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Post by soup on Feb 5, 2019 13:17:26 GMT -6
My college "boyfriend" was my BDE (although he actually had a small D). I say boyfriend in quotes because we were clearly together but then he'd cheat on me and be all "well we aren't technically bf/gf, we've never had that conversation." Like he'd openly cheat on me at parties in front of my friends. And I'd take him back, every damn time. It's a charisma, a swagger thing. He was charming. Hell, two of my best friends also slept with him (one before me, one after). And he was fat!! He looks like a Cabbage Patch Kid. I can't stop laughing because I know you are so hot, and I'm imagining you having the feels for this:
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Post by Tlex on Feb 5, 2019 13:35:56 GMT -6
He got a bigger dick years later? Haha I add the for years in the wrong place. Lol Ha ok good I no longer have to google “when do dicks stop growing.” I’ll just go back to assuming sometime around the rest of the body.
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Post by marygracerich on Feb 5, 2019 13:38:42 GMT -6
I really do love that we have the BDE talk every month it brings back so much teen angst memories for me. I have now put on Usher music because he was King of the BDE music Oh my god, Usher’s you make me wanna was the song the BDE guy used to lure me in with. So much truth to your statement.
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Post by angelashly on Feb 5, 2019 13:44:25 GMT -6
I really do love that we have the BDE talk every month it brings back so much teen angst memories for me. I have now put on Usher music because he was King of the BDE music Oh my god, Usher’s you make me wanna was the song the BDE guy used to lure me in with. So much truth to your statement. Yep and Nice and Slow
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Post by marygracerich on Feb 5, 2019 13:46:05 GMT -6
My BDE guy was the guy every girl wanted in HS for NO REASON! He was not hot. He did not have a BD and he was only ok in bed. We hooked up right after HS and then again on and off for 10 years. He cheated on every single gf he ever had with me. He would tell me they broke up and then I would find out later it wasn’t true. He actually used the fact that he was hooking up with me to break up with one of them. 🙄
The worst part is that I only stopped hooking up with because I started dating my now H. That conversation went:
Him: hey what are you doing later? Me: sorry man, I have a bf now. Him: oh, that sucks. I was seriously thinking we should settle down and start dating. Me: now?! We have been hooking up for 10 years. You missed your chance. 🤷🏻♀️
Good times.
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Post by motherofdachshunds on Feb 5, 2019 13:47:21 GMT -6
My college "boyfriend" was my BDE (although he actually had a small D). I say boyfriend in quotes because we were clearly together but then he'd cheat on me and be all "well we aren't technically bf/gf, we've never had that conversation." Like he'd openly cheat on me at parties in front of my friends. And I'd take him back, every damn time. It's a charisma, a swagger thing. He was charming. Hell, two of my best friends also slept with him (one before me, one after). And he was fat!! He looks like a Cabbage Patch Kid. I can't stop laughing because I know you are so hot, and I'm imagining you having the feels for this: That's not a bad representation actually, but with lighter hair. I don't think I found my self esteem until I was 25 or so, which explains a lot of my choices. I should PM you his pic lol. He also stole my baby name which I still think is the weirdest thing ever. As in named his son the same name as my son. We're friends on FB, he comments/likes my stuff, dude knew what my kid's name was. And named his kid the same name about 5 years later.
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Post by soup on Feb 5, 2019 13:49:39 GMT -6
He also stole my baby name which I still think is the weirdest thing ever. As in named his son the same name as my son. We're friends on FB, he comments/likes my stuff, dude knew what my kid's name was. And named his kid the same name about 5 years later. That is pretty weird! My friend from college actually asked for my "permission" to name her daughter the same name as my daughter, which is also weird even though it's the complete opposite of what we find weird about your situation. LOL. She knew she didn't need my ok, but she thought it'd be strange if she didn't give me a heads up. Hahahahaha.
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Post by marygracerich on Feb 5, 2019 13:50:20 GMT -6
Oh my god, Usher’s you make me wanna was the song the BDE guy used to lure me in with. So much truth to your statement. Yep and Nice and Slow Another song we can add to the list is miss independent by Neyo. I was the only chick that didn’t want him to buy them everything and I worked full time. He knew to play on what made me different from his gfs. I was so young and dumb. 😂
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Post by marygracerich on Feb 5, 2019 13:55:38 GMT -6
I am pretty Cher would know the type of guy I am referring to. He was 6,4”, Italian, slightly overweight, gold chain and smelled like Dolce and Gabbana cologne all the time. Very typical Staten Island guy with less of an accent and slightly more brains.
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Post by beepers on Feb 5, 2019 14:34:33 GMT -6
I can't stop laughing because I know you are so hot, and I'm imagining you having the feels for this: That's not a bad representation actually, but with lighter hair. I don't think I found my self esteem until I was 25 or so, which explains a lot of my choices. I should PM you his pic lol. He also stole my baby name which I still think is the weirdest thing ever. As in named his son the same name as my son. We're friends on FB, he comments/likes my stuff, dude knew what my kid's name was. And named his kid the same name about 5 years later. Ugh. Mine gave his kid a middle name that is a mash-up of my nickname/middle name. Awful.
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Post by McBenny on Feb 5, 2019 14:43:51 GMT -6
I never get the Zac Efron attraction. I realize I'm the oddball here. But what are your feelings on Pete Davidson, the fox Robin Hood, and Lightning McQueen? Oh my
I am no cubed.
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Post by beesquared on Feb 5, 2019 14:51:54 GMT -6
I can't stop laughing because I know you are so hot, and I'm imagining you having the feels for this: That's not a bad representation actually, but with lighter hair. I don't think I found my self esteem until I was 25 or so, which explains a lot of my choices. I should PM you his pic lol. He also stole my baby name which I still think is the weirdest thing ever. As in named his son the same name as my son. We're friends on FB, he comments/likes my stuff, dude knew what my kid's name was. And named his kid the same name about 5 years later. My ex-fiancé named his daughter after our dog. It was not a common name in our circle and I really want to know if his wife knows about our dog. I'm super petty and it gives me great joy to have this knowledge.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 5, 2019 15:03:07 GMT -6
My BDE guy was a ginger with an athletic bod and a hella big d. Once I realized he was a douche, we would just mutually call each other when we were trashed to bang. It was so nice.
It took like two years to get there, tho.
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Post by inthekitty on Feb 5, 2019 15:07:57 GMT -6
I crushed hard on a guy in middle and high school. I wouldn't call it BDE for me because I was a naïve precious blossom that hadn't yet bloomed and not interested in D much at that point. Nonetheless he named his kid my maiden name which is rarely used as a first name. I often wondered if there was any connection. I decided it was and loser missed out (but I didn't).
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Post by McBenny on Feb 5, 2019 15:11:05 GMT -6
I can’t do it again, guys. Pete is a whole vibe. Hence how he prompted the BDE thing. It’s not about looking at him and thinking he’s some action hero perfect looking guy. It’s a whole thing. It’s every guy you threw yourself at in your 20’s who treated you like shit and then you went to the bar with your girlfriends and you were like, “I don’t even care! He’s not even hot!” But then he calls you at 2am and you’re Irish Goodbye’ing so you can see him for a booty call. It’s crazy great sex. He buys you breakfast in the morning, you laugh like no one makes you laugh. You’re so excited when he leaves and he says, “maybe I’ll call you later on and we can hang out.” You stare at your phone for the next 2 weeks until he calls you again. BDE is when they have all the power and you can’t quite figure out why they do because on paper they shouldn’t have you sprung. But then their energy and attitude gets you acting crazy. Some of you guys have never sexed a BDE dude and it shows I just was never this girl in cher's story.
I was the guy.
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Post by McBenny on Feb 5, 2019 15:14:37 GMT -6
My college "boyfriend" was my BDE (although he actually had a small D). I say boyfriend in quotes because we were clearly together but then he'd cheat on me and be all "well we aren't technically bf/gf, we've never had that conversation." Like he'd openly cheat on me at parties in front of my friends. And I'd take him back, every damn time. It's a charisma, a swagger thing. He was charming. Hell, two of my best friends also slept with him (one before me, one after). And he was fat!! He looks like a Cabbage Patch Kid. It sounds like you all were never exclusive so I don't see how he cheated. He was disrespectful for sure but that was ok.
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Post by Nonniedee on Feb 5, 2019 15:15:27 GMT -6
Just got Lizzo tickets, Nonniedee. I wish you were here to go with me! Her NYC dates fall during Ramadan 😒😒😒
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Post by McBenny on Feb 5, 2019 15:15:52 GMT -6
Pete Davidson looks like he was up breastfeeding a newborn all night. I just can't. His whole appearance and vibe is off for me.
Just NMS.
I might have to buy lube for the first time.
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Post by macic on Feb 5, 2019 15:16:12 GMT -6
He also stole my baby name which I still think is the weirdest thing ever. As in named his son the same name as my son. We're friends on FB, he comments/likes my stuff, dude knew what my kid's name was. And named his kid the same name about 5 years later. That is pretty weird! My friend from college actually asked for my "permission" to name her daughter the same name as my daughter, which is also weird even though it's the complete opposite of what we find weird about your situation. LOL. She knew she didn't need my ok, but she thought it'd be strange if she didn't give me a heads up. Hahahahaha. This happened to me. A dude who was friendly with me in HS (and his mom was my dads secretary for many years). We never hooked up but ran in the same circle and we’ve been FB friends and chatted a few times since HS but we both moved away. He named his son the same as my son. It’s not a totally common name, but also not an uncommon name. NBD. Then he just had a daughter and named her my daughters name. I feel like this is weird.
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Post by McBenny on Feb 5, 2019 15:16:23 GMT -6
Just got Lizzo tickets, Nonniedee . I wish you were here to go with me! Her NYC dates fall during Ramadan 😒😒😒 You still didn't say who was racially ambiguous? I was so confused.
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Post by McBenny on Feb 5, 2019 15:17:50 GMT -6
He also stole my baby name which I still think is the weirdest thing ever. As in named his son the same name as my son. We're friends on FB, he comments/likes my stuff, dude knew what my kid's name was. And named his kid the same name about 5 years later. That is pretty weird! My friend from college actually asked for my "permission" to name her daughter the same name as my daughter, which is also weird even though it's the complete opposite of what we find weird about your situation. LOL. She knew she didn't need my ok, but she thought it'd be strange if she didn't give me a heads up. Hahahahaha. It could have been the woman's fave, a family name on her side.
I don't think it's weird but full disclosure I don't understand some people and the my name thing so I will move on.
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Post by soup on Feb 5, 2019 15:17:56 GMT -6
That is pretty weird! My friend from college actually asked for my "permission" to name her daughter the same name as my daughter, which is also weird even though it's the complete opposite of what we find weird about your situation. LOL. She knew she didn't need my ok, but she thought it'd be strange if she didn't give me a heads up. Hahahahaha. This happened to me. A dude who was friendly with me in HS (and his mom was my dads secretary for many years). We never hooked up but ran in the same circle and we’ve been FB friends and chatted a few times since HS but we both moved away. He named his son the same as my son. It’s not a totally common name, but also not an uncommon name. NBD. Then he just had a daughter and named her my daughters name. I feel like this is weird. OK, NAMING TWO CHILDREN THE SAME NAMES AS YOUR CHILDREN IS HELLA WEIRD.
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Post by brux on Feb 5, 2019 15:18:51 GMT -6
Just got Lizzo tickets, Nonniedee . I wish you were here to go with me! Her NYC dates fall during Ramadan 😒😒😒 ughhhh.
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Post by soup on Feb 5, 2019 15:20:13 GMT -6
That is pretty weird! My friend from college actually asked for my "permission" to name her daughter the same name as my daughter, which is also weird even though it's the complete opposite of what we find weird about your situation. LOL. She knew she didn't need my ok, but she thought it'd be strange if she didn't give me a heads up. Hahahahaha. It could have been the woman's fave, a family name on her side.
I don't think it's weird but full disclosure I don't understand some people and the my name thing so I will move on.
Are you talking about my friend? No, she specifically said that she liked my daughter's name and said she hoped I didn't mind if she named her baby the same name. LOL. It doesn't bother me at all. I'm actually flattered and love it! It's not a particularly common name, and we both enjoy seeing our daughters grow up on Facebook. We call my daughter "Big _____" and hers "Little _____."
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Post by motherofdachshunds on Feb 5, 2019 15:21:13 GMT -6
My college "boyfriend" was my BDE (although he actually had a small D). I say boyfriend in quotes because we were clearly together but then he'd cheat on me and be all "well we aren't technically bf/gf, we've never had that conversation." Like he'd openly cheat on me at parties in front of my friends. And I'd take him back, every damn time. It's a charisma, a swagger thing. He was charming. Hell, two of my best friends also slept with him (one before me, one after). And he was fat!! He looks like a Cabbage Patch Kid. It sounds like you all were never exclusive so I don't see how he cheated. He was disrespectful for sure but that was ok. I'm condensing five year's worth of relationship history into a few sentences here. He cheated. There were times he wasn't "technically" cheating and times that he was. But ok.
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Post by Nonniedee on Feb 5, 2019 15:22:30 GMT -6
Her NYC dates fall during Ramadan 😒😒😒 You still didn't say who was racially ambiguous? I was so confused. Pete, he could be half black, Italian, Jewish... just from looking at him you wouldn't know.
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Post by McBenny on Feb 5, 2019 15:22:45 GMT -6
It sounds like you all were never exclusive so I don't see how he cheated. He was disrespectful for sure but that was ok. I'm condensing five year's worth of relationship history into a few sentences here. He cheated. There were times he wasn't "technically" cheating and times that he was. But ok. I mean I based it on what you posted. I wasn't trying to offend you.
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Post by Cher on Feb 5, 2019 15:22:55 GMT -6
Have you ever by Brandy.
BDE song.
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Post by agm04 on Feb 5, 2019 15:23:17 GMT -6
Pete Davidson looks like he was up breastfeeding a newborn all night. I just can't. His whole appearance and vibe is off for me. Just NMS. I might have to buy lube for the first time. dying at up breastfeeding a newborn all night. pete is also not my flavor. but i do have plenty of embarrassing history with BDE.
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Post by Cher on Feb 5, 2019 15:25:13 GMT -6
January 20, 2019
This barely A- list reality star from a reality family is upset about leaked text messages because it shows how he likes to make each fling think they are the only one so he can have an entire string of women.
Rob Kardashian
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