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Post by peachsmama on Jul 10, 2021 8:35:48 GMT -6
It's pouring rain and we have A's little sisters grad party today and my brother's 4th of July party. All outside...
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Post by klong11 on Jul 10, 2021 9:47:41 GMT -6
Eye appointments this afternoon. Other than that nothing. It's cloudy and my allergies are making me want to rip my eyes out.
Cadence has another swim playdate tomorrow, so I'll have 3 whole hours to myself. I may go to B&N to touch all the books.
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Post by chrisy01 on Jul 10, 2021 10:33:17 GMT -6
Coworker G is coming over to help put E’s new bed together. I have 3 tests and a homework assignment due tomorrow. My house is a mess.
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Post by peachsmama on Jul 10, 2021 10:36:21 GMT -6
A and I did a 10 year anniversary shoot. I got sneak peaks and I'm obsessed.  |
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Post by inthekitty on Jul 10, 2021 10:48:52 GMT -6
We're going to a fancy theatre to watch Black Widow and that's all that's on the agenda so far.
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Post by chrisy01 on Jul 10, 2021 10:57:12 GMT -6
Those look great [mention]peachsmama [/mention]
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Post by wineallthetime on Jul 10, 2021 12:38:46 GMT -6
Love it, Peach!
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Post by wineallthetime on Jul 10, 2021 12:42:40 GMT -6
I just found out friends of ours are also going through a divorce. We have seen them a ton, he's C's soccer coach and we have hung out together at each other's houses and had no clue. They also didn't know about us. Mutual friends have been harder to tell vs just MY friends. Anyway, she and I are going to dinner tonight so that'll be really nice! Curious if she gives me a backstory on what happened.
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Post by inthekitty on Jul 10, 2021 12:54:20 GMT -6
I got out of the shower after my workout and MH came downstairs, freaked, and exclaimed, "You haven't showered yet!? We need to leave in 5 minutes." He didn't understand why I was annoyed with him. What, just because I have on soft pants and put my hair in a ponytail that means it looks like I'm not ready to go out in public? 😒🙃🤪
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Post by lahdeedah on Jul 10, 2021 13:35:28 GMT -6
peachsmama Love it! inthekitty LOL. I’ve been struggling with what to wear these days when I’m going out in public. I want to wear something other than my nike workout shorts, but hell no to jeans when I’m just going to Target or the grocery store. I need to buy me a few pairs of comfy shorts that don’t look like I’m going straight to the gym. 😆 @wineallthethetime Have fun tonight! Who told who first? Are you planning to tell her about what happened with Yh? Just curious- if you feel like answering. 😊
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Post by lahdeedah on Jul 10, 2021 14:07:05 GMT -6
Hi.
My daily funk continues. I don’t know what’s up with me. I’ve been to the gym this week and eating a bit better, but my energy and mood is just blah.
I was supposed to get out early and go to the farmers market, but it was raining at 7-8am so I just slept in. I went to the mall to browse and now I’m in the pedicure chair waiting. Trying to find something that will turn my mood around. I need someone to flip the switch.
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Post by inthekitty on Jul 10, 2021 18:32:59 GMT -6
I'm sorry you're in a funky mood lahdeedah. I hate that. Do you think it may be related to the move and trying to get started at a new job? I'm always a slow adjuster to big moves. I hope something gets your serotonin flowing. |
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Post by kim22 on Jul 10, 2021 19:03:27 GMT -6
wineallthetime sorry you and your friend are both dealing with divorce. I hope you can support each other.
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Post by kim22 on Jul 10, 2021 19:06:13 GMT -6
The wedding was great but I’m exhausted. I stayed home all day doing things like going through 3 weeks of mail. C has been up super late and not napping so he was out of control today. Hoping he stays asleep and I can get a good night in.
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Post by lahdeedah on Jul 10, 2021 20:16:36 GMT -6
I'm sorry you're in a funky mood lahdeedah. I hate that. Do you think it may be related to the move and trying to get started at a new job? I'm always a slow adjuster to big moves. I hope something gets your serotonin flowing. I’m wondering if it’s just because I’m sitting home and going to bed way late coupled with lack of quality sleep. I don’t know. |
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Post by chrisy01 on Jul 10, 2021 20:38:12 GMT -6
[mention]lahdeedah [/mention] I get in a funk when my schedule gets thrown off. Maybe try and get into a routine that might help. But I hope you get out of the funk soon.
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Post by chrisy01 on Jul 10, 2021 20:40:36 GMT -6
Finished my homework with a day to spare. E’s bed is put together. Now to get rid of her convertible bed. We’ve had that for 8 years as of this month. I’m sad to see it go. I have to work next Saturday training the new guy so I’ll try and get ahead so I’m not that stressed next weekend.
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Post by nam2013 on Jul 11, 2021 1:27:31 GMT -6
@lahdeehdah I get into a funk big time when my routine gets thrown of (helllllloooo Corona 🤦🏼♀️). I hope you start feeling better soon! wineallthetime sorry for her divorce but it’s nice you’ve found someone to share experiences with. Hope you have a nice dinner! peachsmama that’s beautiful! |
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Post by nam2013 on Jul 11, 2021 1:37:26 GMT -6
Hi! My sister is here and it’s amazing, seriously it’s like she never went away. Dd2 acted like she saw her every day, my sister has a way with kids.
The surprise was to much for ds, he cried so much. He curled up like a ball in my lap and couldn’t move for almost an hour, big sobs, overwhelmed with emotions. The next day was better, but he asked me to never do that to him again. Dd was just gobsmacked, she had a smile from ear to ear.
My sisters and I are going to lunch in an hour and we’re having dinner with my parents tonight. Numbers are raging again, so all outside to be safe. I will admit I gave my sister a hug 🙈.
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Post by wineallthetime on Jul 11, 2021 7:23:50 GMT -6
Thanks, everybody! I cancelled dinner. MH got pissed about me "shipping my kids off to go have dinner with a friend" and had some other shitty stuff to say so I ended up crying in my bathroom and being miserable. I'm in a really crappy mood today. I'm just so DONE.
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Post by nam2013 on Jul 11, 2021 7:27:55 GMT -6
wineallthetime I’m so sorry he did that. I have no eloquent words to put this, I am mad on your behalf. But all of this, ALL of this, is due to his actions and his behaviour. You are not responsible for this in any shape form or way. You are a wonderful woman.
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Post by klong11 on Jul 11, 2021 8:11:52 GMT -6
wineallthetime he was probably just worried you would tell her what he did. That's on him, not you. The kids will be fine if you get them a sitter and go to dinner. Screw him.
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Post by wineallthetime on Jul 11, 2021 8:20:15 GMT -6
wineallthetime he was probably just worried you would tell her what he did. That's on him, not you. The kids will be fine if you get them a sitter and go to dinner. Screw him. I didn't even need a sitter, really! The kids were with him. They were going to go fishing, L didn't want to go and wanted to go to my sister's to play with my nieces. You're right, he probably was worried about what I'd tell her though. |
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Post by chrisy01 on Jul 11, 2021 8:26:12 GMT -6
[mention]wineallthetime [/mention] you have the right to go out and have some time to relax. It is not ok for him to dictate to you what you do. If I lived closer I would totally go kick him and tell him what an idiot he’s being.
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Post by wineallthetime on Jul 11, 2021 8:28:24 GMT -6
Thanks for the support, love this group. In better news, my sister is pregnant! I'm so excited. She just found out yesterday so hopefully everything goes smoothly.
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Post by chrisy01 on Jul 11, 2021 8:29:29 GMT -6
Thanks for the support, love this group. In better news, my sister is pregnant! I'm so excited. She just found out yesterday so hopefully everything goes smoothly. That’s great news. Hoping for a happy and healthy 9 months. |
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Post by lahdeedah on Jul 11, 2021 10:01:36 GMT -6
wineallthetime That’s great about your sister! Congrats to her. I’m so sorry he made you feel that way. That was not okay for him to do. We all need time to unwind with friends and I agree that he lashed out because he is worried about his truth getting out there. Just a reminder that what you do outside of time with the kids is none of his business anymore. We are always here for support. Big hugs.
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Post by lahdeedah on Jul 11, 2021 10:02:50 GMT -6
nam2013 I’m so happy to hear how much you all are enjoying your sister. Hope dinner goes well.
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Post by nam2013 on Jul 11, 2021 10:23:29 GMT -6
nam2013 I’m so happy to hear how much you all are enjoying your sister. Hope dinner goes well. We decided in take out an will sit in my parents back yard  ! |
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Post by jewels on Jul 11, 2021 12:12:07 GMT -6
wineallthetime congrats to your sister! And I agree with everyone else. I’m sorry he made you feel like shit. You don’t deserve that at all. I hope you plan a make up putting very soon
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