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Post by addymac on Jul 3, 2018 21:05:36 GMT -6
bsouls she sounds so petty... to be mad at a wedding bc of a food platter?! Oof. You can list all your “petty” issues here if it helps. Sometimes they’re little things but then all the little things over time just add up and then it’s a big thing. I get it. Sorry you have to deal with that. I wonder how N is going to do with fireworks. Apparently people on the next block have some bc they just set a few off. I’m hoping he sleeps through them tomorrow 🤞🏼 Ugh I’m sick as a dog and I have to work tomorrow. Fingers crossed I get called off and then I will just sleep all day and let N and dh have their bro day. Woof.
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Post by addymac on Jul 3, 2018 21:44:59 GMT -6
I also just realized the title says ransoms not randoms. Lol. I kept thinking why does something seem different about this thread??? 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
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Post by king26 on Jul 4, 2018 4:07:54 GMT -6
Well J woke up at 520 but he only woke up once last night so I'll take it! I was worried since vacation sleep was crap but he was happy to be home
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Post by king26 on Jul 4, 2018 6:02:04 GMT -6
We have tooth number 3 popping through . So I'm addition to be away he was also having a tooth come in. No wonder night sleep was rough poor guy.
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Post by king26 on Jul 4, 2018 6:02:49 GMT -6
Oh and it's on the bottom. He now has 3 bottom teeth and it looks like his gums are a little swollen on the other side so we night have 4 bottom.teeth soon and no uppers lol
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Post by bsouls on Jul 4, 2018 6:14:28 GMT -6
R woke at 5am. Usually she goes back down after two hours, we are at three hours awake and she’s fighting her first nap so hard.
R still only has four teeth, but we can see an upper under the gum.
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Post by yellowcat on Jul 4, 2018 13:40:20 GMT -6
I am so tired my kids gave up sleep! And of course it is the last week of my dig when I can't skip out and have to work a lot to get it done. The sitter had them at the beach all day today so they better be tired!
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Post by king26 on Jul 4, 2018 13:49:27 GMT -6
Are they skipping naps or having crappy night sleep? I am so tired my kids gave up sleep! And of course it is the last week of my dig when I can't skip out and have to work a lot to get it done. The sitter had them at the beach all day today so they better be tired! |
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Post by king26 on Jul 4, 2018 13:52:04 GMT -6
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Post by yellowcat on Jul 4, 2018 13:56:16 GMT -6
Are they skipping naps or having crappy night sleep? I am so tired my kids gave up sleep! And of course it is the last week of my dig when I can't skip out and have to work a lot to get it done. The sitter had them at the beach all day today so they better be tired! All of the above! |
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Post by bsouls on Jul 4, 2018 14:34:16 GMT -6
king26 That’s so neat to actually have that shit in your family. My SIL did it and some dude came up as sharing the same grandparent. SIL’s dad was raised by his aunt who he thought was his mom and was told his bio mom was his aunt. His bio mom refuses to say who the father is. SIL is hoping this dude will be the missing link.
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Post by bsouls on Jul 4, 2018 14:37:41 GMT -6
R has napped like shit today. I’m in the basement with her now trying to keep her up, so hopefully she will wake up later than 5am tomorrow. She squeals every time she goes down or up stairs.
MIL text H this morning to see if she could take T to lunch tomorrow. So, either she talked to someone who said the same thing as us or she just told everyone she was going to see her grandkids on vacation so now needs pictures to prove it. Hopefully, it won’t be awkward.
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Post by thinkchocolate05 on Jul 5, 2018 5:14:24 GMT -6
I'm so behind on this thread. addymac Hope you feel better king26 That is fascinating My in laws are the same way as others have been complaining. Very little interest in the grandkids unless we bring them over to them and even then, they don't try to connect or play with them very much. My parents are the opposite but live a 2.5 hr flight away. It makes me sad bc I never knew my grandparents well growing up, and one of my parent goals was for my kids to know theirs. But I don't know how to force a relationship if his parents are just not into it. How can you not want to spend time with your grandkids? |
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Post by kristyw on Jul 5, 2018 10:36:47 GMT -6
E was up basically all night. She also took a 30 min nap this morning. Her temp is up to 102.5 today. Day 3 of fevers and the pedi wants to see her again. We were in last thurs and her ears looked good so we'll see.
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Post by addymac on Jul 5, 2018 10:42:40 GMT -6
kristyw oh gosh I hope her fever breaks soon and you can figure it out. T&Ps N only had one wake up that woke us up and he put himself back to sleep! I’m sure he’ll wake up a ton tonight to make up for it haha
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Post by pennylane on Jul 5, 2018 12:18:36 GMT -6
kristyw I hope she is better soon. Poor baby (and you!).
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Post by kristyw on Jul 5, 2018 12:26:05 GMT -6
Well, she has fluid behind one ear...but not infected yet. So, no answers for the fever. If she's still sick on Monday, I'm supposed to bring her back. Sigh.
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Post by king26 on Jul 5, 2018 12:33:55 GMT -6
Well, she has fluid behind one ear...but not infected yet. So, no answers for the fever. If she's still sick on Monday, I'm supposed to bring her back. Sigh. Oh man that sucks. I hope she feels better soon |
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Post by thinkchocolate05 on Jul 5, 2018 13:54:21 GMT -6
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Post by jt2378 on Jul 5, 2018 15:49:34 GMT -6
Well, she has fluid behind one ear...but not infected yet. So, no answers for the fever. If she's still sick on Monday, I'm supposed to bring her back. Sigh. I’m sorry, poor baby girl. Hope she feels better soon. |
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Post by bsouls on Jul 5, 2018 17:53:48 GMT -6
Any baby’s eyes change color? T’s have been blue since birth. R’s are still blue, but I have no experience of when they start to change. They’re still a bright blue. H has green eyes and I was hoping for something different since I came from a family that all had blue eyes.
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Post by king26 on Jul 5, 2018 17:55:48 GMT -6
I believe most change by 6 months but can change up to one year . We both have blue eyes and so does j so..... Any baby’s eyes change color? T’s have been blue since birth. R’s are still blue, but I have no experience of when they start to change. They’re still a bright blue. H has green eyes and I was hoping for something different since I came from a family that all had blue eyes. |
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Post by pennylane on Jul 5, 2018 18:22:22 GMT -6
Re: eye color. My son was born with blue eyes and his didn’t change to hazel until over a year old. DDs were blue initially too, but hers are a dark brown like my Hs (changed by like 2 months).
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Post by jt2378 on Jul 5, 2018 20:30:13 GMT -6
Any baby’s eyes change color? T’s have been blue since birth. R’s are still blue, but I have no experience of when they start to change. They’re still a bright blue. H has green eyes and I was hoping for something different since I came from a family that all had blue eyes. My first has blue but the shade actually changed to more green undertones but not until after 3 which seems so late! |
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Post by king26 on Jul 5, 2018 23:11:21 GMT -6
Apparently it's not going well with the whole adoption story...ill find out more tomorrow. @starzia I deleted my original post due to privacy and too many details, would you mind deleting it in your quote? Thanks!
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Post by king26 on Jul 6, 2018 7:35:39 GMT -6
Talked to my mom. Her cousin is so upset that her secret has been exposed and she wants nothing to do with the son she put up for adoption. My mom called him back and said he cried and was pretty upset. Sad situation. On the plus side, he also found his bio dad and has met him so that's something at least.
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Post by addymac on Jul 6, 2018 8:05:09 GMT -6
king26 I’m not surprised that’s how it played out. I figured there was a reason why your mom didn’t know about a baby and why her cousin went away for a few months and came back and no baby. Poor guy / baby. bsouls and eyes were a midnight blue and changed to brown by 4 months so Idk. I thought it had to happen by 6mo/1year but apparently not!
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Post by kristyw on Jul 6, 2018 8:56:47 GMT -6
king26 yeah I'm not surprised that's how that played out either. Sad situation and I feel bad for all involved, really. I think they say for baby's eyes that most of the change happens by a year but it can stil happen for a bit after that. H is blue, DS appears to be mostly blue although sometimes maybe a little green. E is a blueish hazel (mine are hazel) so I'm guessing she'll be fully hazel as well at some point.
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Post by bsouls on Jul 6, 2018 10:05:17 GMT -6
king26 that’s pretty shitty for the guy. It’s not his fault. I can see not wanting a relationship with someone (especially without know the way in which one was conceived) but at least give him some closure - hopefully, your mom was able to give him that.
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Post by bsouls on Jul 6, 2018 10:08:50 GMT -6
People keep sending me stuff about red hair and blue eyes being the rarest. It’s annoying. I’ve read so much shit about red hair, but I don’t know if it will stay or even if the blue eyes will stay.
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