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May TTC
May 12, 2020 7:52:32 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on May 12, 2020 7:52:32 GMT -6
I’m sorry for your loss catlady22. Depends on how high your HCG got. It took me about three or four weeks and I was over 3000. It really really sucks.
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Post by catlady22 on May 12, 2020 7:58:58 GMT -6
robotsvswrestlers my draw 12 days ago was only 200. I just had another draw yesterday, but haven't seen the results yet. Tests I take at home are still coming up positive though.
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2020 8:27:43 GMT -6
Lurker coming in to check on @zweber 👀 hey babe. i’m still pregnant. 5 weeks, who dis?!
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piratecat
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May TTC
May 12, 2020 8:32:11 GMT -6
Post by piratecat on May 12, 2020 8:32:11 GMT -6
@zweber, that looks fucking amazing!!!
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2020 8:33:15 GMT -6
catlady22 i know words won’t help right now but i’m truly sorry for what you’re going through. i wish there was something we could say or do to make it easier. we’re all here if you need to talk or cry or be pissed off with someone.
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May TTC
May 12, 2020 8:39:23 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on May 12, 2020 8:39:23 GMT -6
robotsvswrestlers my draw 12 days ago was only 200. I just had another draw yesterday, but haven't seen the results yet. Tests I take at home are still coming up positive though. In the beginning it dropped so quickly. I went from 3000 to 800 in like 3 days. But those than 50 or so units takes FOREVER. It was brutal.
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2020 8:40:43 GMT -6
@zweber, that looks fucking amazing!!! looks promising doesn’t it?! they actually agreed to do betas and progesterone tomorrow. i did the math and i need to be somewhere between 300-700 to be doubling properly. i’m hoping it’s even higher than that so they don’t tell me some bullshit. fingers crossed for sky high numbers!
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May TTC
May 12, 2020 8:41:06 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on May 12, 2020 8:41:06 GMT -6
Yay @zweber! I really want this to work for you because you deserve it. But also bc I want you to smugly be able to rub it in your OB’s face.
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Post by katespade on May 12, 2020 8:56:20 GMT -6
@zweber, that looks fucking amazing!!! looks promising doesn’t it?! they actually agreed to do betas and progesterone tomorrow. i did the math and i need to be somewhere between 300-700 to be doubling properly. i’m hoping it’s even higher than that so they don’t tell me some bullshit. fingers crossed for sky high numbers! Lurking to say- Girl that test looks great!!! Keeping my fingers crossed for you!!!
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May TTC
May 12, 2020 9:37:32 GMT -6
Post by marigold on May 12, 2020 9:37:32 GMT -6
Also lurking to check on @zweber. That's a beautiful line!! Hoping for good numbers tomorrow!
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Post by catlady22 on May 12, 2020 9:37:52 GMT -6
robotsvswrestlers thank you for the information, I like to know what's "normal" ❤ my doc didn't give me any info @zweber yay!! Hope this is your h&h 9mo and you prove that dr wrong!
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May TTC
May 12, 2020 10:42:22 GMT -6
Post by beenthere on May 12, 2020 10:42:22 GMT -6
Lurker @zweber, all my fingers are crossed for you!!
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polson
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May TTC
May 12, 2020 10:57:50 GMT -6
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Post by polson on May 12, 2020 10:57:50 GMT -6
also lurking @zweber i have everything crossed for you!
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onyx
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May TTC
May 12, 2020 11:24:26 GMT -6
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Post by onyx on May 12, 2020 11:24:26 GMT -6
@zweber HELL YES I have everything crossed ❤️ catlady22 I’m so sorry for your loss, but welcome. I think I’m ovulating today or tomorrow. My OPK was maybe positive yesterday. I will see what it looks like today. H and I are having lots of quarantine sex so 🤞🏼
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Fearsy
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May TTC
May 12, 2020 17:25:27 GMT -6
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Post by Fearsy on May 12, 2020 17:25:27 GMT -6
Lurker coming in to check on @zweber 👀 hey babe. i’m still pregnant. 5 weeks, who dis?! FUCK. YES. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Fuck that asshole doctor and the bitch nurse who wouldn’t take another blood draw!!!!11!!! When is your EDD?
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2020 18:55:01 GMT -6
hey babe. i’m still pregnant. 5 weeks, who dis?! FUCK. YES. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Fuck that asshole doctor and the bitch nurse who wouldn’t take another blood draw!!!!11!!! When is your EDD? January 12! 🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾
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Fearsy
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May TTC
May 12, 2020 21:53:31 GMT -6
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Post by Fearsy on May 12, 2020 21:53:31 GMT -6
FUCK. YES. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Fuck that asshole doctor and the bitch nurse who wouldn’t take another blood draw!!!!11!!! When is your EDD? January 12! 🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾 Well feel free to come hang with us in Nov/Dec if you want!
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2020 10:34:17 GMT -6
i am never going to that doctor ever again. nope.
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Post by mothafuckinteatime on May 13, 2020 12:02:22 GMT -6
i am never going to that doctor ever again. nope. Oh no! What happened?
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Post by mothafuckinteatime on May 13, 2020 12:03:20 GMT -6
Also, hi. I’m lurking this board while we TTC.
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2020 12:35:59 GMT -6
brb i’m gonna copy and paste a message i just sent. it’s long. bear with me.
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2020 12:44:00 GMT -6
so i haven’t gotten results yet. i don’t even know if they’re gonna call and give them to me. but i called and left a message asking for them already. they still think i’m miscarrying.
the lady was so insanely insensitive and rude today i walked out crying. and of course like.. this is a situation where i can’t defend myself cause they’ll just think i’m stupid. i wish my husband could have been in there with me so he could say something when i was too scared. she was so mean. it went like this..
she called me back and while walking toward the door, the entire waiting room heard her say “still not bleeding?” i was shocked. and i was like ... no ... and she said “oh i’m sorry it’s dragging along” i said “so what’s the plan if my numbers went up?” and she looked at me and said “oh honey...” and started drawing my blood. then she said “your progesterone last monday was only 20. that’s not good” again i was too shocked to say anything. but i’m screaming in my head. like. if that was low why didn’t you check it wednesday when you checked my betas and i begged you to check it? or why didn’t i get supplements? and then i was like “are you going to call with these results?” and she said “well they’ll be uploaded in the patient portal in two days. but since we’re trending them down, there’s no need for you to know the exact number”
at this point she SEES the tears in my eyes and she said “miscarriage is super common you know?” yes bitch. this is my 4th pregnancy this year. i told her that (without calling her bitch of course) and she said “oh then that’s probably why” probably why what? it was over at that point and she said “have a great day!”
i know my numbers went up. my tests are so dark. i don’t know if they went up enough but they’re definitely going up. and 20 is not a “bad” number for 12dpo progesterone. it’s average. everything i’ve ever read states that doctors can’t diagnose miscarriage with slow rising HCG draws. it could be an indicator but they cannot actually diagnose it until they have a reason to. and they for sure do not. i’m so hormonal and emotional i told MH i will never step foot in there again (dramatic) and i’m searching for a new OB even with covid going on. i know i have no chill but have some damn professionalism to a girl you know has had loss after loss.
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May TTC
May 13, 2020 12:53:00 GMT -6
Post by beenthere on May 13, 2020 12:53:00 GMT -6
Omg @zweber, I am so so sorry!! That's super insensitive and I really hope you find someone good!
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Post by mothafuckinteatime on May 13, 2020 13:15:12 GMT -6
@zweber
I’m so sorry they suck so bad. I’m keeping everything crossed that your numbers continue to grow and they have to call with all the apologies.
ETA: I only hope they call and apologize so you can fire them and rip them a new one. I hope you find a wonderful, caring OB with far better bedside manner than these dickbags.
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Post by catlady22 on May 13, 2020 13:48:47 GMT -6
@zweber I want to commiserate with you. I've been dealing with insensitive ppl as well. For this loss they just kept telling me the results would be online in 36hrs. Nurse #1 said "well good luck with all that". And blood draw lady #2 (while knowing I was getting an hcg for threatened miscarriage) said "2020 is going to be my most boring year yet." I was thinking yeah not ironic at all...
I wish you high numbers and a new office to go to.
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Fearsy
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May TTC
May 13, 2020 14:09:49 GMT -6
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Post by Fearsy on May 13, 2020 14:09:49 GMT -6
I am seeing red. What in the actual fuck?! I would have her ass for a HIPPA violation with asking you medical questions when she’s in the goddamn hallway. Seriously file a complaint for this insensitive bullshit. I’m so sorry you are dealing with them. You deserve to receive treatment. Your medical records are YOURS and you have a right to know what the number is even if it’s trending down. Fuck them.
Also anecdote: my progesterone was 20 on Monday and I’m 11 weeks. It shows that it’s in the normal range so double fuck them.
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Fearsy
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May TTC
May 13, 2020 14:10:46 GMT -6
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Post by Fearsy on May 13, 2020 14:10:46 GMT -6
@zweber I want to commiserate with you. I've been dealing with insensitive ppl as well. For this loss they just kept telling me the results would be online in 36hrs. Nurse #1 said "well good luck with all that". And blood draw lady #2 (while knowing I was getting an hcg for threatened miscarriage) said "2020 is going to be my most boring year yet." I was thinking yeah not ironic at all... I wish you high numbers and a new office to go to. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this too. Why the hell are these medical professionals acting like idiots??
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2020 14:10:57 GMT -6
i’ve eaten my weight in chips and salsa waiting for a call back. it’s been 2 hours since i called and asked for results. for the sake of my ass they need to hurry up.
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Fearsy
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May TTC
May 13, 2020 14:13:11 GMT -6
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Post by Fearsy on May 13, 2020 14:13:11 GMT -6
Like seriously, @zweber your numbers have to be at least a few hundred with that dye stealer you have. I don’t actually know this for sure but that’s my guess. You don’t get dark lines like that if shit isn’t going up. I’m so mad for you.
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2020 14:17:08 GMT -6
Like seriously, @zweber your numbers have to be at least a few hundred with that dye stealer you have. I don’t actually know this for sure but that’s my guess. You don’t get dark lines like that if shit isn’t going up. I’m so mad for you. i can’t tell you how many times i’ve googled “frer with betas” to see other people’s values with dye stealers. i’m going crazy over here. anxiety is a real bitch in general. shit doctors make it so much worse.
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