Fearsy
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May 26, 2020 14:44:43 GMT -6
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Post by Fearsy on May 26, 2020 14:44:43 GMT -6
Holy fuck, @zweber. Iโm so sorry. This is so fucking unfair and I wish you werenโt going through this. What a damn rollercoaster ride. Huge hugs and all the love to you. I hope youโll know that weโre here for you when youโre ready. Please give our love to @mr.Zweber too. He is not forgotten in this. โค๏ธ
I will echo what catlady said and say maybe get a second opinion on that one. I donโt want to tell you to go against a doctorโs orders but I also have a friend who had a molar pregnancy and did conceive within 6mo and go on to have a healthy pregnancy.
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Post by catlady22 on May 26, 2020 14:44:47 GMT -6
@zweber I'm so so sorry! For what it's worth, my bff had a molar pregnancy with 2 d&c and than a healthy pregnancy 2mo later. they didnโt make her take a break? they said i had to get on birth control. They told her a year as well. They tried to put her on birth control but she had some bad side effects. She said she read lots of stuff online about ppl getting pregnant with no issues so she went against that advice and 2 months later she got pregnant with her now son. ๐คทโโ๏ธ I am not recommending this by any means, just telling you the only personal experience with molar pregnancy I know of.
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Fearsy
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May 26, 2020 14:48:10 GMT -6
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Post by Fearsy on May 26, 2020 14:48:10 GMT -6
Also because Iโm curious and please feel free not to answer if you donโt want to. Did they do an abdominal ultrasound and then move to vaginal after they couldnโt see anything in the sacs? What did your beta numbers do that made them determine that itโs molar? I usually donโt question doctors because well they went to school for 10+ years and I didnโt but this practice has a history of being...well, not great and treating you poorly.
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May 26, 2020 15:39:52 GMT -6
Post by Deleted on May 26, 2020 15:39:52 GMT -6
Also because Iโm curious and please feel free not to answer if you donโt want to. Did they do an abdominal ultrasound and then move to vaginal after they couldnโt see anything in the sacs? What did your beta numbers do that made them determine that itโs molar? I usually donโt question doctors because well they went to school for 10+ years and I didnโt but this practice has a history of being...well, not great and treating you poorly. they didn't even do an abdominal. they started with the vagine. my betas are 12,000 and my progesterone was 16. my ultrasound does NOT NOT NOT look like a molar pregnancy. molar pregnancies are intense as fuck. i'm absolutely sick to my stomach after looking at the photos on google just now. it looks nothing like my uterus. i just have two tiny empty sacs. maybe a third but she wasn't sure. i'm scared.
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Post by katespade on May 26, 2020 16:21:08 GMT -6
Also because Iโm curious and please feel free not to answer if you donโt want to. Did they do an abdominal ultrasound and then move to vaginal after they couldnโt see anything in the sacs? What did your beta numbers do that made them determine that itโs molar? I usually donโt question doctors because well they went to school for 10+ years and I didnโt but this practice has a history of being...well, not great and treating you poorly. they didn't even do an abdominal. they started with the vagine. my betas are 12,000 and my progesterone was 16. my ultrasound does NOT NOT NOT look like a molar pregnancy. molar pregnancies are intense as fuck. i'm absolutely sick to my stomach after looking at the photos on google just now. it looks nothing like my uterus. i just have two tiny empty sacs. maybe a third but she wasn't sure. i'm scared. Please, please consider a second opinion. I am thinking of you โค๏ธ
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Post by catlady22 on May 26, 2020 16:44:59 GMT -6
Also because Iโm curious and please feel free not to answer if you donโt want to. Did they do an abdominal ultrasound and then move to vaginal after they couldnโt see anything in the sacs? What did your beta numbers do that made them determine that itโs molar? I usually donโt question doctors because well they went to school for 10+ years and I didnโt but this practice has a history of being...well, not great and treating you poorly. they didn't even do an abdominal. they started with the vagine. my betas are 12,000 and my progesterone was 16. my ultrasound does NOT NOT NOT look like a molar pregnancy. molar pregnancies are intense as fuck. i'm absolutely sick to my stomach after looking at the photos on google just now. it looks nothing like my uterus. i just have two tiny empty sacs. maybe a third but she wasn't sure. i'm scared. 12,000 doesn't seem that high for a molar. I'd get a second opinion too!
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Fearsy
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May 26, 2020 18:30:38 GMT -6
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Post by Fearsy on May 26, 2020 18:30:38 GMT -6
Also because Iโm curious and please feel free not to answer if you donโt want to. Did they do an abdominal ultrasound and then move to vaginal after they couldnโt see anything in the sacs? What did your beta numbers do that made them determine that itโs molar? I usually donโt question doctors because well they went to school for 10+ years and I didnโt but this practice has a history of being...well, not great and treating you poorly. they didn't even do an abdominal. they started with the vagine. my betas are 12,000 and my progesterone was 16. my ultrasound does NOT NOT NOT look like a molar pregnancy. molar pregnancies are intense as fuck. i'm absolutely sick to my stomach after looking at the photos on google just now. it looks nothing like my uterus. i just have two tiny empty sacs. maybe a third but she wasn't sure.ย i'm scared.ย I didnโt want to be the one to say it but yeah, your ultrasound did not scream molar to me. Given the history of this practice, I would absolutely 10000% get a second opinion. The reason I asked about vaginal or abdominal scan was because the sacs looked very small to me and I was going to flip my lid if the only scanned abdominally. So at least they did one thing right in the last five months. Your scan looks very similar to my first pregnancy that they called a blighted ovum. Empty sac, my hcg was in the 33,000 range and then trended downward a few days later. I should have been 9w. Iโm so sorry youโre going through this.
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onyx
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May 26, 2020 18:47:59 GMT -6
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Post by onyx on May 26, 2020 18:47:59 GMT -6
Also because Iโm curious and please feel free not to answer if you donโt want to. Did they do an abdominal ultrasound and then move to vaginal after they couldnโt see anything in the sacs? What did your beta numbers do that made them determine that itโs molar? I usually donโt question doctors because well they went to school for 10+ years and I didnโt but this practice has a history of being...well, not great and treating you poorly. they didn't even do an abdominal. they started with the vagine. my betas are 12,000 and my progesterone was 16. my ultrasound does NOT NOT NOT look like a molar pregnancy. molar pregnancies are intense as fuck. i'm absolutely sick to my stomach after looking at the photos on google just now. it looks nothing like my uterus. i just have two tiny empty sacs. maybe a third but she wasn't sure.ย i'm scared.ย echoing what everyone else has said. I would seek a second opinion if you can. That does not look molar to me at all. Plus, this is what the second? Time they have pushed you to be on birth control. Regardless, we are here for you. I am so sorry for your loss.
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May 26, 2020 21:56:30 GMT -6
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Post by jess86 on May 26, 2020 21:56:30 GMT -6
Hardcore lurker here. Iโm an ultrasound technologist though and when I saw your pic it didnโt scream molar, maybe partial molar since I can see possibly a few cystic areas. Itโs definitely not a complete molar and your HCG is nowhere near high enough to be molar. It would be way more than 12,000.
A D&C would be the best to diagnose a molar pregnancy if you want to go that route. If it came back negative then at least you wouldnโt have to delay TTC. Iโm so sorry youโre going though this.
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May 27, 2020 6:57:39 GMT -6
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Post by shellsncheese on May 27, 2020 6:57:39 GMT -6
I'm so sorry @zweber
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May 28, 2020 6:57:37 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on May 28, 2020 6:57:37 GMT -6
Well that was a rollercoaster of an appointment that ended up pretty good. Because I screwed up my meds, I started spotting the past few days. My lining shrunk and itโs not great. But she is going to start me on estrogen to โperk it right upโ to at least an ok level.
Then I had one good size follicle and two medium ones. Thought she would cancel me, but she isnโt concerned/doesnโt think itโs risky. So take the estrogen for a few days, trigger on Saturday, and sex all weekend. Iโm relieved.
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Post by catlady22 on May 28, 2020 7:11:43 GMT -6
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onyx
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May 28, 2020 10:12:28 GMT -6
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Post by onyx on May 28, 2020 10:12:28 GMT -6
I got my first beta back and my HCG was 223. I repeat on Saturday morning. Iโm so happy ๐ญ
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Post by mothafuckinteatime on May 29, 2020 18:24:15 GMT -6
Iโm spotting.
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Post by catlady22 on May 29, 2020 18:49:20 GMT -6
Oh no, I hope it does no more ๐
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Post by mothafuckinteatime on May 30, 2020 8:50:43 GMT -6
More blood and a negative test this morning. Itโs over. ๐
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Post by catlady22 on May 30, 2020 9:02:21 GMT -6
More blood and a negative test this morning. Itโs over. ๐ I'm so sorry ๐
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Post by Deleted on May 30, 2020 9:16:02 GMT -6
More blood and a negative test this morning. Itโs over. ๐ god fucking damn it. ๐ญ
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Post by catlady22 on May 30, 2020 9:18:08 GMT -6
I finally have a negative pregnancy test 30 days later. Now just wondering what my cycle will do.
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May 30, 2020 10:19:35 GMT -6
Post by robotsvswrestlers on May 30, 2020 10:19:35 GMT -6
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Post by catlady22 on May 30, 2020 10:29:09 GMT -6
I had one on Tuesday and my hcg was 2.4. They didn't get me my results until Friday after hounding them. I'm completely done bleeding as of yesterday so I'm thinking of just calling it good. I took a opk yesterday and today and they are both positive, so hopefully my body is readjusting ๐คทโโ๏ธ
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May TTC
May 30, 2020 14:11:04 GMT -6
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Post by lemondrop on May 30, 2020 14:11:04 GMT -6
More blood and a negative test this morning. Itโs over. ๐ Iโm so sorry
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Fearsy
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May 30, 2020 14:17:05 GMT -6
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Post by Fearsy on May 30, 2020 14:17:05 GMT -6
More blood and a negative test this morning. Itโs over. ๐ Iโm so sorry.
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May 30, 2020 14:32:01 GMT -6
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Post by shellsncheese on May 30, 2020 14:32:01 GMT -6
More blood and a negative test this morning. Itโs over. ๐ I'm so sorry.
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onyx
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May 30, 2020 21:18:02 GMT -6
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Post by onyx on May 30, 2020 21:18:02 GMT -6
More blood and a negative test this morning. Itโs over. ๐ I am so sorry ๐
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May TTC
May 31, 2020 10:12:15 GMT -6
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Post by goldenbird on May 31, 2020 10:12:15 GMT -6
More blood and a negative test this morning. Itโs over. ๐ I'm so sorry โค
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Post by Deleted on May 31, 2020 10:22:58 GMT -6
did you get your results for your second beta onyx? super excited to hear how they doubled perfectly! ๐ค๐พ
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onyx
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May 31, 2020 11:20:27 GMT -6
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Post by onyx on May 31, 2020 11:20:27 GMT -6
did you get your results for your second beta onyx? super excited to hear how they doubled perfectly! ๐ค๐พ I got the email this morning. Theyโre 750 ๐
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Post by Deleted on May 31, 2020 11:24:02 GMT -6
did you get your results for your second beta onyx? super excited to hear how they doubled perfectly! ๐ค๐พ I got the email this morning. Theyโre 750 ๐ amazing! โค๏ธ go tiny baby onyx!
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Post by catlady22 on May 31, 2020 11:53:12 GMT -6
did you get your results for your second beta onyx? super excited to hear how they doubled perfectly! ๐ค๐พ I got the email this morning. Theyโre 750 ๐ Yay! Wishing you a h&h 9mo!
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