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Oct 25, 2020 19:44:22 GMT -6
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Post by goldenbird on Oct 25, 2020 19:44:22 GMT -6
I'm 100% sure MH and DS would be fine without me. He is a daddy's kid all the way. Like, NBD I had you in my body for 38 weeks and spent 2 hrs pushing and there were varicose veins in my vag for 7 months afterwards. No thanks necessary.
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Post by piratecat on Oct 25, 2020 19:47:48 GMT -6
I'm 100% sure MH and DS would be fine without me. He is a daddy's kid all the way. Like, NBD I had you in my body for 38 weeks and spent 2 hrs pushing and there were varicose veins in my vag for 7 months afterwards. No thanks necessary. Mine definitely preferred my H as a baby and he's still the more fun parent, but he has been much more affectionate and snuggly with me lately, more so than he is with my H. There's some hope for you yet!
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Oct 25, 2020 19:50:24 GMT -6
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Post by goldenbird on Oct 25, 2020 19:50:24 GMT -6
I'm 100% sure MH and DS would be fine without me. He is a daddy's kid all the way. Like, NBD I had you in my body for 38 weeks and spent 2 hrs pushing and there were varicose veins in my vag for 7 months afterwards. No thanks necessary. Mine definitely preferred my H as a baby and he's still the more fun parent, but he has been much more affectionate and snuggly with me lately, more so than he is with my H. There's some hope for you yet! Lol mine likes to yell "mommy mommy" and come find me then run to MH and tell me to go away so I'm killing it. Unless he actually wants to be held then he will cling to me.
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Oct 25, 2020 19:53:25 GMT -6
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Post by sweptaway on Oct 25, 2020 19:53:25 GMT -6
My aunt told me they love when we stay at the cabin because we leave it the most clean of anyone that uses it. That was like the highlight of my pandemic so maybe put that on my urn Leaves everything better than she found it. Including this whole world. she will be missed. I'll take it! I hope my death buddy PinkFreud is taking notes.
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Post by Jesslfar on Oct 25, 2020 19:58:05 GMT -6
I’m always so productive when I’m drinking/ literally cooked and cleaned and did arts and crafts. Sober me could neverrrrrr Same. I’ve stained furniture and removed wallpaper after drinks. Sober me hates that woek
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Post by FlightView on Oct 25, 2020 19:58:59 GMT -6
DS told me other moms don’t yell at their kids. When I asked him who, he named my sister and cousin. Lol of course.
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Oct 25, 2020 19:59:49 GMT -6
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Post by goldenbird on Oct 25, 2020 19:59:49 GMT -6
I’m always so productive when I’m drinking/ literally cooked and cleaned and did arts and crafts. Sober me could neverrrrrr Same. I’ve stained furniture and removed wallpaper after drinks. Sober me hates that woek Well what are y'all drinking because all I want to do when I drink is lay in bed and watch tv
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Post by thatgolfb on Oct 25, 2020 20:01:40 GMT -6
We watched Room on the Broom, and we are starting Hocus Pocus. The perfect ending to a lovely day.
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Oct 25, 2020 20:03:48 GMT -6
Post by GhoatMonket on Oct 25, 2020 20:03:48 GMT -6
Same. I’ve stained furniture and removed wallpaper after drinks. Sober me hates that woek Well what are y'all drinking because all I want to do when I drink is lay in bed and watch tv The right amount of tequila will do this for me.
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Oct 25, 2020 20:05:30 GMT -6
Post by GhoatMonket on Oct 25, 2020 20:05:30 GMT -6
9 hours of homework/reading today. It was lovely.
If I keep saying that I might believe it.
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Oct 25, 2020 20:06:14 GMT -6
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Post by goldenbird on Oct 25, 2020 20:06:14 GMT -6
I've been known to bag stuff up to donate or trash while drinking but that's it. I do need to sweep/mop the living room/kitchen and vacuum tomorrow so maybe I'll open wine and see what happens.
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Oct 25, 2020 20:07:03 GMT -6
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Post by McBenny on Oct 25, 2020 20:07:03 GMT -6
9 hours of homework/reading today. It was lovely. If I keep saying that I might believe it. that's very productive of you. I would feel accomplished.
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Oct 25, 2020 20:08:42 GMT -6
Post by GhoatMonket on Oct 25, 2020 20:08:42 GMT -6
9 hours of homework/reading today. It was lovely. If I keep saying that I might believe it. that's very productive of you. I would feel accomplished. Yeah, I was ready to drop the class for like half of it.
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Oct 25, 2020 20:26:11 GMT -6
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Post by Pistol on Oct 25, 2020 20:26:11 GMT -6
This sounds like “excuse the mess we’re making memories” bullshit. yes I hate it. Yes I will be remembered for my organized home dammit. 😂 I was thinking if anyone had "her house was always clean" on the tombstone it would be you! 🤣
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Oct 25, 2020 20:36:13 GMT -6
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Post by McBenny on Oct 25, 2020 20:36:13 GMT -6
yes I hate it. Yes I will be remembered for my organized home dammit. 😂 I was thinking if anyone had "her house was always clean" on the tombstone it would be you! 🤣 I have clutter. It's not dirty.
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Oct 25, 2020 20:47:29 GMT -6
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Post by Pistol on Oct 25, 2020 20:47:29 GMT -6
My urn: “Was well intentioned to be organized” Mine will say "master procrastinator, waited until the last minute to die"
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Oct 25, 2020 20:48:29 GMT -6
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Post by Pistol on Oct 25, 2020 20:48:29 GMT -6
My dog just growled at DD. He started doing it awhile ago when she started walking and we trained him and it stopped. She tripped over him so I'm just FX he was startled. But she runs around and falls/trips over and around him a lot and he usually is good about just dealing and getting up and moving to the other room. He's never been an aggressive dog but a dog is a dog. No, growling is an issue. My dog has never growled at my kids. It’s not dog is dog. You need to correct right away in the moment, and work with your DD to give him his space. I think she meant even though he's never been aggressive, he is a dog and trust no bitch. I could be wrong though.
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Oct 25, 2020 20:49:40 GMT -6
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Post by Pistol on Oct 25, 2020 20:49:40 GMT -6
Our dog growls when he’s playing. It’s not a mean growl, he jumps around following everyone in the house with a toy in his mouth growling. Mine does too. Thanks, H. But normally we can tell the difference between play and not.
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Post by STP on Oct 25, 2020 20:50:27 GMT -6
No, growling is an issue. My dog has never growled at my kids. It’s not dog is dog. You need to correct right away in the moment, and work with your DD to give him his space. I think she meant even though he's never been aggressive, he is a dog and trust no bitch. I could be wrong though. Yes she clarified. I’m just saying growling can never be ignored. STD has been ridden like a pony and just looks at me with “bitch you want to help out here?” eyes.
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Oct 25, 2020 20:52:20 GMT -6
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Post by Pistol on Oct 25, 2020 20:52:20 GMT -6
I always learned growling is a dogs only way to communicate I want some space and it’s important to correct the child/prevent again for whatever made the dog growl, not correct the dog. This is how we operate. Granted I have an older child. But we have a growly old rescue dog. And he bites (although he doesn’t have a lot of teeth left). We say his growl is his way of saying leave me alone so if he growls, DS isn’t allowed to touch him. If he’s on the bed or the couch when he growls, he gets kicked off. It’s not ideal, but we rescued him this way so we make it work. I do similar with Mick. Sometimes C can roll all over that dog. Sometimes just looking at him is too much for the dog. So we have taught the boys that if he growls to back off.
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Post by FlightView on Oct 25, 2020 20:52:47 GMT -6
I was thinking if anyone had "her house was always clean" on the tombstone it would be you! 🤣 I have clutter. It's not dirty. I went thru and organized and decluttered every room in this house this summer. H painted the office and all of a sudden the guest room is full of junk again. I’d throw it in the trash but that’s a fight I’m not ready to have yet.
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Oct 25, 2020 20:55:25 GMT -6
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Post by McBenny on Oct 25, 2020 20:55:25 GMT -6
My urn: “Was well intentioned to be organized” Mine will say "master procrastinator, waited until the last minute to die" "thrived under pressure" "always beat the buzzer"
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Oct 25, 2020 20:55:59 GMT -6
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Post by Pistol on Oct 25, 2020 20:55:59 GMT -6
I think she meant even though he's never been aggressive, he is a dog and trust no bitch. I could be wrong though. Yes she clarified. I’m just saying growling can never be ignored. STD has been ridden like a pony and just looks at me with “bitch you want to help out here?” eyes. Sorry. Catching up.
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Oct 25, 2020 20:58:24 GMT -6
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Post by Pistol on Oct 25, 2020 20:58:24 GMT -6
C is all about me. I swear he still tries to climb back inside sometimes. You barely fit then, you definitely won't now! R bounces between H and I but is also fairly independent too.
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Oct 25, 2020 21:00:12 GMT -6
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Post by Pistol on Oct 25, 2020 21:00:12 GMT -6
Also, how is it that if I skip 1 day of cleaning that it takes me at least 3 to catch up? After that one day, my house looks like "there was a struggle."
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Oct 25, 2020 21:03:44 GMT -6
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Post by McBenny on Oct 25, 2020 21:03:44 GMT -6
Also, how is it that if I skip 1 day of cleaning that it takes me at least 3 to catch up? After that one day, my house looks like "there was a struggle." this made me lol
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Oct 25, 2020 21:05:48 GMT -6
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Post by McBenny on Oct 25, 2020 21:05:48 GMT -6
Also, how is it that if I skip 1 day of cleaning that it takes me at least 3 to catch up? After that one day, my house looks like "there was a struggle." pro tip - get you an Ikea bag order from Amazon. USE the blue bag to pick up shit in the main areas that don't belong. Drop that bag in your room until you're ready to deal with it. When you have time put the things back where they go. If someone is looking for something check the blue bag. This is what I do. My downstairs is always tidy for the most part. My room is the worst in the house.
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Oct 25, 2020 21:06:16 GMT -6
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Post by McBenny on Oct 25, 2020 21:06:16 GMT -6
Also, how is it that if I skip 1 day of cleaning that it takes me at least 3 to catch up? After that one day, my house looks like "there was a struggle." This happens to me with laundry. yes. I just do a load daily.
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Oct 25, 2020 21:08:41 GMT -6
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Post by McBenny on Oct 25, 2020 21:08:41 GMT -6
yes. I just do a load daily. Every so often I think "I can take a day off, it'll be fine" and then cut to the laundry room covered in clothes. Life is just endless laundry cycles. just accept you work in a laundry part time. Once I accepted this, I'm in a better place mentally. 🤷🏻♀️
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Oct 25, 2020 21:12:12 GMT -6
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Post by shamycooler on Oct 25, 2020 21:12:12 GMT -6
DD was a sobbing mess going to her dads tonight. I’m just emotionally spent...my heart breaks for her. I took an extra melatonin and I hope to sleep good.
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