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Post by addymac on Aug 21, 2018 8:04:28 GMT -6
So N hates balloons 😂 I think he’s scared of them. Idk why. I blew up a big 1 balloon for yesterday and he freaked out when DH tried to put it near him for pictures with the cake. 🤷🏻♀️
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Post by Deleted on Aug 21, 2018 11:29:28 GMT -6
Those of you who are still breastfeeding, have you gotten your postpartum period yet? My friend said she was shocked that I still haven’t gotten mine yet. But I don’t think it’s that odd, and I’m glad not to have it. Lol
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Post by addymac on Aug 21, 2018 12:15:26 GMT -6
Those of you who are still breastfeeding, have you gotten your postpartum period yet? My friend said she was shocked that I still haven’t gotten mine yet. But I don’t think it’s that odd, and I’m glad not to have it. Lol I’m so jealous. Mine came back at 7 weeks PP... I was so mad. I said to my dr “BUT IM BREASTFEEDING!!!” And he goes, “yeah and imagine if you had had sex.... baby #2 coulda been on it’s way!” And I was like 🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️ IUD please haha
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Post by jt2378 on Aug 21, 2018 12:31:44 GMT -6
Those of you who are still breastfeeding, have you gotten your postpartum period yet? My friend said she was shocked that I still haven’t gotten mine yet. But I don’t think it’s that odd, and I’m glad not to have it. Lol Lol yes it’s the best! My first it was at almost 14 months and still hasn’t come back yet. I did notice it seemed to come back right after I stopped pumping so that has been another reason I haven’t been in a rush to quit lol. The first one is the absolute worst 😭
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Post by Deleted on Aug 21, 2018 12:54:39 GMT -6
addymac, I was wondering if some women have a more hormonal reaction than others. And even though it took IVF and over 2 years to get A, we still use condoms and I tell MH all the time he needs to get the snip snip. jt2378, I’ve heard the first is the woooorst! I’m really dreading it. And even though I’d like to wean within the next few months so I can start using CBD oil, I’m definitely ok with holding out to prolong the inevitable.
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Post by jt2378 on Aug 21, 2018 13:36:15 GMT -6
addymac, I was wondering if some women have a more hormonal reaction than others. And even though it took IVF and over 2 years to get A, we still use condoms and I tell MH all the time he needs to get the snip snip. jt2378, I’ve heard the first is the woooorst! I’m really dreading it. And even though I’d like to wean within the next few months so I can start using CBD oil, I’m definitely ok with holding out to prolong the inevitable. Yes mine was awful! I actually feel so clueless about weaning. M has been a monster the past week so nursing has basically been my go to 🤷🏻♀️😂
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Post by Deleted on Aug 21, 2018 13:49:41 GMT -6
addymac, I was wondering if some women have a more hormonal reaction than others. And even though it took IVF and over 2 years to get A, we still use condoms and I tell MH all the time he needs to get the snip snip. jt2378, I’ve heard the first is the woooorst! I’m really dreading it. And even though I’d like to wean within the next few months so I can start using CBD oil, I’m definitely ok with holding out to prolong the inevitable. Yes mine was awful! I actually feel so clueless about weaning. M has been a monster the past week so nursing has basically been my go to 🤷🏻♀️😂 I have no idea how to wean either. It’s totally my go to for everything and he has shown zero signs to slowing down. I won’t force it, really, if he still wants to nurse.
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Post by yellowcat on Aug 21, 2018 14:08:47 GMT -6
Those of you who are still breastfeeding, have you gotten your postpartum period yet? My friend said she was shocked that I still haven’t gotten mine yet. But I don’t think it’s that odd, and I’m glad not to have it. Lol I am not, but my friends who did all said they never got a period until a month or two after they had weaned.
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Post by yellowcat on Aug 21, 2018 14:09:47 GMT -6
OMG J barely slept and now he won't nap the kid is a beast. They both start daycare tomorrow and I'm seriously worried about how this kids going to handle it.
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Post by muscari on Aug 21, 2018 15:26:35 GMT -6
So N hates balloons 😂 I think he’s scared of them. Idk why. I blew up a big 1 balloon for yesterday and he freaked out when DH tried to put it near him for pictures with the cake. 🤷🏻♀️ Awww silly N! I got balloons today as well for decoration of her party, and blew one up (they're small ones, I want to try make a balloon wreath for on the front door) and she just had to have it. I didn't want to let her play with it out of fear for.. uhm dunno really hah, but she somehow got hold of it when I was cooking (rolls her eyes at DH who clearly was more interested by his silly phone then his daughter grr) and loved it. When she crawled on top of it it popped, and she was all like "huh?? where did it go!!??" haha
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Post by muscari on Aug 21, 2018 15:30:01 GMT -6
Those of you who are still breastfeeding, have you gotten your postpartum period yet? My friend said she was shocked that I still haven’t gotten mine yet. But I don’t think it’s that odd, and I’m glad not to have it. Lol Nope no PP period just yet. Though I am not 'standard' PP I guess lol given my POF/DOR as well as the fact that my adhesions most very likely returned cause of the C-section so... On the one hand I'm like "okay, please stay away" cause I wouldn't mind not having to deal with it no more especially since we are OADNBC anyway. On the other hand I just worry about the Asherman's and know I should schedule an appointment with the specialist for another hysteroscopy to make sure. But after several years of way to many procedures and stuff I'm sort of done and have been postponing...
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Post by muscari on Aug 21, 2018 15:32:18 GMT -6
Those of you who are still breastfeeding, have you gotten your postpartum period yet? My friend said she was shocked that I still haven’t gotten mine yet. But I don’t think it’s that odd, and I’m glad not to have it. Lol I’m so jealous. Mine came back at 7 weeks PP... I was so mad. I said to my dr “BUT IM BREASTFEEDING!!!” And he goes, “yeah and imagine if you had had sex.... baby #2 coulda been on it’s way!” And I was like 🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️ IUD please haha That's rough, though I hear this quite a lot on another (Dutch) BF forum I read. LOL @ your drs comment and your response heh. Even though I haven't had a period yet, I know that that in itself doesn't prevent a pregnancy and even though it is very very unlikely we'll fall pregnant naturally if at all... the thought of it has freaked me out well enough to tell MH that it's either condoms, or no sex.. LOL! (I don't want hormonal BC no more and can't use IUD..)
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Post by muscari on Aug 21, 2018 15:34:43 GMT -6
addymac , I was wondering if some women have a more hormonal reaction than others. And even though it took IVF and over 2 years to get A, we still use condoms and I tell MH all the time he needs to get the snip snip. Ideally I'd like MH to get snipsnipped as well, he's already said he won't do it.. And even though with POF&DOR I'm like.. I'm not going to run the "risk" -- I've seen to many people fall pregnant naturally after years of IF and treatement and everything LOL.
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Post by muscari on Aug 21, 2018 15:38:13 GMT -6
Yes mine was awful! I actually feel so clueless about weaning. M has been a monster the past week so nursing has basically been my go to 🤷🏻♀️😂 I have no idea how to wean either. It’s totally my go to for everything and he has shown zero signs to slowing down. I won’t force it, really, if he still wants to nurse. People keep asking when I'll stop BFing and I'm like uhm... no idea! I am sort of planning on just going with the flow and letting D. decide when she's done (and hoping that won't be at like 5yo hahaah). Now that she's eating more and more solids I do notice she nurses a little less (during the day at least), but apart from that she's a big boob-fan. Like you two it's totally my go to as well! I would be so lost if I couldn't just offer her the boob when she ..... < fill in the blank > !
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Post by muscari on Aug 21, 2018 15:39:37 GMT -6
3 more days till we celebrate D's birthday and while I felt rather relaxed about it so far I'm now starting to stress about prep and getting the house in order aahhh. MH took some days off and has said he'd help but well I'm OCD about prep and certain things and he's really laid back and go with the flow so I'm not sure how helpful his help will be ;-) haha
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Post by pennylane on Aug 21, 2018 16:25:27 GMT -6
I got my period back after DS around 10 months, even though I breastfed until after he was 1. Haven’t got it back yet this time, but she nurses a lot more frequently than he did.
DH got snipped at the beginning of the year bc no way am I having another baby. It was our pre-discussed deal re: birth control. A 20 minute procedure is way worth it to not be worried in the future!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 21, 2018 17:52:56 GMT -6
addymac , I was wondering if some women have a more hormonal reaction than others. And even though it took IVF and over 2 years to get A, we still use condoms and I tell MH all the time he needs to get the snip snip. Ideally I'd like MH to get snipsnipped as well, he's already said he won't do it.. And even though with POF&DOR I'm like.. I'm not going to run the "risk" -- I've seen to many people fall pregnant naturally after years of IF and treatement and everything LOL. I told MH I’d been through enough, it was his turn. 🤷🏼♀️
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Post by king26 on Aug 21, 2018 18:23:16 GMT -6
I only breastfed 6 weeks and mine didn't come back until 16 weeks pp but it was awful. Man it took us 4 years and several ivf to get J so we are just go with the flow. I was going to get on birth control but I just dont want too. Plus we are both old so I doubt it would ever happen addymac, I was wondering if some women have a more hormonal reaction than others. And even though it took IVF and over 2 years to get A, we still use condoms and I tell MH all the time he needs to get the snip snip. jt2378, I’ve heard the first is the woooorst! I’m really dreading it. And even though I’d like to wean within the next few months so I can start using CBD oil, I’m definitely ok with holding out to prolong the inevitable.
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Post by king26 on Aug 21, 2018 18:24:06 GMT -6
OMG J barely slept and now he won't nap the kid is a beast. They both start daycare tomorrow and I'm seriously worried about how this kids going to handle it. Oh man. I wonder what is up. Is he teething or not feeling well?
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Post by cali on Aug 21, 2018 21:37:18 GMT -6
Thanks for the bday wishes for m everyone! @starzia and addymac I hope your littles had great bdays too! Happy belated anniversary muscari!
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Post by muscari on Aug 22, 2018 3:21:56 GMT -6
We have had quite a few cancellations for Ds birthday which made me sad. But now with the current weather forecast of thunderstorms and lots of rain maybe it is for the best lol. The house will be cramped enough if we can't go outside. But booooo as i had so been looking forward to a garden party. Ohwell many more bdays to come! And the house is easier to decorate lol.
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Post by pennylane on Aug 22, 2018 5:03:47 GMT -6
muscari I’m sure her party will be great no matter the weather!
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Post by kristyw on Aug 22, 2018 6:53:42 GMT -6
I got my period back at 6 months with both kids. It tanked my supply with DS and he was done BF soon after. E still nurses 5 ish times a day but it does affect my supply still after O until after my period is done. She smacks my boobs a lot and is just generally more restless during that time.
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Post by addymac on Aug 22, 2018 10:19:29 GMT -6
Oh hey pepperpottsj !! Come say hi!!! And tell us about your LO! Miss you!!
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Post by pepperpottsj on Aug 22, 2018 10:37:16 GMT -6
Oh hey pepperpottsj !! Come say hi!!! And tell us about your LO! Miss you!! Hi!! !! !!! Headed to ENT appointment with M but will be back soon xoxo
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Post by pepperpottsj on Aug 22, 2018 15:01:24 GMT -6
Well one thing is I’m now terrified of weather on 9/9... and seriously jealous of everyone who has t gotten a pp period yet!!! <3
I’ve seriously struggled with full time employment and momming(hence the ghost status) especially after MH lost his job in March, but I think I’m finally getting to a place where I can find a few spare moments again!!! How is everyone with their 1 year old babies!!!
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Post by muscari on Aug 22, 2018 15:53:21 GMT -6
Well one thing is I’m now terrified of weather on 9/9... and seriously jealous of everyone who has t gotten a pp period yet!!! <3 I’ve seriously struggled with full time employment and momming(hence the ghost status) especially after MH lost his job in March, but I think I’m finally getting to a place where I can find a few spare moments again!!! How is everyone with their 1 year old babies!!! Hi!!! Sooo nice to see you here! So sorry to hear about YHs job Looking forward hearing more about your LO and reconnecting!
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Post by muscari on Aug 22, 2018 16:14:51 GMT -6
Ahhhh, it's just past midnight here.. which means my little baby girl is no longer a baby but a dreumes (Dutch for toddler hah). How??!!
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Post by addymac on Aug 22, 2018 17:50:01 GMT -6
Well one thing is I’m now terrified of weather on 9/9... and seriously jealous of everyone who has t gotten a pp period yet!!! <3 I’ve seriously struggled with full time employment and momming(hence the ghost status) especially after MH lost his job in March, but I think I’m finally getting to a place where I can find a few spare moments again!!! How is everyone with their 1 year old babies!!! Sorry about the job. We’ve missed you 😭 Full time work blows! And momming is hard. N is currently running around my parents’ apartment and dh is chasing him with every step bc nothing is baby proofed. We got here today and leave Tuesday. I’m already wiped out and hoping is sharing a room with him doesn’t negate all the progress with sleep that he’s made this last week. Sigh. Also my boobs hurt. Weaning off pumping is hard. Ugh
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Post by jt2378 on Aug 22, 2018 17:52:38 GMT -6
So great to “see” you again! pepperpottsj. Tell us about M! Happy birthday to sweet little D!! muscari 🎂🎉
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