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Post by tgrimes on Oct 17, 2020 6:11:05 GMT -6
It’s here!
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Post by mwhip on Oct 17, 2020 6:40:22 GMT -6
Morning! Evie seems completely normal this morning. She said her tummy hurt once since she's been awake but she just took deep breaths and it went away. So it could be mental.
She is going to FIL and SMILs this morning. We will go get her around 5 and have dinner with them.
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Post by nam2013 on Oct 17, 2020 6:41:04 GMT -6
Morning. Lazy Saturday over here. Shoot is this afternoon. Fingers crossed it stays dry. We need some groceries and I need to do my hair/make up etc.
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Post by flamingo on Oct 17, 2020 7:05:53 GMT -6
Morning!
We woke up to see we'd been Boo'ed! So I need to go get some treats today so we can figure out who to Boo next.
We had a great dinner last night with the fam, and the kids loved the babysitter. She was super sweet and made Halloween treats with them.
This afternoon the usual suspects (my parents, sister and her family) are coming over for dinner and football. DH is doing beef tenderloin and getting a bushel of oysters. It cooled off overnight so we should be able hang out on the back porch with the TV out there, which will be nice.
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Post by wineallthetime on Oct 17, 2020 7:36:46 GMT -6
Morning, I'm catching up. I have my mom's 60th bday party today (just our family and will be outside). MH is pissed at me because I don't want him to go and it's exhausting.
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Post by mwhip on Oct 17, 2020 7:49:14 GMT -6
Morning, I'm catching up. I have my mom's 60th bday party today (just our family and will be outside). MH is pissed at me because I don't want him to go and it's exhausting. Who cares if he's pissed. You're also pissed. Enjoy the time with your family. |
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Post by flamingo on Oct 17, 2020 7:54:11 GMT -6
MH is pissed at me because I don't want him to go and it's exhausting. 🙄🙄🙄 |
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 17, 2020 7:54:34 GMT -6
[mention]wineallthetime [/mention] he needs to to give you space. Unless your mom really wants him there, he shouldn’t try to force thing. Big hugs lady!!
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 17, 2020 7:56:55 GMT -6
My aunt L and uncle T are coming over to watch the kids so I can go bridal dress and bridesmaid dress shopping for a wedding in June. Her best friend from FL is out for this week and won’t be able to come back until May so this is the only time we all can do this before the wedding.
C and the kids will make Rice Krispie treats for this as a thank you.
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Post by wineallthetime on Oct 17, 2020 8:03:47 GMT -6
Thanks, ladies. MIL requested I come over yesterday so she and FIL could discuss What happens between me and MH moving forward because it appears to her that I'm not trying while MH is trying to make things work. I kindly let her know that I would not be coming by and I would not be discussing anything with her or FIL.
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 17, 2020 8:04:54 GMT -6
Way to go [mention]wineallthetime [/mention]
That sucks that she keeps trying to be in the middle of all this.
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Post by wineallthetime on Oct 17, 2020 8:08:31 GMT -6
Way to go [mention]wineallthetime [/mention] That sucks that she keeps trying to be in the middle of all this. She told me my kids would suffer every day for the rest of their lives. I know she told MH she can't believe I won't just forgive him because everybody makes mistakes. She acts like he forgot to take out the garbage or something and I'm pissed for no reason. |
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 17, 2020 8:12:45 GMT -6
Way to go [mention]wineallthetime [/mention] That sucks that she keeps trying to be in the middle of all this. She told me my kids would suffer every day for the rest of their lives. I know she told MH she can't believe I won't just forgive him because everybody makes mistakes. She acts like he forgot to take out the garbage or something and I'm pissed for no reason. That’s horrible!! Is she a mom who can’t see her son/kids do anything wrong? Because that is ridiculous |
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Post by nam2013 on Oct 17, 2020 8:13:49 GMT -6
Way to go [mention]wineallthetime [/mention] That sucks that she keeps trying to be in the middle of all this. She told me my kids would suffer every day for the rest of their lives. I know she told MH she can't believe I won't just forgive him because everybody makes mistakes. She acts like he forgot to take out the garbage or something and I'm pissed for no reason. I’m fuming on your behalf!!! Good that you said no yesterday, this is not her/their place. Hope that despite all you’ll have a good time at your moms party. |
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Post by lahdeedah on Oct 17, 2020 8:14:18 GMT -6
Morning, I'm catching up. I have my mom's 60th bday party today (just our family and will be outside). MH is pissed at me because I don't want him to go and it's exhausting. I’m sorry, but he made us own bed and he can lie in it. He has no one to be pissed at but himself. |
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Post by lahdeedah on Oct 17, 2020 8:15:14 GMT -6
[mention]wineallthetime [/mention] he needs to to give you space. Unless your mom really wants him there, he shouldn’t try to force thing. Big hugs lady!! Nah, I wouldn’t care if my mom wanted him there. If I didn’t want him there, then so be it. Your feelings come first. |
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Post by wineallthetime on Oct 17, 2020 8:17:42 GMT -6
She told me my kids would suffer every day for the rest of their lives. I know she told MH she can't believe I won't just forgive him because everybody makes mistakes. She acts like he forgot to take out the garbage or something and I'm pissed for no reason. That’s horrible!! Is she a mom who can’t see her son/kids do anything wrong? Because that is ridiculous No, she just wants it swept under the rug so SHE doesn't look bad. Like I know she told him he can never tell anyone about the men, just the cheating, if we were to split and that he would find a nice GIRL to be with. Now I think she's making it out to be my fault since MH "loves me and is trying to make it work". |
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Post by lahdeedah on Oct 17, 2020 8:20:48 GMT -6
Way to go [mention]wineallthetime [/mention] That sucks that she keeps trying to be in the middle of all this. She told me my kids would suffer every day for the rest of their lives. I know she told MH she can't believe I won't just forgive him because everybody makes mistakes. She acts like he forgot to take out the garbage or something and I'm pissed for no reason. She needs to stop trying to make you feel horrible about what he did. She has no place in your marriage and stop trying to use your kids as a bargaining card. Your kids will be just fine because you will be fine. |
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Post by lahdeedah on Oct 17, 2020 8:26:59 GMT -6
Morning.
I’m at tennis with M this morning. We were all supposed to come and Mh kept sleeping, so I left him and M2 at home. Not mad. We are heading to a fall festival thing at the Ag museum. I’m hoping it’s not too crowded so we can actually do something fun for a change. The neighbors are supposed to meet us there.
Other than that, I need to go to the furniture store to make a decision about the sofa. It’s hard because we probably won’t be staying in this house come next year and I need something versatile and probably smaller in size. The sectional is huge and I don’t even know if I like it for the space I have now.
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Post by flamingo on Oct 17, 2020 8:42:10 GMT -6
Longest of wows to MIL-zilla @wine. What a piece of work.
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Post by inthekitty on Oct 17, 2020 8:49:13 GMT -6
Your H and MiL make me rage wineallthetime. I'm impressed with how well you're handling this. Stay strong and don't let them gaslight you. Enjoy time with your mom. |
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Post by inthekitty on Oct 17, 2020 8:51:19 GMT -6
My FiL is coming over for lunch today. Luckily he never stays long so it won't be too much of an ordeal. I think I'll make zoodles.
I want to go to a fall farm place if I can get tickets and the weather holds up.
Probably take Cass to shop for a birthday gift for Mad.
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Post by jewels on Oct 17, 2020 10:09:26 GMT -6
wineallthetime wow. We all knew she had no boundaries but this is really something. Good for you for keeping strong and not letting her make you second guess yourself. Like... in what world does she think any of this is ok?!?
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Post by jewels on Oct 17, 2020 10:11:25 GMT -6
Morning. I woke up on the wrong side of the bed and am trying like hell to get out of this bad mood. I just left to go to the liquor store since we are having our friends over later for dinner & s’mores. I’ve been sitting in the car for the past 10 minutes catching up here enjoying the silence
Otherwise, flu shots for me and the boys this afternoon and not much else this weekend. I need to finalize costumes for the boys too
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Post by kim22 on Oct 17, 2020 10:13:09 GMT -6
DD has a soccer tournament this morning. Only one parent was allowed to go so MH took her and I have been cleaning, swapping out the summer/winter clothes, and putting out the indoor fall decorations. We will probably go pick out Halloween costumes later. I have so much school work for work to do. I have not brought work home since I had kids and I’m spending 2-3 hours a day after my actual work hours and it sucks.
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Post by nam2013 on Oct 17, 2020 10:19:22 GMT -6
jewels hope s’mores and a nice glass of wine will turn your day around.
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Post by klong11 on Oct 17, 2020 10:51:02 GMT -6
Went to Goodwill while Cadence was in gymnastics to piece together her Frankenstein costume on the cheap. After gymnastics we picked up doughnuts. Fun!  |
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Post by mwhip on Oct 17, 2020 11:12:02 GMT -6
wineallthetime your MIL is truly a bitch. Your H needs to tell her to leave you alone, that this is his fault, but I'm sure he won't. You know we are here to support you in anyway during all this.
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Post by chrisy01 on Oct 17, 2020 11:13:39 GMT -6
[mention]wineallthetime [/mention] you give the word and your crazy friend from LA will come and give you MIL a lovely chat. You just let me know
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Post by slenle on Oct 17, 2020 11:27:34 GMT -6
Happy Saturday! We got going early to head to the state park. It started snowing which ended up being awesome and so beautiful! The kids were troopers and we hiked probably 2.5 miles. We didn’t come across many people on the trails but the parking lot was filling up as we were leaving.
Now we’re back in the hotel room, l is napping. The other two are on iPads and Dh and I are having a hard cider and just ordered room service. Perfection!
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