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Post by willow on Oct 22, 2018 17:23:15 GMT -6
Ok enty the blind about lauryn hill is silly. She’s been known to just do whatever she wants as far as showing up for shows or performing late, etc., for years. It’s no secret.
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Post by betches on Oct 22, 2018 17:29:28 GMT -6
Don’t flame me for this question because I’m just trying to learn. Is everyone who sleeps with someone, let’s assume for this question, completely voluntary, considered a victim? As I write this, I suspect the answer is yes because the very idea that you’d have to put out to get an acting part is the antithesis of a system that favours men and these tactics. Thoughts? While there are obvious cases of someone being a victim, I think there are also less clear grey areas that need to be acknowledged. I’d say there are different levels or layers of being victimized but at the end of the day they’re all a shitty place to be |
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Post by tinyjoys on Oct 22, 2018 17:40:22 GMT -6
......most of what I know about cuckolding is from nature documentaries though. It’s big in some bird populations.  |
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Post by normadix on Oct 22, 2018 17:57:52 GMT -6
Don’t flame me for this question because I’m just trying to learn. Is everyone who sleeps with someone, let’s assume for this question, completely voluntary, considered a victim? As I write this, I suspect the answer is yes because the very idea that you’d have to put out to get an acting part is the antithesis of a system that favours men and these tactics. Thoughts? I think it comes down to who has the power. In this case, if Weinstein is asking/encouraging you to sleep with him how voluntary is it when he holds the power and can make or break a career? But I do believe there are consensual cases where this gets murky. |
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Post by hardlyluck on Oct 22, 2018 18:20:42 GMT -6
Don’t flame me for this question because I’m just trying to learn. Is everyone who sleeps with someone, let’s assume for this question, completely voluntary, considered a victim? As I write this, I suspect the answer is yes because the very idea that you’d have to put out to get an acting part is the antithesis of a system that favours men and these tactics. Thoughts? I think it comes down to who has the power. In this case, if Weinstein is asking/encouraging you to sleep with him how voluntary is it when he holds the power and can make or break a career? But I do believe there are consensual cases where this gets murky. I absolutely believe there are gray areas and there are 100% consensual situations out there. I just *head tilted* at anyone (Whoopi) assuming this was one of those cases when it comes to Weinstein. |
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Post by Ali7P on Oct 22, 2018 18:31:45 GMT -6
This might be a repeat but someone from a FB group I’m in posted & says she was just in this guy’s cab. www.humansofnewyork.com/post/101174029656/so-get-this-im-driving-down-park-avenue-one-dayIt’s a great post about our beloved Tom Hanks. But...she also mentioned something about Ginnifer Goodwin. This might be old news about our triceratops. The poster said she told the cab driver about the affair & that Rita wrote a song about it & it’s on the album. Did I miss this? Is this known? ::ducks:: |
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Post by icaughtfire on Oct 22, 2018 18:35:12 GMT -6
 Literally me every time I scroll past that Stern O-face gif. |
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Post by gussie on Oct 22, 2018 18:36:39 GMT -6
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Post by gussie on Oct 22, 2018 18:40:58 GMT -6
MH worked with a guy that liked to watch his wife with other men. That guy was the worst in many ways. He met my mom once and kept talking about how hot she was in front of me the rest of the night. In very explicit ways.
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Post by Pumpkinwest on Oct 22, 2018 18:43:09 GMT -6
Mariah Carey is going on tour and one of the stops is at a casino 10 minutes from my house.
My BFF who is head of Security will most likely be escorting her around and I will ensure to get alllllll the tea ☕️.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 22, 2018 18:45:34 GMT -6
Mariah Carey is going on tour and one of the stops is at a casino 10 minutes from my house. My BFF who is head of Security will most likely be escorting her around and I will ensure to get alllllll the tea ☕️. I think you need to job shadow your BFF |
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Post by jorkzy on Oct 22, 2018 19:08:39 GMT -6
......most of what I know about cuckolding is from nature documentaries though. It’s big in some bird populations. This made me lol for real. Those crazy birds are into some kinky shit. |
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Post by Risscaboobs on Oct 22, 2018 19:33:52 GMT -6
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Post by thechickencoop on Oct 22, 2018 20:22:08 GMT -6
When my H and I were at a banking convention with a bunch of old rich white dudes, he was asked by someone at a bar to have sex with his lady. My H is 99% sure the guy was serious. Pretty sure it was a cuckhold. I went to bed early and my H stayed up drinking late at the bar. In walks a group of old rich guys clearly with some classy prostitues. We later confirm with the hotel staff that these are well known local hookers who often come to the hotel. While ordering drinks at the bar, H meets them. Start talking it up. Everyone is really nice and friendly. Not trashy or overtly sexual. Somehow a guy basically invites my H to have sex with his lady for the evening. H drunkenly politely declines and leaves. H rolls into bed that night very drunk and keeps muttering to me “Jesus Robots that was some super weird shit.” It’s still one of his favorite stories. He’s convinced that the dude gets aroused knowing his lady is with a younger man, then has his fun later on. I read this without reading your name and when you wrote your H saying “Jesus Robots....” I was very confused and humored at his wording Jesus H Robots!! |
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Post by ArielMermaid on Oct 22, 2018 20:36:35 GMT -6
This might be a repeat but someone from a FB group I’m in posted & says she was just in this guy’s cab. www.humansofnewyork.com/post/101174029656/so-get-this-im-driving-down-park-avenue-one-dayIt’s a great post about our beloved Tom Hanks. But...she also mentioned something about Ginnifer Goodwin. This might be old news about our triceratops. The poster said she told the cab driver about the affair & that Rita wrote a song about it & it’s on the album. Did I miss this? Is this known? ::ducks:: What about Ginnifer? |
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Post by Jesslfar on Oct 22, 2018 21:29:31 GMT -6
Don’t flame me for this question because I’m just trying to learn. Is everyone who sleeps with someone, let’s assume for this question, completely voluntary, considered a victim? As I write this, I suspect the answer is yes because the very idea that you’d have to put out to get an acting part is the antithesis of a system that favours men and these tactics. Thoughts? IMO if someone is consenting to have sex because it might push their career ahead they are playing the game. The moment they become a victim is when they go for auditions and are told you do this or you are fired. Lots of women sleep with or date someone who might get them in the door but both parties know the deal. Once you have an actual boss who will not cast you unless you allow sexual favors you are a victim. |
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Post by Tlex on Oct 22, 2018 22:08:04 GMT -6
......most of what I know about cuckolding is from nature documentaries though. It’s big in some bird populations. This made me lol for real. Those crazy birds are into some kinky shit. Lol mostly they just like to knock up ladies and have the other dude do all the child rearing work! |
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Post by hardlyluck on Oct 23, 2018 0:01:19 GMT -6
Don’t flame me for this question because I’m just trying to learn. Is everyone who sleeps with someone, let’s assume for this question, completely voluntary, considered a victim? As I write this, I suspect the answer is yes because the very idea that you’d have to put out to get an acting part is the antithesis of a system that favours men and these tactics. Thoughts? IMO if someone is consenting to have sex because it might push their career ahead they are playing the game. The moment they become a victim is when they go for auditions and are told you do this or you are fired. Lots of women sleep with or date someone who might get them in the door but both parties know the deal. Once you have an actual boss who will not cast you unless you allow sexual favors you are a victim. But I feel like “do this or I won’t cast you” is more often only implied, not explicitly stated. |
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Post by caer on Oct 23, 2018 4:37:41 GMT -6
I listened to the Karlie Kloss podcast and it’s basically just Enty rambling about how it’s weird that Karlie and Joshua got married on a random Thursday in October after knowing each other for 6 years. ripper, in case you want to save a few bucks, it was pretty worthless. It might have had something to do with Taylor. His facts supporting this are: Taylor was as far away as possible when they got married (on an airplane to Australia), KK and Taylor had lived together before, Taylor hates Joshua and one time KK told Leonardo DiCaprio that “she wasn’t his type.” That’s it. Or it could have been because Joshua has some shady business deals and KK knows about them, so this way she can claim spousal privilege. 🤷🏼♀️ |
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Post by Ali7P on Oct 23, 2018 5:30:32 GMT -6
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Post by ArielMermaid on Oct 23, 2018 6:10:04 GMT -6
Ginnifer has always eaten crackers for me. This isn’t helping. |
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Post by oldbay on Oct 23, 2018 6:15:17 GMT -6
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Post by mathlete on Oct 23, 2018 6:42:38 GMT -6
I just spiraled on Hanks and Goodwin.   |
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Post by mathlete on Oct 23, 2018 6:43:44 GMT -6
Her birth name was Jennifer. So I'm annoyed that she changed the spelling.
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Post by mathlete on Oct 23, 2018 6:44:32 GMT -6
She named her second son Hugo Wilson. Wilson, as in the volleyball?
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Post by sullivan on Oct 23, 2018 6:58:49 GMT -6
Her birth name was Jennifer. So I'm annoyed that she changed the spelling. I always want to call her Ginn-a-fur. Ginn as in, rhymes with Fin. Like on a fish. She’s the Jinger of Hollywood for me. And she did it to herself. |
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Post by ArielMermaid on Oct 23, 2018 7:02:18 GMT -6
Her birth name was Jennifer. So I'm annoyed that she changed the spelling. Oh God why? So many crackers. |
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Post by gussie on Oct 23, 2018 7:21:52 GMT -6
Her birth name was Jennifer. So I'm annoyed that she changed the spelling. I always want to call her Ginn-a-fur. Ginn as in, rhymes with Fin. Like on a fish. She’s the Jinger of Hollywood for me. And she did it to herself. Oh. I thought this was legitimately how it was pronounced. |
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Post by spacecadet on Oct 23, 2018 7:50:20 GMT -6
She is certainly looking very love struck in those pics. When are they from? I assume they did a movie together or something? I should probably just google lol.
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Post by Sweetjane on Oct 23, 2018 7:54:19 GMT -6
I just spiraled on Hanks and Goodwin. WTAF to those photos? If I was Rita I would be pissed. |
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