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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 12:54:22 GMT -6
sterling tags me w/ #breezy weekly. IT'S A KNOWN JOKE. I almost did in this thread but I didn’t know if I would break philo and get nasty grams, so I passed. That said, hella #breezy thread, friend 😂 This whole morning has really been a shining example of it, on my part.
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Post by brux on Jul 26, 2023 12:57:39 GMT -6
I'm cool with philo getting banned for posting both parts of a PM. I don't follow at all why STP made a thread about the content of the message being offensive in the first place. Was there more to the PM was was offensive? Or was it offensive that she PMed you when you asked her not to? It doesn't really matter, I suppose, I'm just curious because I'm fully lost in the woods over here.
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 13:00:15 GMT -6
I'm cool with philo getting banned for posting both parts of a PM. I don't follow at all why STP made a thread about the content of the message being offensive in the first place. Was there more to the PM was was offensive? Or was it offensive that she PMed you when you asked her not to? It doesn't really matter, I suppose, I'm just curious because I'm fully lost in the woods over here. I told her previously that my boundary was that she not PM. I also said that if she did, I would bring the conversation back to the main board bc I will not converse with her in private for exactly the reason shown here - I was not going to have my words that couldn't be shared twisted around and manipulated. I think when you lay a boundary, you need to follow through with it or it's meaningless. There was nothing precipitating that PM, which was absolutely mean, and frankly Brux I don't think you'd appreciate something like that out of the blue either. If you are talking about the initial PM from awhile ago, again you don't have the full context and can't bc she deleted what led up to it.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 26, 2023 13:00:55 GMT -6
I'm cool with philo getting banned for posting both parts of a PM. I don't follow at all why STP made a thread about the content of the message being offensive in the first place. Was there more to the PM was was offensive? Or was it offensive that she PMed you when you asked her not to? It doesn't really matter, I suppose, I'm just curious because I'm fully lost in the woods over here. Assume that there is more. STP said she wouldn’t post the PM
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 13:01:24 GMT -6
I will happily talk privately with people I respect and at least trust, even if we don't get along. Even if we are fighting actively.
I do not have that level of trust or respect with Phil.
When someone says "this is not the way you and are going to converse, and this will be the route if you do it again," that's it. She was welcome to talk about it on the board, or stfu.
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Post by sterling on Jul 26, 2023 13:02:01 GMT -6
I'm cool with philo getting banned for posting both parts of a PM. I don't follow at all why STP made a thread about the content of the message being offensive in the first place. Was there more to the PM was was offensive? Or was it offensive that she PMed you when you asked her not to? It doesn't really matter, I suppose, I'm just curious because I'm fully lost in the woods over here. I told her previously that my boundary was that she not PM. I also said that if she did, I would bring the conversation back to the main board bc I will not converse with her in private for exactly the reason shown here - I was not going to have my words that couldn't be shared twisted around and manipulated. I think when you lay a boundary, you need to follow through with it or it's meaningless. There was nothing precipitating that PM, which was absolutely mean, and frankly Brux I don't think you'd appreciate something like that out of the blue either. You did have the audacity to jokingly call yourself a good person tho….
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Post by AmyG on Jul 26, 2023 13:02:13 GMT -6
STP , threatening to post the contents(id assume paraphrased not copy/paste) of pms and bring to the board if phil pmed her again. So phil pmed her again STP didn't post the pm but started this thread. so phil did it for her? to call her bluff? idk that's what i see not that anything said back and forth on board or in pm is all that pearl clutching banned over posting such a nothing pm
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Post by bazi on Jul 26, 2023 13:02:16 GMT -6
I’m just super excited we outed Kristen on the board.
Someone call TMZ.
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 13:03:04 GMT -6
I told her previously that my boundary was that she not PM. I also said that if she did, I would bring the conversation back to the main board bc I will not converse with her in private for exactly the reason shown here - I was not going to have my words that couldn't be shared twisted around and manipulated. I think when you lay a boundary, you need to follow through with it or it's meaningless. There was nothing precipitating that PM, which was absolutely mean, and frankly Brux I don't think you'd appreciate something like that out of the blue either. You did have the audacity to jokingly call yourself a good person tho…. My canonization papers are held up somewhere, swellist. We've talked about this.
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Post by bazi on Jul 26, 2023 13:06:05 GMT -6
I am actually laughing out loud that being compared to Kristen Bell was the straw that sent Phil over the edge to Ban land.
Kristen’s just that bad, guys.
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 13:06:17 GMT -6
I don’t even think it was so much about the contents, per se, but the idea that any conversation remain on the main board. So if philo wanted to get up in arms that STP thinks Kirsten Bell would make a lovely addition to the blinds thread makeup, she should say that before God and others. Am I following? I’ve got time between deadlines. 😂 You and AmyG nailed it. I am not curled in a ball over the PM, although it was fairly unnecessary no? And I doubt any of you would enjoy getting same. I asked her not to do that, I told her I would post a thread on the board, and she made a choice. You also all have to remember, phil has had several accounts and deleted most of them. There is a hole in the context you don't have in relation to the first PM - which I never said a word about here.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 26, 2023 13:06:21 GMT -6
I don’t even think it was so much about the contents, per se, but the idea that any conversation remain on the main board. So if philo wanted to get up in arms that STP thinks Kirsten Bell would make a lovely addition to the blinds thread makeup, she should say that before God and others. Am I following? I’ve got time between deadlines. 😂 You are right and STP had to set these boundaries because of previous experience
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 13:06:34 GMT -6
I am actually laughing out loud that being compared to Kristen Bell was the straw that sent Phil over the edge to Ban land. Kristen’s just that bad, guys. Non bath taking bitch.
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Post by brux on Jul 26, 2023 13:07:57 GMT -6
I'm cool with philo getting banned for posting both parts of a PM. I don't follow at all why STP made a thread about the content of the message being offensive in the first place. Was there more to the PM was was offensive? Or was it offensive that she PMed you when you asked her not to? It doesn't really matter, I suppose, I'm just curious because I'm fully lost in the woods over here. I told her previously that my boundary was that she not PM. I also said that if she did, I would bring the conversation back to the main board bc I will not converse with her in private for exactly the reason shown here - I was not going to have my words that couldn't be shared twisted around and manipulated. I think when you lay a boundary, you need to follow through with it or it's meaningless. There was nothing precipitating that PM, which was absolutely mean, and frankly Brux I don't think you'd appreciate something like that out of the blue either. If you are talking about the initial PM from awhile ago, again you don't have the full context and can't bc she deleted what led up to it. I agree with you about boundaries with people. But I only care to set and hold them with people I want to care about. She's such a non-entity in my mind that she doesn't warrant my continued attention. I don't think I would've done anything about the thumbs up PM other than reply "fuck off" and deleted it. But I'm not the one she follows around to engage in battles, like she does you, so I don't blame you for being pissed.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 26, 2023 13:08:15 GMT -6
I am actually laughing out loud that being compared to Kristen Bell was the straw that sent Phil over the edge to Ban land. Kristen’s just that bad, guys. Non bath taking bitch. I mean couch worms it fits
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 13:09:09 GMT -6
I mean couch worms it fits TO BE CLEAR I MEAN KRISTIN BELL AND NOT PHIL. I DO NOT BELIEVE PHIL IS THE STAR OF TV'S THE GOOD PLACE AND HOLLYWOOD'S FORGETTING SARAH MARSHALL. I HAVE NO THEORIES OR INSIGHTS INTO THE BATHING PRACTICES OF THE POSTER PHIL.
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Post by icedcoffee on Jul 26, 2023 13:09:21 GMT -6
Well I'm late but I see it's already resolved! I saw the post in the blinds and thought I missed something but this thread cleared up a lot of things
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Post by angelashly on Jul 26, 2023 13:09:30 GMT -6
I told her previously that my boundary was that she not PM. I also said that if she did, I would bring the conversation back to the main board bc I will not converse with her in private for exactly the reason shown here - I was not going to have my words that couldn't be shared twisted around and manipulated. I think when you lay a boundary, you need to follow through with it or it's meaningless. There was nothing precipitating that PM, which was absolutely mean, and frankly Brux I don't think you'd appreciate something like that out of the blue either. If you are talking about the initial PM from awhile ago, again you don't have the full context and can't bc she deleted what led up to it. I agree with you about boundaries with people. But I only care to set and hold them with people I want to care about. She's such a non-entity in my mind that she doesn't warrant my continued attention. I don't think I would've done anything about the thumbs up PM other than reply "fuck off" and deleted it. But I'm not the one she follows around to engage in battles, like she does you, so I don't blame you for being pissed. Yeah I don’t believe this but like you said you don’t have anyone who has done philo level shit like we have and I don’t even get it as bad as STP
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Post by jaygee on Jul 26, 2023 13:09:50 GMT -6
Which of the nasty hygiene couples admitted to putting an old smoothie in their cooler mattress- was that Bell and Dax or Mila and Ashton. Because I still have nightmares over that.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 26, 2023 13:10:05 GMT -6
I mean couch worms it fits TO BE CLEAR I MEAN KRISTIN BELL AND NOT PHIL. I DO NOT BELIEVE PHIL IS THE STAR OF TV'S THE GOOD PLACE AND HOLLYWOOD'S FORGETTING SARAH MARSHALL. I HAVE NO THEORIES OR INSIGHTS INTO THE BATHING PRACTICES OF THE POSTER PHIL. I’m already a mean girl who is to sensitive so I’ll take the fall for this rumor
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Post by angelashly on Jul 26, 2023 13:10:20 GMT -6
Which of the nasty hygiene couples admitted to putting an old smoothie in their cooler mattress- was that Bell and Dax or Mila and Ashton. Because I still have nightmares over that. Bell I believe
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Post by jaygee on Jul 26, 2023 13:11:27 GMT -6
Which of the nasty hygiene couples admitted to putting an old smoothie in their cooler mattress- was that Bell and Dax or Mila and Ashton. Because I still have nightmares over that. Bell I believe That’s what I think too but then I second guessed myself.
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 13:11:36 GMT -6
I absolutely believe there are many of you who are better than me at rising above and brushing it off.
That's as established as #breezy.
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Post by STP on Jul 26, 2023 13:11:53 GMT -6
Which of the nasty hygiene couples admitted to putting an old smoothie in their cooler mattress- was that Bell and Dax or Mila and Ashton. Because I still have nightmares over that. omg I don't want more details at all.
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Post by bazi on Jul 26, 2023 13:13:26 GMT -6
Which of the nasty hygiene couples admitted to putting an old smoothie in their cooler mattress- was that Bell and Dax or Mila and Ashton. Because I still have nightmares over that. Bell and Dax. And they were nonplussed by the smell because they assumed it was their own flatulence. I get it, Phil.
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Post by Rusty Red on Jul 26, 2023 13:16:33 GMT -6
Which of the nasty hygiene couples admitted to putting an old smoothie in their cooler mattress- was that Bell and Dax or Mila and Ashton. Because I still have nightmares over that. And you decided you needed to give the rest of us nightmares?
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Post by jaygee on Jul 26, 2023 13:17:28 GMT -6
I am great at ignoring people that I don’t want to interact with here. But PMs from those same people would make me annoyed and probably angry. It’s just trollish. And the shoe fits in this case. There is just general trollish behavior.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 26, 2023 13:18:39 GMT -6
I absolutely believe there are many of you who are better than me at rising above and brushing it off. That's as established as #breezy. I think a lot of people here that say that aren’t being true to themselves or hasn’t had it happen to them so they can’t really say
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Post by AmyG on Jul 26, 2023 13:19:11 GMT -6
I am great at ignoring people that I don’t want to interact with here. But PMs from those same people would make me annoyed and probably angry. It’s just trollish. And the shoe fits in this case. There is just general trollish behavior. And those are the people you block so they can't pm you but stp just recently decided to unblock unblock because it is annoying when it's a prolific poster and you have to click to view any of their messages.
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Post by McBenny on Jul 26, 2023 13:19:28 GMT -6
OMG a call out thread. So vintage. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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