adelbert
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Post by adelbert on Sept 29, 2020 7:17:42 GMT -6
I feel like this used to happen all the time 100 years ago...wife died? Check and see if she has a spinster sister to marry you and take care of any kids.
Nowadays I do find it scandalous. Just another perk to being an only child I guess. No sister to shack up with my husband after my untimely death.
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iruntodrink
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Post by iruntodrink on Sept 29, 2020 7:17:59 GMT -6
I was coming to post about this. I try not to judge how people handle grief (which I've been very transparent here about my own), I guess the only people whose opinions matter is Naya's family.
That being said...the holding hands and moving in together (vs living near or even in a duplex) feels very squicky to me. Could be my own experience talking. *proofed messy details* I tell her I want her to be happy, but that doesn't mean it doesn't make me feel uncomfortable, and I have to tell her to not discuss these things with me.
What I'm getting at is that some people just can't be alone. But it doesn't mean they aren't going to get judged.
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Post by sapphire on Sept 29, 2020 7:18:21 GMT -6
Definitely scandalous, but I’m reminded of when Hunter Biden started dating Beau Biden’s widow. Grief and loss probably brought them together in a way that wouldn’t have happened had she not passed.
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Cher
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Post by Cher on Sept 29, 2020 7:54:11 GMT -6
September 20, 2020
The foreign born reality star is saying everything is going great on the outside, but she still faces a hearing which could land her back in her home country.
Larissa dos Santos Lima/"90 Day Fiancé" (and two days later, this was confirmed)
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Post by icedcoffee on Sept 29, 2020 8:09:44 GMT -6
How long have Naya and her ex been split?
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Post by icedcoffee on Sept 29, 2020 8:11:35 GMT -6
I used to have neutral feelings about Kristen and Dax. Even when people would say they were AW I'd just be like meh. Now, they absolutely annoy the shit outta me
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Pizzaslut
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Post by Pizzaslut on Sept 29, 2020 8:22:30 GMT -6
Oh good we are talking about Naya's ex and her sister. I read about it this morning and was very ..... but then felt terrible because the article didn't imply it was scandalous or anything and I don't want to comment on how other people grieve.
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Post by hardlyluck on Sept 29, 2020 8:23:52 GMT -6
How long have Naya and her ex been split? According to Google they divorced in 2018.
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Post by donnameagle on Sept 29, 2020 8:43:18 GMT -6
Sure, it’s super sweet if they’ve just come together to raise the kid in one home. But holding hands pics are a little odd... This is not relevant at all but I was shocked at the modesty of the home. Isn't one a model and the other an actor?
I don't California however.
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Post by missmissy234 on Sept 29, 2020 8:44:49 GMT -6
Yeah, that’s not a surprise. Maybe they should have Monica add tutor to her list of duties... Probably is I think this is part of Dax's sister's responsibility!
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Post by donnameagle on Sept 29, 2020 8:45:13 GMT -6
It is possible to raise a child in separate homes. The child did not have his parents in a home together when she was alive and they shared custody, so to suddenly have aunt and dad in one house might be weirder for the kid?
But yes, grief is a bitch and maybe this is how they are dealing. It isn't 100% shady, but it could be creeping on shady territory.
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brux
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Post by brux on Sept 29, 2020 9:03:10 GMT -6
September 20, 2020 The foreign born reality star is saying everything is going great on the outside, but she still faces a hearing which could land her back in her home country. Larissa dos Santos Lima/"90 Day Fiancé" (and two days later, this was confirmed) I have no idea how she's been able to stay in the US.
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Post by icedcoffee on Sept 29, 2020 9:03:16 GMT -6
How long have Naya and her ex been split? According to Google they divorced in 2018. Yikes. Thats not as long as I'd hope to hear
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Post by icedcoffee on Sept 29, 2020 9:04:51 GMT -6
It is possible to raise a child in separate homes. The child did not have his parents in a home together when she was alive and they shared custody, so to suddenly have aunt and dad in one house might be weirder for the kid? But yes, grief is a bitch and maybe this is how they are dealing. It isn't 100% shady, but it could be creeping on shady territory. Yeah this is where I am
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brux
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Post by brux on Sept 29, 2020 9:07:10 GMT -6
I can't think of a scenario where I'm holding hands with my BIL when we're shopping in Target unless he's like "take my hand, I'm about to faint and die!"
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Bookshelves
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Post by Bookshelves on Sept 29, 2020 9:19:48 GMT -6
For the spreadsheet: No amount of grief could make me hold hands and cohabit with my BILs. (Sorry if that’s cold.)
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Cher
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Post by Cher on Sept 29, 2020 9:27:40 GMT -6
September 20, 2020
The actor/accused serial rapist is trying to stall things until after the election in hopes the District Attorney won't care as much about his case after, and will drop it all.
Danny Masterson
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Post by sweetp on Sept 29, 2020 9:37:37 GMT -6
For the spreadsheet: No amount of grief could make me hold hands and cohabit with my BILs. (Sorry if that’s cold.) I am 1000% here. No thank you very much.
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Post by Cher on Sept 29, 2020 9:40:42 GMT -6
August 4, 2020
It looks like the people of this recently canceled A- list mostly television actress showed her the error of her ways and to stay away from the one season wonder who will suck the life from you so that he may live.
Lucy Hale/Colton Underwood
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Post by angelashly on Sept 29, 2020 9:49:00 GMT -6
It is possible to raise a child in separate homes. The child did not have his parents in a home together when she was alive and they shared custody, so to suddenly have aunt and dad in one house might be weirder for the kid? But yes, grief is a bitch and maybe this is how they are dealing. It isn't 100% shady, but it could be creeping on shady territory. I think this is where I am at. They have been divorced for a few years as it is and grief is what it is. Is it something I would do no, but I just can't say that I am super scandalized
But we also have a friend who dated one brother and then moved on and married and had 5 kids with the younger brother.
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Post by downwarddog on Sept 29, 2020 9:49:05 GMT -6
Naya's sister also bears a strong resemblance to her, IMO. That ups the creepy factor a little to me.
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Pizzaslut
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Post by Pizzaslut on Sept 29, 2020 9:53:05 GMT -6
It is possible to raise a child in separate homes. The child did not have his parents in a home together when she was alive and they shared custody, so to suddenly have aunt and dad in one house might be weirder for the kid? But yes, grief is a bitch and maybe this is how they are dealing. It isn't 100% shady, but it could be creeping on shady territory. Yes, this is where I land. The co-parented separately before. Why the need to have her aunt there now? Also, in the picture, I can't tell if they are holding hands or if it's the camera angle.
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Post by angelashly on Sept 29, 2020 9:55:24 GMT -6
I feel I need to say for the record that I wouldn't do this, but I apparently found my UO
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whatsit
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Post by whatsit on Sept 29, 2020 10:02:37 GMT -6
It is possible to raise a child in separate homes. The child did not have his parents in a home together when she was alive and they shared custody, so to suddenly have aunt and dad in one house might be weirder for the kid? But yes, grief is a bitch and maybe this is how they are dealing. It isn't 100% shady, but it could be creeping on shady territory. Yes, this is where I land. The co-parented separately before. Why the need to have her aunt there now? Also, in the picture, I can't tell if they are holding hands or if it's the camera angle. I’m here too. I don’t think it looked like hand holding, just camera angle
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Radley
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Post by Radley on Sept 29, 2020 10:10:27 GMT -6
I can't think of a scenario where I'm holding hands with my BIL when we're shopping in Target unless he's like "take my hand, I'm about to faint and die!" Even in this case I’d probably be like “pfft get off you weirdo”. He would die trying to convince me that holding his hand would save his life.
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Cher
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Post by Cher on Sept 29, 2020 10:14:04 GMT -6
September 20, 2020
This A- list comic actress says she was kicked out of an organization. If that is true, why is she trying to recruit her friends to join?
Tiffany Haddish/Scientology
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Eagles
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Post by Eagles on Sept 29, 2020 10:16:22 GMT -6
I feel I need to say for the record that I wouldn't do this, but I apparently found my UO I will UO with you. This isn't co-parenting, it's the surviving parent raising the child with help from the deceased parent's family. Added to that, that little boy watched his mother drown. Maybe this is the best way to maintain normalcy for him while a therapist helps him process grief at such a young age. No to holding hands though. And definitely no to banging.
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Post by donnameagle on Sept 29, 2020 10:29:58 GMT -6
For the spreadsheet: No amount of grief could make me hold hands and cohabit with my BILs. (Sorry if that’s cold.) EX bil's
Like my sister better help him with my kids but you know when they divorced he was enemy #1 and they talked mad shit. So to be holding hands now...
That is where I was coming from (maybe their divorce was different!)
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Post by angelashly on Sept 29, 2020 10:32:22 GMT -6
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Post by angelashly on Sept 29, 2020 10:36:15 GMT -6
Also while they co-parented I think this is different the boy watched his mother drown so I’m not surprised dad wants to keep him 24-7 but can’t stay with him 24-7
Again I would not in anyway shape or form do this myself but I can see how it could happen
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