dc2london
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Post by dc2london on Jul 26, 2023 15:08:02 GMT -6
I accidentally bummed my husband out telling him about the mattress situation bc he really liked Armchair Expert
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STP
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 15:15:00 GMT -6
I accidentally bummed my husband out telling him about the mattress situation bc he really liked Armchair Expert IDK why this cracked me up so hard, but it did. Poor Mr.DC2London!
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AmyG
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Post by AmyG on Jul 26, 2023 15:21:44 GMT -6
I don't respond 90% of the time. I don't think pms are passive aggressive though. ๐คท๐ปโโ๏ธ It's direct and to the point in my opinion. I agree pms in general aren't. But screenshotting one of my posts and sending it to me with some thumbs up would read as passive aggressive to me. If someone is like "I think we're talking past each other" or wants to hash something out then that feels direct and I'm cool with. screenshot of something I said with a thumbs up would imply they agree with me. So I'd take it that they agree with me but are afraid of saying it "out loud" on the board. which I've had those in pm
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 15:24:05 GMT -6
I agree pms in general aren't. But screenshotting one of my posts and sending it to me with some thumbs up would read as passive aggressive to me. If someone is like "I think we're talking past each other" or wants to hash something out then that feels direct and I'm cool with. screenshot of something I said with a thumbs up would imply they agree with me. So I'd take it that they agree with me but are afraid of saying it "out loud" on the board. which I've had those in pm Well. Not this one you wouldn't, lol.
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Post by hellosweetie on Jul 26, 2023 15:27:42 GMT -6
Hey, girl, can I slide in your DMs? I have more info on how nasty this family is. I need to share it. ๐๐ป
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STP
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 15:28:57 GMT -6
Look the cheap, ugly, does not speak of well of me dopamine hit of dunking on someone even when they deserve it has worn off, as has the righteous adrenaline that fueled it and the frankly deeply confused annoyance at being contacted with something so stupid in the first place.
I have measured regrets and know I should have just posted an "I asked you no to do this, and here is the stated reaction, but fin" and called it a day.
I do not think I am wrong to have felt she was out of line for it, but she's just a troll at the end of the day and as usual I was the easy mark that I always am. I am not lacking in the awareness of why my personality tangos in these dynamics with our board problem makers. I don't love it about me, and don't ask you to love it either.
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jaygee
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Post by jaygee on Jul 26, 2023 15:31:58 GMT -6
It was one of the ones that you put cold water in and it circulates it through tubes to keep the mattress cool. I believe the story was they grabbed the wrong cup? I forget. I read the article when it happened. I do remember that they replaced the mattress once they realized. Ohhhh they put it in the Uuler??!!! Like in the tubing?! How does that even happen Yes, the ooler one that all the podcasters talk about. He poured it in the tank instead of water.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 26, 2023 15:35:23 GMT -6
I thought thumbs up was basically a neat emoji for the most part?
Philo 100% was not afraid to agree on the board that was all agreeing with scout
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bazi
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Post by bazi on Jul 26, 2023 15:41:36 GMT -6
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STP
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 15:42:29 GMT -6
bazi, go straight to the deepest recesses of Hell
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bobyn
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Post by bobyn on Jul 26, 2023 15:43:20 GMT -6
GBCHIH
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bazi
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Post by bazi on Jul 26, 2023 15:49:29 GMT -6
bazi, go straight to the deepest recesses of Hell Itโs just relatable celeb content!
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bazi
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Post by bazi on Jul 26, 2023 15:50:49 GMT -6
I forgot those two are so respectful of their kids privacy, they wonโt show their faces.
No problem telling the world the kids are stinky and gassy though.
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bazi
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Post by bazi on Jul 26, 2023 15:52:09 GMT -6
bazi, you are now my sworn enemy. Just donโt PM me about it. (Too soon?)
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Post by tatorhead328 on Jul 26, 2023 16:02:28 GMT -6
I forgot those two are so respectful of their kids privacy, they wonโt show their faces. No problem telling the world the kids are stinky and gassy though. I feel like they are regularly sharing pretty embarrassing stories about their kids, which seems worse to me than pics but what do I know?
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sudsy
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Post by sudsy on Jul 26, 2023 16:28:28 GMT -6
What in tarnation is going on in here?
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pobre
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Post by pobre on Jul 26, 2023 16:55:00 GMT -6
But you can only communicate through a series of random, unrelated quotes.ย I only communicate in GIFs, TIA. Ugh, millennials.
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pobre
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Post by pobre on Jul 26, 2023 16:55:52 GMT -6
I agree pms in general aren't. But screenshotting one of my posts and sending it to me with some thumbs up would read as passive aggressive to me. If someone is like "I think we're talking past each other" or wants to hash something out then that feels direct and I'm cool with. screenshot of something I said with a thumbs up would imply they agree with me. So I'd take it that they agree with me but are afraid of saying it "out loud" on the board. which I've had those in pm No one thinks the thumbs up means agreement lol.
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Jul 26, 2023 16:58:37 GMT -6
This is why I don't care for PMs when it's something like this, and not a deeper conversation. It allows too much speculation about what actually happened. If you don't engage there is no speculation. There is no she said she said if you don't engage. Just saying. I've been posting 13 years and this has served me well.
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Post by icedcoffee on Jul 26, 2023 17:03:42 GMT -6
What is the alien thing?? I am missing something clearly
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Jul 26, 2023 17:09:44 GMT -6
What is the alien thing?? I am missing something clearly omg so congress called air force into hearings about aliens. They said they would if they kept hiding information from the public. Former top air force guy said we have UFOs, bodies, and have reversed engineered some things.
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Post by icedcoffee on Jul 26, 2023 17:11:45 GMT -6
What is the alien thing?? I am missing something clearly omg so congress called air force into hearings about aliens. They said they would if they kept hiding information from the public. Former top air force guy said we have UFOs, bodies, and have reversed engineered some things. ๐ ๐ ok this is definitely worth a spiral, thanks!
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Jul 26, 2023 17:12:34 GMT -6
I also need to say I found the tagging and tagging of admin excessive. Your personal PII was not on display. Like omg.
Admin will get to the ban.
There's been a couple of you here with that ban behavior and it's not a good look.
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๐ ๐ Fineapple ๐ ๐
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Post by ๐ ๐ Fineapple ๐ ๐ on Jul 26, 2023 17:13:57 GMT -6
I guess Iโm confused. Why is it bannable to post a PM that you sent?
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๐ ๐ Fineapple ๐ ๐
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I never gossip, I observe...And then relay my observations to practically everyone.โ
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Post by ๐ ๐ Fineapple ๐ ๐ on Jul 26, 2023 17:14:44 GMT -6
Iโm also confused as to why PMs that donโt give a name, umber ,address or finding someone IRL is bannable? Like if I post a PM that I sent you- that being bannable is wild
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๐ ๐ Fineapple ๐ ๐
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I never gossip, I observe...And then relay my observations to practically everyone.โ
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Post by ๐ ๐ Fineapple ๐ ๐ on Jul 26, 2023 17:15:18 GMT -6
Also- I have a screenshot of every PM posted in this chat and Iโm still waiting to see the nasty PM. Is the nasty PM in the thread with us?
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 17:15:30 GMT -6
I guess Iโm confused. Why is it bannable to post a PM that you sent? Apparently itโs only if you include the other persons comments, which she did ๐คทโโ๏ธ
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Post by YakkityYak on Jul 26, 2023 17:15:41 GMT -6
Iโm also confused as to why PMs that donโt give a name, umber ,address or finding someone IRL is bannable? Like if I post a PM that I sent you- that being bannable is wild ๐ฏ Maybe at least make it a 3 strikes rule or something rather than immediate ban if there's no personal info
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๐ ๐ Fineapple ๐ ๐
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I never gossip, I observe...And then relay my observations to practically everyone.โ
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Post by ๐ ๐ Fineapple ๐ ๐ on Jul 26, 2023 17:17:13 GMT -6
I guess Iโm confused. Why is it bannable to post a PM that you sent? Apparently itโs only if you include the other persons comments, which she did ๐คทโโ๏ธ But without that- then we have the narrative of a nasty PM. Letโs be real here. You a long time loved poster bs barely tolerated Philo- she has to come with receipts. Otherwise sheโs then added to the troll who sends nasty PM list
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 17:17:38 GMT -6
Also- I have a screenshot of every PM posted in this chat and Iโm still waiting to see the nasty PM. Is the nasty PM in the thread with us? I mean answered multiple times, though perhaps this was not a genuine question.
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