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Post by tgrimes on Jun 25, 2019 7:29:12 GMT -6
Things escalated pretty quickly over text with my mother last night. One of her comments: "my reason for living is going through cancer treatment and I don't know if he's going to make it. I HAVE BIG SHOULDERS!" Way to be dramatic, since that was last year and all you did was bitch and complain about it the entire time. Also, I'm glad to see your grandkids are included in your reason for living.
Now my sister and I have a bet going on how long it will take for her to speak to me again.
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Post by waitwhat on Jun 25, 2019 7:48:47 GMT -6
Hope it goes well elle! Sending all the good luck vibes to your H! Damn tgrimes! Sounds really childish and dramatic! Maybe she’s just super stressed out? Either way, it’s hurtful and I’m sorry.
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Post by waitwhat on Jun 25, 2019 7:51:56 GMT -6
B just finished up his last home speech session. We originally thought it was tomorrow but since the school district we live in isn’t the same as where he goes to school there was some confusion. But he’s done now until fall. He may or may not get the same therapist. I hope he does get her again but there’s a good chance he won’t. Between that ending and his last day of school tomorrow I’m sad realizing how fast time is going and how much he is growing up!
It’s a nice day but it rained over night so it’s muddy out. I wanted to take the kids strawberry picking but I may wait until Thursday. So I think we are going to the open play at the gymnastics gym. This is the last week they are open for the summer so I wanted to go one more time anyway.
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 25, 2019 7:54:39 GMT -6
Hope it goes well elle ! Sending all the good luck vibes to your H! Damn tgrimes ! Sounds really childish and dramatic! Maybe she’s just super stressed out? Either way, it’s hurtful and I’m sorry. Unfortunately, that's just the way she is. I mean, they've been retired since 1997 and my mother doesn't leave the house unless there's a doctor's appt or she's getting her hair/nails done. She's threatened to leave my dad at least 20 times since we were kids. she's always childish and dramatic.
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Post by Cheshie6 on Jun 25, 2019 8:31:11 GMT -6
tgrimes, I'm sorry! My sister is like that!
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Post by elle on Jun 25, 2019 9:42:40 GMT -6
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Post by goldenlove on Jun 25, 2019 9:53:50 GMT -6
She sounds like the worst tgrimes. I'm glad at least your ILs are awesome.
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Post by goldenlove on Jun 25, 2019 9:58:57 GMT -6
I'm working from home today. My mom had something going on but that ended up getting cancelled. Oh well. Work is slow today so I can at least get stuff done around the house. And I was able to finally get Gracie to the vet for her shots.
Patio people are here supposedly finishing up. They seem to be taking their time. I didn't know that a company like this could run on normal business hours lol. They literally only work 8-5, M-F. But they've missed a couple days due to rain and didn't even make it up over the weekend. Once in a while they stay later but today they didn't show up until 11. I'm just ready to not see their shit all over my yard. H is wanting to finish up the sod too.
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 25, 2019 10:05:00 GMT -6
She sounds like the worst tgrimes . I'm glad at least your ILs are awesome. The consensus of N13 is that I got really awesome in laws because my mother is so fucking terrible. Lol.
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Post by goldenlove on Jun 25, 2019 10:07:01 GMT -6
She sounds like the worst tgrimes . I'm glad at least your ILs are awesome. The consensus of N13 is that I got really awesome in laws because my mother is so fucking terrible. Lol. Yes sometimes the universe makes things up to you
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Post by danib on Jun 25, 2019 10:12:03 GMT -6
We booked our trip! The boys are going to be so crazy excited to go to a zoo (and everything else)
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Post by goldenlove on Jun 25, 2019 10:15:44 GMT -6
We booked our trip! The boys are going to be so crazy excited to go to a zoo (and everything else) When are you going again? I wish we could meet up with you guys. It's only 4 hours away.
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Post by danib on Jun 25, 2019 10:17:26 GMT -6
We booked our trip! The boys are going to be so crazy excited to go to a zoo (and everything else) When are you going again? I wish we could meet up with you guys. It's only 4 hours away. August 19-23. Gonna try to work out a g2g with hangry. You should come!
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Post by goldenlove on Jun 25, 2019 10:19:33 GMT -6
When are you going again? I wish we could meet up with you guys. It's only 4 hours away. August 19-23. Gonna try to work out a g2g with hangry. You should come! I seriously would but we'll probably have the baby at that point. So bummed!
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Post by danib on Jun 25, 2019 10:28:22 GMT -6
August 19-23. Gonna try to work out a g2g with hangry. You should come! I seriously would but we'll probably have the baby at that point. So bummed! OMG that's right!!!
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Post by Cheshie6 on Jun 25, 2019 10:38:51 GMT -6
L’s eval for Thursday just got canceled. His SLP will be out for 3 weeks. Our speech assistant (who is SLP’S mom) will be out the rest of the week. I feel bad that she fell ill, and our regular person has to go thru her adult daughter being sick.
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Post by cookswithwine on Jun 25, 2019 13:41:35 GMT -6
I’m having a rough pg day... my pelvis/hips felt almost normal the entire weekend. Then I wfh yesterday and by the end of the day they started hurting. Overnight into today I am having to shuffle around due to pain. The only thing I can think of is that I laid around most of yesterday and was not very active. I can’t recall anything else that would cause this. Also the heartburn is becoming a near constant thing. I’m taking tums and Zantac as necessary. On a happier note, next week is a short week w 2.5 days. So I’m just gotta make it through this work week!
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 25, 2019 13:44:27 GMT -6
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Post by starbuck on Jun 25, 2019 13:47:58 GMT -6
J is sitting next to me when I'm on a call because he won't let me away. Luckily my employer is understanding about this kind of thing.
But of course he's fucking extremely high maintenance during this call. Like watches 2 minutes of TV then starts to throw a shit storm if I don't change the show.
WFH with my kids around is shite.
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 25, 2019 14:33:13 GMT -6
I could never work from home if my kids were there.
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Post by goldenlove on Jun 25, 2019 15:39:57 GMT -6
I'm sorry cookswithwine! Hope it gets better. Hip pain and heartburn are the worst. I'm dealing with it too.
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Post by goldenlove on Jun 25, 2019 16:00:17 GMT -6
I could never work from home if my kids were there. I usually pick days when I don't have meetings because it's gotten so much harder. Sometimes you can't control it though. I was supposed to have one today that fell during his nap but it got cancelled anyway.
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Post by starbuck on Jun 25, 2019 16:14:44 GMT -6
K has a fever now, too. 😫😫😫
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Post by waitwhat on Jun 25, 2019 17:07:24 GMT -6
K has a fever now, too. 😫😫😫 Oh no!
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Post by hangry on Jun 25, 2019 18:46:01 GMT -6
cookswithwine do you have an SI belt? (sacroiliac) it might also be called a pelvic belt. Because the joints are so lax in pregnancy, the belt does the job to hold your hips together. Might help if hip and pelvic pain are your biggest issues.
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Post by cookswithwine on Jun 25, 2019 18:57:06 GMT -6
cookswithwine do you have an SI belt? (sacroiliac) it might also be called a pelvic belt. Because the joints are so lax in pregnancy, the belt does the job to hold your hips together. Might help if hip and pelvic pain are your biggest issues. I did buy a belt but it’s just called a pregnancy support belt. It does help with the pain but doesn’t eliminate it completely. I didn’t wear it all weekend... maybe part of the issue? At work I wear it the entire day.
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Post by hangry on Jun 25, 2019 19:38:45 GMT -6
cookswithwine do you have an SI belt? (sacroiliac) it might also be called a pelvic belt. Because the joints are so lax in pregnancy, the belt does the job to hold your hips together. Might help if hip and pelvic pain are your biggest issues. I did buy a belt but it’s just called a pregnancy support belt. It does help with the pain but doesn’t eliminate it completely. I didn’t wear it all weekend... maybe part of the issue? At work I wear it the entire day. Some pregnancy support belts just hold the belly up. Others squeeze the pelvis together, which should help more. Wear it tightly, and do keep it on all the time. That might help.
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 25, 2019 20:49:06 GMT -6
K has a fever now, too. 😫😫😫 Shit! I’m sorry.
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 26, 2019 7:21:26 GMT -6
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 26, 2019 7:22:52 GMT -6
We're going to see Aladdin the musical tonight. I"m going to leave work a bit early to pick up M, then pick up my MIL and then we'll eat the theater. They have a lobby buffet before the show that is really good and you can purchase wine and bring it into the theater with you.
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