am thankful that you set up this place for us! I am also sorry that you feel the divide that is going on is because of you. I highly doubt that is true, I am sure it would have happened regardless of who created this place. I've read that some mistakes were made in the early creation of this site, but to me you owned up to that and apologized. That says a lot in my book. Anyway, I don't really know if I will stay or go as I just want to be able to continue to post with my OADers. If we do stay, and you want to continue to post I certainly won't mind. I know I am only one person but I hate to see someone who worked do hard to build this pushed out because there are a some people who don't like you. Hopefully things settle down soon. Hang in there! Admin(Just tagging so she sees this!)
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May 22, 2017 12:22:53 GMT -6
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Post by yellowwallpaper on May 22, 2017 12:22:53 GMT -6
And I just realized she would have gotten a notification from the quote. Oh well lol
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Post by misspeansmama on May 22, 2017 12:26:30 GMT -6
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Post by Admin on May 22, 2017 12:26:46 GMT -6
Unfortunately I think you're right and things will never be the same. I'm not going to participate in any forum war or whatever. The purpose of this place was for people to have a place to move to and be together. I am leaving it up. I will not be moving to a 3rd site. Anyway who wants to stay is more than welcome. Anyone who chooses to leave, no hard feelings. The whole neutral idea is solely because of me. Anyway if your boards has any needs, let me or enchanted know. If you're interested in having a rep on the Admin team, let me know. McBenny - I don't know you but I did see the blowup that happened on TCF. I also don't know the whole story behind it so I am not here to judge. Sometimes you just have to get it all out and really an internet forum is probably a better place to do it than IRL. I am thankful that you set up this place for us! I am also sorry that you feel the divide that is going on is because of you. I highly doubt that is true, I am sure it would have happened regardless of who created this place. I've read that some mistakes were made in the early creation of this site, but to me you owned up to that and apologized. That says a lot in my book. Anyway, I don't really know if I will stay or go as I just want to be able to continue to post with my OADers. If we do stay, and you want to continue to post I certainly won't mind. I know I am only one person but I hate to see someone who worked do hard to build this pushed out because there are a some people who don't like you. Hopefully things settle down soon. Hang in there! Last I read - they (political forum) wanted to move to a 3rd forum a "neutral" one that I am not involved with. I literally was PMd and told "thanks for the work, can you step down now?" They are currently holding nominations and voting for Admins to this forum. I just posted that they need to include this forum in the planning and voting processes. I don't know what going on. I am feeling very pushed out. Anyway, please vote or get vocal about your needs and or concerns.
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Post by NamasteBirches on May 22, 2017 12:29:09 GMT -6
Hi everyone! I never posted on this board on TCF, but we're OAD with a 19mo DD. Looking forward to joining you all. welcome!
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Post by misspeansmama on May 22, 2017 12:30:06 GMT -6
McBenny - I don't know you but I did see the blowup that happened on TCF. I also don't know the whole story behind it so I am not here to judge. Sometimes you just have to get it all out and really an internet forum is probably a better place to do it than IRL. I am thankful that you set up this place for us! I am also sorry that you feel the divide that is going on is because of you. I highly doubt that is true, I am sure it would have happened regardless of who created this place. I've read that some mistakes were made in the early creation of this site, but to me you owned up to that and apologized. That says a lot in my book. Anyway, I don't really know if I will stay or go as I just want to be able to continue to post with my OADers. If we do stay, and you want to continue to post I certainly won't mind. I know I am only one person but I hate to see someone who worked do hard to build this pushed out because there are a some people who don't like you. Hopefully things settle down soon. Hang in there! Last I read - they (political forum) wanted to move to a 3rd forum a "neutral" one that I am not involved with. I literally was PMd and told "thanks for the work, can you step down now?" They are currently holding nominations and voting for Admins to this forum. I just posted that they need to include this forum in the planning and voting processes. I don't know what going on. I am feeling very pushed out. Anyway, please vote or get vocal about your needs and or concerns. F that! Seems like you have a lot of loyal friends on this site that would be sad to see you leave. I did head over there and voted for NamasteBirches. I think she will serve us well.
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Post by Admin on May 22, 2017 12:33:12 GMT -6
Last I read - they (political forum) wanted to move to a 3rd forum a "neutral" one that I am not involved with. I literally was PMd and told "thanks for the work, can you step down now?" They are currently holding nominations and voting for Admins to this forum. I just posted that they need to include this forum in the planning and voting processes. I don't know what going on. I am feeling very pushed out. Anyway, please vote or get vocal about your needs and or concerns. F that! Seems like you have a lot of loyal friends on this site that would be sad to see you leave. I did head over there and voted for NamasteBirches. I think she will serve us well. She is an Admin here.
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Post by dutchkatie on May 22, 2017 12:36:15 GMT -6
I'm here. Don't know what happened, but I'd like to keep in touch with my OAD friends. Thanks for the tag on TCF misspeansmama!
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May 22, 2017 12:42:26 GMT -6
Post by misspeansmama on May 22, 2017 12:42:26 GMT -6
I'm here. Don't know what happened, but I'd like to keep in touch with my OAD friends. Thanks for the tag on TCF misspeansmama ! Glad you made it. You probably don't want to know what happened. It's long crazy complicated and will give you a headache if you try to figure it all out. In short, the owner of TCF can no longer be trusted so there was a mass exodus and we are here now. There is some voting going on tomorrow and the next day or so to determine admins for our new home and if this will be the place we stay or if it will be another location. I *think* the consensus among most of us OADers is that we just want to be somewhere were we can have our close knit group together. Oh and namastebitches is currently an admin here and is in the running for the election vote tomorrow.
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Post by squeakyduck on May 22, 2017 21:11:08 GMT -6
McBenny - I don't know you but I did see the blowup that happened on TCF. I also don't know the whole story behind it so I am not here to judge. Sometimes you just have to get it all out and really an internet forum is probably a better place to do it than IRL. I am thankful that you set up this place for us! I am also sorry that you feel the divide that is going on is because of you. I highly doubt that is true, I am sure it would have happened regardless of who created this place. I've read that some mistakes were made in the early creation of this site, but to me you owned up to that and apologized. That says a lot in my book. Anyway, I don't really know if I will stay or go as I just want to be able to continue to post with my OADers. If we do stay, and you want to continue to post I certainly won't mind. I know I am only one person but I hate to see someone who worked do hard to build this pushed out because there are a some people who don't like you. Hopefully things settle down soon. Hang in there! Last I read - they (political forum) wanted to move to a 3rd forum a "neutral" one that I am not involved with. I literally was PMd and told "thanks for the work, can you step down now?" They are currently holding nominations and voting for Admins to this forum. I just posted that they need to include this forum in the planning and voting processes. I don't know what going on. I am feeling very pushed out. Anyway, please vote or get vocal about your needs and or concerns. I thought the politics board was just a landing place and we were all moving here? It's weird to vote for admins for this site on that one otherwise. Anyways, I was another dirty lurker on OAD. But the idea of being pregnant again gives me panic attacks, so I would like to be more involved here.
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