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Post by icedcoffee on Aug 10, 2023 13:48:13 GMT -6
I can’t deal with it, regardless of the celebrity. Especially from adults. ![](https://media4.giphy.com/media/cIMm3xWwxCF3xhuGpZ/giphy.gif) And why the thousands of shitty cell phone videos of the concerts? God I hate that. I'm going to a concert tonight and I'll take selfies or video of me and my friend enjoying ourselves but I'm not gonna post a bunch of clips of the performance itself, because NO ONE CARES. These are on par with videos of fireworks for me lol
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Post by angelashly on Aug 10, 2023 13:54:18 GMT -6
I think part of my annoyance is the deifying of Taylor. I get being a crazy super fan of someone, I do. I would spend unspeakable amounts of money to see Prince again if he were still alive. But the amount of straight up worship of her is just getting so tired and boring, lol. I also just, don't get it. So there's that. And while I’ve never been to show I’ve seen her at the award shows and meh. I’m sure she has a fun show but she isn’t Beyoncé level performing
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Post by McBenny on Aug 10, 2023 14:01:25 GMT -6
There were a bunch of women at the time who were considered not skinny. Jessica, Hillary Duff and Amanda Byrnes when they reached adulthood got criticized and these were really skinny women by any other standard. The late 90’s and early 2000’s were brutal. I can understand being someone who grew up in that era growing up restricting eating and never learning how to eat some food groups. I absolutely knew people who had never had white bread or pasta growing up in California. Heck, even where I live now my kid had a play date recently and the kid didn’t know goldfish which I described as like Cheddar bunnies which she had never heard of (kid just moved from CA) and doesn’t have aversions. What do they throw at their toddler if not some version of cheddar cracker?!?! My toddlers never had cheddar crackers. At that young age, I gave them cheese. I was told I was doing the most.
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Post by bazi on Aug 10, 2023 14:04:10 GMT -6
I can’t deal with it, regardless of the celebrity. Especially from adults. ![](https://media4.giphy.com/media/cIMm3xWwxCF3xhuGpZ/giphy.gif) And why the thousands of shitty cell phone videos of the concerts? God I hate that. I'm going to a concert tonight and I'll take selfies or video of me and my friend enjoying ourselves but I'm not gonna post a bunch of clips of the performance itself, because NO ONE CARES. My coworker went to see Beyonce recently and filmed the entire show from the nosebleed seats, and keeps asking when I want to watch the whole thing with her. ![](https://media3.giphy.com/media/zdq4DT1gHlxny/giphy.gif)
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Post by McBenny on Aug 10, 2023 14:05:09 GMT -6
Yeah, I get not eating pasta as you get older bc of texture things. But never trying it, I assumed there’s some generational food/weight things there. I mean it could be but it doesn't have to be. My kid has never had a taco or a burger. There is nothing generational. Everyone around her eats them. She does not. She will not try it. I could have forced the issue I suppose but tacos were never part of my childhood and not something I cook in the home really. To me, there are so many other things to eat. Same with the burger thing. It just isn't a big deal to me. I mean I make burgers in the home, we eat them. She doesn't and never has. When people hear this, they are omg? WTF? because of course, now Texas.
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Post by angelashly on Aug 10, 2023 14:20:21 GMT -6
Yeah, I get not eating pasta as you get older bc of texture things. But never trying it, I assumed there’s some generational food/weight things there. I mean it could be but it doesn't have to be. My kid has never had a taco or a burger. There is nothing generational. Everyone around her eats them. She does not. She will not try it. I could have forced the issue I suppose but tacos were never part of my childhood and not something I cook in the home really. To me, there are so many other things to eat. Same with the burger thing. It just isn't a big deal to me. I mean I make burgers in the home, we eat them. She doesn't and never has. When people hear this, they are omg? WTF? because of course, now Texas. There are many things dd won’t eat because she just refuses to try them so I agree
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Post by McBenny on Aug 10, 2023 14:21:26 GMT -6
Added the first bolded. I feel that the way this is phrased is dismissive. I have read the discourse, and I have learned that "they killed Jesus" is a phrase in AAVE that is not culturally associated with the Jewish people. However, to claim that Jewish people need to calm their tits because he didn't mean it that way, despite there being a trope of this exact nature going back basically 2000 years dismisses the impact of that phrasing. His apology was exactly what it needed to be--I didn't know, I'm really sorry, this is what I actually meant. Done and dusted. The JA response is like a fifth grader's who was just caught in the act of throwing something at his friend's head--"I didn't do it." Is JA really claiming she didn't even like the post by accident? If it was some assistant or somebody, then say that and admit you don't do your own SM. Saying "it never happened" is fucking dumb--there are screenshots, lady. What does it not dawn on anyone to ask who is they? Did you mean Jews Jamie? And the only reason why I say that is because if you can go online about (which happened) and speak on it (which happened) ask. It doesn't feel dismissive to me but whatever, I don't count. If felt very much as something was picked up and put on. I am a "who is they" person anyway when people say shit like they said. I know I say "they talked about Jesus" often. I mean people. Not one people. Many people talked about Him and called Him crazy. Anywho
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Post by angelashly on Aug 10, 2023 14:23:32 GMT -6
Added the first bolded. I feel that the way this is phrased is dismissive. I have read the discourse, and I have learned that "they killed Jesus" is a phrase in AAVE that is not culturally associated with the Jewish people. However, to claim that Jewish people need to calm their tits because he didn't mean it that way, despite there being a trope of this exact nature going back basically 2000 years dismisses the impact of that phrasing. His apology was exactly what it needed to be--I didn't know, I'm really sorry, this is what I actually meant. Done and dusted. The JA response is like a fifth grader's who was just caught in the act of throwing something at his friend's head--"I didn't do it." Is JA really claiming she didn't even like the post by accident? If it was some assistant or somebody, then say that and admit you don't do your own SM. Saying "it never happened" is fucking dumb--there are screenshots, lady. What does it not dawn on anyone to ask who is they? Did you mean Jews Jamie? And the only reason why I say that is because if you can go online about (which happened) and speak on it (which happened) ask. It doesn't feel dismissive to me but whatever, I don't count. If felt very much as something was picked up and put on. I am a "who is they" person anyway when people say shit like they said. I know I say "they talked about Jesus" often. I mean people. Not one people. Many people talked about Him and called Him crazy. Anywho And I’m going to be honest I reread this now that it was quoted and I said Jamie posted and they felt but it wasn’t meaning his post.
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Post by McBenny on Aug 10, 2023 14:26:14 GMT -6
July 22, 2023 It will be interesting to see if the shoe company deposes the A list alliterate reality star to see if she knows what happened to the missing funds and how much control she had over the shoe deal. Adidas/Kim Kardashian This thing here annoys me. Their contract and deal was with Kanye number 1. Then he told them where the bulk of the money went. It feels like a money grab to me. I could be wrong.
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Post by McBenny on Aug 10, 2023 14:28:00 GMT -6
I don't even know who Sophia Bush it. I hit the link they said why bother. I walked away.
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Post by McBenny on Aug 10, 2023 14:33:06 GMT -6
No, you said that it wasn't antisemitic, not that he didn't mean it that way. There is a difference. Impact vs. intent. We say all the time that saying a phrase that is racist in many contexts is still racist even if the speaker wasn't invoking that context. I believe him when he says he didn't mean it that way. Doesn't mean that those words specifically are not antisemitic spoken together in many contexts. He said something that has been said in the black community for centuries as well and followed it with fake friends so I stand by my saying his post was not antisemitism. I understand that others don’t feel that way and despite black twitter thinking he shouldn’t have had to apologize I am glad that he did say that he didn’t mean it in the way it was taken and that he would take time to think about things before saying it but it is a part of black culture as well. I stand here. If people want to suddenly get smart then use your context clues. He said fake friends. And plus also, wasn't Jesus jewish as well? So for me, I still would never in a million years jump to anti Sematism. Again, it's not about me. He cleared it up and apologized like immediately. What more do people want? I wish people who jump as hard for the black community as they do the jews. Me feeling that way doesn't mean I am antisemitic. It means I envy that about them.
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Post by McBenny on Aug 10, 2023 14:35:01 GMT -6
July 12, 2023 Not only did the permanent A list "singer" not write her book, apparently she didn't even bother to read what had been written. Britney Spears omg Enty, low hanging fruit and all, LOL
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Post by McBenny on Aug 10, 2023 14:37:30 GMT -6
You know how there is always an uptick on articles about people when they die. I just read one on Sinead O'Connor and it told the story of her back in the day being out to lunch and JFK Jr saw her and when she walked by he handed her pencil and paper and asked for her number. She broke his pencil and told him to fuck off. Gosh she was amazing. LOL, I read the same story and I did not receive it the same. Not even close. Not at all.
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Post by angelashly on Aug 10, 2023 14:37:32 GMT -6
He said something that has been said in the black community for centuries as well and followed it with fake friends so I stand by my saying his post was not antisemitism. I understand that others don’t feel that way and despite black twitter thinking he shouldn’t have had to apologize I am glad that he did say that he didn’t mean it in the way it was taken and that he would take time to think about things before saying it but it is a part of black culture as well. I stand here. If people want to suddenly get smart then use your context clues. He said fake friends. And plus also, wasn't Jesus jewish as well? So for me, I still would never in a million years jump to anti Sematism. Again, it's not about me. He cleared it up and apologized like immediately. What more do people want? I wish people who jump as hard for the black community as they do the jews. Me feeling that way doesn't mean I am antisemitic. It means I envy that about them. I had this conversation when Kanye started his stuff
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Post by Jesslfar on Aug 10, 2023 14:38:20 GMT -6
I still don’t really know who Lil Tay is, but now I’m seeing reports that she is alive. She’s the weird little kid “rapper” who claimed to be really wealthy and would do all of these things flexing her wealth. She’s not that old so we found out about her at maybe 8 or 9. Not to talk trash about a kid, she’s one of those kids like Bhad Bhaby and Whoa Vicky who exist because of the internet.
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Post by McBenny on Aug 10, 2023 14:38:24 GMT -6
July 12, 2023 Not only did the permanent A list "singer" not write her book, apparently she didn't even bother to read what had been written. Britney Spears I will continue to believe she penned every word and it drags Timberlake to hell and back. Oh wow, LOL.
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Post by McBenny on Aug 10, 2023 14:39:29 GMT -6
I stand here. If people want to suddenly get smart then use your context clues. He said fake friends. And plus also, wasn't Jesus jewish as well? So for me, I still would never in a million years jump to anti Sematism. Again, it's not about me. He cleared it up and apologized like immediately. What more do people want? I wish people who jump as hard for the black community as they do the jews. Me feeling that way doesn't mean I am antisemitic. It means I envy that about them. I had this conversation when Kanye started his stuff I remember.
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Post by McBenny on Aug 10, 2023 14:39:54 GMT -6
The only part of "Try that in a Small Town" I appreciate is the use of it w/r/t the Montgomery Boat Brawl. Same. Bloody Saturday. When I am feeling down, I rewatch the video.
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Post by McBenny on Aug 10, 2023 14:40:28 GMT -6
July 5, 2023 This foreign born A list singer/tax evader was in an open relationship for years, but gets mad when her husband actually then catches feelings for one of the women? Shakira/Gerard Pique I think it was the having the woman in our home that we share with our children and eating my jam bitch.
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Post by McBenny on Aug 10, 2023 14:41:10 GMT -6
Britney can't write a recipe. Come on now.
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Post by angelashly on Aug 10, 2023 14:42:19 GMT -6
July 5, 2023 This foreign born A list singer/tax evader was in an open relationship for years, but gets mad when her husband actually then catches feelings for one of the women? Shakira/Gerard Pique I think it was the having the woman in our home that we share with our children and eating my jam bitch. 😂😂😂😂
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Post by McBenny on Aug 10, 2023 14:43:11 GMT -6
Plus also....
In my research of poly and or open relationships the foundation is open and honest communication and trust. So even if they had an open relationship when he started sneaking...he violated that shit.
Also in my research, poly people can change their mind and re negotiate boundaries. Maybe he broke those.
It feels very blame the wife to me but whatever.
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Post by McBenny on Aug 10, 2023 14:47:58 GMT -6
what are your thoughts on this? I’m torn. I feel I need to do more research because I didn’t follow everything. I’m reading things now I feel fine. Had it took responsibility upfront, went to rehab for anger or some shit, apologized, not called her a liar, he could have pled and maybe he could have had her support that. He did not. Not only did he not own up to it, not take responsibility, he lied on her, he purposely befriended her enemies so to speak and worked against her. He also said "dance bitch" when he shot at her. I do not care. She could have been seriously injured or dead. Drunken waving around of a weapon. In Louisiana he would have got 20 years so I feel he did good. 10 flat? Roll with it. Also let's be clear - he got 6 years for the shooting injury part - 4 was a weapons charge
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Post by McBenny on Aug 10, 2023 14:50:26 GMT -6
Do not confuse my Megan with Meghan.
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Post by angelashly on Aug 10, 2023 14:50:55 GMT -6
Plus also.... In my research of poly and or open relationships the foundation is open and honest communication and trust. So even if they had an open relationship when he started sneaking...he violated that shit. Also in my research, poly people can change their mind and re negotiate boundaries. Maybe he broke those. It feels very blame the wife to me but whatever. Yes. The radio station I listen to in the morning has a dj that is very interested in this and often talks to people who live the open relationship life and every one of them he has interviewed has said it starts with rules and 9/10 the rule is that nothing is done without the spouse’s knowledge and it ends when one person is not comfortable with the life style anymore
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Post by McBenny on Aug 10, 2023 14:51:52 GMT -6
I am on page 11 but I hope you all know Lil Tay is not dead by now.
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Post by angelashly on Aug 10, 2023 14:53:25 GMT -6
I’m torn. I feel I need to do more research because I didn’t follow everything. I’m reading things now I feel fine. Had it took responsibility upfront, went to rehab for anger or some shit, apologized, not called her a liar, he could have pled and maybe he could have had her support that. He did not. Not only did he not own up to it, not take responsibility, he lied on her, he purposely befriended her enemies so to speak and worked against her. He also said "dance bitch" when he shot at her. I do not care. She could have been seriously injured or dead. Drunken waving around of a weapon. In Louisiana he would have got 20 years so I feel he did good. 10 flat? Roll with it. Also let's be clear - he got 6 years for the shooting injury part - 4 was a weapons charge As I’ve sat on it more I have leaned more this way.
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Post by jaygee on Aug 10, 2023 15:03:14 GMT -6
I can’t stand when people video a whole concert or sporting event. You cannot convince me that they ever rewatch it all. I will do a quick video for my kid but like 30-60 seconds and that’s it. But I actually show it to him. And I do it so I’m not blocking someone’s view. I get annoyed when they hold the phone up and now I’m watching it through their phone. And when someone I know posts that to their stories I click out. No thank you. I don’t have time to watch your video. Just say you had fun. That’s all I need.
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Post by bazi on Aug 10, 2023 15:37:03 GMT -6
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Post by elle on Aug 10, 2023 15:49:12 GMT -6
Oh man, my in-laws visited in July and my MIL is a huge Neil Diamond fan. Guess who my girls now love? 😆 (Although I don't know that he'd be classed as a smooth rock singer, I was just thinking more in terms of 70's icons.)
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