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Jun 19, 2018 12:15:52 GMT -6
Post by sunny75 on Jun 19, 2018 12:15:52 GMT -6
shakinros, It sounds like you are going through a lot. Best of luck to you and your family.
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purple
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Jun 19, 2018 12:57:32 GMT -6
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Post by purple on Jun 19, 2018 12:57:32 GMT -6
I'm kinda down today (6 DPO) and just in that waiting to test agony zone. My chart is pretty so at least there's that. Sorry that you're feeling rough. That's never good. I'm trying to decide whether testing or not testing is less insane. At CD28 I'm 3-4 days later than usual, but well within the average cycle length. I got to CD29 last month and tested twice because I was late and I wish I hadn't wasted the tests. I have no symptoms at all, except premenstrual symptoms. I suspect my cycle may just be lengthening slightly. Not that I'm approaching menopause, but just that I'm old.
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Tlex
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Post by Tlex on Jun 19, 2018 13:11:30 GMT -6
Tlex I am one day ahead of you so I am there, too. Are you planning on testing? I always swear I won't and then I do. I have some impulse control issues! What are you planning for this go around?
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Post by Tlex on Jun 19, 2018 13:13:12 GMT -6
purple how many DPO does that put you at? IIRC you aren't typically one to test early. I totally get why it's not the right move for some people and its a must for others. Both are just ways of coping with big feelings and anxieties!
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purple
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Jun 19, 2018 14:43:14 GMT -6
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Post by purple on Jun 19, 2018 14:43:14 GMT -6
purple how many DPO does that put you at? IIRC you aren't typically one to test early. I totally get why it's not the right move for some people and its a must for others. Both are just ways of coping with big feelings and anxieties! I'm not sure exactly how many days. I didn't use opks this month because I expected it to be a washout because of the show I was in for a fortnight, and then we managed eod for 10-12 days which definitely covered O. So I think I'm about 12-14 dpo. So not particularly early. But no symptoms. Aargh.
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Jun 19, 2018 16:49:31 GMT -6
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Post by obscureference on Jun 19, 2018 16:49:31 GMT -6
Tlex I’m not an early tester. Maybe a week from today? I was hoping you’d have a day picked out and then I could just do that LOL. I’m a serious chicken when it comes to testing.
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Jun 19, 2018 20:46:48 GMT -6
Post by charliefox on Jun 19, 2018 20:46:48 GMT -6
shakinros, so many hugs. I hope YH is able to get and accept whatever help he needs. purple, I'll be sending you lots of love next week.
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Jun 19, 2018 20:51:15 GMT -6
Post by charliefox on Jun 19, 2018 20:51:15 GMT -6
Met with the RE today, and pretty much our plan is to move forward with IVF asap. H is super on board to start right away and I'm like whoa, but I'm sure I'll warm up to it. The timing is difficult because we're OOT for a week in August and then H is OOT the following 2 weeks. So we have to decide how to handle it.
Oh, and, because I've had 2 losses she decided to draw blood for a repeat loss panel so we'll get those results soon. I also need to schedule a saline sonogram come CD1.
It's a lot to take in but here we are.
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Jun 19, 2018 21:02:02 GMT -6
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Post by Yogurt on Jun 19, 2018 21:02:02 GMT -6
charliefox I'm glad you are getting the RLP. It brought me peace of mind to be like, ok, everything was looked at that could be an issue. When would the IVF happen?
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remi
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Jun 20, 2018 5:50:45 GMT -6
Post by remi on Jun 20, 2018 5:50:45 GMT -6
charliefox, that is a lot to take in at one time. But I'm happy that you have a plan going forward!
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remi
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Jun 20, 2018 5:54:15 GMT -6
Post by remi on Jun 20, 2018 5:54:15 GMT -6
CD29 DPO15 and another negative test. Why did I test again? I woke up with mild cramps and am more bloated than yesterday so AF is probably on her way. But my temp still didn't go below coverline so I felt maybe a little more optimistic? Stupid.
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purple
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Jun 20, 2018 5:58:35 GMT -6
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Post by purple on Jun 20, 2018 5:58:35 GMT -6
charliefox, wow, that is a lot to take in. It sounds as though they are taking care of you, though, with the rlp. remi, I'm so sorry. Even when it's nit unexpected, a bfp is a horrible thing to see.
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purple
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Jun 20, 2018 6:03:13 GMT -6
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Post by purple on Jun 20, 2018 6:03:13 GMT -6
I talked to H last night and he encouraged me to book the spa day and said we'd work out the logistics later. One of the included treatments isn't suitable if you're ktfu, so since I'm about 13 - 15 dpo I did a test to make sure. Of couse it's negative. And of course, because I only thought of it so late, the spa is fully booked next Wednesday.
I might book it for the Wednesday after. But we're off to Switzerland that Friday, so I may save the spa day for near the end of the summer instead, and find something else to do next week.
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Yogurt
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Jun 20, 2018 6:06:06 GMT -6
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Post by Yogurt on Jun 20, 2018 6:06:06 GMT -6
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Jun 20, 2018 6:07:23 GMT -6
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Post by Yogurt on Jun 20, 2018 6:07:23 GMT -6
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Jun 20, 2018 6:24:15 GMT -6
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Post by Yogurt on Jun 20, 2018 6:24:15 GMT -6
My test is still negative. I'm either 13 or 14 dpo, so I'm going to throw in the towel on this cycle. If a negative could be a "blazing" negative, that's what I've got.
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remi
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Post by remi on Jun 20, 2018 7:16:38 GMT -6
My test is still negative. I'm either 13 or 14 dpo, so I'm going to throw in the towel on this cycle. If a negative could be a "blazing" negative, that's what I've got. Hugs. That was mine this morning too. This coming cycle will be better for both of us, that’s my hope
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Jun 20, 2018 8:20:44 GMT -6
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Post by obscureference on Jun 20, 2018 8:20:44 GMT -6
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Jun 20, 2018 9:13:46 GMT -6
Post by charliefox on Jun 20, 2018 9:13:46 GMT -6
purple , hope you find a day that works for your spa day! Also, Switzerland?! I'm jealous! Yogurt , if this cycle is a bust then I'll start birth control come CD1 (which should be around July 1st) and then it takes about 29 days (if all goes smoothly) from starting BC to transferring the embryo back into me. We leave August 5th for our Tahoe trip so.... that's cutting it a bit close. Otherwise we could always TTC in July and then being the process, or I could be on BC for a few extra weeks and then begin. This is what we have to decide. ETA: Timeline is assuming nothing comes up in the repeat loss panel. Apparently when they tested my prolactin back in August it was borderline, so if that comes back elevated again then we have to wait a few weeks to do another test, then if that one is elevated then I have to do an MRI. And THEN if all is deemed okay, I can take some drugs to bring the prolactin down. However, I was slightly hypothyroid back when those numbers were higher and now I'm on a thyroid med so maybe that was the issue. It's all so stressful, there are so many things that could go wrong at any point. It's a wonder our species has survived thus far.
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Post by octoberrust on Jun 20, 2018 9:17:17 GMT -6
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Jun 20, 2018 9:24:31 GMT -6
Post by radiantfate on Jun 20, 2018 9:24:31 GMT -6
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Tlex
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Post by Tlex on Jun 20, 2018 10:06:28 GMT -6
Sorry for the BFNs ladies. Those rotten fuckers.
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remi
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Post by remi on Jun 21, 2018 7:41:35 GMT -6
CD1.
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Tlex
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Post by Tlex on Jun 21, 2018 8:36:57 GMT -6
sorry remi.
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Jun 21, 2018 8:45:32 GMT -6
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Post by obscureference on Jun 21, 2018 8:45:32 GMT -6
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Post by pambee on Jun 21, 2018 8:46:54 GMT -6
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Post by remi on Jun 21, 2018 8:48:08 GMT -6
At least I have a cycle buddy!
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Jun 21, 2018 8:52:50 GMT -6
Post by sharebear on Jun 21, 2018 8:52:50 GMT -6
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Post by octoberrust on Jun 21, 2018 9:09:06 GMT -6
Sorry remi and @obscurereference
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Jun 21, 2018 10:32:27 GMT -6
Post by sarahh on Jun 21, 2018 10:32:27 GMT -6
Sorry for the late contribution - we were out of town for a funeral and I am not good about getting on when I'm not at work.
Sorry for all the bfn's this week.
Month/Cycle: 1/1 - I'm officially here now and on my first month of Femara
Timing: n/a
CD/DPO: CD12 waiting to O
Symptoms: I've had cramping on CD 9 and today.
RRCS: I am not a fan of the sex part of ttc. I mean I don't mind it a few times but we try to hit everyday for like a week and it's exhausting.
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