tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on May 21, 2018 14:47:54 GMT -6
Y'all, it's just gas...
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Post by snoopmommymom on May 21, 2018 15:16:50 GMT -6
Lol that’s what i was going to say.
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Post by flamingo on May 21, 2018 15:26:36 GMT -6
I never have gas. I’m basically a unicorn. Ask my H. :preens:
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on May 21, 2018 15:35:16 GMT -6
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Post by peachsmama on May 21, 2018 15:41:59 GMT -6
With IV sedation, getting M's tooth fixed is going to cost $1,500.. Fuck.
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Post by wineallthetime on May 21, 2018 15:57:45 GMT -6
Happy birthday to your little one, @mama bear! That makes me so sad, tallb
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Post by wineallthetime on May 21, 2018 15:58:41 GMT -6
Lol that’s what i was going to say. Haha, I was thinking the same too.
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Post by wineallthetime on May 21, 2018 16:01:54 GMT -6
I went for a run/walk and did a double boot camp today. Trying to not give into the urge to have wine.
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wedding
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Post by wedding on May 21, 2018 16:25:58 GMT -6
I never have gas. I’m basically a unicorn. Ask my H. :preens: 😉 Of course you dont
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Post by wedding on May 21, 2018 16:31:14 GMT -6
C told me he wanted to shoot his friend once. We had a long talk. I believe I posted about it here and everyone told me not to worry. It’s the age, etc. If he said it at school and it got to someone’s parents I would be mortified but I would also hope the other parent would give me he benefit of the doubt. I understand why you’re upset tallb. I would be too. I just want to offer the flip side perspective.
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wedding
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Post by wedding on May 21, 2018 16:35:40 GMT -6
Another day, more craziness. I’m just trying to take it Day by day and not get too overwhelmed at work but it’s hard sometimes. Dh and I took Friday off together so that’s a light at the end of this weeks tunnel.
When I picked C up they were playing outside and I hear the teacher yelling “Callan!” Sure enough he was pushing a friend and was headed inside for timeout. The teacher said it was a rough day, which stinks because he’s been good the last couple of weeks. Hopefully he can turn it around and use his words, not his hands. He also said another kid pushed him down today and he has a skinned knee. It might be true. Every boy in his group can be as rough as he is. I’m trying to tell him “doesn’t it hurt to have a boo boo, then why do it to others?” I don’t know is reasoning is really working though.
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klong11
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Post by klong11 on May 21, 2018 16:36:32 GMT -6
Juicing journey is over. My h ad started pounding and I started puking around 3 and had to leave work early. I will not be continuing. The good news is I have a ton of fruit and veggies at my house, so I'll still be eating healthy, just not in juice form. I'm disappointed. Mh never puked when he juiced. He enjoyed it. My body...not so much.
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Post by wineallthetime on May 21, 2018 16:43:31 GMT -6
Juicing journey is over. My h ad started pounding and I started puking around 3 and had to leave work early. I will not be continuing. The good news is I have a ton of fruit and veggies at my house, so I'll still be eating healthy, just not in juice form. I'm disappointed. Mh never puked when he juiced. He enjoyed it. My body...not so much. Yuck, I'm sorry. I think I'd pass out if I tried it. I need protein!
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Post by wineallthetime on May 21, 2018 16:44:40 GMT -6
Juicing journey is over. My h ad started pounding and I started puking around 3 and had to leave work early. I will not be continuing. The good news is I have a ton of fruit and veggies at my house, so I'll still be eating healthy, just not in juice form. I'm disappointed. Mh never puked when he juiced. He enjoyed it. My body...not so much. Yuck, I'm sorry. I think I'd pass out if I tried it. I need protein!
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Post by wineallthetime on May 21, 2018 16:50:29 GMT -6
C told me he wanted to shoot his friend once. We had a long talk. I believe I posted about it here and everyone told me not to worry. It’s the age, etc. If he said it at school and it got to someone’s parents I would be mortified but I would also hope the other parent would give me he benefit of the doubt. I understand why you’re upset tallb. I would be too. I just want to offer the flip side perspective. I think it is age appropriate, but it sounds like in this case it's an on going issue and the parents don't seem to have a problem with it. At least that's what I gathered from tallb's post. I would have very different thoughts if it were a kid who said it and the parents were then very involved in discussions at home. I could see my C doing something like that just because he didn't understand fully what it meant.
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chrisy01
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Post by chrisy01 on May 21, 2018 17:05:52 GMT -6
C told me he wanted to shoot his friend once. We had a long talk. I believe I posted about it here and everyone told me not to worry. It’s the age, etc. If he said it at school and it got to someone’s parents I would be mortified but I would also hope the other parent would give me he benefit of the doubt. I understand why you’re upset tallb. I would be too. I just want to offer the flip side perspective. I think it is age appropriate, but it sounds like in this case it's an on going issue and the parents don't seem to have a problem with it. At least that's what I gathered from tallb's post. I would have very different thoughts if it were a kid who said it and the parents were then very involved in discussions at home. I could see my C doing something like that just because he didn't understand fully what it meant. +1 to this. I think saying it once is the age. Always talking about it and threatening kids often. The boy at our school wanted everyone to call him "kill boy" and using everything as guns. When I first talked about it she was like "yeah we've had problems with him on that" and didn't seemed shocked. If I had gone to the director and she was shocked by it I would have let it go. It all depends on frequency and how bad it was/is.
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jewels
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Post by jewels on May 21, 2018 17:11:15 GMT -6
C told me he wanted to shoot his friend once. We had a long talk. I believe I posted about it here and everyone told me not to worry. It’s the age, etc. If he said it at school and it got to someone’s parents I would be mortified but I would also hope the other parent would give me he benefit of the doubt. I understand why you’re upset tallb. I would be too. I just want to offer the flip side perspective. I think it is age appropriate, but it sounds like in this case it's an on going issue and the parents don't seem to have a problem with it. At least that's what I gathered from tallb's post. I would have very different thoughts if it were a kid who said it and the parents were then very involved in discussions at home. I could see my C doing something like that just because he didn't understand fully what it meant. Same
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Post by xolastunicornxo on May 21, 2018 17:22:59 GMT -6
Hi!! Busy day here today! Charlotte had her four month well check. Everything is perfect and she is delightfully chunky and in the 80Th percentile for weight! Then I had to rush and get ryland from school early and go to Lucas’s school for kinder graduation. Now I’m sitting on the porch with a beer and a sleeping baby while dh makes tacos. This is the kids last week of school and we have something pretty much everyday, and I already feel exhausted.
Also, dh and I are.... not connecting lately. I don’t know what’s going on, and it’s pretty unlike us. He’s swamped and super busy at work and because of his new position is having to do lots of dinners and happy hours, which leaves me home alone with four kids a lot. He’s also still having vertigo issues, but powers through all week and then our weekends kind of suck because he’s exhausted and not feeling well. I made him a dr app for Friday but he thinks he has to cancel because something at work came up. I also have 0 interest in sex, so that’s not helping.
Sorry for the DD, I just needed to vent a little
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Post by wedding on May 21, 2018 17:51:32 GMT -6
I’m sorry unicorn. I’m usually the one with health issues but it’s such a downer on everything. I hope he gets seen and things improve.
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Post by snoopmommymom on May 21, 2018 18:14:46 GMT -6
Its ok. I’m not sure if i told you guys but i ended up having a meeting with the person who was being bitchy to me. Now I’m meeting her one on one 1x a week to keep her in the loop and hopefully get her to work harder. We are also letting two people go at the end of this month, which I’m happy about. They were my lowest performers. I’m not sure how to do it though and how to let the team know without things getting crazy. Then, there is one person who has called in sick probably 15 times since September and is late all the time. My boss wouldn’t let me send her a warning letter. Instead the two of us met with her and talked about her commitment. But she’s still doing it. So now i need to talk with her again and we may need to let her go too. She’s out of hand. TL;DR: my work is still messy but I’m trying to weed through it.
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Post by flamingo on May 21, 2018 18:16:16 GMT -6
Juicing journey is over. My h ad started pounding and I started puking around 3 and had to leave work early. I will not be continuing. The good news is I have a ton of fruit and veggies at my house, so I'll still be eating healthy, just not in juice form. I'm disappointed. Mh never puked when he juiced. He enjoyed it. My body...not so much. Yuck, I'm sorry. I think I'd pass out if I tried it. I need protein! Same. Plus I'd be *mean*. Not a delightful combination!
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Post by flamingo on May 21, 2018 18:20:09 GMT -6
Hang in there snoopmommymom. I hope some of the changes you're implementing will help. Maybe the layoffs will inspire your chronically tardy/absent employee to kick it into gear.
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Post by flamingo on May 21, 2018 18:20:54 GMT -6
Both kids are down and everyone/thing is packed except me. DH just left to get us some ice-cream, I should probably put some stuff in a suitcase for myself before he gets back.
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Post by wineallthetime on May 21, 2018 18:49:09 GMT -6
I'm sorry, Unicorn. It's been 4 years since you guys had a baby in your house. You were probably just getting used to being out of the baby/toddler stages! I hope his work settles down a bit for you guys and you're able to reconnect. I'm totally with you. MH and I are kinda like roommates right now, and I also have 0 interest in sex.
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joelies
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Post by joelies on May 21, 2018 18:57:53 GMT -6
Sorry that DH and I aren't the only ones struggling right now. He texted me this evening not to check the mail because the box was infested with ants, which was the most thoughtful thing he's done lately. Yikes.
Anyhow our central air seems to be on the fritz again. Fortunately it's supposed to cool off until Wednesday, so hopefully we can get someone over to take a look. In the meantime, I have lots of windows open and fans going. A truck came lumbering down the road and Colin came screaming out of his room, all freaked out from the noise. Poor kiddo!!
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tallb
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Post by tallb on May 21, 2018 19:52:30 GMT -6
C told me he wanted to shoot his friend once. We had a long talk. I believe I posted about it here and everyone told me not to worry. It’s the age, etc. If he said it at school and it got to someone’s parents I would be mortified but I would also hope the other parent would give me he benefit of the doubt. I understand why you’re upset tallb. I would be too. I just want to offer the flip side perspective. I think it is age appropriate, but it sounds like in this case it's an on going issue and the parents don't seem to have a problem with it. At least that's what I gathered from tallb's post. I would have very different thoughts if it were a kid who said it and the parents were then very involved in discussions at home. I could see my C doing something like that just because he didn't understand fully what it meant. Exactly this. 2 boys were actually involved. One has been a best friend for 2 years..who also recently started playing with the one that wants to be a soldier when he grows up. I'm friends with his mom and the teacher said his mom was mortified and demanded to know who he said it to bc she was so embarrassed and died when it was J (she wants us to move to their neighborhood).She basically had the reaction I would have had. Her boy is a sweetheart and doesn't know what he's saying. I am probably going to hear from her tomorrow, I have no ill will towards her. The teacher hadn't talked to the other boys parents but said if they don't have an appropriate response, the director will prob be setting up a meeting with them since this is not acceptable. I got the impression they want this kid to leave ASAP and parents have not been responsive to previous issues.
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tallb
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Post by tallb on May 21, 2018 20:13:17 GMT -6
Speaking of well visits A has hers coming up and I'm a little concerned that she can't get from laying down to sitting up on her own. Of course I will bring it up to the doc but does N13 think this is okay at 1 year? ( She never crawled , but scooches. Doesn't pull up to standing but can stand holding on to something is set up. No cruising yet.) So different from L, who did everything by the book lol. First off happy birthday! This does sound like it could be a concern? I am horrible at remembering ages of milestones, but feel like sitting up was earlier than crawling and walking for us. I'm sure the pedi will know, keep us posted, but I wouldn't worry until you have reason to (easier said than done)
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Post by lahdeedah on May 21, 2018 21:11:02 GMT -6
xolastunicornxo Sorry you are feeling disconnected from Yh lately. It’s hard when there is so much change in schedules and a brand spanking new babe added to the mix. Hopefully you two can find time to reconnect this summer once the kids schedules slow down. mamabear I know there is a wide range of normal for this age. Don’t worry until the pedi says you have something to worry about.
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cagoldi
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Post by cagoldi on May 21, 2018 21:18:35 GMT -6
mamabear I would bring it up to the pedi. X sat up around 8 months, crawled around 10-11, and walked at 15. IIRC the pedi and Atticus' PT said that was the late end of "normal." Never hurts to ask.
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trtlcrzy
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Post by trtlcrzy on May 21, 2018 22:13:20 GMT -6
I just watched last week’s greys and died. Did not see that ending coming. mamabear that does seem a little late, did you talk to the pedi at her 9 month appt about it at all?
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