digupherbones
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Post by digupherbones on May 22, 2018 20:52:04 GMT -6
I wish my memory wasn’t so freaking shitty. Damn booze days. Back in the day, I’d have read this 60+ pages. Stupid school business.... FWIW, I’ll never be an AE or lie about my bitch past. I’ll be sorry or just accept it. It is what it is. Ie psssssst this isn’t about youuuuuu NO EVERYTHING IS Kidding. I didn’t think it was, honestly.
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Post by shan-ah-doo on May 22, 2018 20:53:14 GMT -6
I wish my memory wasn’t so freaking shitty. Damn booze days. Back in the day, I’d have read this 60+ pages. Stupid school business.... FWIW, I’ll never be an AE or lie about my bitch past. I’ll be sorry or just accept it. It is what it is. Okay.
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pobre
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Post by pobre on May 22, 2018 21:00:20 GMT -6
I wish my memory wasn’t so freaking shitty. Damn booze days. Back in the day, I’d have read this 60+ pages. Stupid school business.... FWIW, I’ll never be an AE or lie about my bitch past. I’ll be sorry or just accept it. It is what it is. Thank god! You’ll just be batshit under your own name.
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Post by angrybacon on May 22, 2018 21:04:56 GMT -6
Duly noted. Betty will return to her cage. I don't know you? I think you have shown up in the last few pages? Are you floppy or crunchy? Anyone and everyone can and should participate in this conversation. If (general) you have anything to add then definitely post it. I just think some of the a side-sniping harkens the mob mentality we spoke about 50 pages ago. CRUNCHY. I believe we differ on this.
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digupherbones
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Post by digupherbones on May 22, 2018 21:16:14 GMT -6
I wish my memory wasn’t so freaking shitty. Damn booze days. Back in the day, I’d have read this 60+ pages. Stupid school business.... FWIW, I’ll never be an AE or lie about my bitch past. I’ll be sorry or just accept it. It is what it is. Thank god! You’ll just be batshit under your own name. So I get that you don’t like me, which is cool.....but two things: 1. If you really think I’ve mental issues, do you think it’s fine to use things like “batshit” like a cool mean girl on a message board? Bc you would be wrong. It’s funny how okay this is among women who dont like each other when they appear to be totally “woke” or progressive in other areas (stuff like race or sexual orientation). In any case, I’m quite sane and live a normal life. I don’t have a problem admitting times I was a cunt either. I have my shit together. 2. You, on the other hand, are being sarcastic and rude towards a person whom you have never met in real life bc they were shitty as fuck to you four years ago on a message board. After an apology. I don’t think you have issues, but I definitely think you need to maybe step back from your emotional involvement online and gain perspective. Because I care a lot less about your opinion of me than you apparently cared about mine of you. You never liked me. You shouldn’t still be mad or even care. Think about that and good luck to you!
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pobre
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Post by pobre on May 22, 2018 21:27:58 GMT -6
Thank god! You’ll just be batshit under your own name. So I get that you don’t like me, which is cool.....but two things: 1. If you really think I’ve mental issues, do you think it’s fine to use things like “batshit” like a cool mean girl on a message board? Bc you would be wrong. It’s funny how okay this is among women who dont like each other when they appear to be totally “woke” or progressive in other areas (stuff like race or sexual orientation). In any case, I’m quite sane and live a normal life. I don’t have a problem admitting times I was a cunt either. I have my shit together. 2. You, on the other hand, are being sarcastic and rude towards a person whom you have never met in real life bc they were shitty as fuck to you four years ago on a message board. After an apology. I don’t think you have issues, but I definitely think you need to maybe step back from your emotional involvement online and gain perspective. Because I care a lot less about your opinion of me than you apparently cared about mine of you. You never liked me. You shouldn’t still be mad or even care. Think about that and good luck to you! Thanks for the concern. I’m fine with the term bat shit, in general and as it applies to you.
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digupherbones
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Post by digupherbones on May 22, 2018 21:30:36 GMT -6
So I get that you don’t like me, which is cool.....but two things: 1. If you really think I’ve mental issues, do you think it’s fine to use things like “batshit” like a cool mean girl on a message board? Bc you would be wrong. It’s funny how okay this is among women who dont like each other when they appear to be totally “woke” or progressive in other areas (stuff like race or sexual orientation). In any case, I’m quite sane and live a normal life. I don’t have a problem admitting times I was a cunt either. I have my shit together. 2. You, on the other hand, are being sarcastic and rude towards a person whom you have never met in real life bc they were shitty as fuck to you four years ago on a message board. After an apology. I don’t think you have issues, but I definitely think you need to maybe step back from your emotional involvement online and gain perspective. Because I care a lot less about your opinion of me than you apparently cared about mine of you. You never liked me. You shouldn’t still be mad or even care. Think about that and good luck to you! Thanks for the concern. I’m fine with the term bat shit, in general and as it applies to you. Hey, good for you. It is your energy to waste.
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on May 22, 2018 21:33:26 GMT -6
Also, please spare me the links to threads. I’m not reading that shit. 🤔
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on May 22, 2018 21:43:33 GMT -6
I have said it before and I will say it again. I totally get the idea of a fresh start. If that's what I chose to do hell no I am not going to just tell you, "yeah it's me" when you ask. I have said this before way before ripper. This board is known for throwing shit in people's face and not letting stuff go. To play like you don't understand that is beyond me.
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on May 22, 2018 21:46:04 GMT -6
The only sympathy I have for Ripper now is that her SM was posted without her permission. Everything else, she was an active participant in the fuckery. Maybe she was misread. Maybe she was misinterpreted. Maybe it all started as jealousy and/or cracker eating. That was awful in our world but it’s not a gross offense in their world (I think that was said earlier) so I’m not sure if it was meant to inflict the damage it did. I have been on message boards for over a decade, posting personal information is never cool. I just will not entertain this narrative and gloss over it. People are free to feel how they want. I am just saying this is how I feel. This also shows me that they been knowing who she was IRL, been knowing where she posted, etc.
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digupherbones
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Post by digupherbones on May 22, 2018 21:46:27 GMT -6
I have said it before and I will say it again. I totally get the idea of a fresh start. If that's what I chose to do hell no I am not going to just tell you, "yeah it's me" when you ask. I have said this before way before ripper . This board is known for throwing shit in people's face and not letting stuff go. To play like you don't understand that is beyond me. To an extent I do understand it.
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McBenny
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Post by McBenny on May 22, 2018 22:06:18 GMT -6
What people are saying here is I don’t like the behavior of the people who were upset by ripper so now ripper gets sympathy from me. It’s twisted. I am going to comment because I feel this is low key directed towards me. I feel I need to elaborate. If you are telling me that the lines were crossed with calling someone names but then I see you calling someone names that was not involved in any of this it's going to make me tilt my head because this is the standard that you have set. You told me this firsthand. If you tell me the line was harassment over years but here we are 2 years later and you followed her elsewhere and posted her IRL pic, that's going to make my head tilt because to me if you pop up two years later posting my personal information that's harassment. So for me it's not about sympathy for anyone. I don't think anyone is in need of sympathy.
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digupherbones
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Post by digupherbones on May 22, 2018 22:11:32 GMT -6
So I get that you don’t like me, which is cool.....but two things: 1. If you really think I’ve mental issues, do you think it’s fine to use things like “batshit” like a cool mean girl on a message board? Bc you would be wrong. It’s funny how okay this is among women who dont like each other when they appear to be totally “woke” or progressive in other areas (stuff like race or sexual orientation). In any case, I’m quite sane and live a normal life. I don’t have a problem admitting times I was a cunt either. I have my shit together. 2. You, on the other hand, are being sarcastic and rude towards a person whom you have never met in real life bc they were shitty as fuck to you four years ago on a message board. After an apology. I don’t think you have issues, but I definitely think you need to maybe step back from your emotional involvement online and gain perspective. Because I care a lot less about your opinion of me than you apparently cared about mine of you. You never liked me. You shouldn’t still be mad or even care. Think about that and good luck to you! Thanks for the concern. I’m fine with the term bat shit, in general and as it applies to you. Look, this isn’t about being accepted here or anything of that nature. I’m not saying this so I can post here for a while and then be a fucking lunatic. At all. I don’t even care but I still want to be honest. Ban me if you want. I do genuinely feel bad about everything I said to you. A lot of shit that I said. When you shared that link when I first came back here, it was terrible to read! Because I read it and I literally couldn’t remember that night. I remember what upset me that night and I remember vaguely posting that night. It was EMBARRASSING. Because I got much lower after that. I just dont get why you gave a fuck what I thought I guess. I do have two family members who struggle EVERY day with their mental illness. I’m the glue. I keep everyone out of jail, I convince them to see a doctor, and then I have to keep figuring out my daughters future too. So excuse me when I roll my eyes at your comments. You don’t get it and a lot of people don’t. So whatever.
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Post by Deleted on May 22, 2018 22:16:37 GMT -6
digupherbones I know pobre doesn’t need me to speak for her, but you can stop with the mental health awareness lecture.
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digupherbones
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Post by digupherbones on May 22, 2018 22:18:26 GMT -6
I’m not giving a lecture.
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Post by Deleted on May 23, 2018 4:14:47 GMT -6
I don’t get this. The convo is about her and people are sharing their thoughts on her. She is here, commenting along. I mean just because I don’t like her should I not say my true in my heart thoughts? No I didn’t say that. I’m talking about the slick shot from people like @brienne and company. But if you think it applies to you then 🤷🏿♀️ Do you think all of these posters are genuine? I think not. It’s jkat a show for some and I won’t be the circus act. No ma’am, I will not. I’ve been pretty clear with where my issue lies as whole with this situation and what went down, and I’ve been direct with ripper in speaking with her as to why. I’ve never been one to go in on her in the past because I never felt it was my place to do so. I’m simply struggling with a few things that make it hard FOR ME to believe everything she is saying at this point. I don’t get why I’m being brought up like this but I’m just going to KOKO.
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Post by lucilleaustero on May 23, 2018 5:18:41 GMT -6
I wish my memory wasn’t so freaking shitty. Damn booze days. Back in the day, I’d have read this 60+ pages. Stupid school business.... FWIW, I’ll never be an AE or lie about my bitch past. I’ll be sorry or just accept it. It is what it is. Wrong place to be flippant. Read the thread.
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mack
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Post by mack on May 23, 2018 5:35:38 GMT -6
I wish my memory wasn’t so freaking shitty. Damn booze days. Back in the day, I’d have read this 60+ pages. Stupid school business.... FWIW, I’ll never be an AE or lie about my bitch past. I’ll be sorry or just accept it. It is what it is. Thank god! You’ll just be batshit under your own name. Oh god. Who was she on TB..... I think I know and I am hoping that I’m wrong
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ftwr
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Post by ftwr on May 23, 2018 5:43:50 GMT -6
Thank god! You’ll just be batshit under your own name. Oh god. Who was she on TB..... I think I know and I am hoping that I’m wrong Brandi Bee
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mack
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Post by mack on May 23, 2018 5:53:01 GMT -6
Oh god. Who was she on TB..... I think I know and I am hoping that I’m wrong Brandi Bee Oh FFS
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rvasc
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Post by rvasc on May 23, 2018 5:53:31 GMT -6
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Post by Deleted on May 23, 2018 6:13:08 GMT -6
I’ve been pretty clear with where my issue lies as whole with this situation and what went down, and I’ve been direct with ripper in speaking with her as to why. I’ve never been one to go in on her in the past because I never felt it was my place to do so. I’m simply struggling with a few things that make it hard FOR ME to believe everything she is saying at this point. I don’t get why I’m being brought up like this but I’m just going to KOKO. KOKO then. I just hope you keep that same energy sis Look, if you go back and look at my posts to ripper, my issue lies not even just with her, with this whole situation in general. The way this all went down I’m not comfortable with. My limits are being tested and that has to do with privacy, and honestly I’ve never really worried too much about that here before. And as I said to her, she was on the receiving end too of having her private details put out there in the form of her IG. I’m having a hard time with the stories I’m hearing regarding her at GBCN because they also imply a gross invasion of privacy. It’s on all sides here, her post history was scrubbed and she lied to us about who she was, and made questionable comments in the past regarding people and their privacy. All this shit has me freaked out and has me worried about posting here. That’s where I’m at right now, everything else aside.
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Post by Deleted on May 23, 2018 6:31:09 GMT -6
WTF
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Post by Sweetjane on May 23, 2018 6:33:07 GMT -6
Another one bites the dust??
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piratecat
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Post by piratecat on May 23, 2018 6:34:38 GMT -6
What happened?? Dang.
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Post by shan-ah-doo on May 23, 2018 6:36:29 GMT -6
Oh Jesus.
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Post by Deleted on May 23, 2018 6:36:56 GMT -6
That is a little bit of a craxy pregly moment. Anywho. Yes.
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Post by Deleted on May 23, 2018 6:37:43 GMT -6
I think I GBCHIH like 5 times when I was pregnant, so I get it. It happens.
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Post by Deleted on May 23, 2018 6:39:51 GMT -6
I blame ripper.
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piratecat
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Post by piratecat on May 23, 2018 6:46:55 GMT -6
I think you can connect with people here or any forum and protect your real life privacy with some effort, if that is important to you. I do get the temptation to overlap the two worlds, but even then I think you can do it in a limited way as your comfort level allows. I really don't think that it has to be all or nothing. As for the IG thread and ripper's comment, maybe she was actually compiling a spreadsheet, maybe she wasn't, but I do think she was making a good point that anyone could have been doing that. You are putting that information out there. There are people here you like, there are people you don't care about, there are people you don't like, and there are people you don't even know about.
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