AmyG
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Post by AmyG on Jul 27, 2023 12:50:16 GMT -6
AmyG , she wasn't banned for the thumbs up. She was banned for posting my PM reply that was not on the board before she did so. We can keep going until you get it. ok follow my train of thought for a minute The TOU was created so this is an ok functional little mini society with rules The rule about not posting PM's is one of the rules we made because of a reason. No I do not remember the reason, but I know one thought was because pms tend to be sharing of real, names, addresses or stuff you don't want the whole board to know. so if she was banned for violating the tou she was banned for sharing your pm which included your post to her which was very similar to what you'd actually posted and her thumbs ups to you. so she was banned for repeated what you've already said here and then the thumbs up.
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STP
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Post by STP on Jul 27, 2023 12:51:26 GMT -6
AmyG , she wasn't banned for the thumbs up. She was banned for posting my PM reply that was not on the board before she did so. We can keep going until you get it. so she was banned for repeated what you've already said here and then the thumbs up. No. She was banned because her screenshot included my PM reply. As a screenshot. It had nothing to do with her PM, contents or existence. The thumbs up has literally zero to do with anything.
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Jul 27, 2023 12:53:48 GMT -6
You upside down bell pepper. Remember your actions, when I react. Let's not play crazy and omg no. She's a meanie! Boo hoo hoo. I have not said much to you in this thread but yet you persist.
Remember that time someone lied on you and got you banned, and everyone just accepted it as is but me. I tried to get people to leave TB because if you could get banned off a lie then any of us could. Everyone was ok with it and accepted it and would not leave the forum.
Then when they were directly affected, they were ready to leave TB.
This is not anything new for me. Don't try to take it there.
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Post by GhoatMonket on Jul 27, 2023 12:54:06 GMT -6
I feel like someone is struggling to understand how conversations work.
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Pizzaslut
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jul 27, 2023 12:55:16 GMT -6
You upside down bell pepper. Is this towards me? I must admit, it's an insult I've never heard before.
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Pizzaslut
Ruby
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jul 27, 2023 12:58:03 GMT -6
I do not believe this opens the door to a slippery slope of folks telling wild tales about other posters and being believed willy nilly. This is what I'm trying to say.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 12:58:26 GMT -6
I think there’s truth to both sides here. This is where I am. They both poke at each other over and over. Phil has poked at me sometimes I move on with not a word sometimes she catches me on a bad day and I’m not proud of myself
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Jul 27, 2023 12:59:23 GMT -6
McBenny , I'm just having a conversation. Sharing an opinion. A different viewpoint. Shooting the shit, if you will. Do I have to be deeply invested to talk about it with you? No, you do not have to be deeply invested. I just find it odd that you keep saying you don't care over and over again but your actions is not giving I don't care. Not to me anyway. I mean I am not telling you not to post. I just don't know what you are looking for here with me. You shared your opinion, I don't agree. I feel the facts show different.
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Post by GhoatMonket on Jul 27, 2023 12:59:35 GMT -6
McBenny , I'm just having a conversation. Sharing an opinion. A different viewpoint. Shooting the shit, if you will. Do I have to be deeply invested to talk about it with you? My gosh, yes. Only discuss things that you have a deep and emotional attachment to those things and by God burn down every bridge in the vicinity if someone dares disagree. That was fun and all in my 20's and 30's, but meh. I'm tired. I have bigger things to put actual mental load into than a website to shoot the shit and sometimes have some deeper conversations. Like if someone wants to lie on me and get me banned from here, I guess I'll go on reddit or something. I dunno. The people I would want to keep tabs on I have on FB or IG anyway, or I'd have someone track down their info for me.
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Pizzaslut
Ruby
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jul 27, 2023 13:01:15 GMT -6
I want to point out that if everyone would've just ignored her, we wouldn't be here.
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Jul 27, 2023 13:01:16 GMT -6
You upside down bell pepper. Is this towards me? I must admit, it's an insult I've never heard before. No. Were you banned on the bump when someone lied on you?
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Jul 27, 2023 13:01:27 GMT -6
T And I am going to point out, hey don't let your hate for a poster lose sight of the fact that we were told a bunch of bullshit. The end. I totally agree with you on this part omg we need a plaque or something. This is it. This is all. This is my point.
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wasabi
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Post by wasabi on Jul 27, 2023 13:01:46 GMT -6
“Absolutely, it's possible to grow inverted pepper plants. Apparently, not every veggie does well upside down, but upside-down pepper plants are a go, probably because they don't have really deep roots.”
In case anyone was curious.
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STP
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Post by STP on Jul 27, 2023 13:01:52 GMT -6
I want to point out that if everyone would've just ignored her, we wouldn't be here. That is not often an option because of who I am as a person, but you are not wrong.
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Post by angelashly on Jul 27, 2023 13:01:52 GMT -6
I agree with what Pizzaslut said. I also want to add I was surprised to learn that Phil sent STP PMs in the first place The dislike was no secret, so why even go there? It makes no sense. I think this is why AmyG I don't really understand you saying Phil didn't start anything. Did she take bait on this thread, maybe. But what good did she think would come out of sending STP private messages when we can see how they interact on the board? That to me screams trying to start shit so I don't think Phil is blameless here at all Phil is Queen of stir the pot and hide her hands and she knows who to poke in what thread that will get her the most support. Me saying that doesn’t mean I think STP is perfect and I’m excusing her from the rash callout
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STP
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Post by STP on Jul 27, 2023 13:03:45 GMT -6
I am not lacking in the awareness of why my personality tangos in these dynamics with our board problem makers. I don't love it about me, and don't ask you to love it either.
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Post by GhoatMonket on Jul 27, 2023 13:06:04 GMT -6
You upside down bell pepper. Is this towards me? I must admit, it's an insult I've never heard before. I appreciate that she got a little more creative than just calling me a cunt.
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Post by GhoatMonket on Jul 27, 2023 13:10:45 GMT -6
Slowly but surely wearing her down.
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Post by sweptaway on Jul 27, 2023 13:11:09 GMT -6
I don't think anyone lied. I think STP overreacted (which she's admitted to), but that to her the PMs legit felt nasty. Would I have personally used that word for them? I dunno, but it doesn't matter because it didn't happen to me. I do not believe this opens the door to a slippery slope of folks telling wild tales about other posters and being believed willy nilly. Saying this only because of the idea that folks are just cool with lying. I don't enjoy lying. I do not think lying occurred here. I realize others disagree. This is it for me. Did STP lie? I don't think so. Did she wildly overreact? Yes. Phil also had a choice in the way she responded.
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Post by sweptaway on Jul 27, 2023 13:12:19 GMT -6
Maybe we can transition this to one of those fun regional dialect threads where we talk about what words mean.
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STP
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Post by STP on Jul 27, 2023 13:13:39 GMT -6
Maybe we can transition this to one of those fun regional dialect threads where we talk about what words mean. Please join bazi on her bench in Hell. Thanks.
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Pizzaslut
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jul 27, 2023 13:13:52 GMT -6
McBenny I do want to say that I wasn’t trying to do anything by writing my initial post to you. I was honestly talking to you as a friend as if we were in person. Like girl, don’t waste your energy, nothing’s going to change. If she was lying intentionally, she’s not going to admit it. By reposting everything you know people will make you out to be a bad guy. I wasn’t trying to call you out in any way. I wasn’t saying you were wrong.
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STP
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Post by STP on Jul 27, 2023 13:14:10 GMT -6
Hey girl! Do you want to talk about leggings today or internet trolls? God the possibilities are endless, really. How's a girl to choose? I found that viral TikTok french butter with the huge salt flakes in it. Would have told you but you abandoned me.
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Post by GhoatMonket on Jul 27, 2023 13:14:20 GMT -6
Hey girl! Do you want to talk about leggings today or internet trolls? God the possibilities are endless, really. How's a girl to choose? We can do both in the same thread. I see no problems with that.
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on Jul 27, 2023 13:14:54 GMT -6
I agree with what Pizzaslut said. I also want to add I was surprised to learn that Phil sent STP PMs in the first place The dislike was no secret, so why even go there? It makes no sense. I think this is why AmyG I don't really understand you saying Phil didn't start anything. Did she take bait on this thread, maybe. But what good did she think would come out of sending STP private messages when we can see how they interact on the board? That to me screams trying to start shit so I don't think Phil is blameless here at all I fully reserve the fact that I could be totally wrong but again I feel this sentiment is landing clearly in a place cause you don't like phil. The PM was very clear. She asked her directly what have I ever said to you that was hurtful to you was like the first sentence. Maybe started a conversation with someone you are at odds with is new territory for you and yours. I am amazed that it is like blowing some minds. Over the years, I have had people reach out directly to me. I have reached out directly to others. Why? Why not? Two grown women that maybe can hash out our differences or agree to disagree. Neither one of us has to feel the other person is putting on a show because it is just us. I agree with AmyG here. I do not think sending a pm in itself is starting anything. I do not think going to the source and asking what have I done to you is starting anything in itself.
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Post by sweptaway on Jul 27, 2023 13:15:09 GMT -6
Maybe we can transition this to one of those fun regional dialect threads where we talk about what words mean. Please join bazi on her bench in Hell. Thanks. Lol I actually hate those threads but I did click the mattress link so... I'll accept my punishment
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STP
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Post by STP on Jul 27, 2023 13:15:30 GMT -6
GOD THE MATTRESSSSSSSSS
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Pizzaslut
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jul 27, 2023 13:17:34 GMT -6
I think I'm ready for a new topic. Should I post my options for hairstyles for my appointment in an hour, along with pictures directly in this thread, or should I start a new one?
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Pizzaslut
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jul 27, 2023 13:18:02 GMT -6
JK I already know what I'm doing and don't want to think about it anymore.
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Post by GhoatMonket on Jul 27, 2023 13:18:02 GMT -6
We've already reached the point in the thread where one person tried to stay on topic and the rest of us wander off into several other topics for the next 14.28 hours until we come back around.
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