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Post by Deleted on May 18, 2018 21:07:54 GMT -6
AWβing before I go to bedβwe closed on our house today. Iβm happily broke. Omg. Congrats! Iβd pry for general location but I think we all may be sensitive to that today. Iβm glad itβs all finished up now. GTG at boogieβs new house in October. Too soon? π€£
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Post by totallynotnugget on May 18, 2018 21:08:41 GMT -6
ripper did you seem to beef with the other non dick receiving posters that were black? You mean aside from when, out of the multitude of posters telling her to leave Kirkette alone, she claimed to be scared of the only two black women saying it?
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Post by Deleted on May 18, 2018 21:09:46 GMT -6
Omg. Congrats! Iβd pry for general location but I think we all may be sensitive to that today. Iβm glad itβs all finished up now. GTG at boogieβs new house in October. Too soon? π€£ Lmao. It could be.
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Post by Deleted on May 18, 2018 21:10:36 GMT -6
Okay. Iβm snacking now. Thinking more clearly.
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Post by Deleted on May 18, 2018 21:11:59 GMT -6
ripper did you seem to beef with the other non dick receiving posters that were black? You mean aside from when, out of the multitude of posters telling her to leave Kirkette alone, she claimed to be scared of the only two black women saying it? Didnβt ripper chime in and say something to the tune of βWOC shouldnβt be called aggressive, etc, because itβs offensiveβ
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Post by Deleted on May 18, 2018 21:13:22 GMT -6
I missed the avatar and Iβm sorry for that. Itβs been haunting me for awhile. I had other reasons to hate rip and not fuck with her. She is not exclusive to one -ism. I was petty with her at times. Iβll admit that. Then I just mostly ignored her. πππ Standing in your truth. ok, Iβm confused. Sheβs standing in her truth but I said basically the same thing 2-3 pages ago and Iβm still the worst? I was going to PM this because it feels personal, but I think people hate PMs.
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Post by Deleted on May 18, 2018 21:14:37 GMT -6
Didnβt ripper chime in and say something to the tune of βWOC shouldnβt be called aggressive, etc, because itβs offensiveβ I didnβt see that at all. Hmm. You know itβs late for me.
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Post by rvasc on May 18, 2018 21:14:53 GMT -6
Damn.
When I tell my boss he shouldnβt let me do interviews because I trust everyone and consistently give the benefit of the doubt, he should believe me.
I wouldnβt say I was in a fan club, but I certainly gave way too much grace.
Damn.
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Post by rvasc on May 18, 2018 21:15:25 GMT -6
I didnβt see that at all. Hmm. You know itβs late for me. No, she did.
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Post by rvasc on May 18, 2018 21:15:45 GMT -6
She also said Trolls was racist.
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Post by dc2london on May 18, 2018 21:16:19 GMT -6
Mostly I enjoy a good quarrel and I'm up past my bedtime so i get weird. We know about you past 7pm Aren't we right around the first anniversary of us breaking SM and HE being spectacularly inebriated in the temp board? It was a very bright spot in a strange day.
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Post by rvasc on May 18, 2018 21:17:59 GMT -6
She also said Trolls was racist. The childrenβs film? Yep.
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Post by Deleted on May 18, 2018 21:18:42 GMT -6
Hmm. You know itβs late for me. No, she did. Damn. Damn. Damn. Wow. Woooooooooow
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Post by McBenny on May 18, 2018 21:19:11 GMT -6
Well shit. I didn't think she would actually come out and admit it. Sheesh. And ripper , I don't believe you that race had nothing to do with it. I've haven't directly interacted with Kirkette alot, but I've never gotten a negative vibe from her during my lurking. I mean this is odd to say with "I haven't directly interacted with ______."
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Post by Deleted on May 18, 2018 21:19:37 GMT -6
She also said Trolls was racist. The childrenβs film? Omg. Iβm glad you clarified because I thought Trolls was another poster I missed and Iβm like damn, how am I spending so much time here and missing so much?
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Post by leatherpants on May 18, 2018 21:21:34 GMT -6
I missed the avatar and Iβm sorry for that. Itβs been haunting me for awhile. I had other reasons to hate rip and not fuck with her. She is not exclusive to one -ism. I was petty with her at times. Iβll admit that. Then I just mostly ignored her. I sit here too. I still get a bit raw when I think about my reasons but I swear I did my best not to engage and I was careful when I did. I can specifically remember pettiness on my part though. Albeit, my reasons seem very trite compared to the racism issues, which is shamefully humbling, but they didnβt feel petty either. *Im not making board wide commentary either. Just processing my own thoughts because I thought your post was articulate JG and hit home for me.
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Post by rvasc on May 18, 2018 21:25:36 GMT -6
Omg. Iβm glad you clarified because I thought Trolls was another poster I missed and Iβm like damn, how am I spending so much time here and missing so much? Upon further reflection, I think it was about Justin Timberlake and appropriation, which isnβt really the same.
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Post by McBenny on May 18, 2018 21:26:23 GMT -6
And I do not claim to have spotted ripper from the jump. 100% the racism call out over the avatar should have been good enough but shamefully it wasnβt. I accept blame in that. But my perceived pettiness to ripper was not just for pettiness sake. She said something to me that hurt my feelings and was intentional in doing so. I wrote her off then and should have just blocked her or ignored her from then on but chose to make my dislike known. Hear it from me directly: all blockers and ignorers are far better, more mature women than me. Again I am going to say it loud and clear - YOU HAVE PEOPLE HERE WHO HAVE SAID OR DONE SIMILAR AND THEY ARE CHAMPIONED AND BACKED so...yeah that makes the ripper nitpick always and forever look like for pettiness sake for me. I am not going to mount a bandwagon cause it's someone y'all bitches don't like. When I have an issue I address it with the person. I don't look to the board to back me, validate me, or agree.
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Post by RajahMD on May 18, 2018 21:26:26 GMT -6
Well shit. I didn't think she would actually come out and admit it. Sheesh. And ripper , I don't believe you that race had nothing to do with it. I've haven't directly interacted with Kirkette alot, but I've never gotten a negative vibe from her during my lurking. I mean this is odd to say with "I haven't directly interacted with ______." I don't understand what's so odd about that statement. One can get a feel for a poster without interacting with them 1-on-1. It's like the whole point of lurking.
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Post by McBenny on May 18, 2018 21:27:23 GMT -6
I was only ever a lurker at GBCN and I will give you that I didnβt believe you hated kirkette for her race. From an outsiders perspective, that bitch was insufferable. Race aside. I didnβt pay attention enough to comment on the stuff about you before dickgate so I canβt speak to that. Girl, don't do this. you don't want none of it. Shit, let it come out.
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Post by McBenny on May 18, 2018 21:28:45 GMT -6
I mean this is odd to say with "I haven't directly interacted with ______." I don't understand what's so odd about that statement. One can get a feel for a poster without interacting with them 1-on-1. It's like the whole point of lurking. A feel yes but you did not interact with her so you don't know how you two would have meshed. Maybe she like you or don't. Maybe you don't like her or do.
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Post by McBenny on May 18, 2018 21:30:14 GMT -6
Also RajahMD when a bitch came in here saying you stole a Christmas present you were extended grace. I see you Raj, over there and here. Be consistent niece. At least with me.
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Post by Jesslfar on May 18, 2018 21:31:43 GMT -6
AWβing before I go to bedβwe closed on our house today. Iβm happily broke. Congratulations! Did you sign a contract with the new nanny too?
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Post by McBenny on May 18, 2018 21:31:45 GMT -6
Again I am going to say it loud and clear - YOU HAVE PEOPLE HERE WHO HAVE SAID OR DONE SIMILAR AND THEY ARE CHAMPIONED AND BACKED so...yeah that makes the ripper nitpick always and forever look like for pettiness sake for me. I am not going to mount a bandwagon cause it's someone y'all bitches don't like. When I have an issue I address it with the person. I don't look to the board to back me, validate me, or agree. I agree that we have other problematic posters here. They get called to the floor. However, someone have admitted to being the person accused of harrassing someone to the point of sending items to their jobs. Thatβs next level racism. Thereβs Iβm posting on this forum as a racist racism and I went IRL to do a power play I see you racism. This is not the same to me any longer So she admitted she sent the shit? I missed that.
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Post by Deleted on May 18, 2018 21:32:31 GMT -6
I havenβt been over to GBCN yet. So ripper = booby, but do we know that ripper/booby was the dick sender?
(Iβm not saying this to let anyone off the hook or make any statement, I just was wondering from a factual standpoint).
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Post by McBenny on May 18, 2018 21:33:22 GMT -6
I havenβt been over to GBCN yet. So ripper = booby, but do we know that ripper/booby was the dick sender? (Iβm not saying this to let anyone off the hook or make any statement, I just was wondering from a factual standpoint). I have not read that yet but I am all over and have not read every page.
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Post by McBenny on May 18, 2018 21:33:57 GMT -6
So she admitted she sent the shit? I missed that. She admitted to being the person that was accused. Booby Well I read that part.
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Post by rvasc on May 18, 2018 21:34:10 GMT -6
She has said she didnβt send the bag of dicks.
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Post by rvasc on May 18, 2018 21:34:34 GMT -6
Who is going to admit to sending people harassing things at work??????? But yeah, Iβm here. I donβt believe anything anymore.
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Post by ripper on May 18, 2018 21:35:02 GMT -6
ripper did you seem to beef with the other non dick receiving posters that were black? NO, not that I know of. THe thing with K was, I thought, a rather nebulous thing in that I was just like, wtf are you talking about? She rants. A lot. In fact, she just ranted over on gbcn tonight. That sort of thing. That particular day, I called it out. It was not 8 years and going like she claims. Caps rolled in with WTF YOU TSLKING ABOUT and I made a flippant comment about being scared. Not bc she is black, but bc I liked her and didnβt want to poss her off. But of course, this was misconstrued to me being scared of black people and me disliking kirkette bc she is black. I will say that that whole situation made me more aware of what I say/act and how that might be perceived. It has also prompted me to speak up when I see shit that isnβt right. I donβt see a problem with that, even if others want to. .
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