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Post by klong11 on Jun 25, 2021 9:48:51 GMT -6
chrisy01, I'm sorry you aren't getting along. It's hard when you don't feel like everyone is pulling their fair share.
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Post by lahdeedah on Jun 25, 2021 9:51:29 GMT -6
Hi.
I was having a good morning. I got up early to go see all the people I used to work with at my old job. It was so good to see them they were all happy to see me. Then I stopped at Starbucks on the way back to the house to get some caffeine before we get on the road. I see they have the brown sugar shaken drink. I order a tall because that’s all I should need… it literally took me 3 big sips to drink it all. The cup was all ice. I just paid that much for 3 sips of coffee. 😡 There should be a disclaimer about the amount of ice they use. I definitely would have gotten my regular drink of choice had I known. I just had to vent about that. Pissed me off.
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Post by mwhip on Jun 25, 2021 9:51:50 GMT -6
That is funny about the tooth tgrimes ! Great story for her 1st! chrisy01 definitely not stupid. I'm sorry you aren't seeing eye to eye on things and hopefully it passes over. I'm in the same place, although we are talking, but things aren't good. TGIF! No plans this weekend except to get my hair cut and colored tomorrow. I should cancel it, but I'm not going to, it would take weeks to get back in. Otherwise, firework stands open Sunday so I'm sure we will go stock up since H keeps hearing there is a shortage of them this year. You are a much better wife than me. I probably would laugh in his face if he said anything about fireworks while he sits at home for weeks doing nothing. Evie is also a huge firework fan, so it's really more for her, to keep life somewhat normal. He knows we need to scale WAY back from what we have done the past few years. I try not to discuss finances in any serious form, in front of her. I have had to tell her we don't need to eat out as much since dad isn't working, but I try to limit it, so she doesn't worry, or talk about it to the grandparents. It is hard...I go back and forth on things. We had just paid our credit cards way down, leaving a small balance on them, to improve credit scores, so we have room on them. And I know when he starts working, I'll get them all paid back down. But damn if I'm not frustrated AF with his lack of trying to find anything in the interim.
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 25, 2021 11:07:17 GMT -6
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Post by wineallthetime on Jun 25, 2021 11:39:42 GMT -6
I have a friend from CO in town so her family came over today which was nice!
It's only 70 here today but whoa humidity! We were downstairs and came back up and it was so sticky, felt like an indoor pool and all the windows were fogging up. Gross.
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Post by lahdeedah on Jun 25, 2021 11:41:16 GMT -6
mwhip I definitely get that about E. Good for you paying off cards and what not. I don’t remember, did you say you were reaching out to someone to ask about how this could affect the loan for the new house? Did they reassure you?
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Post by inthekitty on Jun 25, 2021 12:02:48 GMT -6
wedding , it went ok. The kid was a sweetheart. Sad situation with the deadbeat dad. But of course he was bored because it was just him most of the time while the girls were at school and we don't have many toys that are sought after by a 4 yo boy. So he required a lot of MH's attention. It just really annoys me that he never hesitates when someone he barely knows pops up out of the woodworks needs something but he has no problem telling the girls and I "no." His priorities suck. His time management sucks. He dicks around much of the week then is "too busy" with schoolwork to do family stuff on the weekend. ![O_o](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/browraise.png) There's no excuse for it. I get way more down at my job and around the house then he does during the week so there's no reason for him to constantly blow us off. Yet he was going to babysit every Thursday resulting in one less weekday to do schoolwork. No dude, get your fucking degree done so you can get a job because I can't handle you pulling this shit anymore. So yes, add me to the others with husband stressors right now. I hear you mwhip and chrisy01 and it's a crappy place to be in. I hope something gives for you two soon and your spouses have a lightbulb moment.
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Post by inthekitty on Jun 25, 2021 12:06:57 GMT -6
TGIF. Good lord it's been a long week. I've accomplished very little at work today because I was trying to get my new computer to work (the one that was completely not working at all right from picking it up from IT). I just kept putting it off because I was so busy with other work and my old one actually was working for once. But my power source is a dud and it went dead. ![B-|](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/notamused.png) The weekend is going to be like hell on earth here. We have 3 days in a row where it will be over 100, which never happens here, especially this early. Hardly anyone has AC (including us). We have a few window units which help, but it's no where near the same as AC. So we might spend more time than I've spent at the mall and the movies since 1992. We'll probably go to the lake and the beach.
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Post by chrisy01 on Jun 25, 2021 12:10:39 GMT -6
I just got told to apply for a project manager position I’m not sure I want. I’m scared if I don’t I won’t get another opportunity for awhile. What’s your thoughts?
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Post by lahdeedah on Jun 25, 2021 12:14:44 GMT -6
I just got told to apply for a project manager position I’m not sure I want. I’m scared if I don’t I won’t get another opportunity for awhile. What’s your thoughts? What are your reasons for not wanting it? Tell us what you would like. I say apply because it’s not a guaranteed in, but it may help as far as interview practice for a new position and to get to know more about these roles.
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Post by chrisy01 on Jun 25, 2021 12:18:29 GMT -6
I just got told to apply for a project manager position I’m not sure I want. I’m scared if I don’t I won’t get another opportunity for awhile. What’s your thoughts? What are your reasons for not wanting it? Tell us what you would like. I say apply because it’s not a guaranteed in, but it may help as far as interview practice for a new position and to get to know more about these roles. The person I would report to would be someone I could work with. But his leader and the director are people who’ve I’ve worked with in the past and have not enjoyed it. The work would be more computer work which is not something I would necessarily enjoy. It’s also a position that the original person was laid off from and then when they were offered their job back they didn’t come back. So I feel it’s not a very protective job. It’s labeled as a project manager job but reads like a program manager or sustainment position. I like project management because it’s fast pace and always changing. It appears to be steady state. I did just set up a meeting with the person I would be reporting to and ask some more questions.
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Post by lahdeedah on Jun 25, 2021 12:21:50 GMT -6
Some things i didn’t mention yet… tgrimes LOL at the rich tooth fairy. She looks so happy to have lost her tooth. nam2013 Thank you for showing us these pics every year. They are my favorite, too. Love seeing your kids in their flower crowns! Too cute. inthekitty sorry about the husband troubles. Last week when I got together with our friends, two of us had a vent session about the annoying habits of our husbands. It was nice to commiserate and know that I’m not alone in my feelings about some of it.
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 25, 2021 12:25:08 GMT -6
What are your reasons for not wanting it? Tell us what you would like. I say apply because it’s not a guaranteed in, but it may help as far as interview practice for a new position and to get to know more about these roles. The person I would report to would be someone I could work with. But his leader and the director are people who’ve I’ve worked with in the past and have not enjoyed it. The work would be more computer work which is not something I would necessarily enjoy. It’s also a position that the original person was laid off from and then when they were offered their job back they didn’t come back. So I feel it’s not a very protective job. It’s labeled as a project manager job but reads like a program manager or sustainment position. I like project management because it’s fast pace and always changing. It appears to be steady state. I did just set up a meeting with the person I would be reporting to and ask some more questions. I wouldn't apply then.
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Post by lahdeedah on Jun 25, 2021 12:31:33 GMT -6
What are your reasons for not wanting it? Tell us what you would like. I say apply because it’s not a guaranteed in, but it may help as far as interview practice for a new position and to get to know more about these roles. The person I would report to would be someone I could work with. But his leader and the director are people who’ve I’ve worked with in the past and have not enjoyed it. The work would be more computer work which is not something I would necessarily enjoy. It’s also a position that the original person was laid off from and then when they were offered their job back they didn’t come back. So I feel it’s not a very protective job. It’s labeled as a project manager job but reads like a program manager or sustainment position. I like project management because it’s fast pace and always changing. It appears to be steady state. I did just set up a meeting with the person I would be reporting to and ask some more questions. Gotcha. I see your reasons for not being a good fit for you. Would it be hard to say just that and make sure they know you are willing to wait for the right position to fit what you want? Do you think this could look good on your resume in order to get other positions?
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Post by chrisy01 on Jun 25, 2021 12:36:06 GMT -6
The person I would report to would be someone I could work with. But his leader and the director are people who’ve I’ve worked with in the past and have not enjoyed it. The work would be more computer work which is not something I would necessarily enjoy. It’s also a position that the original person was laid off from and then when they were offered their job back they didn’t come back. So I feel it’s not a very protective job. It’s labeled as a project manager job but reads like a program manager or sustainment position. I like project management because it’s fast pace and always changing. It appears to be steady state. I did just set up a meeting with the person I would be reporting to and ask some more questions. Gotcha. I see your reasons for not being a good fit for you. Would it be hard to say just that and make sure they know you are willing to wait for the right position to fit what you want? Do you think this could look good on your resume in order to get other positions? I’m not sure. This team has hit and miss views from other teams. B who I would work for is great. The other two are known as difficult but for different reasons. I don’t see this as a feather in my cap but a stepping stone if I get the job
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Post by mwhip on Jun 25, 2021 12:45:00 GMT -6
lahdeedah I did ask our lender how H's employment break would effect our mortgage, but we never worked out a time to talk. He didn't want to discuss via email, he wanted to talk, but I didn't want to talk in person in front of H because I knew he would be pissy about it. I did mention to H, if this break would effect our mortgage, and I pointed out to him how much our annual income is decreasing. He kind of blew it off at first, but I could tell he was thinking about it. As long as he start soon, we should be okay. I don't think the house will close for 6 months or so. chrisy01 what is the reasoning someone told you to apply? Do you think not applying will effect your future within your organization? If it isn't a move you want, I wouldn't waste my time or energy. I'm very focused on my career being something that provides more than a paycheck, obviously being miserable at work is a big topic at our house.
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Post by lahdeedah on Jun 25, 2021 13:14:22 GMT -6
So I’m failing at this trying to “dress like I’m a little younger” thing. I bought a distressed boyfriend tee a few weeks ago. It’s yellow and comfortable and I love it. Well the 2 times I have worn it, people have been like- you know you have a hole in your shirt right?? 😑My sister, MH, my friend at work. I was like- I know, I bought it like this. It’s DISTRESSED.😂😂 I’m doing this all wrong. I think it’s because when my hair is down you can only see 1 hole good and not the two that makes it look a bit more intentional. There are really small type holes towards the bottom, but way less noticeable. The shirt… ![](https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20210625/596da1b5cda57d0c71a2e433d67113ef.jpg)
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Post by kim22 on Jun 25, 2021 13:44:30 GMT -6
Yesterday we got up early to go for our appointment for passports at a post office. We arrive to find out that location doesn’t do passports anymore even though I received a confirmation email when I booked it and a test reminder the night before. I was so pissed because we couldn’t find another appointment for over a month. I came down the shore mid day with the 3 youngest because DS had his last game last night. Luckily I was able to find an appointment down here for this morning so that is done. My sister and her family came down last night. Currently putting C down for a way too late nap and BIL is making us dinner. Tomorrow is the big 40 party like I’m 21 night. I’m so excited.
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Post by wineallthetime on Jun 25, 2021 14:03:54 GMT -6
lahdeedah, that's cute! Everyone in my life would ask the same thing.
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Post by wineallthetime on Jun 25, 2021 14:07:27 GMT -6
Did I tell you that BIL had a gun pulled on him while driving yesterday? He was driving on a main road (not freeway), a car cut him off, he threw up his hands and the person pulled out a gun and held up traffic trying to stay right next to him. A van saw and forced it's way in between the two cars and gun car sped away. So terrifying. He was only a couple miles from my house.
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Post by inthekitty on Jun 25, 2021 14:14:46 GMT -6
wineallthetime, holy shit that's scary! WTF is up with people. And of course that dick was in the wrong but he's the one who pulls the gun. I'm really so over road-raging assholes. In addition to criminal sentencing I think they should have their license permanently revoked if they pull shit like that. lahdeedah lolz at your "distressed" shirt. ![(rofl)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/rofl.png)
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Post by wineallthetime on Jun 25, 2021 14:43:48 GMT -6
wineallthetime, holy shit that's scary! WTF is up with people. And of course that dick was in the wrong but he's the one who pulls the gun. I'm really so over road-raging assholes. In addition to criminal sentencing I think they should have their license permanently revoked if they pull shit like that. lahdeedah lolz at your "distressed" shirt. ![(rofl)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/rofl.png) I know! Insane! Unsure if it was a racial thing? Or a road rage psycho. Or both.
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Post by mwhip on Jun 25, 2021 14:49:07 GMT -6
That's so crazy and scary wineallthetime! I had a guy follow me home a few years ago, like drove by my house really slow after I got out of my car and he stared at me. Fortunately my dad was at my house, standing outside, so nothing happened. People are crazy. I try to avoid eye contact with everyone on the road.
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 25, 2021 14:50:17 GMT -6
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Post by mwhip on Jun 25, 2021 15:45:39 GMT -6
H finally got a start date. Fucking July 12th. 2 more weeks of him sitting around making 0 money. Im fucking furious.
He was going to go start next week then go back the following week and decided he didn't want to drive down there twice, so he would wait.
I don't give a fuck how many times you drive to Waco. We are going to run out of money. I havent said a word to him since he told me that.
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Post by lahdeedah on Jun 25, 2021 15:55:22 GMT -6
wineallthetime, holy shit that's scary! WTF is up with people. And of course that dick was in the wrong but he's the one who pulls the gun. I'm really so over road-raging assholes. In addition to criminal sentencing I think they should have their license permanently revoked if they pull shit like that. lahdeedah lolz at your "distressed" shirt. ![(rofl)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/rofl.png) I know! Insane! Unsure if it was a racial thing? Or a road rage psycho. Or both. I’m glad he’s ok. What a psycho asshole. These are the dickheads that don’t need access to guns and such.
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Post by lahdeedah on Jun 25, 2021 16:00:37 GMT -6
mwhip Oh man I would be pissed, too at him turning down two weeks of pay. How can he be so nonchalant about it? So sorry.
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Post by mwhip on Jun 25, 2021 16:47:46 GMT -6
mwhip Oh man I would be pissed, too at him turning down two weeks of pay. How can he be so nonchalant about it? So sorry. [b I dont know. Im so mad. Abd he knows it. I figured out, he won't get paid until July 24th. Thats another month before he has income. Like...what??!!
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Post by wineallthetime on Jun 25, 2021 17:25:49 GMT -6
Oh mwhip, I'm soooooo pissed on your behalf. What is he thinking!?!!!!?
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Post by kim22 on Jun 25, 2021 19:49:27 GMT -6
mwhip that sucks so much, I’m sorry. Will he consider something temporary like driving for Grub Hub or something? My 17 year old nephew told me he made $600 in 1 weekend doing that.
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