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Post by wedding on May 21, 2019 18:43:48 GMT -6
I posted on GD earlier. C has had some issues at school with showing and asking others to see their private parts. Found this out at pickup yesterday. If he continues he could be asked to leave or held back in the preschool for summer camp where they have tighter ratios and can watch him more.
Between that, my work audit and my psychiatrist bullshit the last 24 hours have been stressful. My new psychiatrist is back tracking on what we planned for my meds and I run out in three days and stressing that it won’t be sorted out in time. At this point I want to retreat to my bed for a few days.
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klong11
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Post by klong11 on May 21, 2019 19:03:28 GMT -6
Struggling a bit over here too. Nothing to do with mh, just a bunch of shit in my head and with me. Maybe it's the time of year or something, idk, I'm just very down and can't seem to find a way out of the funk.
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Post by Sunny41 on May 21, 2019 19:22:51 GMT -6
My hand still hurts when I grip things so I’m going to do a tgrimes ice bath when I get home from work tonight. It doesn’t bother me at all if my hand is flat, but as soon as I try to open something, or wipe after going to the bathroom I get a zinger. Annoying. Get a carpal tunnel brace it should help. It's probably from gardening a d a repetitive motion |
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trtlcrzy
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Post by trtlcrzy on May 21, 2019 19:24:27 GMT -6
My hand still hurts when I grip things so I’m going to do a tgrimes ice bath when I get home from work tonight. It doesn’t bother me at all if my hand is flat, but as soon as I try to open something, or wipe after going to the bathroom I get a zinger. Annoying. Get a carpal tunnel brace it should help. It's probably from gardening a d a repetitive motion I don’t think it’s carpal tunnel. The pain is on the outside of my hand by my pinkie. I asked a friend who is a PT and she suggested icing it and ibuprofen. |
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Post by trtlcrzy on May 21, 2019 19:24:56 GMT -6
I posted on GD earlier. C has had some issues at school with showing and asking others to see their private parts. Found this out at pickup yesterday. If he continues he could be asked to leave or held back in the preschool for summer camp where they have tighter ratios and can watch him more. Between that, my work audit and my psychiatrist bullshit the last 24 hours have been stressful. My new psychiatrist is back tracking on what we planned for my meds and I run out in three days and stressing that it won’t be sorted out in time. At this point I want to retreat to my bed for a few days. I’m sorry. I hope things all get straightened out and everything turns out ok. |
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Post by trtlcrzy on May 21, 2019 19:25:17 GMT -6
Struggling a bit over here too. Nothing to do with mh, just a bunch of shit in my head and with me. Maybe it's the time of year or something, idk, I'm just very down and can't seem to find a way out of the funk. Sorry lady. Would some time to yourself this weekend help? |
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Post by jewels on May 21, 2019 19:28:38 GMT -6
wedding I posted in that thread but it was right before everyone started arguing so it might have gotten lost. I think you are handling it appropriately though and I’m sorry you’re dealing with so much at once. Like klong11 said, I think it’s a tough time for a lot of us right now. I know I’ve not been in the best place emotionally. And I feel that stuff that would normally be no big deal for me is just too much for me to handle.
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klong11
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Post by klong11 on May 21, 2019 19:38:38 GMT -6
Struggling a bit over here too. Nothing to do with mh, just a bunch of shit in my head and with me. Maybe it's the time of year or something, idk, I'm just very down and can't seem to find a way out of the funk. Sorry lady. Would some time to yourself this weekend help? I'll get a couple hours on Saturday while mh takes Cadence to a birthday party. Hopefully it will help. |
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mwhip
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Post by mwhip on May 21, 2019 19:40:55 GMT -6
wedding I got these 2. The 2 piece is a little big, but I kept it and it was great when I was super sunburnt.  
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Post by mwhip on May 21, 2019 19:59:46 GMT -6
I agree that life seems overwhelming right now. Hopefully we can all find time over the holiday weekend to relax and find some mental clarity.
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vino
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Post by vino on May 21, 2019 20:37:03 GMT -6
Hopefully your hand feels better with a little TLC trtlcrzy |
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Post by vino on May 21, 2019 20:53:30 GMT -6
wedding I’m sorry that it’s been a rough 24 hours, that’s a lot of stressors for such a short time. I’ve read through the thread on GD and I think you’re handling it appropriately. I’ve got some friends with older kids and they went through the same thing. I think that you recognize the importance of a clear, concise, and consistent message for C. You’re doing a great job with him and the situation, he’s a wonderful kid and will absolutely understand the message you’re conveying.
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vino
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Post by vino on May 21, 2019 20:53:59 GMT -6
Those are cute mwhip, I love the colour! |
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Post by vino on May 21, 2019 20:54:41 GMT -6
Big hugs klong11, we love you and are here for you. |
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Post by cagoldi on May 21, 2019 22:08:01 GMT -6
I'm sorry you're having a hard time right now, klong11. FX the little break over the weekend is helpful. |
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nam2013
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Post by nam2013 on May 21, 2019 22:38:55 GMT -6
klong11 I’m sorry things are tough right now 😕. Big hugs.
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chrisy01
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Post by chrisy01 on May 22, 2019 4:31:32 GMT -6
klong11 big hugs and make sure you take a downtime when you can.
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nam2013
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Post by nam2013 on May 22, 2019 4:36:11 GMT -6
wedding people took it to extreme and back in that thread, my goodness. I agree with others who said discovering your body, playing doctor etc. Is very normal. I’d have a firm conversation concerning the fact he didn’t listen to you, empathising that that is the reason you’re mad. For the preschool I don’t think they’re handling this to well... threatening to expel a preschooler, what in the world. ETA and to add to that you’re an amazing mom and parents. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this.
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Post by guster on May 22, 2019 5:14:11 GMT -6
I agree with the others, wedding. You’re handling it well. I, too, am surprised The school jump to such extremes without talking to you about it first. @klongoria, i’m sorry things feel overwhelming right now. I hope you have the ability to rest over this long weekend. Hope the hand feels better, trtlcrzy. My dequervains has been acting up in my left wrist again. Super annoying |
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chrisy01
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Post by chrisy01 on May 22, 2019 5:25:59 GMT -6
wedding I agree with others and you are handling it well. I also agree that school did not handle it well. I would think they would have a better process since it is a normal thing for kids this age to do. They are learning about their bodies and pushing boundaries. You are doing great
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