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Post by Cheshie6 on Jun 4, 2019 18:25:26 GMT -6
Ugh, I’m sorry tgrimes! From what I’ve read, this new Doctor sounds great! How did she make you feel? Sorry about the fever though! Today L did his train ride today! DH said he loved it. It was Amtrak lol!
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Post by cookswithwine on Jun 4, 2019 18:33:39 GMT -6
I’m so sorry tgrimes y’all have been through so much.
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Post by goldenlove on Jun 5, 2019 7:03:14 GMT -6
tgrimes I'm really glad you're able to meet with this new doctor and have some new eyes on everything. I hope you can finally get some answers. I hope H is ok. Poor thing.
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 5, 2019 7:54:30 GMT -6
Mh got a flat tire on the freeway last night and now it looks like our roof is leaking. We saw a water spot in the ceiling this morning and I don't think any pipes go that direction. It's pouring here again. My coworker has water coming into her house right now.
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Post by waitwhat on Jun 5, 2019 8:37:03 GMT -6
tgrimes sending you all the wine. The universe needs to cut you a serious break.
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Post by starbuck on Jun 5, 2019 14:01:36 GMT -6
I've been buried at work the past few weeks and it's not looking to get better until next week at the earliest.
Miss you all.
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Post by Cheshie6 on Jun 6, 2019 5:54:16 GMT -6
Ugh tgrimes! You get all the wine! Hi starbuck! I hope next week comes soon. DH and I went to a fundraiser last night for the organization that gives L speech and playgroup. It had a raffle and silent auction. I won Waterford crystal, and 2 gift certificates! One to the local bookstore. The other is a yoga place! But it’s a random amount ($54) so I’m not sure what I can do with that!?!
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 6, 2019 6:53:38 GMT -6
Cheshie6 Maybe $54 is how much it costs for a month of classes or something.
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Post by goldenlove on Jun 6, 2019 7:25:09 GMT -6
I'm tired. I've been crashing early the past two nights.
Work has been annoying. In one moment I'm being asked to rush things through to meet a date but these same people are asking me to make changes that delay everything. I don't even care at this point. Don't come to me for being late when you're causing it.
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 6, 2019 7:34:03 GMT -6
H is at daycare today. I know he still isn't feeling well and is pretty cranky, but I can't keep missing work.
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Post by cookswithwine on Jun 6, 2019 7:43:52 GMT -6
So I bought a pg support belt. I’ve been having a lot of pelvic pain this pg. I never had this with O. And it’s been getting worse for weeks so I finally broke down and bought one. I wore it all day yesterday and I feel so dumb bc I had an 80% improvement in pain. I can’t believe I waited weeks to buy this thing.
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Post by goldenlove on Jun 6, 2019 9:34:54 GMT -6
H kills me sometimes. I mentioned possibly taking C to a baseball game Sunday. He was already starting to make excuses or talking about going to a minor league game instead which are further away than where the Tigers play. Then he said something about how the Tigers suck.. well that's the perfect time to take a kid since it won't be packed. And seriously the tickets aren't that expensive for the cheap seats. Now he messages me and says oh we are supposed to go to that thing for our friends fundraiser. It's a restaurant that is donating a portion of their sales for the day to their foundation. Are you seriously saying we can't go have a meal and go to a baseball game on the same day? This man kills me sometimes.
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Post by Cheshie6 on Jun 6, 2019 10:28:31 GMT -6
tgrimes, I thought that too but then I went to their website and classes are $60 for 6 sessions or $25 for a week unlimited. It is so random! I know one of the owners so I’ll ask him!
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 6, 2019 10:54:20 GMT -6
tgrimes, I thought that too but then I went to their website and classes are $60 for 6 sessions or $25 for a week unlimited. It is so random! I know one of the owners so I’ll ask him! So $54 would cover 2 weeks of unlimited classes + tax.
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Post by goldenlove on Jun 6, 2019 11:16:02 GMT -6
tgrimes, I thought that too but then I went to their website and classes are $60 for 6 sessions or $25 for a week unlimited. It is so random! I know one of the owners so I’ll ask him! I would assume it's something like 2 weeks plus tax maybe? It has to be something specific lol ETA-Oops should have refreshed.
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Post by cookswithwine on Jun 6, 2019 13:19:38 GMT -6
Update on the car decision: I had H install the infant seat rear facing in the back my car and we put the passenger seat as far back as it would go. H doesn’t fit but I can fit just fine. I think a woman or smaller man would fit ok. So I think I will keep my car since H normally drives when we are all together anyways.
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Post by sarahwithanh on Jun 6, 2019 14:42:41 GMT -6
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 6, 2019 14:45:28 GMT -6
My SIL is in labor and headed to the hospital!
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Post by sarahwithanh on Jun 6, 2019 14:47:04 GMT -6
So I'm feeling like I got punched in the gut and I'm so frustrated with myself. M has been doing great so I was really really excited for his appt today. He has a speech therapist, occupational therapist, and physical therapist all evaluate him. He has been going every 6 months since leaving NICU. He made big jumps in every area but still scored at around 20 months. I guess I just expected a little closer to 30 months. They also mentioned he may have apraxia which is highly likely. I wish I could just be happy but oof my expectations were so high.
*If I was going myself advice I would say it's one assessment on one day by strangers. It is just one piece of him. It's just different when it's M and I'm sad.
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 6, 2019 14:48:32 GMT -6
sarahwithanh It's okay to be sad. Like you said, it was one assessment by strangers. You already know what big improvements he's had.
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Post by sarahwithanh on Jun 6, 2019 14:54:19 GMT -6
sarahwithanh It's okay to be sad. Like you said, it was one assessment by strangers. You already know what big improvements he's had. I think the hard part is I was in there and they take into account what I say so it's pretty accurate. He had only one or two take that I think he could have done better. It's dumb. I know he has a disability but a lot of the time I can ignore it. This just snacks you in the face.
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Post by danib on Jun 6, 2019 16:43:29 GMT -6
sarahwithanh It's okay to be sad. Like you said, it was one assessment by strangers. You already know what big improvements he's had. I think the hard part is I was in there and they take into account what I say so it's pretty accurate. He had only one or two take that I think he could have done better. It's dumb. I know he has a disability but a lot of the time I can ignore it. This just snacks you in the face. Not dumb at all. Hugs.
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Post by goldenlove on Jun 6, 2019 17:00:01 GMT -6
sarahwithanh It's okay to be sad. Like you said, it was one assessment by strangers. You already know what big improvements he's had. I think the hard part is I was in there and they take into account what I say so it's pretty accurate. He had only one or two take that I think he could have done better. It's dumb. I know he has a disability but a lot of the time I can ignore it. This just snacks you in the face. *Hugs* Sarah. We've all seen the progress he's made so I can imagine how disappointing it is to not hear it reflected in the evaluation. He's been doing so awesome though!
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 7, 2019 7:25:32 GMT -6
It's a girl!
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Post by cookswithwine on Jun 7, 2019 8:36:44 GMT -6
H is taking O to happy hour w his dad this afternoon. Which is awesome bc I can just relax on the couch and he brings home dinner! No plans tomorrow, looks like it might rain. Sunday, I’m going to one of my bf’s baby shower. Speaking of baby showers, I agreed to a sprinkle with some reluctance... the no 2nd baby shower thing is strong in the south plus I’m having another boy. I kept it small though, a lunch out for 10 ppl.
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Post by tgrimes on Jun 7, 2019 9:19:57 GMT -6
I've already placed an order for store pickup at Target for a newborn dress. I can swing by and get it on my way to the hospital.
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Post by waitwhat on Jun 7, 2019 9:35:10 GMT -6
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Post by waitwhat on Jun 7, 2019 9:38:35 GMT -6
Nothing new here. B is at school and since it’s beautiful outside I took J to the park at the lake. I really love that playground but it’s too hard with two kids so I try to take advantage of having 1 child when I can. (FFFC: The last time I went with both I lost sight of J for a few seconds. B was climbing up this super high ladder and I thought J was going down this enclosed slide like he always does so I was watching B to make sure he didn’t fall but when another kid came out and I couldn’t spot J’s red hat I panicked. He just went on a little walk to this gazebo near by to look out at the water but I had a panic attack.) But I had to pee really bad so after about 45 minutes we left.
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Post by goldenlove on Jun 7, 2019 11:39:06 GMT -6
I'm at home today "telecommuting". I had an appointment this morning and we did the amnio. I was going to go to work after but I felt light headed during the procedure and the paperwork says to rest so H didn't want me going to work. I'm glad I'm home because I don't think I'd be up for dealing with crap at work. I've just been laying on the couch watching TV instead. I feel bad though because it was my CWs last day and I didn't get to say bye so I sent her a text.
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Post by cookswithwine on Jun 7, 2019 11:49:53 GMT -6
goldenlove does that mean they moved it up from 6/13?? Or is 6/13 when you get the results?
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